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Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by lomprico(m): 5:00pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon: Anything outside the list na job. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Nezzjnr: 5:07pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Lol...when my sister wanted to get married... Our inlaws were doubting if we are really from Anambra ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by decision01: 5:19pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
doctor306:I like rugged niggas... But bros hope u didn't hang your shoulders high when u first visited? Is she from Mbano/Mbaise? |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by skywalker240(m): 5:24pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U:Even the Oba of Benin Daughters in all their rich historial culture and popularity are married off cheap, ma'am na to be Prince i go take feed Family? traditional marraige would have been sweet if not for those greedy in-laws in Nigeria they didnt trained my Wife all through her academics and career, they didnt even spend a dime or asissted her Mum, but when its time to collect dowry, thats when my ears were shot with "OUR DAUGHTER IS A PRINCESS" Even my Wife was okay with my decision not to entertain their calls. during the marraige when news got to my Wife that i couldnt meet up with the other requirements and my Father and i were fed up and preparing to go home of which my in laws cared less (that is before my uncles intervained) she started crying bitterly she even mess up her makeup, these same in laws rebuked her. Ada 4 dat matter Thank God for my Uncles that day. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by do4luv14(m): 5:45pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U: Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, it's not an outward Display, so your pictures my dear |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by rickyrex(m): 5:59pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
No Igbo traditional marriage is expensive or scary. Nah how you want am, you go get am. No parents want to keep their daughter with them forever |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by DarkJeddi(m): 6:08pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Romanoff:Why should he not treat them like beggars? Where is their conscience? If someone didn't treat you as family? Why should you bend over to accommodate them? ![]() |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by kingshrd: 6:14pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Free advice any family who loves their daughter and wants them to have a happy marriage will not see marriage as poverty alleviation program and if that woman truly loves you she will kick against it I am ibo and I have married sisters and I collected nothing in the list it’s not a taboo families do it so my friend walk away from this marriage if you no you not buoyant cause you are about to carry two families on your head 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Danniedpastor(m): 6:20pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Vondata: Please, how old are you? This your advice is childish o |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Aaae: 6:21pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
No |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by shantti(m): 6:26pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Am from enugu and this is the strangest thing I've ever heard in my life. I collected just N10 out of the 30k our in laws brought for my sisters bride price and gave them back N29,990 because I wasn't selling my sister. Negotiate with them to eliminate it completely. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Ekeeyhandsome(m): 6:29pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
advanceDNA: All my 5 sisters are married nd no one asked thm husbands to do extra things other thn wat was on list... my sisters, were all graduates nd working class too before they got married.. Marrying from a greedy family, might be the main cause of wat ur brother went through. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Coly2012(m): 6:54pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon:I once saw something like this when one of my friend went to marry at Ifitedunu in anambra state, there asked us to give the family members money in an envelope,I have to rush out and get the envelope and we just put #200 note in about 10 of it and gave the once in front, that was just how we solved that requirement. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Romanoff(f): 7:00pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
DarkJeddi: Let him leave their daughter for them. No be by force. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Phock2sweet: 7:03pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by intruder15(m): 7:04pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon: Anything not on that list is non mandatory. Ensure you get everything on the list and any few items of your choice verbally said. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Maobichek: 8:02pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
iHart: Hmmm!!! Which state and village are you from? Our first daughter was a full staff in one of the first three banks in Nigeria, her leave was once in the UK (they pay her when she go on leave), she receives 13th month salary, house loan, car loan, P4P etc but my father ensured that the husband didn't spent upto 200k, her bride price was 25 naira. That was in 2008. My dad made it clear to our in-laws that he didn't sell his daughter. Also, my brother married from Mbaise, Imo state ( the most costliest place to marry in Igbo). The young lady was in NYC when my brother did the introduction and she came back for the traditional and White wedding, we didn't spend more than 500k in everything. The father of the lady and her family decides whether they would sell their daughter or not. I ask again, which village are you from in Igbo? |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by DesChyko: 8:30pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Ekeeyhandsome: To be honest, once this information isn't included, I see it as clickbait. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Phock2sweet: 8:47pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
AutoChick4U:baby....wat is this? Na now u don leave me follow anoda ma?/ Teeeearssss!!!!! |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by babteehaulage(m): 8:57pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
bmdmix11: I'm having similar case , but my finance say she be virgin...so no banging |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by bmdmix11: 9:21pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
babteehaulage: carry go hospital make d nursing mother confirm am |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by cayorday89(m): 9:30pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
osuofia2:This got me going gaga, and let him not forget to make it 20pieces of mint ₦5 notes. And for the wrappers make he offer them 1 or 2 yards at most each. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by cayorday89(m): 9:35pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Maobichek:You want to use your family who is rich and also married from rich homes and are probably conservative to compare with people that are just doing okay and not conservative but also looking for means to suck people dry financially. Don't act like these things don't happen even if OP might have exaggerated it(not sure of though). |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by cayorday89(m): 9:37pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Nezzjnr:Hey future in-law, do you still have a sister, I am asking for myself. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Raymondojong: 9:50pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Me I'm not surprised, that's how igbo marriage is. I'm from cross river state, my elder bro spent lots of money like that. The woman family dont even try to even do nonsense. Becus he is a no nonsense lawyer self. So just go in accordance with the tradition but don't always play quiet one. Or else there take you for granted |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by Halo22: 10:07pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
If I am not mistaking, it's not far from Ndi be Hope. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by iHart(m): 10:08pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Maobichek:Funny thing is, the day I went to collect list was the day I married my wife. It turned out the list was small and I wondered why I will come back again to do things in the list. So I went ahead to clear the list. The only reason I came back the second time was because of the women's list. I couldn't monetize it, so I came back a second time to bring the items. Its in Imo State. I took wine and wrapper because the children of my maternal uncles and aunties brought wrapper to my mum. I then extended it to my in-laws. How many are they kwanu? I spent three wrappers and five wines. It wasn't a big deal. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by DarkJeddi(m): 10:08pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Romanoff:That's his choice.. HE can choose to pay the EXTORTION.. It's also his choice what he chooses to do after being EXTORTED.. CAN'T it your cake and have it.. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by coolclarke(m): 10:21pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
This is greed discuss with ur wife you guys should cut ur coat according to your material! Rubbish tradition that's not useful � |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by KayCee92(m): 11:12pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
All these hungry in-laws. I can't imagine myself making any demands from ever wishes to marry any of my Everly beautiful sisters. Only thing for me would be that you treat her well and able to provide. No need to complicate this life. As if they will be set up for life after that envelope. Hunger bad ![]() |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by TabletSenorita(f): 11:26pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blixon: I think you should raise your concerns with your fiancé. There should room for negotiations. |
Re: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by LeoFish92(m): 11:26pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
advanceDNA: I know a man who was billed like that by his wife's family. The man who resides in Lagos calmly paid everything, married the lady, took her back to Lagos and barred her from ever visiting home. In his defense, since the in-laws decided to 'sell' their daughter to him, he has decided to exercise a master control over her. As of 9 years into their marriage, the lady had not set eyes on her family members. Just calls. And they dare not request to visit her in Lagos. |
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