Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

Your problem is not prostitutes…I think your problem is alcoholism and being anti social. If you are able to get over these 2 issues, the prostitute wahala will automatically disappear.

Solution:
- Surround yourself with decent people that you trust
- Reduce alcohol consumption
- Get yourself a stable beautiful girlfriend…If you’re shy, meeting a decent girl can happen by a good friend, sister or Cuzn introducing you to one. You claim that u make good money, Nigerian girls will take you as you are without any issues.

Constantly getting drunk and patronizing prostitutes is like telling yourself that you’re worthless.
Most guys like sex like there is no tomorrow, but at the same time there comes a time that one must also try to use his head.
As you get older your goal should be constantly seeking for opportunities to be a better person. Discover an effective method to elevate your self confidence/ self esteem; understand that you’re much better and also deserve more than just cheap puuusyyysss around town.

Discover other interesting hobbies to prevent your mind from temptation…You can also get involved with a church without becoming a member; have constant one on one discussion with God… let him know all the things that are preventing you from being the magnificent dude you know you can to be….

Honestly, you sound like a cool dude that has a bright future…Just do a few self modifications and sky will be the limit.

Yes, you can do it.

Good luck bro!

Sonnobax15:

Our problem for this life dey learn for where some people own dey

I swear down me I dey go brothel too I even they use 2 condoms this guy worst gan I be saint were this guy they the devil done captured this one patapata

Baba419:
I feel you bro, battling the same

u no serious

Mariangeles:


Whenever you're ready to marry, I suggest you marry one of the numerous prostitutes you've been with. The one who's ready to settle down.
There must at least be one among them you're fond of.

You dey mad

The only issue here is you fûcking without condom. 70k a month on sex is no issue if you budget for it in proportion to your earnings. As for marriage, forget about it. Don't let the society drag you into that misery called marriage. You don't need it.

BTW, it's like your village people dey ask you to stop using condom. They're in love with you. They can't wait to see you. Mumu man

SerikiFulani:


Some successful women who are married today were once prostitutes back in the day

There's a very popular and wealthy man in Lagos whose wife was a former prostitute...This is no hearsay,I know the story and the man in question so well

So it all boils down to whatever rocks your boat.

If you don’t mind me asking; why do men keep counts of women they’ve been with?
Is it like a conquest for them?

Bro most people here rendering advices and castigating you where once into it and some of them are still into it. Just go with the flow bro you will soon get tired of it and on your own you will quit. I literally stopped mine 4 years ago when one of the ladies I often patronized insulted me, ever since then I always feel very irritated whenever I get to see anyone of them.

YoungDaNaval:
You dey mad

May your words be unto you as you have typed.

Mariangeles:


If you don’t mind me asking; why do men keep counts of women they’ve been with?
Is it like a conquest for them?

It's like Ronaldo keeping count of all the trophies he's won.

Toto must be fûcked

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

I can help you. Send me a mail.

Carchoice:
Having sex with prostitutes makes you one with them. It’s deeper than you think. A prostitute is always having sex with numerous men, and for that, you’ll do same with numerous prostitutes unending. The crave is now on the both sides. To break it down for you, whatever dwells inside a prostitute is now dwelling in you and it gets so strong and wild because you been doing with different prostitutes.


Solution? If you are a Christian, start fasting. Start with 7 days, increase it to 14 days. 6am to 2pm. Do this every month.

Sexual urge is an appetite, it needs sex and also needs food to grow out of control. When you fast, you starve it and it diminishes with time.

When fasting avoid viewing seductive photos, porn, masturbation, don’t entertain sexually active women because the moment you start this journey, “women of that kind” will start chasing you with sex and you relapse. Rid your phone and WhatsApp of all the prostitutes you patronized. Don’t block but delete them. Occupy your mind with God and he’ll clean it from all sexual immoralities.

Try all these and give God the glory. I got saved.

clapping**** if not the best/one of the best real comments i have read on Nairaland. May the good Lord continue to be with you, brother

tivta:
Masturbation has nothing to do with your addiction. Instead masturbation makes you hate women .

How?

I have a friend going thru this same problem.

He's not shy though but he can't get a girlfriend because he's addicted to prostitutes. "ALL" his friends are all married, he once tried to avoid us but we just refused to go away cos we know he has a problem, infact he has given up avoiding us. Money is not his problem, he's very comfortable.

I'll tell you what i told him, Fast, Pray and stroll to the nearest National Psychiatric hospital and talk to a specialist. I hope you unlike my friend take this advise.

You will overcome

Tired2022:


I live in alone in a 2 bedroom apartment. I never bring prostitutes home. Everything must happen in the hotel. I live a very secluded life.

You are under the influence of a demon of lust and perversion.
Type this name on YouTube ... Arome Osayi

Brother, I advise you give yourself to God in this case. Give your life to Jesus. Is obvious you need deliverance. You need a serious church like MFM. Fasting is a key instrument in this. You need to tackle this with all seriousness. The Lord will surely deliver you. Its a battle you must determine to overcome. He who overcomes will be able to teach others and bring others out of the pit. If you allow this battle to overcome you, it will be a bad thing.
God bless you.

Please, you have to get closer to God. I pray that Jesus will save you. Amen.

Skepticus:


Lol.

You know all of this but still pay these destiny destroyers for just a few minute of pleasure?

You should use your own advice. You need it more, if you want to go very far in life.

Did I tell u anywhere there that i pay for sex? Read well my friend.
That was an honest piece. In writing that i hoped to help the brother and help myself

What is the difference between DOING RUNS AND PROSTITUTION?

If you are engaged with girls that do runs, you are not better than my guy here. In my book, girls that do runs and the prostitutes have a lot in common. For this reason, before you throw an advise for my guy here you may want to look in the mirror.
Something tells me that there are a few on this platform that need similar advise.

It is well

baralatie:

Alcohol is a symptom not the cause

Have been there!
Alcohol in my own case will trigger my sexual urge from zero to �
Anything under skirt that moment will be bleeped after the sex the alcohol will clear and it will all end in regrets both in strength money and respect...
He should do away with alcohol...
The reason he loves alcohol is because alcohol is his only friend and companion
Pls provide your own advice for em as well
Thanks

I have slept with over 2,000 prostitutes despite the fact that there is no time that I don't have at least two girlfriends. It's no addiction, it's just having fun. I stopped when I got married, I never even think of stopping or seeing it at a problem. I just stopped when I got married about 11 years ago because there is a waiting sweet pusssy.

So, I don't know what nonsense the OP is talking about being depressed because he is fuccking prostitutes, if Niggas don't patronize them, they will run out of business

Op has slept with 480 pro's=2 per week×4 =8×12 =96×5=480 that's ops body count

Originalsly:
You are addicted .... have sex with prostitutes at least twice a week ... for the past 5 years .... and have slept with 102 women. Mr Scientist ... is it you don't know how many weeks in a year? ... or really bad at Math? This you should really be ashamed of.

naija4life247:
I have slept with over 2,000 prostitutes despite the fact that there is no time that I don't have at least two girlfriends. It's no addiction, it's just having fun. I stopped when I got married, I never even think of stopping or seeing it at a problem. I just stopped when I got married about 11 years ago because there is a waiting sweet pusssy.

So, I don't know what nonsense the OP is talking about being depressed because he is fuccking prostitutes, if Niggas don't patronize them, they will run out of business

Because you are not addicted to sex with prostitutes that is the difference

Masturbation is a spirit
Adultery/fornication is a spirit as well.
You can only use spirit to fight spirit ( you can't fight physical witb spirit).

You don't need any therapist.
What u need is to fight spiritually

In summary, You need to genuine deliverance from a clergy.

Remember, spiritual controls the physical.....meaning all this have happened in d spiritual realm before the physiavl experience u are having now which is the regular sex.

ImaIma1:
Don't even think about marriage for now till you are mentally and sexually fit. So that you won't create another thread to tell us how you raped your wife.

There are sex therapists, shrinks, etc. Try to see one to sort yourself out.

Raping his own wife will even be better compared to raping his mum in-law, his own daughter or wife's sister. Marriage should be the last thing he should think of at the moment.

Kobojunkie:
Since you make enough money, I suggest you visit a psychiatrist or a mental Health therapist at this point in your addiction.

Please stay away from marriage until you have fully resolved the issue that is, at this point, you.

counseling won't help ...he Is not ready to open up

heniford2:
long story bro, i have a business in Germany opened two in Finland recently so nobi today stuff.

Invite me street Wise

GOSPELTRUTH31:

Have been there!
Alcohol in my own case will trigger my sexual urge from zero to �
Anything under skirt that moment will be bleeped after the sex the alcohol will clear and it will all end in regrets both in strength money and respect...
He should do away with alcohol...
The reason he loves alcohol is because alcohol is his only friend and companion
Pls provide your own advice for em as well
Thanks

You want me to advise someone who has a sex addiction!
Not funny

Like I said earlier .He needs to understand what is the source of his desires to have sex and why he does not or cannot exercise control over his body !
If sex is already acting like a drug in his system then he is in for a serious battle but if it is a habit.the behaviour can be tamed and unlearned.the problem about about sex been a habit is if you remove sex as a habit it will resurface in another form in another habit.
When it is associated with alcohol ,then we have underlying issues to be dealt with.
This is because the alcohol is been used to suppress the inhibitors that kept him in check or propulants that releases the initiators that force him to express himself.
Those underlying thoughts which only him possesses are key to him solving his sex addiction.

See it this way.a man will only talk to a tall,light skinned,rich lady unless he smokes cigar.
What happens if a tall,light skinned, rich lady befriends him .will that stop him from smoking cigar?.....you get the problem now!the man must overcome his bottleneck of why he is not able to approach tall,lightskinned,rich lady(and that will bring out a whole bunch of dark things in a man's mind trust me)

So likewise in this case!
The man says he drinks to have his way to sex addiction to prostitution.
If he has nymph of a girlfriend not a prostitute will he stop taking alcohol and will that stop his addiction to prostitution.(of course not).
So addict needs help.likewise a sex addict will need help!

Everyone with their own problem. Mine is gambling and it is the worst. In gambling, you lose the two most important things in human development-time and money. I will quit

Mariangeles:


If you don’t mind me asking; why do men keep counts of women they’ve been with?
Is it like a conquest for them?

Yes,it's like a conquest for some men, though to some,it might be like a reminder of how far they've come sexually

It's a crazy feeling

RPG2020:


Invite me street Wise

what benefit will it be to me if i do so i don't even know you to start with here, i don't reply mails for security reasons

Judging from those contradictions one could the story is fictitious.uote author=Richy4 post=109696072]I don't understand honestly.... because it was as if I read some contradiction....Maybe u should clear it for me....

<<<You said that you were a shy person... then I read something like this
<<<.....No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.....

How does that work for a shy person? because that statement for me is scary ...

That statement means that u can get any woman...bed them...Remember u are shy, u can't approach a woman, that was why u were going for prostitutes.....So what's that statement all about? because that statement is synonymous with someone that got rape mindsets and tendencies....
[/quote]

Don't kill yourself.
Marriage won't prevent you from disciplining olosho.

One thing about addiction is that when you are tired of it, nobody will tell you to stop.