Its a tough one but you shouldn't abort that baby for whatever reason. Carry on as if nothing dey, if ur bump appears, so what? U thief am? no be husband house u dey? Some pregnant women remain smart even up till delivery. Pray you are one of them.

Worse case scenario, they relieve u of the job, no qualms, the God that made this one possible will still make way for another after u put to bed.
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Congrats on ur new addition

This is indeed a dilemma.

Ok, at first you were excited abi, I urge you to continue with that excited spirit.




The child comes first and your husband is not complaining.


Over to the mothers

Happened to me before.

I was in sales.

I kept the baby though.

But even before the tommy started to protude my supervisor already knew.

One day sha, they sacked me. They said I didn't fit in anymore. I don't even understand what that means.

Women life sha!

I really don't know what to say to you. What if you lose the job after aborting your baby.

How about you work very hard and show them that you can do very well at the job.

It will be difficult to let you go dear.

And please Pray! God can change the hardest of hearts.

Why would u ask mothers alone?

I am representing Nigerian fathers association North Central branch.
Pls,let the pregnancy be...if u take care of yourself very well,u will see how great u will be after pregnancy. The pay is important just as your life and that of the child is much more important than money and material things of this world.
If the employer is human enough,pls confide in one of the bosses and explain to him that u have even thought of abortion but u felt the need to see him privately because of this job. I believe he might have compassion for u and the pregnancy.


Good luck to u as the Association sent their greetings.

The fact that abortion came to your mind makes u a terrible person, plz abort the baby cuz u should never be a mother.. ewww

You keep going to your job and do your best until they decide to let you go. Until then, you are employed. Congratulations on your job and the baby on the way.

Keep both the baby and the job. What is the big deal in a woman getting pregnant that they will sack her for.

May God have mercy on us in this country. Are things so bad that as a married woman you are considering abortion because of a job. From what I read, I perceive this is your first baby. Please don't even consider abortion, not for any reason. What you will use to take care of the baby, God will provide.
Start the job, the worse that will happen is that they sack you and you might be surprised they won't.

Xhamster:
The fact that abortion came to your mind makes u a terrible person, plz abort the baby cuz u should never be a mother.. ewww

You have no right to call me a bad person. You don't have any advice, you read and walk away.

bbride484:
You have no right to call me a bad person. You don't have any advice, you read and walk away.

otele

Thanks @all for all your advice.
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