BigDawsNet:
Pray about it

mhizace:
our female parent too get problem sometimes,my mum nearly cursed me abi she cursed me ne sef, I no know, simply cause I broke up my ex, I still love her but I no get her time now, infact I refused to go home after our first semester ended, cause I know she will definitely bring the issue again

Help2020:

Mum that is supposed to be telling you to marry him is rather doing the opposite. If you let this guy go,and you don't find another man in the next few years,mum will ask you when will you marry. She will put so much pressure on you to the extent you will get tired o.. I have a friend who is her 40s. No husband no children. When she was in her 20s a man came for her,and the father refused her to marry him. Today the father is dead,and she is suffering. Last time she even told me that if it was possible she would have awaken her father to come and see the pain he caused her. So use ur brain. Don't let ur mum destroy ur future. A word is enough for the wise oo.
Kindly let me knw if you read this post Op

ZUBY77:
Send his picture, let's be in a better position to see if your mom is right, before you marry Stockfish

tiswell:
you obviously lack good pare ntal up bringing

vislabraye:


Why did you break up with your ex ? Was he cheating ? Was he abusive ? .

tiswell:
you already sound like a stu-b-b-o-r-n shild.



Ya mum was right!

nedekid:

Mostly in the case of women, when they have issues in marriage, even as grown women, where is there first port of call?
And answering your direct question, as a grown man, I have not just once, but several times over the years had cause to consult our patriarch. And when possible solutions or advice given.
The last was 3 weeks ago, a couple of phone calls made on my behalf is solving the issue on ground.
No shame in that.

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

GboyegaD:


The boyfriend owes the mom no dime. Don't encourage people to start an habit they may not be able to sustain in the long run as that makes them deceits.

Ihatebuhariwith:
your mom na mumu, maybe she don Bleep d before.. she Dey find silly excuse

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

GboyegaD:


Oga, leave sorry for tortoise. No one dominates another and it is a marriage. What matters is that we love and respect one another and the last I checked, a marriage is between two individuals and not a crowd.

Most importantly, raise a child properly and you got no reasons to worry over his/her choices because you have taught the child rightly.

Chloraseptic:
The reason is simple.

Your mum used to fûck the guy behind your back..

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

Sonnobax15:

If only your mom can just spare a day out of her busy schedule and pay a visit to most churches (miracle centres) during their mid-week programs..Make she go use her own eyes take see wetin women dey pray and fast for . Make she go witness how young girls dey pray fervently to encounter a man who'll take them to the altar.....Na then she go realize say all those her excuses no join one bit...

Op's mom wanna play a role in plunging the op into by-force meno-stop

MufasaLion:


WTF?

How could you be so uncultured? Some of you like running your mouth but foolish enough to forget that your contact is displayed on your profile.

NoSentiment:
Lady if you want live a blessed life, jettison the guy. If ur mum places curse on u, it shall never be well with you in life, God forbid. Obey ur mama and papa and see how God will make a better change for u in u are patient enough.

mhizace:
obviously I'm d calmest child in the house