Read this thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/2863557/nigerian-nurses-midwives-dream-working

Cousin9999:
Read this thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/2863557/nigerian-nurses-midwives-dream-working

tank you very much sir

Please keep the comments coming

Blissbath:
Please keep the comments coming

under which visa does he want to bring you in If he bring you in with tourist visa just know say na 15 years you go work for him

He said dat I will come in as a nanny

ednut1:
under which visa does he want to bring you in If he bring you in with tourist visa just know say na 15 years you go work for him

Pls keep it coming,tank u

Please keep the comments coming...tanks

Blissbath:
Please keep the comments coming...tanks

My sister. Nothing like "Please keep the comments coming".
People have given advice which I feel most are reasonable.

Now my advice. I'm also a graduate like you and I'm preparing to enter school of nursing this year too so I'm going to be very honest with you.
1) Do u really want to go abroad to be taking care of your uncles child as a his house girl for 2 years like he said?

2) How well do u know this your Uncle? His attitude? and all?

3) I hope you know u will also be cooking and cleaning for him and u can't say No.

4) Since he is a doctor and has his own hospital, can't he employ a Nanny for all of this or is he not making good money as a doctor in America? Or Am I missing something here?

Even here in Nigeria, I know a lady who runs a Daycare and has a workaholic parent (husband and wife) bring their 3 Months old baby to this woman. They pays the Daycare very well for taking care of her baby and the Daycare takes good care of their child. Case Closed.

My question, don't they have Daycare over there?

5) Are ur family members pressurising you to take his offer?

6) Why did he just suddenly remember u out of the blues when u just got admission to pursue your Nursing career?

Think about all these with PRAYERS and make your decision.

I rest my case.

Tank u

ModelLook:


My sister. Nothing like "Please keep the comments coming".
People have given advice which I feel most are reasonable.

Now my advice. I'm also a graduate like you and I'm preparing to enter school of nursing this year too so I'm going to be very honest with you.t
1) Do u really want to go abroad to be taking care of your uncles child as a his house girl for 2 years like he said?

2) How well do u know this your Uncle? His attitude? and all?

3) I hope you know u will also be cooking and cleaning for him and u can't say No.

4) Since he is a doctor and has his own hospital, can't he employ a Nanny for all of this or is he not making good money as a doctor in America? Or Am I missing something here?

Even here in Nigeria, I know a lady who runs a Daycare and has a workaholic parent (husband and wife) bring their 3 Months old baby to this woman. They pays the Daycare very well for taking care of her baby and the Daycare takes good care of their child. Case Closed.

My question, don't they have Daycare over there?

5) Are ur family members pressurising you to take his offer?

6) Why did he just suddenly remember u out of the blues when u just got admission to pursue your Nursing career?

Think about all these with PRAYERS and make your decision.

I rest my case.

Madam go your Nursing school.
But if you get coconut head like me take your uncle offer

Adapapaokoye:
Madam go your Nursing school.
But if you get coconut head like me take your uncle offer ( After one year if you get there and it's not what he promise, please move on and don't let your family back home blackmail you into staying ,
Make friends with Nigerian community,)but be prepared because once you rebel, everywhere go red but if you have a strong heart and resilient, you might get lucky and things will fall in place.
I WAS LUCKY BUT IT WAS NOT EASY MAKE I NO LIE
..

QUICK SUMMARY OF MY OWN JOURNEY
I was on my own, out of the blues my aunt asked me to come to UK to do my Masters that she will contribute partly to my education fund.
Meanwhile I got a job in the bank immediately after my NYSC.
I listened to my aunt, my Dad did his part.

I got to the UK and was attending lecture and also looking after her kids when not in school ( mind you she no do her part as agreed and she restricted my access to fund and kept lying to my Dad back home that I was properly taking care etc

Long story short, I dropped out after first semester because I was left in the cold
I gave myself brain .
Luckily for me things fell in place.
I am married with a child and on the right status now.

Ps; I have only met my aunt once when I was little before migrating to Abroad. So I will be justified to say I don't know her well just like you don't know this Uncle of yours

glad it turned out well. But which time nanny wan get to mingle with Nigerian community. The place the doctor go dey live na white people hood.

Tank you

Adapapaokoye:
Madam go your Nursing school.
But if you get coconut head like me take your uncle offer ( After one year if you get there and it's not what he promise, please move on and don't let your family back home blackmail you into staying ,
Make friends with Nigerian community,)but be prepared because once you rebel, everywhere go red but if you have a strong heart and resilient, you might get lucky and things will fall in place.
I WAS LUCKY BUT IT WAS NOT EASY MAKE I NO LIE
..

QUICK SUMMARY OF MY OWN JOURNEY
I was on my own, out of the blues my aunt asked me to come to UK to do my Masters that she will contribute partly to my education fund.
Meanwhile I got a job in the bank immediately after my NYSC.
I listened to my aunt, my Dad did his part.

I got to the UK and was attending lecture and also looking after her kids when not in school ( mind you she no do her part as agreed and she restricted my access to fund and kept lying to my Dad back home that I was properly taking care etc

Long story short, I dropped out after first semester because I was left in the cold
I gave myself brain .
Luckily for me things fell in place.
I am married with a child and on the right status now.

Ps; I have only met my aunt once when I was little before migrating to Abroad. So I will be justified to say I don't know her well just like you don't know this Uncle of yours

ednut1:
glad it turned out well. But which time nanny wan get to mingle with Nigerian community. The place the doctor go dey live na white people hood.

You right.
Hopefully whatever decision she takes, things will fall in place for her

It makes you wonder how many women get scammed like this. How many "uncles" and "aunts" are basically engaging in tr4ffícking.

Tank u all

Anything outside the Zoo is the best choice

Lavisha:
Hey,

Your bro is a LIAR.
You may end up as a nanny forever.


Go to Nursing School, nurses are making it big time Nowadays.

not all uncles are like your uncle.

Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
Mod pls help move it to front page .Thanks all

If you no want, make me and you shook legs for one sokoto, better enter road go airport and fly away to US oooo

My dear you better accept the offer of US

Lavisha:
Hey,

Your bro is a LIAR.
You may end up as a nanny forever.


Go to Nursing School, nurses are making it big time Nowadays.

It's a big fat lie.. nurses are hungry like a bricklayer

Tell him he'll pay for your nursing school abroad or help cosign a student loan for you for an accelerated nursing BSC (B Nursing) since you already have a first degree

If you ask this question again.... I go know say ur village people dey work 24 7.....tell him you go run am 3 years.... But try signing a contract... Also know the going rate for Nani work by hours and calculate for two years...
$10 as u no dey pay tax..under the table
$10 X 12 hours a day =120
$120 X 30 days = $ 3,600
$3600 X 24 months = $86, 400

Try define the work of Nani only....
For people talking above, the uncle wants the child to speak African language na why he no go for Yankee nani
Study nursing in two years, and start earning in usd...
Come to Nigeria buy 1 husbands
Live happily ever after

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Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
Mod pls help move it to front page .Thanks all

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Sorry ma don't be offended but you sound very poorly educated maybe from a low quality school. Because you are so quick to accept and thank these village people or witches in disguise for this stupid advise below. Please even if you were cursed to never succeed in life learn to be objective and reject such a fate. Follow your uncle!!
See village people and witches in disguise as advisers

Cousin9999:
This uncle doesn't sound reliable.

If you get nursing training in Nigeria, you can get nursing work almost anywhere, including the US.

Lavisha:
Hey,

Your bro is a LIAR.
You may end up as a nanny forever.


Go to Nursing School, nurses are making it big time Nowadays.

Blissbath:
Seriously dat is my fear...i dnt wat to go now n story will change.My main plan was to enter UK after nursing school.

The UK is definitely short of nurses. Loads of vacancies in the NHS.

Blissbath:
Seriously dat is my fear...i dnt wat to go now n story will change.My main plan was to enter UK after nursing school.

Now that u have made ya decision... Abeg tell ur uncle say person dey when go do d nanny work for free.. make he just sponsor me to d US.. I'll not only take care of his child, I'll take care of d full area/town..

nah usa so make e sign agreement but u can still b doing night studies

shawante:
If you like no run go do passport.. Dey dia dey talk

Why are u planning to destroy her life with this evil advice?

Your uncle has a lot at stake being a medical doctor. I doubt if he’ll misbehave. He’s also taking a risk by inviting you. USA is not Nigeria.

Boat of them are good, but stay with us Nigeria and let’s suffer together

What I'm hearing is uncle is looking for cheap in-house nanny that won't get paid anything. All he needs to is put up a ticket, and give you a room. Then mumu you will come and spend 10 years being nanny, no independence, no income, and no chance to meet anyone else. Please stay in your nursing school, and apply on your own to anywhere in the world.


This nanny happened to get restitution from the courts, but I can imagine hundreds who suffered in silence for years.
https://www.nairaland.com/4273063/nigerian-nanny-gets-121000-pay
https://www.mcall.com/news/local/easton/mc-palmer-couple-nigerian-nanny-20161115-story.html

Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
Mod pls help move it to front page .Thanks all

How old is the child? Just be careful 2 years can turn to 5 years or forever

You are 25 years , this is the time you are leaving the peak of potential male interests .

Do your nursing jejely in Nigeria.Family reunion abroad is horrible

You know your uncle more than we do. With the present country situation, i will advise you move and further your nursing school there, with better opportunities compare to Nigeria.