It's not your fault bro it is In ur homon the best thing u can do is to visit a therapist and avoid sexually materials and things

baralatie:

Are u encouraging him to commit suicide

I'm telling him it's a phase that will pass.

And that his whoredom is a neccessary lesson.

Richy4:
I don't understand honestly.... because it was as if I read some contradiction....Maybe u should clear it for me....

<<<You said that you were a shy person... then I read something like this
<<<.....No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.....

How does that work for a shy person? because that statement for me is scary ...

That statement means that u can get any woman...bed them...Remember u are shy, u can't approach a woman, that was why u were going for prostitutes.....So what's that statement all about? because that statement is synonymous with someone that got rape mindsets and tendencies....

More like a predator's instinct!


Thank God I'm not the only one who doesn't buy the bullsh*t that he's selling. If he's addicted to prostitutes, then, one can infer that his addiction stems from his inability to approach ladies the proper way. He can't woo them. He doesn't have to patience to play the waiting game and shower them with attention and gifts (to get them to open their legs for him). For him, sex shouldn't require all these rituals and processes. Just make a pick and slide your d*ck in and out.

What you've read up there is just half-truth and a contradictory account at best. The complete truth is that the guy is a 'rapist in the making' That is if he's not already one. If there's anything contrasting about his story, it's the fact that anyone who is addicted to sleeping with prostitutes won't touch minors or normal ladies. They would have become too adapted to the easy way. Or who doesn't know sleeping with normal ladies is too complicated? You'll get her number, chat her up, make her feel special and loved, then, you'll make your move. If it's rape you're talking about, you'll lay out traps, wait for opportunity, then pounce on the victims. Then, you'll overpower the victim in the struggling that will ensue.


A person who is addicted to prostitutes wouldn't take this path! This guy is not entirely honest with his story.

GOSPELTRUTH31:
@Op the culprit is alcohol...
Minimize your alcohol intake..
Learn how to socialize with friends
If you have a sister learn from there..y advice is to you is to confess to Jesus in your private time and go for Culture test before you think of Going into any serious relationship that will lead to marriage...
If you want to socialize easily
Go and be a member of salvation ministry
Join the choir and learn how to play keyboard
And thank me later
But don't forget to go for medical test..
Wish you the best of luck

Keyboard takes years to learn nah

LeyeWrites:


I'm telling him it's a phase that will pass.

And that his whoredom is a neccessary lesson.

He is suffering from prostitution addiction with probable symptoms of rapist tendencies

Seek God's mercy. Go on your knees and say Almighty God I've come before you in the name of your Son Jesus Christ. Dear Lord I've sinned against you and I've realized my sinful way and I surrender to your lordship please save me from the power of sin and death. Cleanse me with your precious blood and make me whole again. Thank you Jesus for saving me. From today, I become the son of God, sin and death has no power In me.
Now, look for a bible believing church and stand attending and you can look for a good brother or even your pastor and very close to him. Always read your Bible and always pray.

Obviously you don't fear for your life and that is why you are ducking prostitutes without condom, my own is before you go and infect any innocent lady with HIV or other stds,go to a good hospital a d have yourself checked from head to toe of any and and HIV before you even think of toasting any lady or marrying nonsense.and lastly you really need jrsus

SeaTrade:
I don't see a problem with sleeping with prostitutes(nothing strange),what I find really disturbing is doing so unprotected.
You're clearly out of your mind and don't deserve your life,
Please try and donate your vital organs like heart,liver,kidney,etc to a specialist hospital so that people who deserve them can have them before you destroy and make them obsolete with HIV,that's if you don't have the virus already.
Craze man!
I can't even sleep with a random girlfriend unprotected before na ashawo,ha!

You think say you dey wise abi? Your main girlfriend wey you dey nack without condom, you think say na only you one she nack raw abi?

They just need time to consciously and unconsciously adjust their lifestyle, so they can resist it.

Sex addiction puts those affected in greater risks of Stds.

They can try visiting the hospitals and showing love to those who are struggling with illnesses, and they can educate themselves more about the negative possibilities of their lifestyle.

Emotions are strong, so they have to try everything with understanding it, emotions does not respect logic, but it can be tamed with discipline.

baralatie:

But there are men who suffer from prostitution addiction!
I know and read of a Hollywood actor(two ) who suffered as a result

DropsMic:



Sorry bro... But this is the truth.. Masturbation is one of the hardest addiction to quit.. So if you could quit masturbation then you can quit this too. Goodluck

He didn't quit masturbation bro. He substituted it with a more physically deadlier addiction.

Iamthoney:
You think say you dey wise abi? Your main girlfriend wey you dey nack without condom, you think say na only you one she nack raw abi?

Tell am o

socialmediaman:


Priesthood as in becoming a religious priest as a vocation? Or you meant celibacy?

priesthood is the ability to practice God's presence perpetually with this the urge will go down gradually and finally there will be libration. If deliverance is done, it will only cast the demon out and mind you the demon will come checking with urge and whispers that is why priesthood is an advantage

Baba419:
I feel you bro, battling the same

sorry bro just have d determination and pray

If you are okay, that we can talk message me on whats app +234 708 371 4526

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

SeriouslySense:
They just need time to consciously and unconsciously adjust their lifestyle, so they can resist it.

Sex addiction puts those affected in greater risks of Stds.

They can try visiting the hospitals and showing love to those who are struggling with illnesses, and they can educate themselves more about the negative possibilities of their lifestyle.

To adjust his lifestyle of being a prostitution addict to a lesser sex addict?
The dudes is still suffering from a type of sex addiction nau!

He will still have relapses!

Although I must agree that re education can work based on some factors

You are a de*d man

NewSoul:

He didn't quit masturbation bro. He substituted it with a more physically deadlier addiction.

Yeap

Young Man I thank God Almighty that you came out very sincere. My advice to you first is that, you should give your life to Jesus Christ. Sex addiction has a way of permanently killing people's destiny. Please and please go to a Bible believing church and get delivered.

my bro you can get out of this mess if you are determined. first cut off all occasions for this ugly act i.e.
remove all porn materials in your phone,
avoid porn sites,
withdraw from whatsapp groups (and other social media groups) that share porn
discontinue the use of alcoholic beverages (sounds tough but it's obviously a trigger)
start your marriage processes
most importantly - join a Christian fellowship where you can share your challenges with more matured Christians for guidance

Since taking alcohol infuse such erotic feelings, stop drinking alcohol

Chat me up on Whatsapp let's discuss on the way forward. 07014813820





quote author=Tired2022 post=109695324]I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!
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Carchoice:
Having sex with prostitutes makes you one with them. It’s deeper than you think. A prostitute is always having sex with numerous men, and for that, you’ll do same with numerous prostitutes unending. The crave is now on the both sides. To break it down for you, whatever dwells inside a prostitute is now dwelling in you and it gets so strong and wild because you been doing with different prostitutes.


Solution? If you are a Christian, start fasting. Start with 7 days, increase it to 14 days. 6am to 2pm. Do this every month.

Sexual urge is an appetite, it needs sex and also needs food to grow out of control. When you fast, you starve it and it diminishes with time.

When fasting avoid viewing seductive photos, porn, masturbation, don’t entertain sexually active women because the moment you start this journey, “women of that kind” will start chasing you with sex and you relapse. Rid your phone and WhatsApp of all the prostitutes you patronized. Don’t block but delete them. Occupy your mind with God and he’ll clean it from all sexual immoralities.

Try all these and give God the glory. I got saved.

Nice piece Carchoice very good one...

But,wait a minute before this advice,no b u I hear yesterday dey talk about bleeping other peoples.... U know?
The other one will do the spending while u do the bending....

Don't mind me,I have a graphic memory.
Just asking out of curiosity,based on the dual personality traits I just observed.

Pardon my manners.....

....calling prostitutes public toilets makes you a public poo, you garrit? Get a grip on yourself or just bleep on.

JESUS is the only solution to your problem. Give your life to him and he will set you free from the bondage of fornication.
There are spiritual forces behind your ordeal and they more you keep sleeping with more prostitutes they more complex you case will become. These forces are only interested in your destruction.
Waste no time, run to God for your deliverance. Find any bible believing living church, go find the Pastor of the church, share your ordeal, surrender to JESUS, he will pray for you and you will be ok

Matthew 11:28 "Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."

The main thing that pushes you into doing this is alcohol. From your post, this is the motivation for you. Stop taking alcohol and you would have been able to solve a higher percentage of the problem.

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

I perfectly understand your situation brother, its a carbon copy of mine just that I haven't sleep with that amount of prostitutes you've had. I'm 32 and I know exactly how you feel. Although right now am currently on my journey to recovery which I can say and I strongly believe would turn out to be glory to God. I had to reach a point in my life that this problem is beyond my own strength and ability and I seriously need a divine help. I came across a youtube series of a man who had gone through what you Currently going and how God delivered him I also got one of his book which I am currently reading. And to the glory of God I thank him for where he has taking me so far, see the journey to recovery comes with lot of perseverance and willingness for you to be free from this evil cos that the journey am in as well. I would invite you as well to join me on this journey you can reach me on 09152409689 call or WhatsApp I would share you with all the helpful material and by God grace your case will be a testimony.

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

Bro you need deliverance from sex addiction. Even if you get married you'll still continue or even do worse. There are sex demons controlling your life, and the more women you sleep with, the more demons you come in contact with and also under their control.


That you feel bad about this shows that this is not what God wants for your life. Your spirit rejects this but your flesh is weak and under enslavement.

First you need to repent, give your life to Jesus and then seek a path to deliverance and spiritual rehabilitation. Sincerely ask God to help you and He will. He will make ways and bring people your way that will help in the journey.

Be patient with yourself, change won't be automatic. It will take time to break out from the addiction and enslavement. But make sure you keep going forward and making progress one step at a time.

You have to be ready to change your lifestyle and surrender completely to the only One who can heal this addiction.


Any other way apart from Jesus will not work, I promise you. But I also promise you that you'll never regret it if you follow His path. Goodluck

Lesser addiction is some progress and may eventually workout.

To overcome this addiction, he has to understand himself, men sometimes tend to avoid understanding themselves, but its essential to know his person and what surrounds him or what is inside his consciousness in terms of:

1) Value system.
2) goals in Life.
3) Peer pressure.
4) Triggers.
5) Understanding of Life.
6) Value of health.
7) depression or loss of meaning in Life.
Daily activities. (stressful activities, poor human relationships, no connection to nature.)

But what i wrote may not be enough and are probably just guesses, since humans are unique, and what works for one person may not work for another person.

baralatie:

To adjust his lifestyle of being a prostitution addict to a lesser sex addict?
The dudes is still suffering from a type of sex addiction nau!

He will still have relapses!

Although I must agree that re education can work based on some factors

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

i don't know if the op can see this...this is the surest way to stop prostitute addiction ..i am say this cos u want to STOP...your addition to prostitute is cos u can afford it..if you are broke...u wont have been addicted...SO OPEN A A BANK ACCOUNT WITH NO ATM OR BANK APP OR MANDATE YOUR BANK NO TO ALLOW WITHDRAWAL EXCEPT DEPOSIT IN THE ACCOUNT....

buy food stuffs enough and keep in ur house..so that d need to have raw cash will be less...once u don't have much money to even feed den u cant afford ashawo..

see in Ur case deliverance wont do anything if you want fiscal therapy..i can help..but u will pay oo but it will worth it

if you have less money, then you stat working of disciplining yourself and keeping your self occupied ...and most importantly challenge your self to drink alcohol on weekends only ..till you stop..tell yourself that u have kidney problem due to excess alcohol den the fear will make u reduce it..i have more to say but the problem with sex additive is that they intentionally allow themselves to feel Hot instead of keeping the mind occupied wt how to make more money

Op I feel your pain bro cus I have been there before. But to stop an addiction, you need to set a target. I mean like daily to weekly target.
If you are visiting a brothel like 6times a week, try and reduce the number. And gradually, you will kill the urge. It is difficult but active able.

lucky4west:
you need to surrender our life to Jesus and ask the Holy Spirit to help you, the devil is bound to destroy you if you continue on that path, the most difficult demons to cast out are sexually transmitted demons, sex is like a blood covenant and u have ended up chaining yourself with these prostitutes thus ur body mind and soul has been possesed with demons, a body that is suppose to be the temple of God is now controlled by demons, hopefully you have not contracted stds/aids so please join a Bible believing church close to you and embark on serious deliverance, if you are sincere with yourself you would acknowledge the fact you are no longer 100% in control of your actions....please seek God immediately by accepting Jesus whole heartedly...delay is dangerous!

Thank you for that timely advice, you said it all. If he is based in Lagos, l will advise him to visit the Lord's Chosen Church deliverance and counseling service on Thursdays by 8am at Ijesha headquarter. If he is based outside Lagos, then let him try and attend the oncoming crusade from Sorrow to Joy on 12th and 13th of February next month. I know you are sorrowful right now but l assure you that your sorrow will be turned to Joy. I have been there.

BobbieZion:


Nice piece Carchoice very good one...

But,wait a minute before this advice,no b u I hear yesterday dey talk about bleeping other peoples.... U know?
The other one will do the spending while u do the bending....

Don't mind me,I have a graphic memory.
Just asking out of curiosity,based on the dual personality traits I just observed.

Pardon my manners.....

The thread says patronizing prostitutes. One night stands.