I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

I feel you bro, battling the same

Deliverance

Everyone has their own secret battles brother.

It takes discipline and the fear of God to stop habits like this

If your in Europe where people dress up from clubs to work you would killed yourself get yourself together if it needs you to marry do so to stop sex addiction you need to change it with another addiction too.

Someone said after he had castrated him self the urge for sex left him, have u considered dat option?

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection . It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

Not you calling prostitutes public toilet . The cognitive dissonance that it takes consider yourself better than people who are doing the same things you’re. Lmfao

Well my brother something must to kill a man.but bleeping without using protection is a big no for me.

Having sex with prostitutes makes you one with them. It’s deeper than you think. A prostitute is always having sex with numerous men, and for that, you’ll do same with numerous prostitutes unending. The crave is now on the both sides. To break it down for you, whatever dwells inside a prostitute is now dwelling in you and it gets so strong and wild because you been doing with different prostitutes.


Solution? If you are a Christian, start fasting. Start with 7 days, increase it to 14 days. 6am to 2pm. Do this every month.

Sexual urge is an appetite, it needs sex and also needs food to grow out of control. When you fast, you starve it and it diminishes with time.

When fasting avoid viewing seductive photos, porn, masturbation, don’t entertain sexually active women because the moment you start this journey, “women of that kind” will start chasing you with sex and you relapse. Rid your phone and WhatsApp of all the prostitutes you patronized. Don’t block but delete them. Occupy your mind with God and he’ll clean it from all sexual immoralities.

Try all these and give God the glory. I got saved.

Tired2022:

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep you fuxcking mouth shot.

Since you make enough money, I suggest you visit a psychiatrist or a mental Health therapist at this point in your addiction.

Please stay away from marriage until you have fully resolved the issue that is, at this point, you.

cococandy:
Not you calling prostitutes public toilet . The cognitive dissonance that it takes consider yourself better than people who are doing the same things you’re. Lmfao

Na serious problem e be!

heniford2:
If your in Europe here where people dress up from clubs to work you would killed yourself get yourself together if it needs you to marry do so to stop sex addiction you need to change it with another addiction too

Marriage to stop sex addiction problem? After all this time you have been on nairaland, it still has yet to dawn on you that the idea in bold is nothing but a farce?

Are you folks chronically resistant to commonsense or what?

Henryjr:
Everyone has their own secret battles brother.

It takes discipline and the fear of God to stop habits like this

God also put the professional mental health workers out there to help some of you get over your addictions in the case that you struggle with discipline as individuals.

Hope you have gone to get tested because it is very likely you might have contacted some stds seeing that you've been having unprotected sex with different women for the past five years.

Righteousness2 do you have something to say?

Our problem for this life dey learn for where some people own dey

You need to visit a therapist.

cococandy:


Not you calling prostitutes public toilet . The cognitive dissonance that it takes consider yourself better than people who are doing the same things you’re. Lmfao

and it is very possible most of them don't have his record in the game

Kobojunkie:
Marriage to stop sex addiction problem? After all this time you have been on nairaland, it still has yet to dawn on you that the idea in bold is nothing but a farce?

Are you folks chronically resistant to commonsense or what?

don't understand you

Jesus is the answer my brother. Surrender your life to Him and He will cleanse you from this addiction.

Go for HIV test first ... Before we the elders will give advice.

I don't see a problem with sleeping with prostitutes(nothing strange),what I find really disturbing is doing so unprotected.
You're clearly out of your mind and don't deserve your life,
Please try and donate your vital organs like heart,liver,kidney,etc to a specialist hospital so that people who deserve them can have them before you destroy and make them obsolete with HIV,that's if you don't have the virus already.
Craze man!
I can't even sleep with a random girlfriend unprotected before na ashawo,ha!

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep you fuxcking mouth shot.

Cc lalalasticlala, mynd, I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

Good thing you're a scientist, so I can see from your post that your analysis is on point.

You've stated the most crucial point, you find it hard to socialise with men and women. So you resorted to what you could easily do via mastirnation without any need for others and patronising prostitutes which you can do as long as you have the money.

What I will prefer might seem a bit far fetched but I always believe in giving God a chance.
I'm not a religious person but I know that things happen in churches and mosques that have made them stand the test of time and remain relevant and thriving for centuries and even millennia.

Whichever one you feel obliged to try, either church or mosque, embark on a spiritual journey to find God.

And I can assure you that somewhere along the line,you will find the solution to your problem.

But please do not stope your habit immediately... ease yourself into it and stop progressively.
Because if you stop abruptly, chances are you will be wound up and eventually you might relapse and become even worse than you are presently.

So take your time to reduce it gradually until you're able to stop it.

Once you find where you want to commit yourself to,either church or mosque. I won't advice any other for now in Nigeria cos these are the dominant religions, please make sure you submit yourself to whatever they require of you.

If they ask you to join a foundation class, pls do.
If the mosque has their demands, pls oblige (as long as they dont ask you to bomb anyone).lol no offense to my Muslim friends.

It's shocking you can spend on ashawo but find it hard to get a gf



You will need integrated solutions to your issue,

Physical

Spiritual

Psychological

But the spiritual and psychological interventions should be taken more as priority.

All the best!

Do you live alone or with your parents??

What kind of home set-up?

Are you allowed to mix?

lereinter:


Do you live alone or with your parents??

What kind of home set-up?

Are you allowed to mix?

I live in alone in a 2 bedroom apartment. I never bring prostitutes home. Everything must happen in the hotel. I live a very secluded life.

Don't even think about marriage for now till you are mentally and sexually fit. So that you won't create another thread to tell us how you raped your wife.

There are sex therapists, shrinks, etc. Try to see one to sort yourself out.

Kobojunkie:
Marriage to stop sex addiction problem? After all this time you have been on nairaland, it still has yet to dawn on you that the idea in bold is nothing but a farce?

Are you folks chronically resistant to commonsense or what?

....First time I'm agreeing with your submission.

Marriage can't stop sex addiction problem and yes some folks here are resistant to common sense cause I ve noticed it too. Lol


Op. Like Kobo said,go see a sex therapist A S A B.

this one bad gan! you need to see a therapist., you can sexually abuse a minor under your care. you need help bro, you really need a mental shutdown.

What you dont understand is that you are the same as the "public toilet" maybe more.
With your body count,you are a public sewage pit.

Why penis no get mileage metre?