Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

I don't really understand this thinking from Nigerian women. Even in the biblical times, there were queens. Are queens meant to 'process' what a man brings? In the traditional African society, the man farms yam, while the woman farms cassava. In fact the woman actually tends the crops till harvest. She goes to farm just like the man. She plants other things like okra, pepper etc and is an integral part of the family economy. Where is this 'created to process' mentality come from? Certainly not from any civilized and enlightened entity. The closest I can relate that to was a certain comment by Pastor Chris Oyakhilome. This stance is primitive and doesn't make sense in the modern world. There were no house rent, electricity bills, school fees and all sorts of expenses in those traditional settings..I'm surprised that a woman that goes to work, spending more than 40 hours a week outside her home and possibly has a house girl would feel the family that has to deal with this absence does not deserve her financial contribution. That's tunnel vision. Nigerian women sadly grow up with all sorts of warped, unrealistic and contradictory philosophies..

Last.....Last na Shilo 2025 go cool down your matter no worries dem no tell a man with hunch back make he sit down, na him go carry chair sit down by himself �☺️

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Na true u talk. As for me I can't marry any woman that ll compete with Me in bringing money to the house
Thr marriage will not be sweet. I want to spoil my wife
I want to see that reaction whenever I'm bringing money and spoiling her with surprises
That's what ll make me feel like th man

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

You are dumb because you are black as darkness and an offspring of a nigger. A lady born by a nigger believes she doesn't have too work to live.

A very terrible mindset.

Who told you my daughters and my sister has nothing to bring to the table?! Especially in their marriage even if their husbands are below average?

You talked about about the Adam and Eve episode, have you not read your Bible to the point of realising that the very Eve that led to Adam's fall was the first person to speak truth and take responsibility? Adam did not. Eve was the first pioneer of the faith in God as a merciful restorer, naming her latter child "Seth" that God (who had earlier casted her away) would yet turn and give her another? Seth had his children "and men began to call upon the name of the Lord". She thus becoming an initiator.

If this is what the so-called feminist movement is about, it is unfortunate.

If it was about a woman bringing her best and the man bringing her down, it would have been a different story. But to emphasize that the woman becomes terrible and empty because of her husband is empty?!

God!

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

I mean the Hen and all animals whether a lion or lioness both hustle for food to live life. It is rather more obvious with the domestic animals close to us as we observe hen and the Cock hustling 24/7 looking for food, thinking of how to survive and here we have nigger, a lady black nigga who believes she is equal to the Westerners or Europeans, or Chinese or Asians but cannot think of how to survive but its waiting for another nigga or negro to come give her free money or free.

Mind you lady, you were not living in a developed society else you will die waiting for a nigga to come and give you food.

Wrong mentality!

Loool

All the OP is saying is provide and I will do my own responsibility, do yours

Just provide and all hell is let loose.

Lots of hypocrite boys on this forum.

See as they are insulting the OP.

Provide they will start hyperventilating and talking nonsense but they can kill someone's daughter with financial and domestic responsibility.

The ones even shouting most are those that can't boil ordinary water in the kitchen, they will remember its a woman's role, oya do your role now wahala will start.

NL and comedy ehn

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

See awon nigerians ladies mentality.....what makes you so special? Is it that gap between your legs or those protruding chest? Or those thrash you ladies dey watch , listen or might have seen in those una western masters......

druxlazu:


You are dumb because you are black as darkness and an offspring of a nigger. A lady born by a nigger believes she doesn't have too work to live.

You are dumb because you have been brainwashed by brute western European savages into thinking less of yourself and the brainwashing clearly worked on ur mind.

For the record, blacks lead, western European brute savages follow

She raised valid points.
Please, let's stop this hostility we mete out to our females.
I know they have their faults and excesses, but we males are not without our own faults and foibles too.
My question is If you employ a maid, visit prostitutes and employ extra lessons teacher for your kids, calculate how much you will be spending monthly as their salaries.
Do those three jobs that people engage in to make ends meet deserve remuneration?
If you pay your wife the same amount you pay your maid and the lesson teacher and the oloshos you sin with every month, will you still accuse your wife of bringing NOTHING to the table?
You want a woman to do the duties of a maid, a lesson teacher and a mistress who helps you quench your urge to merge with the opposite sex and who carries your babies, often with the risks of dying during childbirth FOR FREE, non gratis, simply because she is a wife.
But you will gladly pay for such services as long as those who render such services are not legally married to you.
What every woman needs to bring to the table is her readiness to keep and manage your home businesses, to cook, clean, carry your babies, care for your babies and copulate with you and be your companion.
She can then secure a job or you help her to set up a small business that frees her to perform her homely duties well.
Pressuring your wife to work from 7 am to 7 pm like you do will expose your home front and your children to serious societal ills and social dysfunctions.
I know a lady that used to be abandoned by parents and granny. A lesbian neighbour began to have lesbian sex with her EVERYDAY from age 5 till when she turned 15, when they moved away from the place.
So, let's STOP harrasing our females. They're our grannies, mothers, wives, sisters, cousins, nieces and daughters.
We should rather love, care for them and protect them. But we should not spoil them by always granting their entitlement mentality.
The simple solution is: LEAVE WOMEN ALONE UNTIL YOU HAVE ENOUGH TO CATER FOR THEM AND THEIR CHILDREN.
No man who cannot control himself, who always needs to fornicate with women to quench his urge for sex should complain when the women demand that he provides for their financial needs.
Shalom.

Please what raw materials are you harvesting? Can you explain that in details?

K, well in this era not the biblical age, women have to do something if they want to be respected, yeah because every man know that our hand the mentality that women always run after money and remember that it is resources Adam and eve use in surviving not physical money or cash, so in this era, if you are a woman and you don't have money or doing something to have money you are definitely for a long thing.

Your walaha at night as if no be u dey enjoy am pass and moan mumu......if all men be like me ,una for hear am wella .

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

This one shock me ooooooo

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

You're a small girl

rickleye:
I'll be frank and not coy. You must be the dumbest woman on this forum.
However, my senses are also telling me that the nonsense you dropped is just to seek out attention.

You have no idea what feminist means - equal opportunity for male and female. To them there are no male only roles and female only roles in society. What a man can do , I can do better - My response - You CAN"T.

" we are not created to provide but to process " No feminist says this. This is where you lose your diatribe.
Then you quote the bible and mention Eve. Like she is the best example out there. Her husband gave her detailed instructions of what to do and not to do. Yet she couldn't keep and relay simple instructions.

You not subscribing women to bring anything is what makes women, illiterates - not being sent to school. if all they do is sit down at home waiting to be impregnated , or given money to make food , turn a house to a home.

I do not and will not be involved with a lady who doesn't think she can do more with her life than what you mentioned. She is to be a "helpmate" an assistant. Both contributing with their skills to the success of the union.

I can buy groceries and cook so why do I need you to process.
I can adopt a child or get one through surrogacy, so why do I need you to process.
I can stage a house and buy homely stuff, so why do I need you to process .
When I get frustrated, I will go see a therapist, so lady why do i need you to process?

I do more than " bring the money" and when I decide to settle down - She better do more than "process"

Anyways, If you want to escalate your backward thinking to a voice call , I may be available.

All the things you mentioned you can do, will cost you time and lots of money. Women do these things for free or giveaway price. Why do you guys like deceiving yourselves? Well, it's online. At home, you're trembling at the voice of your girlfriend or wife, consoling yourself with all you want is peace.

You poor ,
Retired okpoe
You bleach half way (remaining 30 percent for your skin to burst like rotten plantain )
Your family poor ,
Your family house be like fowl cage ,
Your brother na area boy ,your sister na runs babe in training ,
Your mother de shout fire fire fire for night ,
Your father has lost hope to rescue the family name ,
Your father brother de try kill your father because of small farm land ,
Then otedola son or adenuga son marry you and you post this shit online or come hold ground with e family ?


Bitc########
Get the fu#k out !

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

justify laziness, another version of a baby.
just get fed

I disagree with that completely

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Another hit

Truth be told, a lot has changed since the days of Adam but, of course, you are free to keep living in the past.

Some issues raised in this post shows that a great majority of the self- professed feminists don't understand the concept.

A question for you though: if you work and earn money but you will only help your husband if only you earn more money than him, then what will you be doing with all your money otherwise? Just keep it in the bank or bury it in the ground?

Damn.

How will the monks and those in convents react to this now?

Magnoliaa:


I seeeee. Ok. Ok. Let's agree then that washing, cooking, collecting money from a woman, being a baby daddy, and all the other things you do DO NOT make a man a simp and emasculated, yeah? Righttt. You decided to copy white men. If you as an alpha is copying what the westernized men are doing, then those men are alpha males too. Taking care of kids, buying flowers, treating their women right, respecting them, giving them listening ears. If YOU are not a simp for doing so, then OYINBO MEN aren't simps for doing so, abi?

Also, inspite of you having a baby out of wedlock, you see yourself in a positive light and you say good things about yourself. I hope you extend the same courtesy to single moms.

So you have no problem with equality and a woman making decisions with you? You obviously agreed to HER TERMS. She brought the idea and you went along with it, as a sensible alpha, amiright, because it made her feel assured and loved? You have no problem co-making decisions and running your affairs, mostly jointly, yeah? There's nothing based on gender between y'all. You have penis and you're washing, and can cook if you want to; she has vagina and she's bringing in money. Now, does this not seem like equality to you? The arrangement you're having. And I'm sure you're not bragging headship to her and giving all the whole conditions - a woman must do this, a man can never do this, like your Naija brothers. You're both compromising and I sincerely hope when you see a Naija man doing for his wife all the things you're doing for your oyinbo pepper baby, you will not call him a simp tomorrow. You really are putting in efforts into making her feel secured.

At least this proves how reality plays out.

you can twist it to suit ur messed up mind for all i care, all even masturbate with it to upgrade ur feminist manhunt i careless of it

heniford2:
you can twist it to suit ur messed up mind for all i care, all even masturbate with it to upgrade ur feminist manhunt i careless of it

We were being sensible and civil and I was actually enjoying this...oh, well.

Right from time. Only a lazy man or who think he is wise in his own right will be looking for what a lady is bringing to the table. It's not something that should even come up. If u search for a wife won't u look at what u want and what fits your life plan before u go for it. So if u did, then why asking what they are bringing to the table.......table ko.....show glass ni

LINTUNE:
just shut up already, it's women like u that will work and give all their salaries to their husbands every month ending, everyone just come online to show their fake sides,hypocrites everywhere, preaching what they themselves cannot practice...women like u will end up being more submissive and behaving as a zombie even to a woman beater,yes I know what I'm saying.....cardi B came online with all those stupid feminist rant,but just observe how submissive she is to her husband, a typical publication penis of a man,but she will come online to tell u gullibles single ones not to take shit from any man, lol.....see eh,say what u want online,cos reality will always set in once u go offline.

That's the crux of the matter. We're all hypocrites and reality will always set in. For every single one of us. Including the guys disagreeing with the OP and I . I do not dispute that.

Have a blessed day.

yanabasee:
I read your first quote and I went back to read and never saw where the op me too Ed "feminist" and on your second comment (above comment) .. You're saying something about "attacks on masculinist...."

I don't think we're reading the same thing here.... Seems you're the one getting confused...

Unless she has edited it, the word 'feminist' came up twice in her post. That was my grouse. Feminists do not say any of things she has written here, so attributing it to them by saying, 'call me a feminist but...' is not factual. Her post does not concern feminists in anyway, so why putting them in the mix?

Then she did attacked masculinists. Her posts was targeted at men and was centered on their providing and then she said something like, 'oga masculinist, get mad or not, you must pay the bills.' My point was, a masculinist sees himself as a provider already, so why was she attacking them again when they are literally on the same side. Why was she talking like the meninists aren't on her side?

S'oye?

If you are a man with dreams and aspiration run from this type of woman , she is mentally engulfed in entitlement , she brings nothing to the table , even when the kids grow she owns them

Magnoliaa:


Unless she has edited it, the word 'feminist' came up twice in her post. That was my grouse. Feminists do not say any of things she has written here, so attributing it to them by saying, 'call me a feminist but...' is not factual. Her post does not concern feminists in anyway, so why putting them in the mix?

Then she did attacked masculinists. Her posts was targeted at men and was centered on their providing and then she said something like, 'oga masculinist, get mad or not, you must pay the bills.' My point was, a masculinist sees himself as a provider already, so why was she attacking them again when they are literally on the same side. Why was she talking like the meninists aren't on her side?

S'oye?

The concept where women use that phrase... "Call me a feminist" is usually attributed to when they act or seemingly say things that is harsh towards men... And it's a general believe that women who are harsh and wants equal rights and wouldn't be low-headed are tagged as feminists...


Yes, she attacked me.... Now I get your point...

You should know your gender better than we do...

yanabasee:
The concept where women use that phrase... "Call me a feminist" is usually attributed to when they act or seemingly say things that is harsh towards men... And it's a general believe that women who are harsh and wants equal rights and wouldn't be low-headed are tagged as feminists...

Okayy. And she didn't come here to ask for equal rights. She came here to promote traditional values. It was hecking confusing when she threw in the feminist line.

And that was why I also mentioned that she's a cherrypicker. In fact I've said it all up there. Yes, women speaking up and being loud and being antagonistic towards men is considered feministic. I know that was why she made that 'clarification'.

But then what she was even talking about in actuality had nothing to do with feminism.

All I could deduce from her post was, ''call me a feminist but I believe men are the heads.'' Her premise wasn't making sense to me.

So, she was *SPEAKING UP* about *TRADITIONAL VALUES*. Her confrontational manner (the former, the wanting to speak up and going against men's conflicting beliefs) will get her labeled *feminist*, but she was espousing traditional ideals (which are usually antifeminism).

So she's basically using her Voice (because of feminism) to preach traditional values.

I do know if I'm even making any sense at this point... zzzz.

Justice4Toto:






Go and marry Adam he has everything.

This reply to that bigot of a OP is so divine and epic.

Madam go and marry Adam and leave the Son of Men alone. We have chosen not to die for a cracked hole no matter what you say.