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I Am Tired Of My Mom / I Am Tired Of My Marriage / "I Am Tired Of Seeing My Husband's Hard Joystick Every Morning!" - Nigerian Lady (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by perryy(m): 5:47pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Prospertochu: Best thing is to just run away to safety. Triplets on 55k slaary? A blessing or a curse ? |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by webizone(m): 5:47pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Well, because of stories like this is why I can't sleep off the work. Always trying to improve myself and find better ways to earn. That's why if you are interested like I am, follow my signature |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by moneyissweet(m): 5:48pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
As a married man, you don't have a wife. Just let the greedy and wicked soul you call a wife go for good before she send you to early grave Prospertochu: |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by FORWARDEVERLY: 5:50pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
odinson1: Don't mind that SIMP Op.. Funny enough he would keep on labouring to cater for an unruly and ungrateful insatiable wife and Kids that won't understand his sacrifices or that thier mother would brianwash that he isn't doing enough for them.. all this would take a toll on his health.. when the kids are grown.. he would probably be dead.. while his wife would be alive and very healthy and bubbling to enjoy her childrens wealth.. Men dey suffer for Nigeria sha.. being a so called responsible man in Naija is a thankless job.. Wahala for who no choose baby mama levels without co-habiting .. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by jidxin(m): 5:50pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
aanuoluwami14: Let Her work she's jobless... Let her help her husband and the husband too in the interim should look for a better job 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
moneyissweet:A breastfeeding wife of three triplets is what you call greedy and a wicked soul because she’s trying to feed 6 people with 40k monthly? How do you want her three babies to feed? The woman who breastfeeds them, if she isn’t healthy herself, how will the three babies survive? Some of you boys on NL will just talk like it’s easy being a woman 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Judybash93:He knows. When I hear of Well-to-do Guys marrying Jobless Slay Queens or Students, I marvel. The worst happens when a Guy who has got an unstable job, in an unstable country decides to marry an unstable Lady. That's Hell. The mentality of a woman who leaves the house to work, even as a Tailor or Trader, will definitely be different from that which stays put at home. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Havertz10: 5:52pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
She wants to leave and you are still calling her wife for her to even entertain that thought and be bold enough to tell you, she has already left you, it's a matter of when not if |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Ajibade123(m): 5:53pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
when you married on 55k salary where you expecting Paradise after?? see now your marriage is making you look bad in front of your wife, marriage and even children at the end of the day wetin you gain?? poverty, frustration... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Nyascobar1414: 5:53pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
aanuoluwami14: STFU.... I can't do such to my mom... Unless I married her a virgin... But even with that, you dare not starve my mom... Starve her and GTFOutta my life... Ladies be saying shii cos marriage they say favour y'all |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by smile4kenn(m): 5:54pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
seanwilliam: the matter tire me self. https://gist.am/i-am-married-with-three-kids-2-years-and-3-months-old-triplets-but-i-am-tired-of-my-wife/a/2821 |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by webizone(m): 5:55pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
DontBullshitMe: I love this your world where problems no dey. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by bluefilm: 5:56pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Prospertochu: You married an End Time wife. We are in the End Time. So expect more End Time abnormal things from her. Sorry. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by shantti(m): 5:56pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: He should neglect his mother baa, no he should steal baa, no he should commit ritual baa, if she start to teach in a school after the babies have been weaned she will die abi, no, a man is meant to die because he got married, are women not meant to ease the burden of their husbands, is she not meant to be his helper. Why does she want to kill him before his time. If that leech starts to work to supplement her husband's income, they will attain financial stability. But no, u always try to showcase your emptiness which u mistake for intelligence and which you try to supplement with your very dumb emoji 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Joydan95: 5:58pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Prospertochu:Ha Oga, feeding triplets and even taking care of them requires enough energy and your wife needs to eat well to do that. Things are really expensive in the market, I suggest you and your wife seat and discuss about her getting a job or running a business that brings in income daily so as to assist cos there are still bigger expenses in the future School fees , house rent etc You both should set up a financial goal you should hit monthly , it will really help. Please don’t listen to some advise here telling you to throw your wife out, some of these individuals doesn’t know what it feels like to grow up with both parents, a lot of them can’t even afford to get married and they looking for ways to spread their bitterness. This is a phase and it will pass 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by ayenika1: 5:58pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Prospertochu: Separation will NEVER solve the issue at hand. All I see is a young couple who lack understanding and proper communication. If these can be fixed, you guys have a bright future. No matter how much you give a jobless woman, it would never be enough. First, she needs a job to understand how to make money Second, let her know your mother should be treated like hers and if she finally gets a job, she would be the one to take care of them in her absence Third, look for a side hustle asap. Your take-home is too small for this present economy with 3 kids. Fourth, start making plans with her for the kids future. Let her know they would soon start school and that your salary cannot take care of that bills Fifth, sit her down and let her understand why you are a couple. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Nyascobar1414: 5:58pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Bola146: The vain words of a lady.... I mean how will a so called lady I married starve my mom... As in you dey mad... The man made a very big mistake for marrying a broke wo*an(parasite).. I'm sure he didn't even marry her a virgin... But shes frustrating her... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by November24(f): 5:58pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
aanuoluwami14: Aunty abeg rest. 50k? I am a woman too. That money is very okay for a decent meal. I trust he buys bread home sometimes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Nobody: 6:00pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
GUYS should wake up! Nigeria as a country doesn't give a damn about u. Your Church doesn't give either. STOP taking useless risks. Even Ladies don't take such Risk. You will see a Lady who has got nothing to offer beyond Breasts & Buttock Fats, still bragging of marrying the wealthiest man in any community! That's why I think LADIES are smarter at making marital decisions. A Jobless single MOM with 2 kids still brags of trapping a wealthy man because she has got Breasts and Fatty buttocks. You will never hear them saying they would settle for a Low-Life man. Always high-Life. They always aim for the Best. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Dreytonisback(m): 6:01pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Sigh I pity you tho , honestly I do , wish I can help but I got something to say (The bitter truth) 1. How do y'all decide to get married and raise babies without proper income and even a side business which generates more money ? That's where you fvcked up bruh Never get into that family life with brokenness but seems you're already there, may God bless you with a bigger opportunity . 40k is too small , that's right But 40k is never too small for a sensible woman who truly has a good heart and loves you dearly and understands your hustle 2. How do y'all get married to broke women with nothing to offer? I mean no disrespect but if by chance I happen to be broke today which will never happen My wife can carry 1yr responsibility without giving me any attitude She's done even more during our bf/gf days If she can't contribute anything and she can't also manage 40k for one month, what if something happens at your place of work and you sit at home for 2 months without a job , what will happen? Ever thought of that ? No I don't think so . Your wife's most respected being on Earth should be ur mom not even the husband (you) If your wife is comfortable feeding ur mom one square meal then she isn't a wifey , I'm sorry Stop giving her money , just give her 10k When you're paid monthly, use ur own leg enter bigger market and buy what should serve y'all for a month , if she decides to waste the food , let her being her own money , it's a man and woman that both raise their kids , there isn't anywhere it was written that a man must kill himself for his family when all the wife does is sit at home and add more probs Lights up my kpoli in peace Modified: @OP Please drop ur aza make I see how this week goes, I go drop something inside And this is to everyone else who wishes to show him some love , it's no begging it's called "Brotherly love" you can also bless your own brother. Op drop aza no shame at all we gatchu. Lights up my kpoli in peace 1 Like
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Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Ayion: 6:01pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
aanuoluwami14: Listen to yourself. You can’t encourage your fellow woman to go and get a job and support her husband. The man that brings 40k from 55k of his earnings for his family then uses the remaining 15k for transportation. I’m sure she won’t act the way she is now if it was her own mother that is homeless and staying with them. I also blame this dude for getting married with such little income. Worse, getting married to another broke and unproductive lady just like himself. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Nyascobar1414: 6:02pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Prospertochu:. The mama force you and you obliged... You are not yet a man with standard... Tell her no.. And keep her as a Babymama... Never you do anything out of your comfort for any female.. Except your own mom 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by isaythetruth(m): 6:03pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
This is why I advise people, both man and woman to try and get a skill or side hustle before going into marriage. Those people pushing you into marriage won't be there for you when issues like this come up. OP, eh don set na, na man you be, try and sum it up! In all, God will help us all. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by kansoboy: 6:03pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Oga...just talk to Ur wife to give Ur mother food. D truth is that money is not enough, but u will not also kill Urself. Let her understand u...and u, understand her. Things are damn expensive in the market, even with 10k a week, na die oo is not positive not to talk of 20k a month. U and Ur wife should talk to understand each other... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by jericco1(m): 6:03pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
55k per month bros you dey try |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by EndRape2(f): 6:03pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
All your comment shows you are senseless the kids are still very young, 3months and 2 years they must eat, Can't you read .must you just open your mouth and type rubbish, Do not ever marry, or have children so you become an old fool at old age Mumu quote author=odinson1 post=109421126]Men una mumu sha When we keep telling you People not to get married, you'll call us broke,immature frustrated and all other sorts of nonsense. You got married to Parasite who's Sucking you dry, draining the very life force you have. If you don't cut off that leech,she will drain you till you become a shell of your former self. But seriously guys, lets reason it this way. The money he has been giving to his wife all these while,if he didn't get married and have children now,he would probably have used it to open a business,have investments or Get a new house or something like that. Now a woman has tied him down and It's now stopping him from progressing. All he cares about are his wife and his children,they are all Liabilities to him. This is why men are advised to have a good job and a nice comfortable apartment first before getting married. You know why? It is because you will most likely get married to A Parasite who will Make you stagnant,it would be almost impossible for you to get past this financial struggle except you get a better job with better pay. Men! Run away from a marriage that will stop you from Achieving greatness. Having children is not an achievement,it is normally biological for one to procreate,so there is no big deal about it. Having a wife and children when you are not financially stable,will only drag you down and make you stagnant! And also, DON'T EVER GET MARRIED TO A BROKE LAZY WOMAN! They are Parasites whose only Objective is to latch on to you, and suck out your energy,time,resources and peace of mind. @the bolded,A good woman? Really? She and her children eats 3 square meals, while his mother only eats once. You call that a good woman? Wait answer this instead,would she have done same to her own Mother?[/quote] |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Aaron12(m): 6:03pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
To the OP, If you have an android phone, look for all these facebook jobs and apply for one, download zoom app for interview purposes. Now to men out there, never marry, I repeat never marry a jobless woman(especially housewife) let her work, don't be deceived by love or foolish prayers. This women telling you how difficult childbirth is, what about single mothers that are taking care of their children without help from people, To the OP, ignore any female moniker advices, it won't help you, they all are in support of what your wife is doing to you, it is known as herd mentality, live your life well. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by shantti(m): 6:05pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
November24: God bless u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! U seem to be the only sane lady here 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by sfinkzslot(m): 6:05pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Prospertochu:Money is obviously the problem, talk to God about a side hustle and quickly do it, you will be fine with a little money on top what you are earning now |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by olusma23(m): 6:05pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Stenewiser: Make Una dey pity someone na... The man work for good 30 days without a saving as almost 80% of salary goes for feeding. In what way do the wife want to help him? GOD to marry sef dey fear person like this because you don't know wat the wife might turn to. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by marsup: 6:05pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Instead of complaining, why not sit her down and talk to her calmly. Your wife and children are your first priority. The whole 55k is not even enough to take care of the family for a month. May God open more doors for you financially. |
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