Laurene:
Dress sexy, workout and mind what you eat.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Did you noticed I used some men? Or do you think every man has the capacity to deal with sexual urges?

That some does not doen't mean some will not.

JONNYSPUTE:
...We are saying the same thing here.That some does not do prostitutes will still not erase the facts that some don't see anything wrong in doing them and the said husband might be one of such men.

Nothing like calling a spade a spade here.

Besides many of all these runs girls and students that charges men money for sex are they not all classified as prostitutes?

VEXT:
Go online and ask what attract men to prostitutes,then act like one to your man..Be his prostitute..


You also have what those prostitutes have...

pocohantas:


Oga, a man wouldn’t just wake and start doing prostitutes!! You know it, say it, you won’t die!

Mariangeles:
[s][/s]

For wetin na? Com'on getout!

JONNYSPUTE:
....Lol. Any woman that request for money before sleeping with a man is a prostitute not withstanding where she stays.

She can be a student
A working class lady
One staying with her parents
One that stays in a hotel.
A married woman.
I'm still yet to understand what you mean by a prostitute.

Like I told her,if she can't bear it,let her file for divorce.

pocohantas:


Leave all these semantics. Have a lovely Sunday and week ahead.

ChiomaCa:


I'm not a Prostitue. I said above that we are both religious. Even he's more than I do.

Mariangeles:


Never allow him touch you with his filthy hands again. He's dirty and doesn't deserve you.
Don't let him defile you.

Never ever doubt yourself. You're clean and beautiful.

Mariangeles:


Never allow him touch you with his filthy hands again. He's dirty and doesn't deserve you.
Don't let him defile you.

Never ever doubt yourself. You're clean and beautiful.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Are you trying to solve the problem or worsen it?

Is it not better for her to get a divorce and be alife to take care of her daughter?
Why not ask her to file for divorce instead?

So let's assume she starts denying him sex and he got angry and beat her or even kill her,what happens to her daughter?

Mariangeles:


I'm trying to open her eyes to save herself first.



So, in the meantime, she should keep risking herself by sleeping with a public toilet okwa ya?



Why would he beat her? Hasn't he been getting some?

JONNYSPUTE:
....So for how long will she be with him and keep denying him sex? Instead of divorcing him.

flokii:


What kind of bad advice is this one..

If the man can't touch her, is it you that will go and touch her? or you didn't see where she wrote that she was begging for sex from her husband meaning she needs manly touch.
Please be sensitive with comments on marital issues so you don't end up breaking a home.

Richy4:

Can I just ask for who's benefits is she dressing sexy and working out? The man or for herself?... I need to know...

Because if it's for the benefit of the man in question, forget it, it won't work..She can carry all the weight lifting in Olympics or run from Wuse to Gwagwalada every morning, it won't move him..

Mariangeles:






ChiomaCa run from an unrepentant adulterous man ooo! He's not worth it!

Mariangeles:






ChiomaCa run from an unrepentant adulterous man ooo! He's not worth it!

JONNYSPUTE:
...Are you not contradicting yourself here ?

You are asking her to run but still yet you want her to stay and keep denying him sex instead of divorcing him?

Can you explain this pls.

flokii:


I don't think you really understand the problem here.. the OP is trying to save her marriage which she has committed so much to, not break it.

If you're telling her to deny her husband sex while they are still together.. then that's a recipe for disaster and more problems, don't you think so?

Mariangeles:


How am I contradicting myself?

Where did I tell her to stay? Kindly point it out ooo!

O di okwa a wu okwu na a gbakashi'm ahu! Ashi GBA!

flokii:


It's for her benefit actually.. she might catch his fancy once again if she wants to or opt out of the marriage.

Majority of guys patronizing escorts, hookers, olosh0s are married men and that's a fact. It shows there are things their wives are not doing or giving them again like before.

It's very easy for a divorced man to remarry but it's not same for a divorced woman with kid(s), the stereotype will be there so she has to think about that too.

juman:
Wasting a lot of money.
Probably he is addicted to visiting prostitute.
Might be doing it from teenage years.

He should see a specialist to handle the problem.

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?