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My Husband Flogs Me by sazzyyarns: 8:31pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other. He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!! He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too. 44 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by SmileDance(f): 8:33pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
sazzyyarns:so what do you want us to do? We should come and flog him for you? Congratulations, just know when your kids grow up they will also flog their wives since you allow yourself to be flogged. 386 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nonexisting: 8:35pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
What kind of alterations? What do you normally do to warrant such. Don't come here with half baked information. ![]() 182 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
He flogs you with cane? Is he a classroom teacher? 302 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by dacblogger: 8:38pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Quick question... Is he from Abia state? Meanwhile, do you have brothers? If you do, let them gather and give him joint beating that will reset his head. ![]() 176 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by brosom(m): 8:39pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Marriage dey oo ![]() ![]() 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 8:41pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Lols 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by MCKitchen(f): 8:42pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
As I know no body is above discipline, but adult taking up weapon and batter the other is not a good thing. I think you need to call a family meeting first. Can't you give an advice and leave quoting rubbish. Misbehave for public na beta koboko you go recieve. Since u r above discipline. Datboredberry: If your mama and papa na African shame on you. Slavery my foot. Also Call the westerners to come and feed you. Datboredberry: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Nonexisting:Don't be stupid and partial... What could a grown human being to to warrant such? ![]() You're trying to justify the man's actions... Ask yourself, if it were his boss who had offended him... Would he react like this? ![]() Most of you men are cowards who can't challenge a fellow man but you prefer to act like rabid dogs when there's an altercation with a woman... 253 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Hanibbal(m): 8:42pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
May be you deserve flogging ![]() ![]() 39 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by SmileDance(f): 8:43pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
dacblogger:the husband might divorce her, op enjoy your flogging it's just belt na, no be say na cutlass he dey take beat you. Mumu woman 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
MCKitchen:There's a difference between discipline and assault... ![]() So your statement before the comma makes no sense. 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by SmileDance(f): 8:44pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Datboredberry:relax ma'am I'm sure he's just being sarcastic, a grown human being too is allowing herself to be flogged and can't do anything about it? Is she a slowpoke? I don't blame the man honestly, the OP is just a mumu 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by SmileDance(f): 8:46pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
SmellySperm:the OP is a primary school pupil lol 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 8:49pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
SmileDance:what message are you trying to pass to her, she should packed out from her husband house ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
MCKitchen:When you live in as third world country, this is the result- believing that misdemeanours should be corrected with 'beta koboko'... Africans and their backwardness... After slavery, there's nothing we love more than we good whipping... ![]() 26 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
YinkaOlusesi:Did your father treat your mother this way for you to think that the Op leaving is a wrong, impulsive decision? ![]() I'm not trying to be rude, but perhaps you had a rough childhood for you to reason this way... Except your being sarcastic 68 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
SmileDance:Maybe... But that's a usually argument... The Op is plain stupid... So are the men who would defend the abusive husband... 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by SmileDance(f): 8:54pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
YinkaOlusesi:she should enjoy the flogging so when he flogs her to death we will know she died as a married woman. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by fortuneerondu(m): 8:55pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
This is sad. You married wrong but all hope isn't lost. You either start praying or walking away because that's death you're seeing from afar. Pray to God to help him or walk away. Plus the real damage is not even your skin but your children witnessing all these things, they're being messed up mentally for life. Do you know what a mother is to children? And to see her constantly, helplessly being violated and oppressed not just mentally or emotionally but also physically is a mental scar that takes a long time and conscious efforts to heal. If you don't walk away for yourself do it for your children. Start plotting your emancipation from that marriage. It is a newspaper disaster waiting to happen. 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by fortuneerondu(m): 8:56pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Datboredberry: This has nothing to do with Africa or Africans. Use Google, it happens in many countries outside Africa, more frequently also. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Boogyman557: 8:57pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Holly Gram ![]() I go ADVISE u to buy KALA kip 4 ur house.. Dog d KALA were ur HUSBAND no go SEEM... anytime wey Em ZUZU or MUMU 4 ur side.. No talk anything ooo just JAZZ in wer U DOG d KALA CARRY d KALA go meet AM... No BLAST am ooo I REPEAT No BLAST am oooo just POINT am d KALA 4 BLOKOS... U go SEE how HEAT go begin COMORT from EM BODY and em go START to de beg u... at dat point na u be house MANAGER... tell am waiting u want and em go do am... try it and Na go THANK me later.. LITE UP my WEED in peace WTF MAN 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by fortuneerondu(m): 8:58pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
YinkaOlusesi: And if she leaves and keeps her life, wouldn't that be better not just for her but also for her children? Or are you an enabler or sympathizer of domestic violence? 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Datboredberry:but why is it that u women of nowadays always think divorce is the best option in any little misunderstanding in any marriages ![]() |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
fortuneerondu:am not enabler of domestic violence, but divorce is not the best option. |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by SmileDance(f): 9:03pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
On a more serious note op, I ll give you this advice and it's up to you to take it. Wake your husband in the middle of the night and tell him that if he ever tries to flog you again he will sleep and not wake up the next day. Tell him you won't kill him, but accidents happen. Nobody should quote me o or else I will flog you. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 9:03pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
fortuneerondu:I don't expect people who were once enslaved to chain themselves after they've gained their freedom... Africans are the worse... We hate ourselves and treat our fellow Africans like subhumans... But if it's a white person... I wonder if they would be flogged also for misbehaving in our countries... ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by SmileDance(f): 9:04pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
YinkaOlusesi:in a case of domestic violence divorce is the best option. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
YinkaOlusesi:The man beats her and her children and to you that's a little misunderstanding? ![]() He never apologies... What's your solution smart man? ![]() 41 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by SmileDance(f): 9:05pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
YinkaOlusesi:flogging is not a little misunderstanding. Would you say the same if it was the woman flogging the man? 37 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Husband Flogs Me by fortuneerondu(m): 9:07pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
YinkaOlusesi: You call this a little misunderstanding? Wow. Now I really see what women mean when they protest against these things. There are certain lines you don't cross and one of them is physical harm. Once physical harm becomes the issue, you're safer and better off loving from afar, so pack your bags and leave. You haven't divorced him, you're giving him time to figure out his shit and if he decides to change then you come back and if he does it again then leave for good but most times perpetrators of physical violence never give their victims a chance to leave for good. The next time they beat you may be your last time on earth because they'll beat you to death knowing fully well that you might leave again Some men can be cowards sha... 44 Likes 1 Share |
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