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Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by stonecoldcafe: 10:18pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa: Be careful, ensure he does not Infect you with stds |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by pocohantas(f): 10:19pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Jman06: Odiegwu. You rich men indeed. 8 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by superintendents(m): 10:23pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Jman06:boss make I drop aza with Faith |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Jman06(m): 10:24pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
pocohantas:Lol...I'm in the same level as Obi Cubana you know |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by GetMeRight: 10:24pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
odinson1: So, in short, you're trying to put the blame of her husband's reckless lifestyle on her? You were convinced that he hadn't been doing that before Op joined him abroad. You sounded like you forgot that he's already addicted to it. Or, addiction no dey your own dictionary? 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Jman06(m): 10:27pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
pocohantas:Meanwhile, sorry about the bolded part. I think that was too harsh, but you say na cruise I dey catch sha. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by GetMeRight: 10:27pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
KillIgbohoN0W: Why would you talk authoritatively like this about someone you didn't know, someone you have never met before? You need psychiatric evaluation ASAP |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Vyolet(f): 10:28pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
GerogeI:Omo, I've been following all advice here but damn, this is the sickest. Madam should get contacts of prostitutes her husband bangs and pay them to teach her about him? EB things oo |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Fashionista01(f): 10:31pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
He is not religious as you claimed. He is a pretender. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Walter90: 10:33pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Let’s hear from your husband first. I fear women Once you take a woman to a foreign country she will change and try to cook up story and push for divorce. Guys you won’t understand it, just come over and witness it happening |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by pocohantas(f): 10:37pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Jman06: Nothing to be sorry about. After all these years on Nairaland, you need to so better for it to hurt. Vyolet: Welcome to Nairaland. I dey even wonder who train these guys. No single conscience o. 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by jasmy: 10:38pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ShenTeh: I know you’re dump# you just open your mouth and talk anything that comes out of it, I know you don’t have a husband like this, you want her to join your single mother geng abi. Ode# oponu# |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Passionate1(m): 10:40pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
It's gonna take a miracle for him to change. But if he genuinely loves u, he'll change. . African women dey tolerate things weh oyibo women no fit condone. . African women na d best. .Accept it or not! Never ever tolerate infidelity. . |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by ShenTeh(m): 10:55pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
jasmy: How did you come to the conclusion that I am female, that I am a single mother, and that I am the reason your life is miserable? All of that because my opinion differs from yours. You have no reason to have a part where knowledge is trading. Your education is to fill empty coconut shells with stuff that mimicks the substance. But for sheer volume, you have zero use of that grey matter that dots your skull. Quote me all you like. My job here is done. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by jasmy: 11:17pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ShenTeh: If you like talk all grammar for this world. Na so them go de talk grammar without 1m in their bank account. All I know is you’re dump, and if you’re a man, you’re very foolish for that kind of advice. Idiots |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by LyfeJennings(m): 11:23pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Kwinesther: divorce is the last resort in any marriage their marriage is pretty young U only gave an advice based on ur age and exposure if U know what it means to be divorced U wouldn't wish it on ur worst enemy The meaning of marriage itself is the union of two imperfect people U should be willing to tolerate and forgive ur partner a lot before they even commit the offence and U should always seek a way to assist them in over coming their challenges. I have similar traits to this guy (I mean the OP husband) it' doesn't make him a bad person he only wants to explore but unfortunately he's not being careful enough for him to change, the wife has to engage him it's not a hard task quite difficult but very possible |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Hssd8: 11:37pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Let me tell you something from psychological point of view , one he is addicted to what he's doing don't be surprised he started these things since when he was very young ... Secondly stop reporting him rather keep talking to him, trust me he regrets what he does ... Be very patient with him and be careful yourself not to get infected ... Have therapy sessions with him, ask him why he keeps going back to it ... Keep praying and remain honest with yourself ... 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Nobody: 11:52pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: How do you know she will no die faster as a divorcee? That it worked for you, do you think it will work for another? Do you also thing divorce is the only way to deal with the problem? |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Katcall: 12:21am On Jan 17, 2022 |
cococandy:use your glasses next time ho |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Katcall: 12:27am On Jan 17, 2022 |
atarapa:wine your waist baby girl |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Katcall: 12:29am On Jan 17, 2022 |
MNDY:I hate anal sex |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by faithfull18(f): 12:33am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Your husband is religious, he doesn't have the fear of God. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by EmmyDJourno: 12:37am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Sterope: Story, sexual Psychology is deep ehhen, not for immature minds to understand and is not subject to this relationship justice you are trying to preach The woman needs to pull him back to save her marriage, he needs help, might not even know it and she has to be his light at the end of the tunnel All this your grandstanding solves nothing and I don't want to continue this conversation with you |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by calcal: 12:42am On Jan 17, 2022 |
KillIgbohoN0W: Well said, Madam, try to follow the above. Join him to watch porn, encourage him to get sexy light for the bedroom, get an iPad special for the bedroom to watch porn, connect to big screen. Let him buy you intimacy gadgets, from big to small but magic wind is the best, my wife love it |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Sterope(f): 12:56am On Jan 17, 2022 |
You are not a fucking sex psychologist! EmmyDJourno: |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Laurene: 12:59am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Mariangeles:you are not even married. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by kafeii123: 1:00am On Jan 17, 2022 |
ChiomaCa: 1. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. these have been his coping mechanisms against the job stress and sexual frustartions before you came to join him.... 2. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years: if he has been into it for two years...you shouldnt expect him to be off it in two months... 3. We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore: This might have helped...but what you actually need is to be in his face like so everyday..directly or indirectly....send him on errands... ask him for help with things.....basically.....get him busy enough to always remember you and begin to wean him off the two-year mandatory bachelorhood he's had before your arrival... 4. I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021: May not change anything.... 5. My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again" ...... leave this persons alone...your whole matter is entirely with your husband.... 6. I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work: see.....I told you this man is stressed/has grown a wider appetite..... he needs outlets for that frustration....can't discuss them with you.....needs raw animalistic f*cking but you're mummy's girl.... you married him for his nice-and cool-ness.....he can't ask you for anal sex...cant ask you for Mouth Gig....can't ask u to just show up randomly near at the nearest hotel to his workplace and send him snapshot of you in lingerie...or wearing the sexiest outfit he's seen you in in years...and holding a goblet of wine .....you're too responsible for that afterall.....How do you praise God with this mouth with which you've swallowed d*rk......? Plus .....you're now a moommy...you're mostly about the kids now....cant grab/spank him playfully and subtlely.... 7. I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time..... : That's the very time to target.....let him be for a while....act like all s well..feed him well if you still can....begin to give him ashawo vibes... for God's sake flirt with ur man.....he'll at first ignore it....treat him to a glass of wine after work....ensure you take some too..... then drop down...relax onto your femininity and really have the maddest of seks with your husband..... following this... schedule random midweek showups at/near his workplace..... call d man up... tell him you're in the area and will like to just see him before returning to your way.... have him show up at d hotel....come to your room....take a glass of wine.. ferk him...(make sure to collect the money you paid for hotel room from him... maybe by the weekend help him get a small wristwatch from it/them) the next time...park a few metres to his place.. just before breaktime ....call ur man up/call any friends u know he has there..that you're outside and have to see him ....give him lunch....roll up the car doors...join him in the backseat...and take him.... the more erotic moments he shares with you..the less he time he has to follow escorts.... what a man eats is the only portion he has gotten in his life's labours..... the kids...family spendings..rents...etc..those are foryou...he mostly just needs food for his belly...and food/endorphins for his brain....how he gets that will determine his approach...some people just sleep ....some drink....but for many men...sex releases the most amounts of stress relief...by sex ..I mean ferk/bangs...and not love making ..... he will so begin to glow when you guys return to your former selves.... 8. Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?: When survival is no longer a man's problem...something must keep him pumped.....its not you or him.....its his need and yours...but for some reason..he thinks you'd judge how he wants to be served.... you know him to be religious... you're the very one who should let that religion stay outside ....and for the public... while you feed his animal in private...cos whether you like it or not.... he's got one 9. I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him: Wrong move.... this will only make him want to hide it further from you.....its better to joke about it with him.... tell him to begin paying you ashawo levy every week....which you'd use to get one nice thing...for yourself and/or him......he is hiding from your judgement ..is why he went to pay a hooker for the type of sex he likes....he doesn't depend on you financially.... shame is a wrong tactic to apply.... 10. Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beautiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me: you see now? how's a prostitute different from you?.....cos you're educated?...run a company..... are accomplished..... to him.. you're both women..... and the dopamine/endorphin/oxytocin/whatever pleasure hormone is released during sex loads he gets from her is more than from yours.... that's your real sexual value right there... not that you are not beautiful...he's just gotten used to getting fed from those sources...you now have to also love-vendor up a bit.... and entice his brain to start seeking the satisfaction from you.... 11. I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do....: this is not needed...you only need to brave up...and employ psychology with him.... 12. I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person. you do this....you'd likely lose him forever if you're not careful...i'd advise you let your folks be... 13. He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink. : I can promise you that 1. he now does...he just doesn't do them with you.... and/or 2. that's the very reason where his urge for real/non-religious/"ungodly" sex is much more intense..... he wont be sated with the vanilla missionary sex you have been feeding him since...he now has a larger appetite...u have to expand your kitchen...beef up the menu you serve him...before blaming him for not eating.... in summary: I'm not used to doing this....but I hope with the above few pints of mine...I have been able to convince and not confuse you...that Sex is as important to a man as food...but that like cocaine/other pain medications...you have to increase the dosage as the user gets familiar with the substance in use. No pun is intended..I do hope you're able to become more social...and find a way to infuse life into you guys' relationships.... men are babies...you have to feed his ego..if you want him to feed your tratra (replace the -ra-s with -o-)..that he even owes your mom and you for his traveling is a dampener for his ego.... your femininity is the only way to maintain keep his insecurity at bay... Do pardon me if this doesn't resonate with you...just speaking from small experience 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Laurene: 1:06am On Jan 17, 2022 |
franchasng:mumu . What's the difference. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by kafeii123: 1:19am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Laurene: The Miss goody-two-slippers thinks there is... |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by kafeii123: 1:20am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by ratiken(m): 1:22am On Jan 17, 2022 |
No matter what you do, do not consider divorce yet if at all ..... if he is not being physical with you. Try to save your family. What you are currently facing pales to insignificance compared to what single mom's and their kids face here in canada. I have seen kids growing without their fathers becoming societal wrecks I have seen single moms being passed around for sex by married and single men without any commitments Single black women hardly get attention here much more single mums. I have seen single mums hustle for male attention in same city where their divorced husbands have remarried. They encourage you to divorce but abandon you after divorce. Has anybody bothered to check the fate of these divorced women 2 or 3 yrs after? Feel free to research the fate of Nigerian single mums from calgary, Edmonton, Toronto, Vancouver, BC etc ...... bitter lifes with lots of regret Do everything to save your family. 1 Like |
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