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This is a real matter just occuring now. It happened to my friend.
She had a boyfriend way back in university, about 12years ago now. They lost contact when they got separated as he traveled for his masters. So their chapter closed. She is now married with two kids while he on the other hand, just recently got engaged. They have not spoken to each other for years now, apart from the occasional "hello" and "hi" on Facebook. He is also aware of her marital status and kids based on her Facebook pictures.
Now; the dude just became her nextdoor neighbor!
According to her, there was an empty flat in her compound which just got occupied and when the new occupants came around to greet, lo and behold it her ex with his fiancée! For a moment, the earth stood still! What are the odds? He called her name and she too, as they greeted. He told his fiancée that she was an old friend from the university.
Her husband traveled for a business trip and won't be back till next week.

Should she tell her husband that this was the guy who deflowered her?
Should she tell her husband that she actually got pregnant in university and aborted it, for this same guy?
She told me that immediately he and his fiancée left her apartment, all the sweet memories she had of him began to replay themselves.
She is now worried about Okafor law but I told her that it was a myth as no such thing can happen. And that she should only tell her hubby that the guy was just an old friend, period!

To whom brain is given, sense is expected .. The past should be the past!!!

“The earth stood still”

This same earth we are standing on?

E Go shock them again.

She should tell her current husband everything if she loves and want that relationship to work..

Except she wants to keep deceiving herself cos one day it's all gonna get out..and he might not react nicely..

Continue......
God will help u and your friend.....
[/b]hope u know that being in the same compound with your ex is just like making a sugar cane your walking stick, u will have a taste when you want it.[b]

Yeye, it's never advisable to keep an ex close if you don't trust yourself. Since the yeye law is already ringing in her head then that's the beginning of her downfall. What's this nonsense that some people can't forget about an ex? upon all the money wey Bamanga spend on my head I throwaway face last time I saw him and assumed I've never met this person all my life,shame catch am and he quickly withdrew back his familiarity advances, and yes I'm very cold towards any form of ex.Yeye and nonsense okafor's law

WTF is this?
Let your friend (YOU) quickly come up with a story and ensure she and hubby relocate out of that compound ASAP! If not, I only give her 6 months and that her EX would reclaim his territory and continue knacking her farm. Do you know what it means to open up a female viijay? to be the first to commission that pinkish-red hole?
You said Okafor law is a myth, I laugh. I have seen this law play itself out almost every time. Whenever the variables are initialized, this law must occur with a 98.56% accuracy.

I no they put mouth for dis kind matter.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She should tell her current husband everything if she loves and want that relationship to work..

Except she wants to keep deceiving herself cos one day it's all gonna get out..and he might not react nicely..

Nairand and and smileys got issues lol...

You are on point sis

SQLmastar:
WTF is this?
Let your friend (YOU) quickly come up with a story and ensure she and hubby relocate out of that compound ASAP! If not, I only give her 6 months and that her EX would reclaim his territory and continue knacking her farm. Do you know what it means to open up a female viijay? to be the first to commission that pinkish-red hole?
You said Okafor law is a myth, I laugh. I have seen this law play itself out almost every time. Whenever the variables are initialized, this law must occur with a 98.56% accuracy.

For how long will she keep relocating

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Candidlady:






For how long will she keep relocating

As long as she is not in direct physical contact with her exes.
There is a magnetic flux whenever a pussylock is close to its key

SQLmastar:

As long as she is not in direct physical contact with her exes.
There is a magnetic flux whenever a pussylock is close to its key

Imagine


Have a lovely day Mr

AquaPetals:
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This is a real matter just occuring now. It happened to my friend.
She had a boyfriend way back in university, about 12years ago now. They lost contact when they got separated as he traveled for his masters. So their chapter closed. She is now married with two kids while he on the other hand, just recently got engaged. They have not spoken to each other for years now, apart from the occasional "hello" and "hi" on Facebook. He is also aware of her marital status and kids based on her Facebook pictures.
Now; the dude just became her nextdoor neighbor!
According to her, there was an empty flat in her compound which just got occupied and when the new occupants came around to greet, lo and behold it her ex with his fiancée! For a moment, the earth stood still! What are the odds? He called her name and she too, as they greeted. He told his fiancée that she was an old friend from the university.
Her husband traveled for a business trip and won't be back till next week.

Should she tell her husband that this was the guy who deflowered her?
Should she tell her husband that she actually got pregnant in university and aborted it, for this same guy?
She told me that immediately he and his fiancée left her apartment, all the sweet memories she had of him began to replay themselves.
She is now worried about Okafor law but I told her that it was a myth as no such thing can happen. And that she should only tell her hubby that the guy was just an old friend, period!

She better Zip her mouth b4 she go, go cast herself and marriage.

It's very simple. She should tell her husband he is an old friend and they dated briefly. That is all he needs to know. The husband needs to know they dated briefly because a mutual friend could come around who could spill the beans or give the husband a hint. The world is very small. But no need for further details.

The wife should ensure she avoids him. No reason for any kind of friendship. They should just be neighbours and thats it. No visits. They fact that she is already having memories is a problem on its own so she needs to be extra careful.

No matter what

She will soon fûck that guy

He deflowered her.

I pity the husband and the fiancé of the man.

Chai!!!
People wey no ex get peace of mind
Na relocation o, flashbacks can mess them up.

Lashing continues..

Ok, some memories hardly die and can't easily be buried just like that . It doesn't mean she'd off her pant for her ex but the probability of her getting emotionally attached to him will be high . I can't but just imagine if the said ex happens to be a very sharp striker . I mean a striker who can convert every given chance into a goal . Mennnnnnnn,las las,na just matter of time op,your friend go soon dey bend down dey collect for that compound

“The planet came still”This same planet we not stay on?

Damnnn!!!

Carchoice:
“The earth stood still”

This same earth we are standing on?

The OP no get sense, abi the lady na repentant olosho

Sometimes i feel like floging dis silly women... How will she just start having one useless memories that could not lead to marriage back then in school and how she has committed series of abortion that can claim her life..... Let her open up to her hubby and stay very far from the so called Ex. Period. Mtchewwww

In a relationship, never trust people who still communicate with their ex!!! There's a very high probability that they will most definitely go back to him or her when the opportunity knocks.

My ex, your ex, her ex, his ex! Exes everywhere!!! The alphabet that follows X is ..Y! So why exes everywhere
A time shall come when the exes become squared x²!! Then coefficients begin to be added my 3x²!! Then we'll be left with quadratic and simultaneous equations....all because of relationship!! Hmmmm...God help us

What is courtship meant for? If not for you to talk about things you've both done in the past, likes and dislikes.

Paradventure if she'd share this with the husband before now it ll be very easy to just say babe that ex I told you about.


She ll be the first person to initiate convo now that memories is involved bayi...

Just tell to mind her business and treat him like a stranger because e get why.

Carchoice:
“The earth stood still”

This same earth we are standing on?

You dey mind am
Earth wey dey roll 247

Carchoice:
“The earth stood still”

This same earth we are standing on?

Funny comments like this one is the reason I am on Nairaland

Please, people should dead this "Okafor's law" phenomenon.

It's not always true.

Omo I no go fit advise on this one oo




Aunty abeg hold yourself make u no go spoil your marriage ooo.....tell your husband

Try to tell him it's all in the past

Well I really don't care about this thread, but why is it that some people will say the well deactivate but will still be here? Are they addicted?