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How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Unclesmart12: 11:35pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
I met this girl few weeks ago online and we kinda vibed instantly, a couple of weeks later she came over to my house for weekend and we had sex the first night. I asked her about her relationship status later and she said she was in a relationship, though she doesn't love the guy. She showed me proof of countless times she's told the guy the truth but he would always persuade her to stay with him with hope that she would warm up to him. So she stayed since he was paying the bills. I can't tell her to leave the guy because I am not ready to pay any bills for anybody now. Just like most Nigerian girls she gets lots of calls, but one made me upset this night. She was on call with a guy for almost an hour, from the tone of the conversation the guy might just be a friend, because the gist was centered around school and other random stuff. I felt she disrespected me by staying so long on a call and I made my feelings known when she was done. She got moody and stopped talking to me afterwards. She finished cooking and dished mine in a separate plate even though we have been eating together since she came. She placed the food on the bed without notifying me and went on to eat hers alone. I tried to adjust and kicked the plate away breaking it in the process. I packed the food and threw it into the trash can, she immediately went to the kitchen and dropped hers too. Took her bath and went to bed, though I know she's not sleeping. She's supposed to go tomorrow morning and I intend deleting her contact after she leaves, however I really like her. I've not met someone I liked in a while. I don't wanna beg her since I didn't do anything wrong. Or was my reaction to the call extreme?? Should just free her or attempt talking to her? How do I approach it without coming off as weak? 14 Likes |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Bola146(f): 11:40pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by SUPERPACK: 11:40pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
She told you she has a boyfriend and in a relationship but that did not stop you from shifting her paent. She is in your house and on your bed, you had no problem with that too because someone else is paying her bills. All of a sudden you are angry because of a long call from one of the pússy co-owners like you that pays her bills possibly. Conclusion;''He who comes to equity must come with clean hands'' 1032 Likes 72 Shares |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by brosom(m): 11:41pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
U met her online u no tell us, U vibed together u no tell us, U invited her over u still no tell us, U made out with her u still no tell us. Now a little misunderstanding between u two and u re telling us, why? Don't u see how greedy u have become? Abeg 9ja lose this evening so no allow make I change am for u o ![]() 350 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by apostle96: 11:43pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
OP is a... 184 Likes 8 Shares
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Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Sykris: 11:44pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by arthurwillia(m): 12:05am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Unclesmart12: Bro you messed it up man, what’s your concern with who she talks to on the phone or not, Mehn you messed up. I have that kind girl in bayelsa, she receives call like mad, I just bring out one breast and be sucking. She’s not your gf neither are you planning to date her, let her call who she wants to. Apologize, lash her tonight and fix another date.. don’t be a guy who just lost a free puz or better still pass her to me We will teach you 337 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Polynek(m): 12:33am On Jan 24, 2022 |
arthurwillia:Bad baddo baddest ![]() ![]() 199 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by FERNANDEZISBACK: 12:44am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Do what soothes you oo..no matter what you are being told here you are still gonna do what's on your mind..I don't think you will be so dense to take the advice of those kids up there and more that are to appear later.. You have a moral sense right?so no big deal.. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by arthurwillia(m): 12:49am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Polynek: No time 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by fikayormi(m): 2:59am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Foolish talk , let your exes and boyfriend come here to discuss your matter too Na then we go know say even satan dey learn from her 2 Shares
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Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by fikayormi(m): 3:02am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Follow this advice son , You getting angry is bad for business, you are catching feelings already and it is affecting your sense of reasoning., Stick to your game plan son Soldier on !! arthurwillia: 111 Likes |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Nobody: 3:52am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Curious o non related, on which online website did you meet her? 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Truvelisback(m): 4:35am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Unclesmart12:Cowardice, Inferiority complex and Low Self-esteem are ur problems. At first, u were acting like u don't have feelings for her. I.e u just wanted sex. Now, u have started acting foolishly when u fully know that guys are into her. If u want to date her or have a serious relationship with her, why not open up to her rather than pretending and hiding ur feelings for her. 66 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by socialmediaman: 4:41am On Jan 24, 2022 |
OP pardon me for being satirical on this one, do you know this statement “put your mouth where your money is”? That’s what you should do. You said you didn’t do anything wrong lol, don’t forget she told you that she has a boyfriend, so she’s cheating on her boyfriend with you. Isn’t that wrong? Second wrong is, you’re not paying her bills, you don’t even take her seriously even as she cooks and possibly cleans for you, then she gets on the phone with a man possibly paying her bills, and you’re getting all upset? Pity her small 73 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by arthurwillia(m): 6:37am On Jan 24, 2022 |
fikayormi:Apt and straight to the point Unclesmart12 be smart 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by omotoshodontee1: 7:02am On Jan 24, 2022 |
A comrade has offer u d best advice up there,wetin concern u wit who she dey call? anytime she repeat d long hrs call,find ur way to one of her nipples or some little touching at d main gate...nah by herself she go drop d call sharply 47 Likes |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Sopies: 7:20am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Guy you bleeped up, whats your business with her calls? Run your parole and move on. Almost every lady answers that kinda call. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by longjosh: 7:23am On Jan 24, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Georgekyrian(m): 7:31am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Omo every hook up ladies answer those calls, they believe if you’re serious about them you’ll make them stop it by showing your seriousness, that means paying bills... another is I don’t build love is either love at first sight or nothing, even my woman now was caught of first sight. You guys don’t love each other, stop catching feeling over nothing. just be in partnership with her why the fun last 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by FirmTR(m): 7:49am On Jan 24, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Nobody: 7:59am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Bro, you fall my hands big time I swear ![]() As a guy, once you meet a girl Don't bother to ask her if she's in a relationship or not. Your job is to keep servicing her pussy with your good hard dick and of course, always bang the hell out of her. I was banging a girl few days ago, lots of guys kept calling her, including her bf too. I inserted my dick harder and kept banging her. She answered the call and told her bf she was "at work, that she's busy" and then ended the call. ![]() OP, you seem like the insecure and jealous type. Oga, bang that girl and stop bothering who she's talking with on the phone. 90 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Sonnobax15(m): 8:58am On Jan 24, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Koralords: 9:12am On Jan 24, 2022 |
SUPERPACK:Bro you get sense,you not the main boyfriend but you jealous Wetin make the guy wey they pay her bills that’s she cheating on Wetin make he do 45 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by Jeremani: 9:15am On Jan 24, 2022 |
My guy, if u still want that pvssy go and tell her that u are sorry, Moreover if she become ur babe another guy will still bang her, So is wise to be the one banging her. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by mediainc: 9:17am On Jan 24, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by INTEGRITYA1(m): 9:27am On Jan 24, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Settle This Without Coming Off As Weak by babyfaceafrica: 9:28am On Jan 24, 2022 |
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