Your uncle HV hospital n cannot afford a nanny.
I case my rest

Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
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This isn’t a topic you bring out for deliberation .. aren’t you seeing what’s going on in the country ? And you have an opportunity to go else where and you’re seeking deliberations about it ??

Na juju b that

justwise:


That is probably all your uncle wants you for, after two years the story will change, are those kids not going to need your care after 2yrs?

If you are lucky to get a visa you will be stamped in for 3-6months and if you stayed longer than that you are an illegal immigrant. Once you became an illegal immigrant your uncle has an upper hand, you will be totally under his control.

He is not sending you to any school, if he has the money to send you to school he will use it to employ a nanny for those kids

You hit the nail on the head!

Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
Mod pls help move it to front page .Thanks all

So you graduated from University and then got another admission to study nursing?? Or are you admitted to a nursing school that doesn offer Bachelor degree?

so u want to study nursing and end up being nurse Eliza here in this zoo country ?? Oga madam ...tell ur uncle u have a friend who is ready and DM me so I will gladly take the offer , if u can't accept the offer and leave here ...there is no hope in this country . If you leave and enter United state , after two years of being there , u can leave ur uncles house and start life on your own. Yanky no be Nigeria oo ...and he can't turn u to a slave there ....America is a civilised country ...a simple 911 call can put him in prison if he tries that. So my dear ...leave this country ...opportunity comes but once !

ednut1:
Go to nursing school here, go to uk or usa later. Your uncles offer is suspicious and may make you trapped for ever. They can even discard and send you back lol. Abeg oo

My brother, 3 gbosa for you. Uncle wan use the lady do slave labor. God no go make us see wetin pass us in Jesus name.

Let's put promise fulfill apart, I will rather advise you accept the offer from USA.

justwise:


That is probably all your uncle wants you for, after two years the story will change, are those kids not going to need your care after 2yrs?

If you are lucky to get a visa you will be stamped in for 3-6months and if you stayed longer than that you are an illegal immigrant. Once you became an illegal immigrant your uncle has an upper hand, you will be totally under his control.

He is not sending you to any school, if he has the money to send you to school he will use it to employ a nanny for those kids

Let's even pray and hope the Uncle will not even start sleeping with her.

Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
Mod pls help move it to front page .Thanks all

1.Forget USA for now

2.Go to nursing school

3.Practice in Nigeria, then when you get time, write the appropriate exams, and port to the US, Canada, or even UK as a nurse, and work there.

Don't go and be someone's nanny. Such stories don't end well. Let the man employ a nanny with a contract.

Blissbath:
Tank u all

Hello, please don’t listen to those telling you to jump on the USA offer. Poverty sometimes can make people make irrational decisions that they would end up regretting in the end.

Your uncle is a medical doctor who has an hospital over there, which means he should have enough money to pay for a professional nanny. Why can’t he hire one? Why is your uncle giving you a condition to help him take care of his child before he helps you? This sounds more like a trap.

You said it yourself that you have never met this uncle before.

Please, go to your Nursing school. Nursing and other health paths are in shortages in the UK, Canada and USA. When you graduate, apply for many NHS companies abroad and you will be great.

Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
Mod pls help move it to front page .Thanks all

It seems your uncle is forthright with you, telling you how he's going to do it

Some will tell outright lies from the onset that they want to help you, only to experience something else after you land.

Since you said in your other comment that you plan to relocate to UK after nursing school, I'll say you should weigh your options properly before making a move.

But I don't think your uncle has any ulterior motive. Just a gut feeling though.

Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
Mod pls help move it to front page .Thanks all

Get the nursing degree then travel to the USA.

Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
Mod pls help move it to front page .Thanks all

hmm....

An uncle in the US, he can't even sponsor you for any US visa except for an invitation letter that anyone else can get. The US visa system does not have any preference category for extended family members, I doubt if your uncle is telling you the whole truth.

But, again...both activities are mutually exclusive, you can still go ahead and pursue your Nursing degree.....because, even if your uncle put in for your visa together, it will be a very very long time before you even go for an interview...unless he is 'packaging' a visitor's visa for your and want to pay all those in-side agents the huge fees that not only will get you in front of the line, but will ensure that pre-visa interview examiners okay your documents and pass them off to the officer who will be interviewing you as 'all clear'.

The open secret on the street is, this level of sort can cost up to N1.5m to N2m.

Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
Mod pls help move it to front page .Thanks all

You better don't go. Your uncle wants free labour and will eventually use you as a love-vendor and sexual trafficking for his male friends.

Finish your Nursing school and get nursing work experience.

Then you can come to UK or USA. You can also bring your husband and kids. When you gain nursing experience after you graduate, let me know so I can tell you various opportunities.

Don't mind all those people telling you to travel. Most of them are kids with no life experience filled with poverty mentality.

titusodem:
Let's put promise fulfill apart, I will rather advise you accept the offer from USA.

Accept and when the uncle refuses to help her or even pay her, she becomes trapped? How will she survive being an illegal immigrant in the US?

Chyma231:
so u want to study nursing and end up being nurse Eliza here in this zoo country ?? Oga madam ...tell ur uncle u have a friend who is ready and DM me so I will gladly take the offer , if u can't accept the offer and leave here ...there is no hope in this country . If you leave and enter United state , after two years of being there , u can leave ur uncles house and start life on your own. Yanky no be Nigeria oo ...and he can't turn u to a slave there ....America is a civilised country ...a simple 911 call can put him in prison if he tries that. So my dear ...leave this country ...opportunity comes but once !

Like you've not heard of all these cases (and these are the few that made the news):
https://thenationonlineng.net/hard-lessons-learnt-nanny-subjected-slavery-us-nigerian-couple/amp/
https://royalnews.com.ng/nanny-slavery-uk-court-finds-the-adewakuns-guilty/
https://rollingout.com/2016/02/10/wealthy-nigerian-couple-in-texas-trick-and-enslave-woman-as-nanny/
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/couple-sentenced-for-making-nigerian-nanny-essentially-a-slave/

Just a warning to the wise... people are looking for free childcare because it's hella expensive. For the cost of visa and flight (about 2 months of full time paid nanny), you get a desperate girl nanny for 5 years living with you.

Blissbath:
Please keep the comments coming...tanks

Aunty, go for nursing. Forget all these uncles and their fake promises. They will throw you out after 15 years and accuse you of being a witch.

Nursing any day any time, twice on Tuesday

slimjohn2k5:
Your uncle HV hospital n cannot afford a nanny.
I case my rest

Lol. The uncle is very poor and wants free labour.

@OP, Blissbath. Don't mind your family members using you. I am sure your uncle will be bribing them.

Your uncle wants free labour and can't hire nanny. He will sleep with you every time as he has no connection with you. He will use you as a sexual love-vendor for his freinds.

Be in control and have your Nursing qualification. Don't depend on anyone. Squire your work experience, marry and travel overseas with your husband and children if you have one.

Your uncle is a liar.

Even if you don’t want to travel. For the sake of your unborn kids and your future generation, I will advice you to travel to USA. Your unborn kids will be forever grateful that you made that decision. Imagine say you can find husband there, job and given birth there. No dull yourself. This is a lifetime opportunity.

Most people are gullible, whenever they hear anything "abroad", they don't want to listen to any other thing anymore. There are some things you will go through over there that will make you wish you were in Nigeria. Nigeria is bad, but still, some people are enjoying. Just pray to God for direction.

candygist:
Even if you don’t want to travel. For the sake of your unborn kids and your future generation, I will advice you to travel to USA. Your unborn kids will be forever grateful that you made that decision. Imagine say you can find husband there, job and given birth there. No dull yourself. This is a lifetime opportunity.

Lol. Poverty mentality.

The uncle is very poor and doesn't have money for nanny to take care of his kids.

He will lock her up in his house and she can't go anywhere because of her visiting visa. How can she even have husband as an illegal?

Which nonsense opportunity. That is how many of you get sexually trafficked and murdered eventually.

Finish your study. Anyone that want to sincerely help you will not give you any condition.

Blissbath:
I recently graduated from the university and i got admission in school of nursing here in Nigeria.


I have an uncle who is based in USA and he wants me to come over to USA and take care of his child for two yrs.After two yrs,he will sponsor me to any school of my choice n within the two yrs,i will be doing part time program.

I will be 25yrs this year.

Should i continue with my nursing school which will be resuming on April or accept the offer.I am in a dilemna.

Pls advice me.
Mod pls help move it to front page .Thanks all

USA is beautiful but if you are coming here as a nanny , my dear it’s going to be a hell of a boring place for you ( depression fit injure you o)

I hope you and your uncle will not later settle the whole thing with physical fight (blow)

Lavisha:
Hey,

Your bro is a LIAR.
You may end up as a nanny forever.


Go to Nursing School, nurses are making it big time Nowadays.

E no go better for you..


Na your type we the here say European coast guards the try rescue after boat capsize while trying to illegally migrate from Africa to Europe via the waters.. Then later hear how you are in an illegal immigrant detention camp waiting for liaison with your government to be deported back to the shit hole from where you came.

Simran94:

Accept and when the uncle refuses to help her or even pay her, she becomes trapped? How will she survive being an illegal immigrant in the US?

If the offer from the uncle in US is genuine, I doubt if he will be 'trapped'. This is the US, and it is in the best interest of the uncle to act legally and pay fair wages to his/her laborers. Yes, she can face deportation if ratted out, but the Uncle will face more severe consequences including also deportation if they are not yet citizens and/or imprisonment, fines, payment of back wages, etc.

And if she is abused, she stands a chance of getting a U or a T visa in the US as long as she report the abuse to the authorities and cooperate with law enforcement as they investigate and prosecute the abuser.

ovieigho:



USA is beautiful but if you are coming here as a nanny , my dear it’s going to be a hell of a boring place for you ( depression fit injure you o)

I hope you and your uncle will not later settle the whole thing with physical fight (blow)

Lol. The uncle will not even pay her. He will eventually sleep with her and use her as a love-vendor for his freinds.

Uncle that does his poor and looking for free labour. International student in US pay about 20000 USD per year for school fees .

This is how many of you become sexually trafficked.NOTING IS FREE.

Finish your Nursing qualification and be on control.

candygist:
Even if you don’t want to travel. For the sake of your unborn kids and your future generation, I will advice you to travel to USA. Your unborn kids will be forever grateful that you made that decision. Imagine say you can find husband there, job and given birth there. No dull yourself. This is a lifetime opportunity.

She can travel to the US after she gets her nursing qualifications...

Canada, and UK even are looking for nurses.

Dont mind your uncle.Go to school of nursing here. Uk will come for you them self. You will become a salve girl in the USA

linearity:


If the offer from the uncle in US is genuine, I doubt if he will be 'trapped'. This is the US, and it is in the best interest of the uncle to act legally and pay fair wages to his/her laborers. Yes, she can face deportation if ratted out, but the Uncle will face more severe consequences including also deportation if they are not yet citizens and/or imprisonment, fines, payment of back wages, etc.

And if she is abused, she stands a chance of getting a U visa in the US as long as she report the abuse to the authorities and cooperate with law enforcement as they investigate and prosecute the abuser.

She will locked and trapped in a room and used as a love-vendor. NOTHNG IS FREE. Better dont go.

Blissbath:
Seriously dat is my fear...i dnt wat to go now n story will change.My main plan was to enter UK after nursing school.

Any developed country you enter into as a nurse you will survive including middle East countries. Especially now there's a downturn of events globally due to covid.
Do your nursing here first.

SweetMan1:
Dont mind your uncle.Go to school of nursing here. Uk will come for you them self. You will become a salve girl in the USA

Yes. The uncle is a very poor man looking for free labour. She will become a sex machine for him and his freinds. After using her, they will call authorities to deport her and can eventually murder her.

ednut1:
Go to nursing school here, go to uk or usa later. Your uncles offer is suspicious and may make you trapped for ever. They can even discard and send you back lol. Abeg oo

The offer is fishy...