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Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Genesiszero: 10:58pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
My brother has been a well disciplined man, he has married a woman whom he love dearly, sometimes I wish If I was a woman, I'll marry him! Gentle, calm, humble, educated, exposed with a very good source of livelihood. Doesn't smoke, drink or womanize And most importantly, God fearing. Maybe heritage from our dad. But I never could have imagined it that what seems like a blissful marriage of my brother could end just like that. What is the problem? Social media! They had an issue, and she went and posted it there, from WhatsApp to Facebook and the worst of all twitter and some stupid women group which she seems to be a member of, may be there is some Judges there, come and see some people passing judgment even without hearing the other side of the story. He warned her series of time not to ever post any family related issues to the media. I can remember while I was still with them, he always tells her if she ever has anything about him, she should call him and discus it with him or better still report to our parent. I don't know if it's a family thing for us or something, personally, I'm not too good with these social media of a thing. To the best of my knowledge, my brother is the best and cool personality I had ever come in contact with, But these act of hers has been the height of it for him. Brethren as I'm talking to you now, my brother has contacted a lawyer to prepare the divorce papers. Our parents and family members has called a meeting, we begged him for almost a week now but he stood his ground about the divorce, her family has come to apologize and beg for reconciliation for the both of them but to no avail, I spoke to him personally and begged like what you could ever imagine but our please fell on deaf ear. He personally told me that if his wife had gone to the court, he would've preferred it. If there is absolutely anything I know about my brother is him being a man of his words. She has done countless of things to him and She'll call us to apologize all the time and he'll forgive especially when my mom is involved. But for these I don't know what To say, she has cried and cried her eyes all out but for where ![]() Sorry I don't have much time neither am I good with telling stories, if not, I should have narrated what led to the whole problem but is a long epistle on it own.... Why is too hard to know what your spouse want and dislike. Note: he doesn't even want you posting his image in any media platform even on his birthdays, we're kinda some sort of reserved people in my family. The marriage is three years old. Not everybody likes these social media of a thing. 365 Likes 34 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Prechgold1180(m): 11:02pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Before u post ur family problem on social media Note that the internet is filled with frustrated people who really don’t send you any good Dey would give u worst advise What am I even saying First to comment Please I beg you @all Don’t vote for tinubu or anybody above 70 we don suffer reach abeg 58 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Equal2DeTask(m): 11:03pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
![]() Year 2022, the year for RedPillers ![]() 360 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by thorpido(m): 11:04pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Keep appealing to your brother.Get his pastor or an elder he respects to intervene. Her offence is not too bad to just throw the marriage away. 65 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by uthlaw: 11:06pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Ena still de value this scam called marriage! 36 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Cyphar(m): 11:06pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
I love your brother.... n.b no homo ![]() 265 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Lisabi01: 11:07pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
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Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by bestdefender: 11:15pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Omo this one heavy ,but on a second thought why posting family matter on a social media, my guy like you said he is a man of his word , the truth is that one person can stop him now and that's your mum intensify the plea ok . And for all the ladies that thinks going to social media to solve you marital problems unanonymous is the Koko , I have one thin to tell ya...,.............. Fuk all yo 249 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Jennyclay(f): 11:22pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
The summary here is that, Your brother is an introvert while his wife is an extrovert. But was your brother not aware she's among awon Tonto dike crew before he married her?? 147 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Ryda(m): 11:23pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
When couples are confronted with difficulties, it is best they settled amongst themselves. The Internet can give you advice on how to run your family affairs, but they'll never or can never run your family affair. Remember you'll always live with the consequences. 42 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Women and social media. Most of them all they do is sit at home,eat,snap,chat and make stupid videos for the gram. Kudos to your bro. Good riddance 205 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Genesiszero: 11:26pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
thorpido: Honestly brother, I wish I can tell all that happened I've tried my best and my entire family, but I don't know what made these lady did these. I warned her about these social media of a thing 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by slawormiir: 11:27pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Damnnn niggar Don't mind them ... Any little thing they will run to social media and post it there This is the reason I don't bother to view WhatsApp status It is full of shit 240 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Genesiszero: 11:30pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
bestdefender: My mom was whom I first called especially the moment I heard him calling the lawyer for the divorce papers........ It's been a week plus now... He's hell bent in his decision...... I'm even heart touched by the cry of these Lady.... I've done my best... Will keep trying and for the Pastor, that one no too like church things to much 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Genesiszero: 11:34pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Equal2DeTask: Fellow, I think it's not about redpill or whatever you may call it, I think its a thing of standard and respect for your partners boundaries. I'm weak and tired 37 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by bahdpersona(m): 11:37pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
I like your brother's reaction, people like your brother can repeat warning for innumerable times but when it's time to penalize their offenders , nothing can stop them. 352 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Tokskob2008: 11:43pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
thorpido:Her offence is not too bad ![]() Her husband constantly warns her of doing a particular thing but she keeps doing it anyway so what is not too bad in that? If you can't understand, learn and do what your partner likes and want in marriage then you don't have any business being married in the first place. 99 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by odinson1(m): 11:47pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Dude Your Brother is a Man Worthty of Respect. This is how you discipline a woman,by making her know she's easily Replaceable. Some foolish men will advise you to have a heart to heart conversation with your wife and beg her,these Are just a waste of time because she will only use that Conversation to Manipulate you even further. But... I'll advise him not to divorce her...yet. the fear of divorce alone is enough for her to Know who is the Man of the house. Trust me,she will never misbehave in that house ever again 296 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Genesiszero: 11:51pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
bahdpersona: Truth be said, he warned her countless of time, maybe she took his gentility for granted and thought it'll be like the previous one's she's been getting away with 70 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Genesiszero: 11:53pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
odinson1: I'm scared brother, these man can endure even the worst of all attitude you can ever imagine from a woman.. But I don't know what came over my brother to decide these all of a sudden 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by odinson1(m): 11:55pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Genesiszero: Tell your brother what i just told you about "the fear of divorce being almost as Terrifying as the divorce itself" She will think twice before misbehaving again because she knows your brother is a no nonsense man. Tell him not to divorce her,what he has been doing since is enough punishment and warning for her. But if she misbehaves again... 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Kollins11: 12:00am On Jan 22, 2022 |
SmellySperm:The one wey dey vex me pass na when dem dey cry for camera. Who does that?? How you go set camera then you go dey cry claiming you're hurt.... Werey gender. 193 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Bamzyriches451: 12:01am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Women are fund of doing that 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Genesiszero: 12:06am On Jan 22, 2022 |
odinson1: Thanks a lot for your time and advice, I'll make sure I try more tomorrow. I wish he'll just here any of us! The funny thing is that, he'll give you a listening ear with all maximum respect and then after you're done talking he'll tell you he's made up his mind..... I'll try more tomorrow just like you've advised. 48 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Righteousness2(m): 12:27am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Yes the wife allowed the devil to use her to cause her hubby pains but Divorce is too harsh . We need to Pray for your Brother and ask GOD to touch his heart. He just needs a touch from GOD. Precious Daddy, I pray thee, locate this young man, touch and heal him. I Cancel any divorce and I Decree Restoration of Love and Submission in their Home in JESUS Name... Amen! That settles it! Tell his wife that Righteousness said she should stop crying. She should just submit to her husband wholeheartedly. We have Cancelled the divorce! I am waiting to Hear the testimony! 129 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Kobicove(m): 1:07am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Personally I also hate overexposure on social media therefore I do not blame your brother ![]() 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by bestdefender: 3:42am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero:then no bring church matter,I just dey pity for d wife though 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by MrCuteking(m): 4:19am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Righteousness2: AMEN 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Chisave: 4:25am On Jan 22, 2022 |
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Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Bluewitch(f): 4:59am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: Let him do what he wants... What makes you think she won't do it again? And then beg again. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Bluewitch(f): 5:00am On Jan 22, 2022 |
thorpido: Lmaoo... |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Nobody: 5:08am On Jan 22, 2022 |
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