After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.

Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.

When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.

Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.

Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

Brother, you are just taking a risk with this decision. Now I am not here to give you advice (since it is obvious that you have taken matters into your hands ) but you should know that having a successful marriage requires one thing: the presence God. Human wisdom will only lead to confusion and the way I see it, your marriage might just be heading in that direction if you do not put things right.

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know ,both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them,while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.
Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from,my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes,,but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage,but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.
When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired,leave me alone,pls stop ,etc when I make advance at her ,I tried to find out what is wrong ,I called her attention to it politely,she told me that I was irritating her ,so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop,I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school,she still continued in refusing me,I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her,but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop,
Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet,she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.
After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did ,and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone
Na who sex help,another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me,but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.


Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment ,give your problem wife s sense of refreshment,or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

I even called my pastor to it,and my pastor said allow her to leave ,after 3 weeks ,she is gonna miss you,honestly that is what is happing now.woman can miss somebody without telling the person I miss you .but her characters must show that she miss you,you don't need to beat your wife,but follow her jeje.even if cheating in her back without her knowing just do it, so both you will have peace at home,when you no longer make sexual advancement to her, no body go tell her say she done dey useless for house .when there are many fishes in water.

Who else couldn't read through this bible page?

Ok

Clintifydan:
Who else couldn't read through this bible page?

I tried but couldn't finish it.

Clintifydan:
Who else couldn't read through this bible page?

myself sir

Wait.. what is this one saying....??
Your wife refuse you sex for 7 months..
She Said you are irritating her....

Then she said she wants to relocate to her state and she left.... for what..?? So her business can flourish.... so, the business cannot flourish where you and her live together?


Well, I would have called you a Secretary of simp association....but since you enjoy your marriage like that... what’s our own...
Carry go..

Op. Your wife is an introvert and needs some time to be alone and recharge. But she shouldn't be alone for too long without you going to engage with her. Learn how to live with her if you want your marriage to work out.

desperation to be married at all cost makes a lot of people marry total strangers, and then when they finally realise who they married, its too late and they are stuck.

in Nigeria, marriage is synonymous with happiness, even if both spouse are miserable!

Marriage is like a relationship.

Do more of the crazy things that attracted your wife to you while you guys were still friends. Take out time to travel, even if it is for 2 days.

Surprise her, this is the most important of all. See that hair she always talk to you about? What about the dress? Or even food?

Your issues with your wife are still left unresolved.
You're just in denial that your wife denying you sex doesn't affect you, whereas it does.
Find a way to address your issues quickly before things get out of hand.
Open up to your wife about how you feel.
Otherwise your wife might start to think you're OK with her denying sex.
She has a problem which affects you, which you both need to solve instead of avoiding/running away from it.

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know ,both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them,while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.
Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from,my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes,,but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage,but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.
When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired,leave me alone,pls stop ,etc when I make advance at her ,I tried to find out what is wrong ,I called her attention to it politely,she told me that I was irritating her ,so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop,I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school,she still continued in refusing me,I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her,but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop,
Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet,she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.
After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did ,and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone
Na who sex help,another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me,but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.


Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment ,give your problem wife s sense of refreshment,or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

Until someone start to knack her, and that's if someone or people have not started knacking her already

you think you are wise, even from you explanation i sense no true love between you and your wife, you just allowed your wife to leave just like that, how about your kid, do you send fatherly love to him/her on phone too...... Mr. man you putting fire on your roof and going to sleep.....

You go here am very soon

edunaragold:
I even called my pastor to it,and my pastor said allow her to leave ,after 3 weeks ,she is gonna miss you,honestly that is what is happing now.woman can miss somebody without telling the person I miss you .but her characters must show that she miss you,you don't need to beat your wife,but follow her jeje.even if cheating in her back without her knowing just do it, so both you will have peace at home,when you no longer make sexual advancement to her, no body go tell her say she done dey useless for house .when there are many fishes in water.

Must you call your pastor?

You made the right decision though. Let her go and when her head correct, she will return.

On the other hand is better to get a second wife (not a side chic) and see how you will enjoy the rest of your life.

princeemmma:
you think you are wise, even from you explanation i sense no true love between you and your wife, you just allowed your wife to leave just like that, how about your kid, do you send fatherly love to him/her on phone too...... Mr. man you putting fire on your roof and going to sleep.....

You go here am very soon

Nothing like love in woman's dictionary. Only money.

This system doesn't work for everyone.

What if she wanted to leave to continue with her ex.

Well, whatever rocks your ⛵

BlackyOne:


Until someone start to knack her, and that's if someone or people have not started knacking her already

no big deal if someone begins to knack her. He will divorce her and move on with his life. A woman that will cheat will cheat even under your roof.

Mariangeles:
Your issues with your wife are still left unresolved.
You're just in denial that your wife denying sex doesn't affect you, whereas it does.
Find a way to address your issues quickly before things get out of hand.
Open up to your wife about exactly how you feel.
Otherwise your wife might start to think you're OK with her denying sex.
She has a problem which affects you, which you both need to solve instead of avoiding/running away from it.

Exactly, you couldn't have said it better.

Mariangeles:
Your issues with your wife are still left unresolved.
You're just in denial that your wife denying sex doesn't affect you, whereas it does.
Find a way to address your issues quickly before things get out of hand.
Open up to your wife about exactly how you feel.
Otherwise your wife might start to think you're OK with her denying sex.
She has a problem which affects you, which you both need to solve instead of avoiding/running away from it.

debate on sex? When money need to be made.

Will Cubana discuss such thing with his wife?

This marriage is dead, so if she returns you think you will now be getting sex Some women are wicked abeg after all the investments she saying you irritate her.God forbid

silibaba:


Nothing like love in woman's dictionary. Only money.

so why do you marry then, you should be carrying olosho here and there

silibaba:
debate on sex? When money need to be made.

Will sex prevent money to be made?
Dey there dey deceive yourself. There's time for everything.
People tend to ask Is sex food?
I'd say Yes, sex is the food that nourishes the marriage.
Nothing survives without food.

Will Cubana discuss such thing with his wife?

You dey here know wetin Obi Cubana dey discuss with him wife?
No dey deceive yourself.

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know ,both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them,while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.
Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from,my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes,,but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage,but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.
When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired,leave me alone,pls stop ,etc when I make advance at her ,I tried to find out what is wrong ,I called her attention to it politely,she told me that I was irritating her ,so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop,I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school,she still continued in refusing me,I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her,but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop,
Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet,she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.
After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did ,and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone
Na who sex help,another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me,but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.


Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment ,give your problem wife s sense of refreshment,or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

Correct man. Preach it to the boys. Marriage is not neccessarily 2+1=3.

advanceDNA:
Wait.. what is this one saying....??
Your wife refuse you sex for 7 months..
She Said you are irritating her....

Then she said he wants to relocate to her state and she left.... for what..?? So her business can flourish.... so, the business cannot flourish where you and her live together?


Well, I would have called you a Secretary of simp association....but since you enjoy your marriage like that... what’s our own...
Carry go..

Are you married?

Clintifydan:
Who else couldn't read through this bible page?

I read through. It was an informative read.

silibaba:
no big deal if someone begins to knack her. He will divorce her and move on with his life. A woman that will cheat will cheat even under your roof.

I agree with you, somebody who will cheat will cheat.

Its not a do or die. We try our very best to make it work and if at the end it falls apart, divorce is a viable option.
If she cheats on him, he will simply divorce her.

Nice

Distant relationships are sometimes better

You are very brave.

I would prefer to be with my wife than have her be in some remote location.

Just thinking out loud: what has your wife being Igbo got to do with anything?

THIS GUY IS A GOAT

@OP You're a SIMP... a happy one at that.

Your estranged wife has gone to enjoy her life the way she wants it in her state and I'm sure some of her ex lovers are smashing her steady now.
When you cheat and she cheats.. I guess that makes you both happy. Enjoy your long distance marriage.

Hashabiah:
Brother, you are just taking a risk with this decision. Now I am not here to give you advice (since it is obvious that you have taken matters into your hands ) but you should know that having a successful marriage requires one thing: the presence God. Human wisdom will only lead to confusion and the way I see it, your marriage might just be heading in that direction if you do not put things right.

Will he force the marriage to work? Will he lock up a woman who doesn’t want to be with him anymore? My brother, take life easy. If it doesn’t work, that’s not the end of the world. That thing people spend their lives trying to protect, they eventually lose their lives and whatever will happen will still happen.