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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:26pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Amazingbaby:....Confirmito. ... Make Una dey fear God small small ooh. Anyways we hope this will be the final update Shaa ooh.? |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Emaprince: 12:38pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Do not let emotion get you posting illogical stuffs cos thats what you women do in gender issues like this one. Yes the husband might be at fault..even though its a one-sided story here. Do you advice her to pack and leave? Will you be there to assist her emotionally and financially when the going gets tough for her? Its not about coming online to blabber and beat chest in order to compete with men, when after the dust settles, you crawl back into a hole of depression. The earlier you realise you are not the same as a man, the better for you. I am not here to give any advice but to give her the reality check. She can make of it whatever she deem fit. Advising a man to quit a marriage is not the same when you do it to a woman. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Emaprince: 12:52pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
pocohantas:How did you know his age? Lol..I suspect that's thesonofmark. They write alike. BTW..I dont think he was quoting you. |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by pocohantas(f): 12:55pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Emaprince: I have been here since 2014. Why do you think I won’t know the age group of Nlders? Then Nlders were more open with their details and pictures. Even Lala had a profile picture then. He is not thesonofmark. But na the same group them dey. He doesn’t have to quote me. I like amebo. Na today you know? 8 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:05pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
pocohantas:.... Omo. Poco follow me thank God o. Did you hear about the unknown gun men attack yesterday afternoon in Enugu? I was at the police check point when those guys arrived and killed 3 policemen. I don't know what my family would have done if I was hit by a stray bullet.Honestly,I have not witnessed something like this before. 2 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by pocohantas(f): 1:08pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Really? Ah! Chukwu nna biko napu ekwensu ike! Even your mum would have been so devastated. My friend in Enugu was gisting me about it yesterday. She said it was bloody. What is the SE turning into bikonu? 5 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Emaprince: 1:09pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
pocohantas:But you like that shaqfu guy o. Excitement is written all over your responses to him You even called him BIG HEAD. Haaa |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by pocohantas(f): 1:10pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Emaprince: Lmao. If woman calls you big head, sometimes you check, “do I really have a big head?” 3 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:16pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
pocohantas:....Is really getting out of hand. The thing happened closed to my house immediately after city park hotel. The guys weren't even in a hurry and they tried not to harm any civilian close by except for one POS lady that one of the officers who fled used to shield himself that was shut on the leg. And one other guy that have a scratch on his Tommy. I really thank God. They later kidnapped a woman and her driver. As I dey like this, I dey house just dey reason Wetin happen. |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Emaprince: 1:19pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
pocohantas:lol..forget o. Big head no dey come out easily from the mouth of a woman. I was almost feeling jealous. |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nobody: 1:20pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
ospreywin: I don't entertain online banters, I wish you knew me Sha. No need arguing with you cus you are inexperienced. 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Jennyclay(f): 1:21pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:Nairaland men are cheat and rape apologist. Men like SmellySperm, Kriss, TheKingsmann & Co. are bittered and frustrated. Please avoid them, for your own good. 4 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nobody: 1:22pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
SIRTee15: She should kneel to beg cus she is financially incapacitated ABI? He should beg for being a wanderer! |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by ospreywin(m): 1:27pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Ninisun: Yes, I'm inexperienced that's why I want her to reconcile with her husband. Your own experience is to give her advice on how to keep her out of marriage, make her chase a fictitious happiness by being a single parent and let her live with the shame of being a failure in marriage. You people think this life is a bed of rose, those you see in marriage these days don't really enjoy what they go through in the hands of "men" but they are enduring and sacrificing everything for their children, unless it's an abusive and violent relationship which I would advice any woman to divorce immediately. 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by pocohantas(f): 1:31pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Emaprince: Lol. You no get wahala be that. |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Ogajohnbull(m): 1:37pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Sincerely speaking, dont take advice from the stupid feminist and foolish misogynist that parade themselves in this forum trying to outdo each other without knowing how marriage works( and I bet you, majority are kids). With 18years marriage experience, there has never been a formula for a successful marriage. Though you story is a personal narrative and can't be judged without hearing from the other party, I can only say that your husband complicated matters by moving out in the night. Like some good people suggested, improve on yourself such that your husband won't ve financial comparative advantage over you if the worst scenario is DIVORCE. But first, put your possible best to make the marriage work even if it 'll make you look like the foolish partner. Persist on knowing their relationship but come in a more softer and friendly tune. Engage him in conversation with a softer tune even if his temper flies above the roof. By default, men are unreasonble while in anger while women are reasonable when calm. That wont make you a loser neither ll it make him a winner. At his quiet period, he ll realize his mistakes and come back for the kids and you. WORK OUT YOUR MARRIAGE FORMULA AND DEPEND LESS ON THE TROLLS IN THIS FORUM ... peace 2 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by WrathOfHadez(m): 1:39pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
pocohantas:I thought that by now you would have made something useful of your life . All the years and efforts in Nairaland and you're still jostling like a newbie? Maybe you need to find someone as pathetic as you to date and you can find peace and joy in your life. When will Poco learn to love herself? 2 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by pocohantas(f): 1:40pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
WrathOfHadez: Yawns. You are boring dear. I like that you are trying not to cross reasonable lines. Hopefully this account serves you for some months. WrathOfHadez: It was 12k actually. 30k is even too much. Are you done? I know civility is not your forte, so this must be quite hard on you. Having to banter without unnecessary vulgarity. You will be fine. 4 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Emaprince: 1:43pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
pocohantas:just seeing this. This post is extremely funny. I was surprised she didn't tag you. Nairaland no go kill person. Lool |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 1:43pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Kenturkey048: If you had said you would be loyal to a submissive woman, I wouldn't even have quoted you because that is you and there are still some sensible guys out there, but saying that about men in general is fallacy, even your fellow gender know its not true. Like I said I am never against submission BUT Nothing can keep a man that doesn't want to be kept, not even submission, you might not know this but Men know this. 4 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by WrathOfHadez(m): 1:45pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
pocohantas:your comment is as harmless and weak as a Christmas laugh. What reasonable lines am I trying to not cross? I remember when you posted your monthly salary in the ashawo thread. It is less than 30k Then you showed the threshold of your nether regions. Nairaland is your long and short term goal. I thought you'd love me for giving you the attention of your dreams you have lacked in the actual world. Snowflake! |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nobody: 1:49pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Quit being silly. Avoid me in your mentions |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by pocohantas(f): 1:52pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Emaprince: I don’t think I commented on her first thread. If not she would have tagged me. I dey wait her next thread. Read in between the lines, from her first to this one, you’ll see all the baits. |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Jennyclay(f): 2:01pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
SmellySperm:would continue to drag you and your likes, till you people embrace sense. Nonsense! 4 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 2:11pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Emaprince: Please keep quiet and stop telling me trash.If you cannot keep up the same energy when advising women to suck up to trash on men then keep quiet. That alone tells how silly you men are you can't always eat your cake and have it now swerve there is no reality check you can give because our realities are all different. 5 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by kayperry: 2:22pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: what is there to know about a nonexistent relationship, what is headway in r/ship compared to a bliss in marriage moomoo because guys are alway telling you lemme put the head only you feel you have headway a in r/ship sorry dearie a comment that lacks merit needs no "discredit". |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Klass99(f): 2:29pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by descarado: 2:32pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Amazingbaby:You are as fake as Brazilian hair on naija babe head. And you are a guy. You baited the ladies and got them. Well done I also know a sequel will soon follow. U didn't disappoint. Next week, create another topic for your amusement when you are done with this one. 5 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by frozen70(f): 2:34pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Nonexisting: Yes, they will also blame a man for making them not to get to orgasm E get why |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Emaprince: 2:34pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88:You can cry all you want, the bitter reality of divorce still remain. Advising a man to leave is almost doing him a favour...but reverse the role, thats like an enemy advising the woman to go astray and laugh at her afterwards. And thats what your type is. Be bold enough to advice her to quit her marriage and stop ranting incoherently. ..so that when the dust settles, she will know the people to curse ; those that lead her astray. Except her life is in danger, I will NEVER advice a woman to quit her marriage when I know how cold it is outside. When I know I can NEVEER advice my enemy to marry a divorcee. Lets not even talk about the kid baggage encumbering her. If I know I can't help make her life better, why should I ask her to leave? 2 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by frozen70(f): 2:35pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Emaprince: Women are cheap because men continues to keep going back to the same route they came out from Once men can stop asking women will stop giving |
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