heartofcity12:


They’re still lucky their statuses are being viewed. They don’t know what’s coming for them.

kobams:
Word�

poncedeleon:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YlCWo2Rfq90
wow. summary of what you guys are saying. nice message blaacbonz

this guy must be redpiller

Martinez39s:
The precision and immensity of the red pill in that song made it my favourite song on his album. That song is redpilled from start to finish. Guys here should check out the lyrics.

heartofcity12:


They’re still lucky their statuses are being viewed. They don’t know what’s coming for them.

Martinez39s:
The precision and immensity of the red pill in that song made it my favourite song on his album. That song is redpilled from start to finish. Guys here should check out the lyrics.

Martinez39s:
The precision and immensity of the red pill in that song made it my favourite song on his album. That song is redpilled from start to finish. Guys here should check out the lyrics.

heartofcity12:


Fact. I really love listening to the song. So redpilled.

machote:

Blaqbonez and Bella really went hard on the remix.
I really wish musician more Nigeria musicians would make more songs like that.

heartofcity12:


That’s right. The remix is very dope too.
Oh well that’s up to them. Sometimes Olamide will sound redpilled in his songs, sometimes he’ll sound like a big simp.

chikasnight:
Good day my comrades
Mehn I just realised that these boys no de try o
These simps no Dey try
I mean the standards these simps are busy setting out there is just unimaginable
Today I was around where one guy was talking to a girl and she was like telling him things guys are doing for her and that they don’t even allow her to rest, and more guys are still coming...
Why won’t they feel like they’re the only girl in the world
Well as for me and my comrades here we already know how it goes

Martinez39s:
Glad that you have read and you are taking red pill.

Have it in mind that a woman can present herself as an angelic nawalt to her spouse, run a happy family with him and be seriously involved in the relationship/marriage while being regularly piped down like a hòe in secret by other men, to the oblivion of her husband. She might even be religious and participate actively in her church or mosque. This infidelity doesn't impact her morality and conduct in other aspects: she might be kind to others and her children, she might show her husband respect, she might be a good homemaker, she might be the type that dresses decently etc.

So let people not make assumptions based on superficial impressions. Also know that most women are not daft in their manipulation and most women are good at hiding their shenanigans. I will say more in part b.

Any questions you would like to ask?

JESHAL:




Martinez
Chai
What's all this

Jessepaid:

Saintinoo:


This is a line from TRP nugget drop here by the OP.

Women thrive on drama, it allows them to weaponise emotion and push an agenda. Starve them of emotion, and they have nothing to fight with.
A woman starved of emotion will become desperate to sustain her psychological onslaught. As such, she will attempt to pry it from the dead, exaggerating observations and manufacturing issues in order to sustain the indignance necessary to maintain her psychological assult.

These above, just happened to me yesterday, lady is a virgin, mid 20s and in her first relationship. she was bringing up issues just to get at me and make me feel bad of myself, she came prepared because she had to use my simp friend for the job.

she wants to frustrate and and make me beg her, and mind you, I did nothing wrong, she won't leave the relationship but want to see me tormented.

I have resolved to ignore me. boss what more should I do.

Martinez39s:
Any problem? Any question or counter arguments? If there are, I would like to hear them.

posty56:
I swear, only your body language is enough for me to move on ,

Martinez39s:
PART 2

WOMEN AND CHEATING (part a)

Following the first part of my short write up, some would be inclined to ask "since we can't stop a woman from cheating if she wants to cheat, can't we find a woman who out of goodness and decency is guaranteed not to cheat? The good, decent girl who won't cheat?" This second lengthy write up will put you in a perspective where you can answer this question for yourself.

As a woman will invariably have her best interests take precedence over you, whatever bond you think you share, and whatever you have done for her in the past and present, so will she do with her sexual enjoyment, exploration and pleasure. These will be readily prioritised over whatever sanctity or regard for you which you think are intrinsic to your committed relationship. In this regard, female nature exempts no man; doesn't matter if you are a redpiller or not, simp or not. As a result, there is no man that cannot be cheated on.

Some men naively think there are women who sincerely say to themselves "this man has been good to me and he will continue to be good to me. He also provides well. Hence, out of my respect, appreciation, sanctity and/or regard for our relationship/marriage, I will close my legs and not utilise any SAFE, SECRET AND NONJUDGEMENTAL opportunity (that let me indulge all sorts of fantasies, pleasures and debauchery I want) to have sex with the guy who currently gets me in mood and who I think can pound me to my satisfaction, even better than my man does." lmao. Lori iro; female nature doesn't work like that. It doesn't happen. Things such as "I like/love him, therefore I will close legs and not have the fun I am opportuned and in the mood to have in secret while I keep my relationship/marriage." Such never happens. Even if you are the best provider and the most excellent husband/bf/father or you are the most knowledgeable and astute redpiller with a masculine frame made of adamantium, the same applies. Her sexual enjoyment, exploration and pleasure will take precedence over you and your deeds.

Even if she genuinely feels and treats you as the "love" of her life openly, it won't deter her from cheating. As much as people might want to think otherwise or intuitively think, even the respect and regard she has for you won't stop her from prioritizing her sexual enjoyment and pleasure over you and your deeds when the "iron is hot"; what RESPECT and REGARD do is that they ensure your woman takes extra steps to conceal her infidelity and shenanigans from you, and she will keep these things far away from you and be discreet so as not to get you upset or bring shame to you. This won’t make sense to many; it will sound counterintuitive because it seems natural to think that a woman who respects you will not cheat because she has regard for you, but female nature doesn't work like that. It is what it is. Don't let a woman's or simp's words make you think otherwise.

This is the reason why picking a woman from the gutters, helping her family in whatever way, and giving her a good life as a boyfriend or husband won't stop her from cheating on you with the available guy that is sexy, gets her in the mood and who she currently thinks can rock her world in bed if the opportunity presents itself and she can get away with it and still keep her relationship or marriage. This is the reason why a woman will have no problem sleeping with another guy in the apartment you bought for her if she can keep it a secret from you and still maintain the relationship/marriage for its benefits and security. If she can have the best of both worlds without any trouble, she will. What you have sacrificed or done for a woman does not guarantee fidelity the same way these won't stop her from monkey branching; no man is exempted from this.



Make sure you have it in mind that women are the prime self-centered UTILITARIANS of nature, most especially towards men in their dating strategy. That's nature. They put themselves first and are always after their best interests. Their best interests will always supercede what you have done for her in the past... the same applies to her pleasures and search for sexual novelties and fulfillment of her fantasies. Married or not, old or young, etc the same applies. What you have done as a guy, redpiller or not, and the sacrifices you have made cannot elicit sexual loyalty from a woman; your provision and resources only guarantee association with the woman (it's in her best interest to associate with you). It doesn't matter if you trained her (as a wife/gf) in school, gave your kidney to keep her (as a wife/gf) alive, or lost an arm to save her life; when she is in the mood and she is opportuned (as I explained), her pleasures, interests and satisfaction will take precedence over your past deeds. Your past deeds and the respect you command wouldn't stop her from seeking and eloping with a better option in the same way your past deeds and the respect you command wouldn't stop her from sampling a better diçk and exploring with that guy that gets her in the mood, regardless of the sanctity of her relationship/marriage.

The same way people believe woman can love them, as the blue pill suggests, is the same way people believe there are women who will give them sexual loyalty for whatever reason (eg. virtue from religion or culture, appreciation, respect, regard, sanctity of the relationship etc.) As a utilitarian, her association with you is based on benefit and your usefulness to her (Briffault's law). The sanctity of the relationship doesn't feed her or pay her bills or counts were it comes to prioritizing her best interests and sexual pleasures; how long the courtship/marriage is or how long you've known each other won't count when it comes to prioritizing her best interests and pleasures. The same applies to the vows, love promises and profession of love she made to you. If she can get the best of both worlds by getting "fun" in secret and reaping the benefits and security from being in a relationship/marriage with you, she will; she is getting her needs and wants, and that's all that matters.

JESHAL:
The issue with your write up is that it's too densely abstract and appears flawless but remember humans specifically women have Emotionss and conscience i.e code of ethics of right and wrong, your write in a way doesn't consider the nuance of life, it makes women seem like 100% utilitarians with no capacity to do what's just even with religious and cultural influence or strong paternal guidance, they will abandon or blend their moral beliefs for the sake of hedonistic pursuit,your redpilled truth analysis appears exaggerated, for the sake of arguments I won't give personal instances of women abiding within said morality because they are anecdotal examples, do you understand the gravity of what you have been typing since morning, the most painful is that most women will cuckold their beta husbands, women can't do good from the bottom of their heart except their something to gain within the confinements of a relationship, life is not black and white, I can go on and on, but these just my opinion on the matter though

Ovo200:


Bro, you can't always trust your instinct, let God be your authority. Abortion is murder. And about living your best life, there is a higher chance of living your best life brings you sorrow and tears.

Life is empty, fear God and keep is commandments
Stay redpiiled

Emmynator:

That's one thing with me, i don't toast girls to make them like me, I toast them because they already like me
Instead of making a girl loves me, I find one who loves me already, instead of finding a girl who respects me, i find one who respects me already. I have no work to do then, other than to make myself available. I qualified before I even started, the game is already rigged in my favour, i never have to lose frame to get the relationship started. I just put myself out there, do my things and take note when a girl shows interest, and I act on her interest. I also have had to train myself in the art of identifying greenlights.

Since i started pre-qualification (chosen principle), I have found my experience with women more enjoyable, I stopped having complaints of having to text a girl first everytime, or lack of reciprocal feelings, no disrespect, instead the complaints fall on my laps, as they want me to reciprocate, to text first etc.

So when a girl forms hard to get or starts giving me stress, I cut off communication with her, I still view their status though, i don't care.

Of course this reduces the quantity of women in women in my circle, but the quality is never in doubt.

ubunja:


Dang!! These are the sobering, almost discouraging, facts: Your past with a woman, what you have done for her and how much you have sacrificed for her sake, will never be the basis of her faithfulness to you. Yes. Yes x a billion.

Based on my own observations through chats with cheating-minded wives and girlfriends on anonymous dating forums,, the only best thing a woman can do for a man who has done so much for her and loves her to death IS PROTECT HIM FROM HURT. Not necessarily be faithful, but make sure her loving man never finds out and get hurt. You have said this. They're committed to not hurting you,, not actually being faithful.

That's women at their best for you!

I'm sure a lot of us have heard women say, "If a woman truly loves you, you'll never find out!"

They never say "If a woman truly loves you she wouldn't" ,, but only say "you wouldn't find out" . They know they do shiit,, but they'll protect your heart by keeping you in the dark if they really love you. To them it's the best they can do for a man. They make sure THE RELATIONSHIP CONTINUES, as if them staying is some amazing gift from them to the man. Smh.

One woman straight up mentioned how her hubby took her worthless self and made her into a woman, and for that she was going to do anal when she cheats and not vaginal sex. And I got the vibe she was patting herself on the back for it. These women!!

Anyways,, as you have also clarified in your writeup,, Your past sacrifices and deeds for a woman won't stop her screwing around if she so desires. What guys really need to understand is, If she cares about you enough, she'll mercifully keep her dirty deeds a secret from you. But won't necessarily keep her legs closed. A woman's loyalty can not be bought. Only her heart.

Her pussy stays Taliban.

Always ready for next guy who makes it wet.

There is only one person who can stop a woman from cheating,, not you, not her mother, not her ancestors ——> HERSELF.

A Woman has to want to be faithful and make real effort in that regard. It has to be self-generated from within. And it's not a man's duty to make a woman faithful. It's her duty. A man's duty is to protect his own heart no matter what a woman chooses to do.

There are women who are faithful and would die before giving the cookie away,, but a man must never deal with a woman with the mindset that "maybe this the one who doesn't cheat". Because we can't read hearts. What we do is, we assume every woman a cheater, and protect our heart accordingly.

My own babymama,, there was never a time when I thought she was perfect and would never cheat. And I never bothered policing her existence. I was just too busy cheating and looking for my next victim!
One day my friends came over and she rushed to dress decent and cover up. When I asked why she was bothering she replied she didn't want to give my guys any ideas and have them trouble her. I was dead sure my mates would never try anything with her. But she was aware enough to know men are men, you never know! It also helped me realize she knew she was human and could be seduced and stolen. I appreciated that about her. But am I saying she was perfect and never cheated? I don't know if she ever, because I never cared.

I'm saying this about her covering up for other men to say this: If a woman is with her man and dresses as if she's single, then she's searching. If a wife dresses like a hoe in the presence of hubby in public, then she's doing it intentionally. She's hunting. You can go ahead and seduce her. Dressing will always express a woman's inner character.

Now, I always reference my babymama for two reasons: 1, she's one of the girls I knew very deeply who's still in my life so anytime I can call her and ask she clarify some things about her behavior that I don't understand. 2, she was a virgin but she put me on serious game. Not directly. But she was naive and in love enough to be honest about everything. She gave honest feedback that really helped me understand her and women in general. we had a relationship where we talked about anything,, bonus she always came to me with all the gossip. I knew which female in the hood was doing what and why. She always filled me in. That's how I came to know the landlord's (single mother) daughter had about 4 men who gave her money on payday and in turn fucced her as much as they wanted during the month. The things her friends told her girl-to-girl, she always passed on to me. And as a red piller that was gold to my ears.

Another thing with my babymama is we were open and discussed people we liked. I know a certain guy that she had a thing for - a tall dreadlocked guy I thought was rather handsome. It didn't frustrate me but instead made me realize I wasn't that bad-looking myself since she chose me. Honestly it helped my confidence. There was one other guy who also caught her eye, a well-dressed con-man I really disliked who was always causing trouble and had caused her problems before. Still I was never that bothered. I had created that space for her to be honest about these things. And in turn she also knew the girls I liked. I told her. We would laugh about it. Even watching TV we would discuss the people we liked. She had a huge crush on Sam Winchester (Supernatural) for years. I would tell her Dean is boss, but she was like Whatever dude!

Did she herself think I was cheating? Absolutely. One time, after spending a few nights away from home she demanded to meet "her" - that girl she concluded I was messing around with. She called her "sister". And wanted to be her friend. It didn't freak me out because she had told me how her own father had cheated on her mother and her mother invited the woman to visit their home. She was trying to do like mommy had done! Like mother like daughter... Lol.

Regex:
I am always eager to read your post no matter how long. I am sure I'd learn something new.

Martinez39s:
Glad that you have read and you are taking red pill.

Have it in mind that a woman can present herself as an angelic nawalt to her spouse, run a happy family with him and be seriously involved in the relationship/marriage while being regularly piped down like a hòe in secret by other men, to the oblivion of her husband. She might even be religious and participate actively in her church or mosque. This infidelity doesn't impact her morality and conduct in other aspects: she might be kind to others and her children, she might show her husband respect, she might be a good homemaker, she might be the type that dresses decently etc.

So let people not make assumptions based on superficial impressions. Also know that most women are not daft in their manipulation and most women are good at hiding their shenanigans. I will say more in part b.

Any questions you would like to ask?

Martinez39s:
LOL. Let's do some proper analysis, shall we?

I obviously never implied that women are emotionless or without conscience. I never said that women don't know right from wrong; of course, they know right from wrong and there are women who are kind and do good deeds. Also, have it in mind that knowing right from wrong is different from actually caring to do what is right. In fact, I wrote that infidelity and all I wrote in the lengthy post do not impact a woman's morality or conduct in others aspects of life; I even wrote that a cheating woman can be kind to others and run a happy home (as long as her activities are kept secret from her husband)... how did you miss that?

You need to understand that my post wasn't concerned with a woman's behaviour in all aspects but IN THE DATING GAME AND INTERSEXUAL DYNAMICS. Besides, any talk of pleasure or whatever was referring mainly to lust, and sexual fantasies in some aspects. I was only talking about women and cheating, nothing more.

If I say that a woman will prioritise her best interests and will monkey branch to a better financial option no matter what her boyfriend has done or sacrificed for her, will you think I am implying that women are wicked, immoral and lack conscience? NO! How come it is different when I say her sexual enjoyment will take precedence over your deeds when the opportunity (as I described) presents itself? The same way religion and culture won't change the former is the same way religion and culture won't change the latter. It is what is. This does not in anyway imply that women are devoid of conscience or are incapable of doing any good deed. Let me burst your bubble, I have heard women tell me they feel slightly guilty after cheating because they know what they did is wrong, but their guilt, as it turns out, didn't t hinder them in the slightest when the pussy started calling again and they become inured to the act for whatever reason (usually by rationalising their act). Even the women who are known to be hoès or prostitutes are capable of good deeds... and do good deeds and show kindness.

Let's properly dissect what is read without letting the harsh aspects of the red pill get you in your feelings and colour your judgement. I know a lot of people hope to establish that big, happy family and have sweet kids that will carry their legacy (I am not against these). To many of these people, such dream is useless and not worth it if they aren't assured of their spouse's fidelity or if they see their wives cheating. So to keep this hope alive, they are compelled to believe that they can find a woman that surely won't cheat. Even if there is a woman who would never cheat, you can hardly tell except you can read minds and uncover the deepest intent of a human's heart.