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Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by frakdon(m): 4:12pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U: i |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by mrmaze(m): 4:12pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
doctor306:Funny dude |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by dettolgel: 4:12pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon: Why u dey mumu yourself like this? Prego the chick once the family find out take her straight to court and wed her. Then grandstand they will be the one to cut the list and pled with you to do what you can afford before the pregnancy becomes public. Bros it is time young men smart up and stop allowing archaic traditions destroy your life before it even starts. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by dettolgel: 4:13pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U: You said your uncles and not your dad? ![]() |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by advanceDNA: 4:13pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Ekeeyhandsome: This is the first time you are hearing an Igbo family is exploiting the man that wants to marry their daughter?? Na so!! My brother married an Igbo woman ... After collecting 1million naira bride price, and all the usual yam, oil, holandis and the so on.. they told my brother to paint their house, buy new sowing machine for the tailor mum, give the brothers and sisters money in envelop. That ddnt even pain us.. what was irritating was they came to their own daughters wedding like an invited outsider.... They didn't cook anything or arrange drinks for their guest, yet they nearly invited the whole village, including Catholic Church members in that area...see crowd like judgement day.... They asked for everything, I mean everything... .from water to coke, to toothpick, and serviette paper ...and still add the effrontery to complain that my mum could not transfer cooler of food to them to serve themselves On the traditional wedding day, one guy came to stop the wedding saying he took care of the girl when the father was sick and incapacitated ... that he will collect a whole goat before the ceremony will continue...we begged him to collect the cash equivalent and he demanded for 18k.... I have never seen anything like that before.. it was horrible.. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:14pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon:... Lies. Which state and town ? |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by ndeekay(m): 4:14pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
You have entered into a family of hungry golddiggers. I will advise you to forget the girl and look for someone from a more noble family. You got yourself entangled with a family of hungry peasants. Forget the girl and look for someone else! Blixon: 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 4:19pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
dettolgel:He wasn't lucky enough to make it before balling out. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by DeRay98(m): 4:20pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Deicide:Traditional is only own authentic marriage ceremony just that some greedy cultures or families are abusing it to exploit grooms. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 4:21pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
frakdon:Im serious but me don't have money sha but my uncles get so e go reach us somehow. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 4:22pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
do4luv14:Even if ugly, shey less attractive people don't deserve spouses? 9ja |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
ibechris:No be for where Imo babes dey ooo...dem go finish you kpatakpata |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 4:22pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
providencia:Shey u wan put millions for envelop ni? |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 4:23pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Highman56:Thought we in d era of blind dates |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 4:25pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
skywalker240:I understand but you sef go carry princess. So does that make you a prince? ![]() |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Heterodox(m): 4:27pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
NOBILITY22:You were lucky to have a way out. Grown ups needs to start acting like grown-ups. There are things my parents can't speak to my ears because I draw that line. People need to start having a mind of their own. Can't be controlled by your parents. Or families. Personally, I don't give a rat about traditions and customs. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 4:27pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Privatepart00:But none knew what I was going through. Simply hid myself from everyone, hope u get it. Don't worry I'm sure you've got many of my relative's brands in ur house, too bad I'm from d poor side. Its well o |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 4:28pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Phock2sweet:Na that one we go chop? |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by efavour: 4:29pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon:yes, the person must be from my part of Anambra. That is exactly the requirement in my place too. It is normal in that part. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by frakdon(m): 4:29pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
[quote author=AutoChick4U post=109868152]Im serious but me don't have money sha but my uncles get so e go reach us somehow.[/quote. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by placeofallure(f): 4:35pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
I'm not from south east but my list is a bit long too. I just told my husband everything in that list, you must get them. I don't want extended family wahala. My own parents have no problem but the extended, hmmn! Moreso I don't want it in my history that I ever begged them to be lenient. It's a thing of pride for me that my husband is man enough. The only thing we removed was the dog they asked for, they said something like as 'idile ogun' they must collect dogs. My husband and I said we don't want to aid fetishness in anyway so we monetized it instead. The man in question, if he can afford it, should just give them whatever they ask for. It's just a one time event, they won't ask twice. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
awa:Op,na one of your in-laws be this. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by frakdon(m): 4:37pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U: r |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 4:37pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
frakdon:dm 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by AutoChick4U(f): 4:38pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
frakdon:Dont worry I'll call you. Hope you fine o so it can compliment my not too fine self? 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by frakdon(m): 4:39pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by frakdon(m): 4:40pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U: lol. well, you may want to check that out yourself. i dropped my number, let me know if you got it, so I can delete. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Cti28(m): 4:44pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U:lol |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Austema(m): 4:46pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blacckkk: phone number not going through |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Cti28(m): 4:54pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
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Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Afonasa(m): 4:54pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Am an Igbo person and from what I heard U can bargain around it,but its not u they will listen to,u have to go with ur kingsmen,they will quarrel but later settle Freelancing gets better with good gigs and great reviews,And if not you ain't doing it right,and that's where I come in to help u get it right even as a newbie. Check my signature for more info |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by lomprico(m): 5:00pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon: Dem wan scam you, nothing like that in igbo culture. |
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