Its better he opens up to the husband to avoid stories that touches the heart or they can relocate, if she can't behave herself

When someone knows what would/might happen before taking an action, that kind of person doesn't need an advice.

dawnomike:
To whom brain is given, sense is expected .. The past should be the past!!!

Leave them, let them be asking stupid questions. Awon ashewo oshi.

It's all in the past, except ur so called friend is having flashback of the time they spent together and ur friend is a suspect of being a future sex mate to her ex bcoz according to her the earth stood, but I will advise her apply avoidance avoidance defense mechanism bcoz if not, it will end in premium tears.

She should behave as if nothing ever happened between them, only greetings and that's all, only if she wants her marriage to keep going on, it happen to me too, in fact, the way I'm behaving with the woman surprise her, thre was a time she was angry that I didn't even show that we knew each other before, because she wanted affair to spark where it ended, yet I didn't give her face, ever since thre is peace in the compound.

AquaPetals:
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This is a real matter just occuring now. It happened to my friend.
She had a boyfriend way back in university, about 12years ago now. They lost contact when they got separated as he traveled for his masters. So their chapter closed. She is now married with two kids while he on the other hand, just recently got engaged. They have not spoken to each other for years now, apart from the occasional "hello" and "hi" on Facebook. He is also aware of her marital status and kids based on her Facebook pictures.
Now; the dude just became her nextdoor neighbor!
According to her, there was an empty flat in her compound which just got occupied and when the new occupants came around to greet, lo and behold it her ex with his fiancée! For a moment, the earth stood still! What are the odds? He called her name and she too, as they greeted. He told his fiancée that she was an old friend from the university.
Her husband traveled for a business trip and won't be back till next week.

Should she tell her husband that this was the guy who deflowered her?
Should she tell her husband that she actually got pregnant in university and aborted it, for this same guy?
She told me that immediately he and his fiancée left her apartment, all the sweet memories she had of him began to replay themselves.
She is now worried about Okafor law but I told her that it was a myth as no such thing can happen. And that she should only tell her hubby that the guy was just an old friend, period!

This one says Okafor's law is a myth! Ok o, kwantinue!

No matter the memories I had with any lady in the past , as long as we separated along the line
I can never di.ck that hole never again
It's left to your friend to zip up his shokoto and treat her like a normal neighbour bc LIFE GOES ON

Lights up my kpoli in peace

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She should tell her current husband everything if she loves and want that relationship to work..

Except she wants to keep deceiving herself cos one day it's all gonna get out..and he might not react nicely..

Apt!

MufasaLion:


Apt!

Thanks..

Seun must chop. Front page.

SoapQueen:
Please, people should dead this "Okafor's law" phenomenon.

It's not always true.

except if you have never loved him

walkingshadow911:


except if you have never loved him

Big False. I've seen my exes and one time I'm like "wtf was I thinking?"

This is a complicated but simple issue. Whatever happened between them is now in the past as she is married with kids and the guy in question is engaged to be married. She should forget whatever happened between them and focus on her family. On no account should she let her husband know that the guy disvirgined her and that she did an abortion for him while in school as it will shatter her home. Whatever fun memories she is remembering should be forgotten as it will lead her to make a nasty mistake which she will regret. Their relationship is over and should not be revived, since the guy introduced her as a friend while in school, she should see him as same.

SoapQueen:


Big False. I've seen my exes and one time I'm like "wtf was I thinking?"

we r saying d same thing. it's because u have never love em. u just infatuated

walkingshadow911:


we r saying d same thing. it's because u have never love em. u just infatuated

Oga. Come out clean and say that YOU engage with your exes.

Not everyone does that poo.

There's always an exception to every rule.

Remember that.

Iyaebe:
Yeye, it's never advisable to keep an ex close if you don't trust yourself. Since the yeye law is already ringing in her head then that's the beginning of her downfall. What's this nonsense that some people can't forget about an ex? upon all the money wey Bamanga spend on my head I throwaway face last time I saw him and assumed I've never met this person all my life,shame catch am and he quickly withdrew back his familiarity advances, and yes I'm very cold towards any form of ex.Yeye and nonsense okafor's law

Abeg go and sit down.

If I were your ex and I decide I will fúck you again, nothing will stop me.

It will only cost me time and money

Womanizer:



Abeg go and sit down.

If I were your ex and I decide I will fúck you again, nothing will stop me.

It will only cost me time and money

I don't do premarital sex,I've chopped guys money very well that if I tell you some things guys have done ehn,you no go believe. I made a vow which must be kept. No man will ever have access to my body aside the man I will marry.Hopefully I want my dad to choose a husband for me because I will love any man my dad loves.lol

Iyaebe:
I don't do premarital sex,I've chopped guys money very well that if I tell you some things guys have done ehn,you no go believe. I made a vow which must be kept. No man will ever have access to my body aside the man I will marry.Hopefully I want my dad to choose a husband for me because I will love any man my dad loves.lol

“...No man will ever have access to my body aside the man I will marry...”
I can’t stop laughing � �����
This reminded of the defunct NTA Thursday evening by 8-9 program ... though I didn’t get to view it, but my elder cousins told me about it with smiles .

Dmacqh:

“...No man will ever have access to my body aside the man I will marry...”
I can’t stop laughing � �����
This reminded of the defunct NTA Thursday evening by 8-9 program ... though I didn’t get to view it, but my elder cousins told me about it with smiles .

For this one mind,I be ashawo. e go shock you to the bone marrow.

AquaPetals:
.
This is a real matter just occuring now. It happened to my friend.
She had a boyfriend way back in university, about 12years ago now. They lost contact when they got separated as he traveled for his masters. So their chapter closed. She is now married with two kids while he on the other hand, just recently got engaged. They have not spoken to each other for years now, apart from the occasional "hello" and "hi" on Facebook. He is also aware of her marital status and kids based on her Facebook pictures.
Now; the dude just became her nextdoor neighbor!
According to her, there was an empty flat in her compound which just got occupied and when the new occupants came around to greet, lo and behold it her ex with his fiancée! For a moment, the earth stood still! What are the odds? He called her name and she too, as they greeted. He told his fiancée that she was an old friend from the university.
Her husband traveled for a business trip and won't be back till next week.

Should she tell her husband that this was the guy who deflowered her?
Should she tell her husband that she actually got pregnant in university and aborted it, for this same guy?
She told me that immediately he and his fiancée left her apartment, all the sweet memories she had of him began to replay themselves.
She is now worried about Okafor law but I told her that it was a myth as no such thing can happen. And that she should only tell her hubby that the guy was just an old friend, period!

Just tell us you're the one from there we can advice you.