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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by advanceDNA: 10:02pm On Jan 21, 2022
Timoleon:
As much as I do understand the message you are trying to pass, please avoid putting up stats if you won’t put up factual figures or at least copy the reference correctly.

Nigeria’s total population is estimated at about 209 million. I wonder where you found your almost 200 million unfortunate graduates.

Secondly, the document you are supposedly getting your info from estimates the Nigerian labour force to over 80million and not 35 million.

To put things into more perspective, the same document puts the BA/Bsc/Bed/Hnd demography as having the least unemployed percentage of 19% which is contrary to your claim that people without tertiary education are doin better. Never attended school? 36% unemployed, below primary school? 26.6% unemployed, primary school? 31% unemployed, junior secondary school? 31% unemployed, vocational and commercial? 26% unemployed, Senior Secondary school? 25% unemployed.

None of these support your claim that non graduates are doing better than graduates. What you could however argue is that a person does not have to be a graduate to make it in life. Also for the most part of it, what we call employment in this part of the world for majority of the labour force is tantamount to slavery. The minimum wage is still 30k/month and for secondary school leavers and lower, majority earn far below the minimum wage and this puts your concept of “gainfully employed “ into question.

The op just wanted to catch small cruise.. and you started opening dangerous statistics and research data from your workplace and past phd... grin

Haba!!....some one cannot even play with you..

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by WoundedLamb: 10:02pm On Jan 21, 2022
Many factors probably. Some men simply fear success. Getting married to uneducated or not-so-ambitious women helps then maintain control in the marriage. They say they want women that bring something to the table, but they'd still stay away from those that have what it takes to do just that. Again, some educated ladies are very career oriented. They'd rather achieve something before settling down. Let's not forget that educated ladies are likely to be more picky as well.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Mohamizy: 10:04pm On Jan 21, 2022
which kind myopic topic be this

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by uthlaw: 10:04pm On Jan 21, 2022
Animegirl:
grin I know poverty stricken Redpillers will condemn educated and successful women soon.

Well, they could marry because of love, others no money to afford successful and independent women(Redpillers frustration), while some men marry to control illiterate women.
this is not issue of Redpillers..it is better to marry the one you control than the other one,because you both offer pussy!

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Timoleon(m): 10:04pm On Jan 21, 2022
No vex baba I bin no Dey better mood today.
advanceDNA:


The op just wanted to catch small cruise.. and you started opening dangerous statistics and research data from your workplace and past phd... grin

Haba!!....some one cannot even play with you..

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Springboot: 10:05pm On Jan 21, 2022
thesicilian:
The same reason many people who did no attend university are more successful than many graduates.

This has to be the dumbest thing I've seen on the internet this year

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jan 21, 2022
Stop asking dump questions...

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by nesgeeek(m): 10:05pm On Jan 21, 2022
uneducated ladies are always humble, caring and easy to maintain and control.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Edipet(m): 10:06pm On Jan 21, 2022
Because they care not selective
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by mrksquare: 10:07pm On Jan 21, 2022
Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..


Non educated ladies do not have unrealistic expectations from their supposed suitors when compared to the educated ones. And they also do not have an entitlement mentality, which the supposedly educated ladies possess in quantum quantity.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by nextstep(m): 10:08pm On Jan 21, 2022
I wonder what of other people's uncles who have married their well-educated university sweethearts, who have also been happily married for 10 years.

And what of the uneducated families who argue and fuss every day in face me I slap you?

In other words, this survey of "I've seen..." is woefully inconclusive, as we've seen every combination of education with varying levels of marital bliss.

I know, people will jump on the "educated girls are arrogant" bandwagon, which is actually a poor reflection of the people making the point. A man may marry somebody of lower status so he can be unchallenged. Marriage should be about equals (with each having their own role to play). The lady's humility is purely a function of economic circumstance. Men too are surprisingly humble if somebody else is responsible for their economic wellbeing.

As a man, be nice to your partner, be fair, be yourself humble, and don't act as her lord. Ladies, the same applies to you. That's what makes marriages work. Not the difference in socio-economic status.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by tachusta(m): 10:08pm On Jan 21, 2022
Animegirl:
grin I know poverty stricken Redpillers will condemn educated and successful women soon.

Well, they could marry because of love, others no money to afford successful and independent women(Redpillers frustration), while some men marry to control illiterate women.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Eagban(m): 10:09pm On Jan 21, 2022
It is about personal character not education. Some educated women are good while some are bad, and it is the same thing for the uneducated ones.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by TwistDThinking(m): 10:11pm On Jan 21, 2022
I think marriage's are 2 overhyped in this country. Y be miserable being with 1 person Ur whole life when u can jus have kids take care of em 2geda apart and live a free life no issue no problem just how U want 2 live period. I know there are happy moments but then this life is not forever Y jus be stuck in a cage
Being a single parent can't be all that bad ryt

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Goldbw122(m): 10:12pm On Jan 21, 2022
Due to series of conditional teaching, they have been adjusted to a lifestyle of been fulfilled before they can start a family, like they have the ideal to be rich first like having all they need in life, so that when the family comes they won't bother to stress them self, so in this process, delay occur that is when the uneducated even when they don't have any money they can't borrow and go on with their unplan family so that is why..

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Bussy23(m): 10:13pm On Jan 21, 2022
Your question already answered by you.
Educated and uneducated.. There's something called Proximate determinants of fertility in women. It's takes an educated and informed woman to understand she has a life to live without having the mentality of being conferred to the kitchen due to marriage..Whereas the uneducated don't have any knowledge about their rights from wrongs so they live life the way or situation they find themselves. Just like an educated lady would know she ought to use contraceptive or do family planning either due to economic crisis and the likes compared to someone who believes in division of labour and bores more children.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by na2016: 10:14pm On Jan 21, 2022
GoodHardDick:
Educated ladies are arrogant, disrespectful and full of pride. They hardly submit to a man unlike an uneducated lady who's just the opposite. angry

OP, see the answer here. Although he should have used "some".

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by SoapQueen(f): 10:15pm On Jan 21, 2022
Kriss216:
The educated ones are mostly feminists, sadists, wretched, saucy and untrained.

An educated woman is a recipe for disaster.


Eweeeeeeeeh!

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Itoro67: 10:16pm On Jan 21, 2022
No I disagree with you here, almost 80% of educated ladies are brat, very arrogant, saucy, proud and over confident etc

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by biz2get(m): 10:16pm On Jan 21, 2022
Because A woman's Educational Success is Useless to a man!

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Olayetan(m): 10:19pm On Jan 21, 2022
Animegirl:
grin I know poverty stricken Redpillers will condemn educated and successful women soon.

Well, they could marry because of love, others no money to afford successful and independent women(Redpillers frustration), while some men marry to control illiterate women.

Are you saying all educated ladies are independent and successful?
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by ednut1(m): 10:20pm On Jan 21, 2022
Marriage has a dynamics, the more educated and independent a woman is the more she wont tolerate nonsense. Marriage is full of enduring nonsense.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by SoapQueen(f): 10:21pm On Jan 21, 2022
Jeon:


yet they said that they dislike housewife .

Tueh!

Bunch of confused souls.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by MeghaneMorgane(f): 10:22pm On Jan 21, 2022
GoodHardDick:
Educated ladies are arrogant, disrespectful and full of pride. They hardly submit to a man unlike an uneducated lady who's just the opposite. angry

Be deceiving yourself. Educated ladies theses days are humble.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Olayetan(m): 10:24pm On Jan 21, 2022
Jeon:


yet they said that they dislike housewife .


So the uneducated are full house wife without being engaged?


Educated ladies are just full of themselves, they don't know when to keep quiet and how to keep sanity in their home. Reason why many educated ladies don't have successful home.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Enny2013(f): 10:25pm On Jan 21, 2022
Bcs most are not dat selective. Education exposes one to lot of tins,lot of choices n selections.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by SilvanusII(m): 10:26pm On Jan 21, 2022
Because men love to be in semblance of control. Educated women are emancipated women in competition with men, and are not as malleable as illiterate women would be.
Oh, and men are not all they seem and understand that liberated women wouldn't choose them. Na person wey dem fit oppress dem go dey find to marry

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Oyinlomobambam(m): 10:26pm On Jan 21, 2022
Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..


The same reason marriage of uneducated people last than educated people

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