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Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by ksam(m): 3:15pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Marry from that family at your own detriment. Because na after the wedding you go see tasking, your life will be full of frustration 6 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by ogwuche4u(m): 3:15pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon: Must you marry her? What sort of nonsense is that? You better get strong head o or you go buy wine and put money for envelope for all the people in her village. I hate it when they exploit men all In the name of marriage 9 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Bounceboune7: 3:15pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Nothing like marriage from that side of Nigeria, it's basically buying human n extortion 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by doctor306(m): 3:15pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U:you wey get bad character ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 3:16pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Ninu rogbodiyan yi, u still Dey marry Igbo girl.. comrade u bam o. 6 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by elmodee7(m): 3:16pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
If you love your wife to be you can go ahead with it all you need to do is negotiate. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Jackxcollection(m): 3:16pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon:That's why they get old without getting married. 6 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 3:17pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
doctor306:Lolzz, my character no bad pass jarey. Chewing gum males can't handle it aii |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 3:18pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
ogwuche4u:Money in envelope could b 50naira each. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
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Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Highman56: 3:19pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U:are you advertising yourself? 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by skywalker240(m): 3:21pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
If I show you my own when I do last December enh You go know say your own de learn 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Wakando: 3:22pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon:Na maga you be na, anything that is not in the list no concern you 6 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by ogwuche4u(m): 3:22pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U: You want them to make the woman barren? Even the 50naira is extortion. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Phock2sweet: 3:23pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U:I don apply 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by yusluvad(m): 3:23pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
All the best bro... |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by RealisticGirl(f): 3:24pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Op for the wrapper thing I did it when I was about getting married, you have to buy wrapper for your wife's paternal and maternal aunt, I gave my uncle's wives as well it is part of the marriage in some part of igbo culture. Don't make it to be high quality wrapper, go for the lower quality. As for the money in the envelope, our people use to do it but I forgot to do it in my own case. My mom told me that it's not something much like #100 or 200 in each envelope, it's part of the marriage rite and not something you should be worried about. 4 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by NoQualmz: 3:24pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Vondata: honestly,very hungry family with heavy drops of poverty and illiteracy. And Op u should have mentioned the state so tgat people who are from there and are grounded can help u out. This is 2022 u pple should stop giving half information. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by kponkedenge(m): 3:24pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U: Where are you based? |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Ashirioluwa: 3:24pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Boy nothing is normal in Nigeria………Nigeria as a country is not normal |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Onyi90(m): 3:25pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
As an Igbo man this culture is alien/strange to me 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by sammirano: 3:25pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
IGBOS. SELLERS OF CHILD 4 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by ahamonyeka(m): 3:25pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
If thats imo state especially mbano or isiala mbano thats how they do. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by 07kjb: 3:27pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Everything u listed here is negotiateable that's the beauty of it go to your in-laws with your Kings men and price your self out...is fun my brother 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by NOBILITY22(f): 3:28pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
[/b]From my side, it is called "Iluru nwanyi" meaning in a lay man's understanding "your wife will take you to all her extended family (Aunties and Uncles) especially the ones that are married and show them whom she has agreed to marry...and you can't go empty handed that's where the drinks and money come to play.[b] Now, it is not compulsory but it is necessary. You will have to make out time with your wife and visit them even if they are living in another state from yours... My Dad (blessed memory) made my elder sisters to do it with their husbands... They only go to their houses with wine(Eva) and #1000 envelope. I found out that most of my cousins didn't do it and we only get to see their husbands in their traditional marriage day. During my own time, my husband refused that he wasn't going to do it and my Dad forced him but he boldly refused. And we ended up not doing it... And nobody died. My marriage is still kicking fine to the Glory of God. So you see, everything boils down to you... If you wish to do it... Go ahead If not, don't force it.... 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon:Do WHATEVER THEY TOLD YOU TO DO DON'T COMPLAIN NO BE YOU SAY YOU WAN MARRY? ABI NA DEM FORCE YOU?. OGA FOLLOW INSTRUCTIONS |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 3:28pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Highman56:Yes ooooooo, need more kids and a man of my own ooo. Not too much to ask ryt |
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Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 3:28pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blacckkk:too good to be true 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 3:29pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Phock2sweet:Bros this ur moniker eh |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by oilmane(m): 3:29pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon: Did they tell you the amount you should put in the envelope? If no then give each of them 1k then get them cheap wine, but your wife to be should be able to sort out this issue with her family, you guys will need money to live comfortably after your marriage so they shouldn't push you into debt just cause you intend getting married to their daughter. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by angelfallz(m): 3:29pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Instead of you to consult and know the traditions of the place your potential wife is coming from, so that nobody would be able to con you, you are here asking silly questions. mtcheww 2 Likes |
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