Paxxcarl:
But please don’t bring problem to the table
Women are fond of that

Lolz, problems is relative

Oh, also, an interesting point I'm also noting. Now this got nothing to do with the OP. I've said it.

I believe you had to clarify that you are not a feminist because women stating their opinions has been associated with feminism. So, you wanna get to talk and be loud and set standards and oppose men but without the label of feminism. That's all right. You can choose want you want to be, just that it is undeniable that you've CHERRYPICKED some traditional standards you want to stick to.

You want to have a voice and you want to have dreams and goals, but you still believe in some traditional ideas about women, aiit? 'Cause if you were fully a traditional woman, you would have rejected education, and women running for political posts, and you'll be completely silent at all times; in real life, and you wouldn't even have a social media account.

It's not only you. Other people cherrypick too. Even alfa mails pick the best parts of conservatism and traditionalism that suits them and discard the rest, so I'm really wondering why people make it out to be some unforgivable crime when feminists (or even religious people) cherrypick. Everybody cherrypicks, and I DO too. Maybe not necessarily about the cores of the ideals we individually subscribe to.

But I'm really just wondering, and it's certainly interesting how everybody else doesn't seem to follow the stipulations of their beliefs/ideologies to a T, but start tearing and pulling their hairs out when feminists act in ways lesser than their expectations and start calling them 'hypocrites.'

If you know that you're not a spear-throwing, tree-jumping, deer-killing, hut-living, using-stone-to-create-fire Kalahari bushman, quote me to yarn rubbish because I said I cherrypick - as a feminist.

Sonnobax15:

Wahala for any Guyman wey go mistakenly put you for house in the name of wife . No punishment go fit big pass that one

Kellzzyy:
Olosho don drop quote

The lady is saying she's a traditional woman and a man is the provider and she's a multiplier of whatever you bring, someone that runs the home. Why exactly are you people disagreeing with her?? You're not the heads no more?

Phaantom22:
I thought what a man can do a woman can do better? You better wakeup from your slumber.

She's not a feminist and doesn't believe in equality and all that. She said it. She obviously thinks men and women have different roles. What's your point?

Rickmann:
And tomorrow you complain when women aren't given equal preference as men in the society.. It's ok.

God created a women and called her a helper and not a processor...not in one aspect but in every endeavour. You ladies just cook up shit in ur 2kilo byte brain just to support ur baseless philosophies.

Oga, she's not a feminist. And she's just one person. Which ladies? What baseless assumptions? Are you saying that you disagree with her premise - that is a man is the provider and a woman is the helper?

heniford2:
here in finland is 50/50 nothing like 65 for the man oh talk more of 100% and i wash the desh after meal we clean the house on our own separate time she makes 3 times what i make in a month i already have a son b4 i mate her,she's pregnant with twins right know most of my recent investment was her doing we are not yet married to say still scared of marrying her because of shit i keep seeing about women this days.Nigerian girls has low mentality

I see. So when it comes to responsiblities, you like sharing 50/50, not so? If divorce happens now, assuming you're married to this lady, and based on the contributions you've said you made, if the court divides YOUR EQUAL properties 50/50, shey you will not cry?

So despite you claiming to have a partner that equally shares things with you, you're still bitter about Nigerian girls? How do they even correlate?

'Sides, you strike me as a redpiller. So in your white man's country, you share duties with your gf, she earns 3x more than you do, you were a baby daddy before you met her, and she has invested in you. Would you call yourself a simp or an alpha, kind sir, based on the conditions above?

Princess80:
thanks dear, at least there is someone who understands. Not the wannabe redpillers who has redefined redpill to suit their own narratives

Bring money biko.

All this your talk no work.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share

Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.
Lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique seun u have been moving awon redpillers thread for a while, oya come and do the needful here, let the war begin

This is the most useless thread I have ever read on nairaland.

You weren't created to bring anything to the table, but you were created to take abi? Entitlement mentality kill you there. Mumu.

This is why they'll keep on using you girls to do rituals. Relax and be waiting for a SIMP man to come find you so he can be doing everything for you. I pity Simps!

I keep saying it,
Dating a Nigerian girl is a complete waste of time, energy and resources. They have absolutely nothing meaningful to offer a man in a relationship apart from their over used pussies.

Date a Nigeria girl at your own peril.

luminouz:

Bring money biko.

All this your talk no work.

I didn't say I won't bring, I said I won't share financial responsibilities as u people keep saying.

Both men and women have roles to play, helping is a thing but to share ur responsibilities while I carry my own burden all by myself? Hell no.
Even in govt, there is division of power.
Most men feel as long as they bring money, thats the ultimate but they forgot that there are other roles to play and they turn blind and deaf and allows the woman to bear all the burden.

You go jam no worry��

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Attention seeker. You won't die if you share the burden with him

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share

Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.
Lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique seun u have been moving awon redpillers thread for a while, oya come and do the needful here, let the war begin

Spot on!!!!

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share

Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.
Lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique seun u have been moving awon redpillers thread for a while, oya come and do the needful here, let the war begin

And tomorrow you complain when women aren't given equal preference as men in the society.. It's ok.

God created a woman and called her a helper and not a processor...not in one aspect but in every endeavour. You ladies just cook up shit in ur 2kilo byte brain just to support ur baseless philosophies.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share

Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.
Lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique seun u have been moving awon redpillers thread for a while, oya come and do the needful here, let the war begin

here in finland is 50/50 nothing like 65 for the man oh talk more of 100% and i wash the desh after meal we clean the house on our own separate time she makes 3 times what i make in a month i already have a son b4 i mate her,she's pregnant with twins right know most of my recent investment was her doing we are not yet married to say still scared of marrying her because of shit i keep seeing about women this days.Nigerian girls has low mentality

First ask is marriage necessary these days, have you not heard of open relationships. Aunty don’t bring anything to the table, keep what you have, he keeps what he has, everything balance

rickleye:
I'll be frank and not coy. You must be the dumbest woman on this forum.
However, my senses are also telling me that the nonsense you dropped is just to seek out attention.

You have no idea what feminist means - equal opportunity for male and female. To them there are no male only roles and female only roles in society. What a man can do , I can do better - My response - You CAN"T.

" we are not created to provide but to process " No feminist says this. This is where you lose your diatribe.
Then you quote the bible and mention Eve. Like she is the best example out there. Her husband gave her detailed instructions of what to do and not to do. Yet she couldn't keep and relay simple instructions.

You not subscribing women to bring anything is what makes women, illiterates - not being sent to school. if all they do is sit down at home waiting to be impregnated , or given money to make food , turn a house to a home.

I do not and will not be involved with a lady who doesn't think she can do more with her life than what you mentioned. She is to be a "helpmate" an assistant. Both contributing with their skills to the success of the union.

I can by groceries and cook so why do I need you.
I can adopt a child or get one through surrogacy, so why do I need you.
I can stage a house and buy homely stuff, so why do I need you.
When I get frustrated, I will go see a therapist, so lady why do i need you ?

Anyways, If you want to escalate this to a voice call , I may be available.

It pained me to agree with the OP but your comment is senseless.

Justice4Toto:
One thing I know that is very clear to me is that any man that marry a woman with this mentality is bound to suffer.
Oh yes ! How can one have this type of mentality in this modern age.

Oh, wowwwww. You don't mean it. In this modern age? Are you kidding me?? So you're now a proponent and a supporter of the 'modern age'? The same 'modern age' that is destroying women. To be very fuking honest, I don't know WHY you patriarchal kings are angry with this post o. I don't. Have y'all looked in the mirror and checked yourselves? You keep condemning the OP as someone from a bygone era, meanwhile y'all are carrying around thoughts from the 18th century.

How can y'all in this modern age too believe that the vagina gets slackened from sex or that the breasts sag from fôndling? How can y'all still believe that having a phallus qualifies you for a leadership role? And you have the temerity to be calling the OP backward.

Wait, you don't want a traditional woman again? I don't get. You want a finances-contributing traditional woman, ba? I See.

What is WRONG with her mentality?? She's literally rephrasing what y'all have been chanting, fgs! A woman is a nurturer, a woman is a helpmeet, a woman is an incubator, a woman is a multiplier, etc., etc. As a man, do you not believe that you're supposed to be the head, carrying the whole family and all that? Abi ki lo n shey eyin boys yi na?

Johnsown1:
Attention seeker. You won't die if you share the burden with him

Can you cook, go to the market, wash, bath, look after the kids/raise them, and do other domestic duties? Share 'burdens' with her?

Princess80:
I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.

Why do you even want to assist at all? Is he ever going to assist you? Importantly, why are you supposed to be working? Because you mentioned earning more than he does as a probability. So you're saying, if a woman earns more than her husband, then in that case, she's supposed to bring something to the table? Earning more as a woman negates your premise that women shouldn't contribute.

Should WORKING or EARNING MONEY not be for men? Whatever would make you start earning money as a woman has already sullied your premise that women are multipliers who shouldn't bring money.

If you're also going to be contributing in other aspects, emotionally, spiritually, etc., - why should those non-monetary duties of a woman not count as bringing something to the table?

You sef, everything you're saying is confusing.

Magnoliaa:

She's not a feminist and doesn't believe in equality and all that. She said it. She obviously thinks men and women have different roles. What's your point?


Oga, she's not a feminist. And she's just one person. Which ladies? What baseless assumptions? Are you saying that you disagree with her premise - that is a man is the provider and a woman is the helper?


I see. So when it comes to responsiblities, you like sharing 50/50, not so? If divorce happens now, assuming you're married to this lady, and based on the contributions you've said you made, if the court divides YOUR EQUAL properties 50/50, shey you will not cry?

So despite you claiming to have a partner that equally shares things with you, you're still bitter about Nigerian girls? How do they even correlate?

'Sides, you strike me as a redpiller. So in your white man's country, you share duties with your gf, she earns 3x more than you do, you were a baby daddy before you met her, and she has invested in you. Would you call yourself a simp or an alpha, kind sir, based on the conditions above?

Alpha not simp she don't control me she saw a hard working smart dude and she fell madly inlove with as for the washing of plates i deceided to do so based on what i saw other whitemen do she do the 100% cooking and her the 50/50 was her idea which i like because it makes her feel belong and assured, as for the Nigeria girls stuff i was born and raised in Nigeria dated alot of them so i can testjfy my son is mom is a nigerian woman

Princess80:
a woman will be glad to change roles with a man, can we say same for a man?

I can't speak for other men, but I WOULD GLADLY EXCHANGE THE ROLES WITH A WOMAN

Magnoliaa:


Can you cook, go to the market, wash, bath, look after the kids/raise them, and do other domestic duties? Share 'burdens' with her?

All these manial domestic work can't be compared to the redicule,insults and hunger starvation that men goes through every day of their lives in other to give his family a good life. So don't hype yourself with these things dear because I cooks very well if not more than you

Magnoliaa:



The lady is saying she's a traditional woman and a man is the provider and she's a multiplier of whatever you bring, someone that runs the home. Why exactly are you people disagreeing with her?? You're not the heads no more?

This is her POV...
It's her stance on things like this and I agree with it totally...

As a traditional woman, she is seen and not heard, she has no qualms about sharing her husband with other women, she kneels to serve her husband, she doesn't go to school, she goes to farm and sow "women crops" like cocoyam, pepper, and the likes, she can be used to entertain visitors sexually, she has no right to vote, no right to question her husband's decision, she is not involved in making decisions however must bear part of the consequences should a mishap happen....

So my dear...
If the OP can be a traditional woman for me, I will definitely be a traditional man for her anytime any day...

Squirrel don drop quote.

Ok

You make sense, Princess80

I really pity these ladies, i feel so bad for their parents, especially ladies. You will see a lady, a grown ass lady her parents trained from creche to a second degree, desperately in search of a rich man who has just a waec or a first degree cert, what's then the essences of having a second degree. Since you would end up scouting for a rich man to rely on, If you see the way these ikoyi and victoria island boys bleeps girls, chai you go get heart attack if you have a girl child, these boys bleeps and dispose, what is even annoying me most is that, its their parents that made the money they are lavishing any how, the money is too much. So it doesn't make them check balance. Big boys riding benz, once these ladies see the fresh guy in his clean ride, they lost their senses and follow the guy to his house, she gets bleeped and disposed the next morning,its a turn by turn thing . Decent girls not runs, i don't know if its poverty or low self esteem that gas made these girls loosed their senses. These spoilt boys bangs them with no mercy, and dispose the next day. I'm really scared to even give birth to a girl, it's like women especially in Nigeria, don't have worth, Not all, but most don't have self worth.

Magnoliaa:


Can you cook, go to the market, wash, bath, look after the kids/raise them, and do other domestic duties? Share 'burdens' with her?



Why do you even want to assist at all? Is he ever going to assist you? Importantly, why are you supposed to be working? Because you mentioned earning more than he does as a probability. So you're saying, if a woman earns more than her husband, then in that case, she's supposed to bring something to the table? Earning more as a woman negates your premise that women shouldn't contribute.

Should WORKING or EARNING MONEY not be for men? Whatever would make you start earning money as a woman has already sullied your premise that women are multipliers who shouldn't bring money.

If you're also going to be contributing in other aspects, emotionally, spiritually, etc., - why should those non-monetary duties of a woman not count as bringing something to the table?

You sef, everything you're saying is confusing.

lolz, wahala

Madam Processor you have spoken well
It's legal and normal to share your opinion
It's left for the men to take your counsel or leave it

Majority men of these days have turned to women sympathisers and women solicitors, so I expect a number of them to believe and act upon your counsel.
Now the average youth thinks "his woman" is his sole responsibility.
The truth is that no woman performs home chores 100% on her own without a help. At least not the woman of today

If there isn't a house help, the man is always present to assist in family chores. And if there's a help, it's an additional burden to the man not the woman because he is the major provider

I know married men that occasionally wash plates, take and bring their kids from school
And I know married men that occasionally sweep the compound and fetch water

You go stay long for ur papa house be that.

Another liability on the loose