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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 7:04pm On Jan 22, 2022
Lightway:


This is one thing I hate about poor people.

They can never have sense.

The fools don't know that aborting the useless child and giving the girl a second chance is the best thing to do...

That's the poor gets poorer and die poor.

Worthless losers. Nigeria should just kill every poor person before they sink the country with their brainless decision-making
a rich family will never keep it cus Dem wanna be perfect ND some others reasons

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jan 22, 2022
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Lightway:


This is one thing I hate about poor people.

They can never have sense.

The fools don't know that aborting the useless child and giving the girl a second chance is the best thing to do...

That's the poor gets poorer and die poor.

Worthless losers. Nigeria should just kill every poor person before they sink the country with their brainless decision-making
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IDIOT
ABORTION IS MURDER
SUPPORTING IT IS NOT A SIGN OF INTELLIGENCE

CONTRACEPTIVES AND ADOPTION ARE BETTER ALTERNATIVES

NEXT YOU WILL SUPPORT LEGALIZATION OF GAY TO PROVE YOU HAVE IQ

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 7:24pm On Jan 22, 2022
JESHAL:
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IDIOT
ABORTION IS MURDER
SUPPORTING IT IS NOT A SIGN OF INTELLIGENCE

CONTRACEPTIVES AND ADOPTION ARE BETTER ALTERNATIVES

NEXT YOU WILL SUPPORT LEGALIZATION OF GAY TO PROVE YOU HAVE IQ

There is nothing wrong in being gay... Abortion is a choice. I've gotten girls to abort three times for me. I don't understand what you mean by murder.

Being redpill is all about living your best life without worrying about others and their lives..

You sound like a loser who is trying to feel alpha..

I'm not an alpha male... I'm living my best life. Being an alpha male is too low for me

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ovo200: 7:26pm On Jan 22, 2022
JESHAL:
[s][/s]

IDIOT
ABORTION IS MURDER
SUPPORTING IT IS NOT A SIGN OF INTELLIGENCE

CONTRACEPTIVES AND ADOPTION ARE BETTER ALTERNATIVES

NEXT YOU WILL SUPPORT LEGALIZATION OF GAY TO PROVE YOU HAVE IQ


He's wrong for supporting abortion, just as you stated it's murder, you should have explained better.
You are wrong for calling him an idiot, you can correct in love, you don't have to call names it show how immature you are.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ovo200: 7:30pm On Jan 22, 2022
Lightway:


There is nothing wrong in being gay... Abortion is a choice. I've gotten girls to abort three times for me. I don't understand what you mean by murder.

Being redpill is all about living your best life without worrying about others and their lives..

You sound like a loser who is trying to feel alpha..

I'm not an alpha male... I'm living my best life. Being an alpha male is too low for me

Bro, you can't always trust your instinct, let God be your authority. Abortion is murder. And about living your best life, there is a higher chance of living your best life brings you sorrow and tears.

Life is empty, fear God and keep is commandments
Stay redpiiled

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 7:31pm On Jan 22, 2022
smiley

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 7:38pm On Jan 22, 2022
Ovo200:


Bro, you can't always trust your instinct, let God be your authority. Abortion is murder. And about living your best life, there is a higher chance of living your best life brings you sorrow and tears.

Life is empty, fear God and keep is commandments
Stay redpiiled

grin grin there is no morality in the redpill, and remember God said you should not fornicate. Yet you sleep with different girls, disobey his word and fool yourself.

Yet you say abortion is murder.... What level of stupidity should I call this now

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jan 22, 2022
[s]
Lightway:


grin grin there is no morality in the redpill, and remember God said you should not fornicate. Yet you sleep with different girls, disobey his word and fool yourself.

Yet you say abortion is murder.... What level of stupidity should I call this now
[/s]


IDIOT
YOU DON'T NEED GOD TO TELL YOU AN UNBORN INFANT IS A HUMAN LIFE
SCIENCE EVEN ACKNOWLEDGES A NEW DNA IS FORMED AT CONCEPTION

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emmynator(m): 7:47pm On Jan 22, 2022
DieRich5:
I still don't know how asking a girl her age issa bad thing The same people will attack u fast for fvckin a 17yrs old who looks 22yrs angry


Asking someone how much he or she makes is wrong
And them girls be looking way older than their age. Sometimes when i ask of her age, i am shocked.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 11:33pm On Jan 22, 2022
JESHAL:



Tell her to suck your dick
Afterwards call her a bitchh

I laughed at this till I farted!!!

You mudafucker!!! grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 7:50am On Jan 23, 2022
Yesterday I tested my pussy resolve capacity.

Had a banny sleep over and boy did she disturb....but I told her to chill out that I had a deadline to meet at work. From 7pm last night till 7am this morning, I was approached by a naked woman 6 different times.

And I passed. Kept my will in check despite my nodding diick.

N.B: She just told me right now no man was ever strong enough to resist her advances for a whole night.
I do the pussy resolve test from time to time. Lately,I have been passing in flying rainbow colours cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kaymicheal852: 8:02am On Jan 23, 2022
Guys check the 333secret on YouTube


The guy is superb

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by orchin(m): 8:04am On Jan 23, 2022
luminouz:
Yesterday I tested my pussy resolve capacity.

Had a banny sleep over and boy did she disturb....but I told her to chill out that I had a deadline to meet at work. From 7pm last night till 7am this morning, I was approached by a naked woman 6 different times.

And I passed. Kept my will in check despite my nodding diick.

N.B: She just told me right now no man was ever strong enough to resist her advances for a whole night.
I do the pussy resolve test from time to time. Lately,I have been passing in flying rainbow colours cheesy
Na mind thing bruh, done this alot in my undergraduate days even while not exposed to the redpill...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:37am On Jan 23, 2022
luminouz:
Yesterday I tested my pussy resolve capacity.

Had a banny sleep over and boy did she disturb....but I told her to chill out that I had a deadline to meet at work. From 7pm last night till 7am this morning, I was approached by a naked woman 6 different times.

And I passed. Kept my will in check despite my nodding diick.

N.B: She just told me right now no man was ever strong enough to resist her advances for a whole night.
I do the pussy resolve test from time to time. Lately,I have been passing in flying rainbow colours cheesy
You have done well.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Palazee(m): 9:33am On Jan 23, 2022
luminouz:
Yesterday I tested my pussy resolve capacity.

Had a banny sleep over and boy did she disturb....but I told her to chill out that I had a deadline to meet at work. From 7pm last night till 7am this morning, I was approached by a naked woman 6 different times.

And I passed. Kept my will in check despite my nodding diick.

N.B: She just told me right now no man was ever strong enough to resist her advances for a whole night.
I do the pussy resolve test from time to time. Lately,I have been passing in flying rainbow colours cheesy
Looks like i will start doing so too


Well done comrade

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by machote: 9:43am On Jan 23, 2022
Guys have started giving less fvcks.lol

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 9:58am On Jan 23, 2022
He trained her in school

Only for him to propose and she rejected him....

Now she's chilling with another man

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 10:03am On Jan 23, 2022
Lord Zlatan

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:28am On Jan 23, 2022
JESHAL:


When are we going to see the part 2
I am about to drop the part 2 in a few minutes.

Calibrator, Ubunja, Skepticus and others, what are your takes? Let's discuss.

Edit: below is the link to the second part
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1144#109614859

Kobams, hope will read my answers to your inquiry.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 10:29am On Jan 23, 2022
Lightway:
He trained her in school

Only for him to propose and she rejected him....

Now she's chilling with another man
as Dem female take Dy do am angry dis people gat no feelings at all

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:29am On Jan 23, 2022
PART 2

WOMEN AND CHEATING (part a)

NB: any talk of pleasure, enjoyment or whatever is simply referring mainly to lust, and sexual fantasies in some aspects.

Following the first part of my short write up, some would be inclined to ask "since we can't stop a woman from cheating if she wants to cheat, can't we find a woman who out of goodness and decency is guaranteed not to cheat? The good, decent girl who won't cheat?" This second lengthy write up will put you in a perspective where you can answer this question for yourself.

As a woman will invariably have her best interests take precedence over you, whatever bond you think you share, and whatever you have done for her in the past and present, so will she do with her sexual enjoyment, exploration and pleasure. These will be readily prioritised over whatever sanctity or regard for you which you think are intrinsic to your committed relationship. In this regard, female nature exempts no man; doesn't matter if you are a redpiller or not, simp or not. As a result, there is no man that cannot be cheated on.

Some men naively think there are women who sincerely say to themselves "this man has been good to me and he will continue to be good to me. He also provides well. Hence, out of my respect, appreciation, sanctity and/or regard for our relationship/marriage, I will close my legs and not utilise any SAFE, SECRET AND NONJUDGEMENTAL opportunity (that let me indulge all sorts of fantasies, pleasures and debauchery I want) to have sex with the guy who currently gets me in mood and who I think can pound me to my satisfaction, even better than my man does." lmao. Lori iro; female nature doesn't work like that. It doesn't happen. Things such as "I like/love him, therefore I will close legs and not have the fun I am opportuned and in the mood to have in secret while I keep my relationship/marriage." Such never happens. Even if you are the best provider and the most excellent husband/bf/father or you are the most knowledgeable and astute redpiller with a masculine frame made of adamantium, the same applies. Her sexual enjoyment, exploration and pleasure will take precedence over you and your deeds.

Even if she genuinely feels and treats you as the "love" of her life openly, it won't deter her from cheating. As much as people might want to think otherwise or intuitively think, even the respect and regard she has for you won't stop her from prioritizing her sexual enjoyment and pleasure over you and your deeds when the "iron is hot"; what RESPECT and REGARD do is that they ensure your woman takes extra steps to conceal her infidelity and shenanigans from you, and she will keep these things far away from you and be discreet so as not to get you upset or bring shame to you. This won’t make sense to many; it will sound counterintuitive because it seems natural to think that a woman who respects you will not cheat because she has regard for you, but female nature doesn't work like that. It is what it is. Don't let a woman's or simp's words make you think otherwise.

This is the reason why picking a woman from the gutters, helping her family in whatever way, and giving her a good life as a boyfriend or husband won't stop her from cheating on you with the available guy that is sexy, gets her in the mood and who she currently thinks can rock her world in bed if the opportunity presents itself and she can get away with it and still keep her relationship or marriage. This is the reason why a woman will have no problem sleeping with another guy in the apartment you bought for her if she can keep it a secret from you and still maintain the relationship/marriage for its benefits and security. If she can have the best of both worlds without any trouble, she will. What you have sacrificed or done for a woman does not guarantee fidelity the same way these won't stop her from monkey branching; no man is exempted from this.

====== DIGRESSION! ==========

Before I continue, It should be noted that I'm not saying that women always just go about picking any man within range, and as many as possible, to fùck for the sake of it; I am also not saying that by default they always make it their aim to cheat for the sake of it. Instead, note that she might not have had cheating in mind, but all it takes to cheat is to suddenly be in the mood (or be put in the mood) and be presented with a perceived safe (many, even married women, don't even care about safety. So use a condom and go for check up), secret and nonjudgemental opportunity with the guy that puts her in the mood; the guy she thinks can do "a good job" and give her a "nice time." She will chase her fantasies and novelties if the situation is apt as I have described, and it doesn't matter if she is married. When this happens and the opportunity is apt, she will readily prioritise her sexual pleasures and enjoyment over you, your deeds and sacrifices, and whatever sanctity and bond you think is intrinsic to your relationship. Even though I and other redpillers recommend marrying a virgin for many good reasons, the girl you deflowered or married as a virgin is not exempted from what I am saying.

Usually, with this guy (or guys), she gets sexual satisfaction and she has the room to indulge all sorts of debauchery and sexual fantasies of hers that she isn't getting from anywhere else; it's no holds barred in her sexual exploration with this dude (or dudes). Even if these bad guys were in relationships and they created these sexual satisfaction and opportunity for their women, it still wouldn't guarantee that they wouldn't be cheated on down the line. Women, as emotional beings, can get bored and crave something new; perhaps a more attractive man or better d!ck came along and compelled her attraction and attention in the meantime. It also doesn't help matters that women, as emotional beings, change very often just like emotions; what she wants today might not be what she craves tomorrow. There are many more influences and impetus that instigate cheating, but it will be discussed later if I have time.

Finally, it doesn't matter if she is religious or not, married or not, etc  just remember all it takes: being in the mood and a perceived SAFE, SECRET AND NONJUDGEMENTAL opportunity that let's her indulge what sexual fantasies she wants, and as she pleases. It can happen so quick and so easily. A woman is first of all a female before she is religious or in a committed relationship. Female nature, which is universal, will always assert itself.
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Make sure you have it in mind that women are the prime self-centered UTILITARIANS of nature, most especially towards men in their dating strategy. That's nature. They put themselves first and are always after their best interests. Their best interests will always supercede what you have done for her in the past... the same applies to her pleasures and search for sexual novelties and fulfillment of her fantasies. Married or not, old or young, etc the same applies. What you have done as a guy, redpiller or not, and the sacrifices you have made cannot elicit sexual loyalty from a woman; your provision and resources only guarantee association with the woman (it's in her best interest to associate with you). It doesn't matter if you trained her (as a wife/gf) in school, gave your kidney to keep her (as a wife/gf) alive, or lost an arm to save her life; when she is in the mood and she is opportuned (as I explained), her pleasures, interests and satisfaction will take precedence over your past deeds. Your past deeds and the respect you command wouldn't stop her from seeking and eloping with a better option in the same way your past deeds and the respect you command wouldn't stop her from sampling a better diçk and exploring with that guy that gets her in the mood, regardless of the sanctity of her relationship/marriage.

The same way people believe woman can love them, as the blue pill suggests, is the same way people believe there are women who will give them sexual loyalty for whatever reason (eg. virtue from religion or culture, appreciation, respect, regard, sanctity of the relationship etc.) As a utilitarian, her association with you is based on benefit and your usefulness to her (Briffault's law). The sanctity of the relationship doesn't feed her or pay her bills or counts were it comes to prioritizing her best interests and sexual pleasures; how long the courtship/marriage is or how long you've known each other won't count when it comes to prioritizing her best interests and pleasures. The same applies to the vows, love promises and profession of love she made to you. If she can get the best of both worlds by getting "fun" in secret and reaping the benefits and security from being in a relationship/marriage with you, she will; she is getting her needs and wants, and that's all that matters.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:32am On Jan 23, 2022
^^^^

The part b which I shall entitle "WOMEN AND THE INNER HÒE" will come out later, probably on a weekend, when I have the energy and time. I didn't write much in the post above as I wanted to keep it simple and accessible because of time and space. I have communicated the idea, use your imagination to connect the dots and shatter any spurious and irrational assumptions.

Finally, don't misconstrue my post as misogyny, hatred or a disgruntled rant against women; it's far from it. If you are still in the stage where unflattering opinions or facts about women get you in your feelings or make you scream "misogyngy", you won't go far in the red pill.
wink

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saintinoo(m): 10:35am On Jan 23, 2022
CaveAdullam:
DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.
This is a line from TRP nugget drop here by the OP.

CaveAdullam:
[b]DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.
This is a line from TRP nugget drop here by the OP.

[/b]
CaveAdullam:
DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.
This is a line from TRP nugget drop here by the OP.

Women thrive on drama, it allows them to weaponise emotion and push an agenda. Starve them of emotion, and they have nothing to fight with.
A woman starved of emotion will become desperate to sustain her psychological onslaught. As such, she will attempt to pry it from the dead, exaggerating observations and manufacturing issues in order to sustain the indignance necessary to maintain her psychological assult.

CaveAdullam:
[b]DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.
This is a line from TRP nugget drop here by the OP.

CaveAdullam:
[b]DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.
This is a line from TRP nugget drop here by the OP.

[/b]
CaveAdullam:
DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.
This is a line from TRP nugget drop here by the OP.

Women thrive on drama, it allows them to weaponise emotion and push an agenda. Starve them of emotion, and they have nothing to fight with.
A woman starved of emotion will become desperate to sustain her psychological onslaught. As such, she will attempt to pry it from the dead, exaggerating observations and manufacturing issues in order to sustain the indignance necessary to maintain her psychological assult.

[/b]
CaveAdullam:
DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.
This is a line from TRP nugget drop here by the OP.

CaveAdullam:
[b]DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.
This is a line from TRP nugget drop here by the OP.

[/b]
CaveAdullam:
DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.
This is a line from TRP nugget drop here by the OP.

Women thrive on drama, it allows them to weaponise emotion and push an agenda. Starve them of emotion, and they have nothing to fight with.
A woman starved of emotion will become desperate to sustain her psychological onslaught. As such, she will attempt to pry it from the dead, exaggerating observations and manufacturing issues in order to sustain the indignance necessary to maintain her psychological assult.

These above, just happened to me yesterday, lady is a virgin, mid 20s and in her first relationship. she was bringing up issues just to get at me and make me feel bad of myself, she came prepared because she had to use my simp friend for the job.

she wants to frustrate and and make me beg her, and mind you, I did nothing wrong, she won't leave the relationship but want to see me tormented.

I have resolved to ignore me. boss what more should I do.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 10:40am On Jan 23, 2022
Lightway:
grin grin


Explain this please

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 10:44am On Jan 23, 2022
machote:
Guys have started giving less fvcks.lol

They’re still lucky their statuses are being viewed. They don’t know what’s coming for them.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 10:46am On Jan 23, 2022
MJBOLT:
Lord Zlatan

Damn. Dude is so real.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by poncedeleon: 10:53am On Jan 23, 2022

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YlCWo2Rfq90
wow. summary of what you guys are saying. nice message blaacbonz

this guy must be redpiller

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:56am On Jan 23, 2022
poncedeleon:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YlCWo2Rfq90
wow. summary of what you guys are saying. nice message blaacbonz
The precision and immensity of the red pill in that song made it my favourite song on his album. That song is redpilled from start to finish. Guys here should check out the lyrics.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 10:58am On Jan 23, 2022
Based on my own personal observation, the only dual factors stopping most married folks from going sexually wild is the fear of being caught and the fear of their public reputation being tarnished.


If circumstances permit and absolute discretion is guaranteed, every single married man and woman will most likely cheat cheesy


I have made peace with the fact that I am only responsible for my actions and the best I can do is react to the actions/inactions of others, I can't control what they do, I suggest that you all take the same approach in situations where daughters of Eve are involved.



Shalom!
Martinez39s:
I am about to drop the part 2 in a few minutes.

Calibrator, Ubunja, Skepticus and others, what are your takes? Let's discuss.

Edit: below is the link to the second part
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1144#109614859

Kobams, hope will read my answers to your inquiry.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 11:17am On Jan 23, 2022
Calibrator:
Based on my own personal observation, the only dual factors stopping most married folks from going sexually wild is the fear of being caught and the fear of their public reputation being tarnished.

If circumstances permit and absolute discretion is guaranteed, every single married man and woman will cheat cheesy

I have made peace with the fact that I am only responsible for my actions and the best I can do is react to the actions/inactions of others, I can't control what they do, I suggest that you all take the same approach in situations where daughters of Eve are involved.

Shalom!
I agree with you, bro. No matter how self-centered a person is, some negative consequences (especially immediate ones) can be used to put them in check. They stay in check because the negative consequences affect them and it's in their best interests to avoid these negative consequences, not that they care about the impact of their behaviours and decisions on the feelings and welfare of others.

This is the scare tactic underlying the old culture of new wives taking oaths of fidelity in the shrines of their deities. This happened and still happens in some societies. It only works if the woman REALLY believes in the existence and absolute supremacy of the deity and the swiftness of the diety's wrath if they renege on their oaths. grin Then, she refrains from indulging her lust because she perceives her survival is at stack, not that she cares about cheating on her husband.

Of course, some women didn't really believe in the gods (atheists and agnostics have always existed, especially in secret). In some cases, they didn't highly rate the god in front of whom they swore; in this case, they would seek, sometimes with the guidance of their mothers or other women, charms from other gods they perceived to be stronger by visiting other native doctors to fortify themselves and protect themselves from the deities presiding over the appointed day they would make the oath of fidelity. grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 11:40am On Jan 23, 2022
Calibrator:
I have made peace with the fact that I am only responsible for my actions and the best I can do is react to the actions/inactions of others, I can't control what they do, I suggest that you all take the same approach in situations where daughters of Eve are involved.

Shalom!
This is a good resolve. No need trying to control or bother about what one can't control.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 11:50am On Jan 23, 2022
Martinez39s:
PART 2

WOMEN AND CHEATING (part a)

Following the first part of my short write up, some would be inclined to ask "since we can't stop a woman from cheating if she wants to cheat, can't we find a woman who out of goodness and decency is guaranteed not to cheat? The good, decent girl who won't cheat?" This second lengthy write up will put you in a perspective where you can answer this question for yourself.

As a woman will invariably have her best interests take precedence over you, whatever bond you think you share, and whatever you have done for her in the past and present, so will she do with her sexual enjoyment, exploration and pleasure. These will be readily prioritised over whatever sanctity or regard for you which you think are intrinsic to your committed relationship. In this regard, female nature exempts no man; doesn't matter if you are a redpiller or not, simp or not. As a result, there is no man that cannot be cheated on.

Some men naively think there are women who sincerely say to themselves "this man has been good to me and he will continue to be good to me. He also provides well. Hence, out of my respect, appreciation, sanctity and/or regard for our relationship/marriage, I will close my legs and not utilise any SAFE, SECRET AND NONJUDGEMENTAL opportunity that let me indulge all sorts of fantasies, pleasures and debauchery I want to have sex with the guy who currently gets me in mood and who I think can pound me to my satisfaction, even better than my man does." lmao. Lori iro; female nature doesn't work like that. It doesn't happen. Things such as "I like/love him, therefore I will close legs and not have the fun I am opportuned and in the mood to have in secret while I keep my relationship/marriage." Such never happens. Even if you are the best provider and the most excellent husband/bf/father or you are the most knowledgeable and astute redpiller with a masculine frame made of adamantium, the same applies. Her sexual enjoyment, exploration and pleasure will take precedence over you and your deeds.

Even if she genuinely feels and treats you as the "love" of her life openly, it won't deter her from cheating. As much as people might want to think otherwise or intuitively think, even the respect and regard she has for you won't stop her from prioritizing her sexual enjoyment and pleasure over you and your deeds when the "iron is hot"; what RESPECT and REGARD do is that they ensure your woman takes extra steps to conceal her infidelity and shenanigans from you, and she will keep these things far away from you and be discreet so as not to get you upset or bring shame to you. This won’t make sense to many; it will sound counterintuitive because it seems natural to think that a woman who respects you will not cheat because she had regard for you, but female nature doesn't work like that. It is what it is. Don't let a woman's or simp's words make you think otherwise.

This is the reason why picking a woman from the gutters, helping her family in whatever way, and giving her a good life as a boyfriend or husband won't stop her from cheating on you with the available guy that is sexy, gets her in the mood and who she currently thinks can rock her world in bed if the opportunity presents itself and she can get away with it and still keep her relationship or marriage. This is the reason why a woman will have no problem sleeping with another guy in the apartment you bought for her if she can keep it a secret from you and still maintain the relationship/marriage for its benefits and security. If she can have the best of both worlds without any trouble, she will. What you have sacrificed or done for a woman does not guarantee fidelity the same way these won't stop her from monkey branching; no man is exempted from this.



Make sure you have it in mind that women are the prime self-centered UTILITARIANS of nature, most especially towards men in their dating strategy. That's nature. They put themselves first and are always after their best interests. Their best interests will always supercede what you have done for her in the past... the same applies to her pleasures and search for sexual novelties and fulfillment of her fantasies. Married or not, old or young, etc the same applies. What you have done as a guy, redpiller or not, and the sacrifices you have made cannot elicit sexual loyalty from a woman; your provision and resources only guarantee association with the woman (it's in her best interest to associate with you). It doesn't matter if you trained her (as a wife/gf) in school, gave your kidney to keep her (as a wife/gf) alive, or lost an arm to save her life; when she is in the mood and she is opportuned (as I explained), her pleasures, interests and satisfaction will take precedence over your past deeds. Your past deeds and the respect you command wouldn't stop her from seeking and eloping with a better option in the same way your past deeds and the respect you command wouldn't stop her from sampling a better diçk and exploring with that guy that gets her in the mood, regardless of the sanctity of her relationship/marriage.

The same way people believe woman can love them, as the blue pill suggests, is the same way people believe there are women who will give them sexual loyalty for whatever reason (eg. virtue from religion or culture, appreciation, respect, regard, sanctity of the relationship etc.) As a utilitarian, her association with you is based on benefit and your usefulness to her (Briffault's law). The sanctity of the relationship doesn't feed her or pay her bills or counts were it comes to prioritizing her best interests and sexual pleasures; how long the courtship/marriage is or how long you've known each other won't count when it comes to prioritizing her best interests and pleasures. The same applies to the vows, love promises and profession of love she made to you. If she can get the best of both worlds by getting "fun" in secret and reaping the benefits and security from being in a relationship/marriage with you, she will; she is getting her needs and wants, and that's all that matters.

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