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Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by ellizy(m): 3:29pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
I give accolades to men who thinks of going through marriage before having a wife… |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by NoQualmz: 3:30pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
sammirano: Op this is the more reason u need to state the area...pls be specific because this fool i am quoting has already concluded and generalised |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 3:30pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
skywalker240:Congratulations oo, na Man you be. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Heterodox(m): 3:30pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon:She looks a weakling. Never marry someone who don't have a mind of their own. 4 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Oovi5(f): 3:30pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U:Very nice "advert"
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Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by ChybuzzDD(m): 3:31pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Qwerty4u: This is not true. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 3:31pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Oovi5:Sis advertise yours aswell as time no dey. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Phock2sweet: 3:31pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U:I sabi d thing and I go do you well well. I wan settle down with you 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Bounceboune7: 3:32pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Ihatebuhariwith:don't mind him, instead of marrying from a less greedy place n use d remaining money to buy land. After 5 years he will thank God than marrying from a greedy place where everyone will write all their problems n expect a potential suitor to pay for it. What if they are all male in d family with no women,won't d brothers n sisters wear clothes? Won't they live their life's? It's annoying reading it,they don't even care if the newly married will have something to fall on after marriage, their own is to cut his head now 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Munzy14(m): 3:32pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon:As a son of the soil, this marriage list things are negotiable..To be honest, the only important thing is her bride price which are usually cheap sef. Then, things you buy for her mom, dad and siblings...Those her uncle things na gra gra...Some people exploit thier brother's kids suitors in this type of situation. Every other things is a test for you to scale through...It will be a mirror to know the caiibre of man who is coming to marry there daughter. One secret, dont agree to any thing they present...Bargain, negotiate...If e reach to do small gra gra, please do...In the end they will know this in-law no be mumu...You will as well earn your respect.. But, have this in mind, no amount placed your woman's head is too big for her worth for the fact you really really love her...go and negotiate... If they say 5k pay half... ![]() Them no dey marry woman finish.. Most average homes won't allow you spend much, so if you treat their daughter bad, they can come back to take her... All this require wisdom to navigate. If na poor house with entitlement mentally you go marry, may God see you through sha... ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Oovi5(f): 3:33pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U:Naso |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by awa(m): 3:33pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon: Bros if you are not ready for marriage better continue living your Bachelor life. If you want to marry the lady, why not go ahead and marry her instead of coming online to talk about these childish talk. It doesn't show you are matured. It's childish please. You are asking us without mentioning the community so that people from the exact Community will advise. Sometimes you guys online to write whatever you want to write to trend.... Na 2022 we dey. Stop am 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by GeneralOjukwu: 3:34pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Kai. ... sorry for these Igbo guys. After Afonja boys don pump her severally full of cum... Na you go dey get 25 page wedding list. Chineke! 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Qatar2022: 3:35pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
donbachi:Please take this advice |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 3:36pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Bounceboune7:aswear, the most annoying part is they compulsory it.. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by 07kjb: 3:36pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Heterodox:Trash |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by shortIGBOman: 3:36pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon: You choose to marry Igbo lady, what do you expect? Endure and allow them drain your pocket as usual. But Igbo Girls dey fine sha ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Akinzola: 3:36pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
No wonder you are Autochick AutoChick4U: |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by NOBILITY22(f): 3:36pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Heterodox: I guess he is getting married to either to the only girl of the house or the last baby of the house. I am the last baby of the house... I remembered during my own time, I had little or no say during my marriage rite preparation. If I wanted to talk or complain, they will shut me down... That it seems like I want to appear cheap in front of my husband to be. Guess what I did.... I have to back everything up in prayers together with my husband... We didn't spend up to half a million in doing everything in the list and also our traditional marriage was also on a low key... 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by HRMK: 3:36pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
U MEAN UR NOT AN IGBOMAN?ANYWAY,IF UR LADY LOVES YOU AS YOU LOVE HER,NOTHING STOPS HER FROM PLEADING FOR U OR ASSITING IN SETTLING THE BILLS!MOST OF THESE INLAWS ARE OPPORTUNISTS!PLS DONT EXCEED UR MEANS!! |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Maxxim: 3:37pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Hope she's still a virgin |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Temptee101(m): 3:37pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Which part of Igbo is that? This is strange, I am Igbo and I have never heard of such tradition. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by awa(m): 3:38pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Munzy14: He is a child that wants to get married. Make him no carry his Elders go marry... Na online marriage he wants. I think the Poster is not serious about the marriage but just want to ridicule his in laws to be if truly he is serious about the marriage |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 3:38pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
awa:you wrote like one of the said aunties/uncles.. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by sammirano: 3:39pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
NoQualmz: You are seriously mad. ![]() |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by awa(m): 3:39pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Temptee101: Don't mind the Joker that wants to trend 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by NoQualmz: 3:39pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
awa: Dont mind the SIMPle Op. he's scared of calling the exact state and town where this rubbish is happening...maybe he's scared the girls brothers will beat him up. He just wants some ediots to drag the entire igbo race. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by awa(m): 3:41pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Ihatebuhariwith: Bros, I am not but what he said sounds ridiculous. I am married already and I know what he said is not done anywhere in Igbo land. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Bounceboune7: 3:41pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Munzy14:just imagine, Bargain, negotiate like say na meat or tomatoes. Wonders will never end |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by NoQualmz: 3:41pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Temptee101: Op is a lying liar. Op state the name of the village if you are man enough...stop being too SIMPle |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by prophetfire: 3:43pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon:. You went to a hungry and greedy family who are trying to fleece you. Let me tell you something. There's no standard traditional Igbo marriage list or rites. It depends on the family you met. Even the so-called Mbaise break-neck marriage list is a ruse. It depends on the family you entered. People use tradition to cover and fleece their in-laws. It works well for them in our Igboland because of our penchant for trying to show that we are equal to the task, financially or what our Yoruba brothers would call our chest-beating. It all depends on you. Decide if you want such leeches as in-laws. It's not tradition. You just walked into a hungry, shameless, greedy family of leeches. Make your decisions and you can negotiate it downwards with them, if you stomach such rubbish from crooks claiming to be prospective in-laws. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Cabazieu: 3:43pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
They want to cash out from you, which is bad. I'm from east. That list is a big lie. You only pay for the father and mother list and also the youth which is little amount. If she is not Ada, 1st daughter. you will pay little cash with drink to the 1st son. That's how we do it at my community. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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