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Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Munzy14(m): 6:38am On Jan 19, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Nani gi ka na ahu ya as nwoke o.... O wu nu nwaanyi na.. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Munzy14(m): 6:41am On Jan 19, 2022 |
karli4nia:Lmao... nairaland of comedy |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by aboyaji(m): 8:44am On Jan 19, 2022 |
otikpoko:Wow! Just wow! I've learned to stay out of the way for them. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Tito24: 9:38am On Jan 19, 2022 |
aboyaji:5 stars for this comment I was in a similar situation at some point and I did everything possible to discourage my brother from keeping the relationship People called me names but I didn't care. My brother! It is your business o! because some way some how it will come back to you! If something happens to your brother Do you think she would care... The way you would care Even though my brother hasn't said thank you to me, I see it in his eyes and in his actions towards me 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 11:28am On Jan 19, 2022 |
Munzy14: Really? |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Munzy14(m): 11:53am On Jan 19, 2022 |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 12:34pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Munzy14: Ndidi ka a na e ji a so Kobo o. Ya jukata gi ajuju nga ehn…ishi a gbawa gi. Aside that, o nwehu nsogbu. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Munzy14(m): 12:54pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Lol....You really do give her audience.. Sometimes when i read some comments gi na ya, i will smh and laugh...I nwere ndidi o. I can't be dragged back to an old comment, o ji agwu m ike...and Kobo is good with reverting to old stuffs...She appears like onye choro Ighota everything. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Blackdisciple(m): 12:55pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
iamL: Yes ooo..... Because as I dey like this I hate attitude ehhh, that's why anyone who comes to my place to spend the weekend or a night I don't bother you cos I hate it myself,but doing as if my present have taken all the space in your house hmmmm..... I always believe and agree with this comment ( oga long time oo u dey soo) that one dey always swt me die..lolz 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by countryman13: 1:12pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Rachel98:I dont really see any form of rudeness, bn authoritative etc in all these things u mentioned. (a)If i were u,i wouldnt ve gone into d kitchen cooking indomie as alternative to d already prepared semo knowing d type of person she is. (b) i dont think it is any way your biz dt she slapped her maid. Let her slap d maid a million times. did d maid employ u as a spokesperson? (c) ur elder brother's response(WHY) to ur conclusion dt u wont b coming to his house anymore is 100% correct. are u expecting him to castigate his wife before u? it doesnt work dt way. (d) Finally, i am a true believer of black power(juju) bt what are ur facts/ ADVICE Learn how to face ur our own business n all these ur insinuations coz one day it ll b ur turn(when u re married), n someone somewhere ll b having same perspectives against ur husband/wife |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by countryman13: 1:16pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Rachel98:It's too early to conclude. Just pray to God to b a gd house wife coz u can't know how to cross a river when u have not gotten there. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by tunjilana: 4:17pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Your tot pattern isn't the way life really works...you don't respect people who are close to you by letting them stray away and go at variance with the good values with which you' all were nurtured. I dont know your religion but as Christians the bible admonishes us to check on eachother and let no one stray...So, until you have 3xhausted all reasonable options, you don't watch your family member fall into a ditch....While I agree that sometimes the admonisher may think that he is right while he is really wrong, that is not the case here...A badly behaved partner, who puts financial pressure on her partner, treats his family members with disdain and threatens to leave at every attempt at correction/alignment is not an ideal partner and likely doesnt have his interest at heart...If he is blind cos of love, his brothers shouldn't close their eyes and watch things go wrong just to be called "woke"....when things go wrong, they are still the ones he will run to, to help him get back on track with life...so there is no harmful they try to prevent such recklessness from the onset |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kobojunkie: 4:42pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
tunjilana:1. Jesus Christ, the Christ in the word "Christian", never said any of that to you. In fact, He said instead that if you want to become worthy of Him, you have to be willing to abandon Father, Mother, brother, sister, wife, husband, children, etc., in order to become worthy of Him. So I am not certain what makes you believe that you can be of Jesus Christ and hold such views as the one you do regarding your relatives there. 2. A badly behaved partner is the sole issue of the other partner. A third-party can complain to the one of the rudeness but in the end respect the ones right to partner with whomsoever he/she chooses to be with. If he is blind because of love, it would be selfish for his brothers to require he be denied love for their sake, don't you think? There is nothing woke about these things but commonsense. Rather than attempt to control the lives of others, even your brothers, you respect that they are just as competent at living their lives as you are who hang in the background should the one require your assistance or advice. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 6:19pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Munzy14: I just feel drawn to the energy behind that account. Sometimes when i read some comments gi na ya, i will smh and laugh...I nwere ndidi o. With Kobo, you just have to know when to quit, otherwise, it goes on and on. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Munzy14(m): 10:00pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Jisie ike... Until you get drained. As in eeh...Imagine a wife like that, A ga m a hapuru ya ulo o...Or Ya rahu ura, ma alota... Even o ka na eme argue above...Energy too filled up.. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 11:17pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Munzy14: I know when to withdraw when it comes to her. (k'owudi him? o ka na a ra'm ahu I kweta n'owu nwaanyi o) As in eeh...Imagine a wife like that, A ga m a hapuru ya ulo o...Or Ya rahu ura, ma alota... I ga a gbalahu ya? |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Munzy14(m): 6:08am On Jan 20, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Lol...Another genderless nairalander like the one we have on BB thread. I will get bored easily...Discussions or stories that comes on as repetition or continued dragging can get me bored easily. Ya wuru my woman, A ga hum agba kwa oso sha...O wunu for better for worst... Mana, i ma that ecstasy of rounding up from work quick quick to go pick her up and we return home, ga a bia di wa zie less...Or I will start avoiding conversations that will drain my energy. Maybe ya wuru come back , bathe, eat, have fun, talk about how the day went and sleep.. He/she is intelligent though. Probably when she gets the memo, she can improve for better...O wunu unintelligent people na di difficult to correct or Improve. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by tunjilana: 7:29am On Jan 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Jesus tot us and he also used his many apostles to speak to us after he left...Galatians 6:2 said we should carry each other's burden... As for love, If Samson had good brothers, will you rather prefer they leave him to perish under Delilah so that they can allow him enjoy his "Love" or they should have warned him and even find ways to prevent him from allowing her wreck him. Love is a feeling and people can be wrong with whom they love...if a woman falls in love with an abusive man, will u rather her brothers leave her till she is pummelled to death so that they wont be selfish...A badly behaved man isn't the woman's problem alone cos when he kills her, it is someone's loss...If u agree to this then you will see clearly that a badly behaved woman isn't the man's problem alone too...but the problem of everyone who loves the man and who will be affected if the man is affected. 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 10:30am On Jan 20, 2022 |
Munzy14: Akwa that three bears? I will get bored easily...Discussions or stories that comes on as repetition or continued dragging can get me bored easily. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kobojunkie: 3:34pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
tunjilana:1. Unless you are suggesting Jesus Christ a liar, the apostles did not teach any such thing. Jesus Christ is the Gospel of the Kingdom of God and He is the one the apostles were sent out to teach the world. In addition, Jesus Christ also taught you that your brothers, sisters, mothers, in the Kingdom of God, are not your blood relatives but instead those who do the Willl of God - those who trust and obey the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ - Matthew 12 vs 46 - 50 2. Notice how God, who chose Samson for His work, did not dissuade him from engaging Delilah at all? You suggesting that if he had brother's they would have saved his life and probably taken him out of God's plan for him reveals you don't understand the reason why the story was told you to begin with. 3. The reason you give these scenarios is because Nigerian remains a jungle where the law is belittled by every Tom, Dick and Harry down there. If the Law was respected, you would know and understand why there is absolutely no reason why a bunch of men/women would invade the home of another for their own silly issues without the express permission given them by one who lives there and even then, assault of any kind is never justified. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Anararim(m): 6:53pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Why don't you just meet with your brother without his wife? If he wonders why, then you should tell him that you love him but you cannot stand his wife. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by gazilion: 5:59pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Rachel98: Oh dear! This is really painful!! You guyz should pray for her and show her some more love...love conquers everything. May be her up bringing affected her alot. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Lindodo20: 7:04pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
flington4550: wtf she drove him to suicide fear human beings |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by DonroxyII: 1:20pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Rachel98:It's not her fault but Your Brother's fault who doesn't have what it takes to tame Her. I don't know why I don't blame anybody for anything: A man must be able to control and calm situations both On/Off the Bed and He must be Charismatic enough to be respected. She prolly doesn't respect Your Brother. Nonetheless, She's PhD so most of you must actually be talking away from her league and for being kinda harsh, Your brother ain't dicking her right trust me and psychologically, Your brother ain't doing great Job on Her. All in all, Blame your brother for carrying wetin Pass una come house possibly with time, prayer and developmental strides from una side, she will later calm down and blend with you all. |
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