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| Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Tejumola856: 9:38pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason. What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them. The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free. Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again! 76 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
OK let me wait for the married ones 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Goldbw122(m): 9:41pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Well keep trying it will work out one day, one day at a moment 18 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by missimelda01(f): 10:32pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Try not to have sex with the next girl you meet, find other non-sexual ways to build intimacy and you'll continue to find her interesting. 291 Likes 23 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by SheCeo(f): 10:54pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Tejumola856:Are you a saddist? My advice do yourself and the next women a favour by staying AWAY until you figure out what you actually want/feel. Don't go hurting people 85 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Rukkie2: 11:02pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
U need deliverance 148 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Simplelion: 11:11pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Are you sure you don't have spiritual wife?......na question i ask oo, make una no rush my throat with different quote. 209 Likes 12 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Jman06(m): 11:57pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Op, I can understand your plight. The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations. So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest. 313 Likes 31 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by endy69: 11:57pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Omo we're in same boat. I've stopped dating self cos of it. I always give my best at start but would leave only the girl in the relationship, I found out that that has always been the case, I stay off relationships. I wasn't always like that. My little advice is to stay off relationships 60 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Tejumola856: 8:05am On Feb 09, 2022 |
Modified::: Thanks you all for the insult and advice, but I’ve texted her on WhatsApp that we should break up and I explain everything to her in the messages, I promise myself not to date or hurt any girls till I find solution to my problem, I’m waiting for her to reply me but I think she’s not online cus she haven’t read the messages. 2 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Nobody: 8:06am On Feb 09, 2022 |
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| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Baloranking(m): 8:07am On Feb 09, 2022 |
Simplelion: Explain, how does this spiritual stuff affect a man's life 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by toujurs: 8:12am On Feb 09, 2022 |
missimelda01:  Are you saying guys feelings depreciates after having sex, while the ladies feelings appreciates after having sex ,86 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by 9jaBloke: 4:52pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Congratulations.... you'll soon date and dump your soulmate for no reason 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by IKBARUTEN11(m): 4:53pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Op, check your spiritual life. You may have a spirit wife 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by RexTramadol1: 4:53pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
U be Odogwu last year Hope say u no Dey live on past glory now 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by blamingthedevil: 4:53pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
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| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by patrislayqueen: 4:53pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
...Bros and you want to make heaven 10 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Drsnives(m): 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Issorite 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by shadrach77: 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Some things in this world are beyond human comprehension and can only be discerned with the eye of the spirit. It's a spiritual matter. You need to attend to it spiritually and quickly too before it gets too late or else you'll be living the rest of your life alone  18 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Yello1(m): 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Eyaah love is not for everybody. Ur acc. Has also been credited with enough money for dumping six girls within a year. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Penguin2: 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Maybe one of those you broke up with, without a reason, has laid a curse on you to continue breaking up without any reason. Why would you keep toiling with people’s hearts? Why did you choose to keep being the reason that innocent girls who did nothing but accept to love you will be shading tears? Accept it or not, the universe is ordered and what goes around actually comes around. 35 Likes 4 Shares
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| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Dailymice: 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
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| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by dauntless15(m): 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Tejumola856:Exactly what's happening to me rn, currently I have a text from her asking babe are we good? And I can't say yes because I know that's a big lie, I've been trying to breakup with her but I don't have a tangible reason, she's been good and everything there's really nothing I can use to breakup with her, then my conscience is acting funny because she predicted last week that I would break up with her when I texted her that we need to talk and it'll feel like I'm now discarding her because I used her( that's what they think sex is right? Using?) but that's not the case, I am the problem I know, but she won't understand, right now I just want to be single, and free, the calls and care is too overwhelming even though I loved her from the start and the relationship is barely two months old, I literally need space even though the poor girl doesn't deserve such bullshit treatment from me. 58 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by oscaruzie(m): 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
jman06 is right... the average nigerian girl doesn't put you on edge...it's always the stereotypic 'you've gotta provide and take care of all my generational needs, being your woman is contribution enough'...it's almost fruitless. in this age and time, since women have decided to be 'woke', then it should be equal, y'all ladies need to bring to the table, spice your relationships up by healthily competing with your man, creating value between partners, else, just like OP and most of us, it's always gonna be short term and we'd move on, to da next... suck on this... 35 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by ivolt: 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Don't be misled. Not everyone is made for relationship or marriage. Now that you have discovered who you are, find someone similar to you who also is not interested in serious relationship. With that person, you can be playing cat and mouse without guilt. What you are currently doing is reprehensible. 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by OBALOLA55(m): 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
CONFIRM REDPILLER E FOR SWEET MY BELE IF SAY IYAEBE AND SAPHIERE DEY AMONGST THE 6 EMPTY VESSELS 28 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by seunlayi(m): 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
You must be a member of the ruling Party (APC)  or maybe you're working with PHCN or a member of Nigerian Police. Without any of the above, I can't figure out why you are just like this. I hereby surrender your case to God on High 8 Likes 4 Shares |
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