Junnior:

Well, I won't blame him. He is not her father. The truth is, it's the father's responsibility to guide his children, boy and girl. Keeping it from their father might not be a good idea. The girl might not take her brother seriously. I've seen a case like that where the girl eventually got pregnant.
The father's role should not be assumed by the brother. The father is meant to be more experienced and know how to handle the situation better. If he sends her packing, then so be it. It's better than allowing her to bring shame to the family. But chances her that even if he sends her packing, people will beg for the girl and he would take her back. But by then, she would have known better than to try nonsense while in his house.
The father seems like a no-nonsense man. That's the kind of father that can keep today's girls in check at least a little.

How is sending her packing going to keep her in check all because they found a love letter?

Why does she desrve to be sent packing all because of a love letter?

Bluntguy:

Don't mind the liar. He thinks he can deceive us by calling the little girl his parents are helping out his kid sister. Nonsense.

His wife to be.

Simdyofficial:
do you know how many girls that have lost good guys because of this wait for marriage before sex I actually never had sex with someone I was dating then but with a male best friend. Now we married. So Life is zigzag

and do you know how many girls have gotten good guys because of waiting?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
As far as she's your sister and she's young you have all right to protect her..now what you are gonna do is this..sit her down and speak to her in a polite manner..tell her about the good and bad in relationship cos she's quite young but not bad if she's in a relationship..

Another thing you could do is tell her to invite her boyfriend over so you can have a proper discussion with him..you get?
Talk to the guy and tell him what's on your mind politely..note that no matter how much you shout or spank her she's still gonna do what's on her mind..so what I am saying is sit her down and talk to her without getting your parents involved..

You wrote well

Maxxim:

You wrote well

Thanks hombre..

Bluntguy:
You have been having your own plan for her until one stupid boy wan come chop wetin you don dey reserve for yourself tey tey no be so? Talk true.

My belle o!!!

Nairaland na currect cruise.
Believe me.

maisams01:
and do you know how many girls have gotten good guys because of waiting?

lol. What age did you do it

You took me back to the days of love letter...DITTO things

For our guys wey no sabi book, na love lette we dey use chop their money..

We go write still deliver it to her at a fee....After all it is not easy to be intelligent and bold..

Anyways, she is far gone into the love thing...Thats if she never begin chop kiss

You can only guide and talk sense and fear into her...If na love, she go love...And you won't do anything..And that shouldn't stop your family from helping her with education.

At that age, love the shack them like kai kai especially when they hear they are the treasure, the sugar in his tea, cockroach in his cupboard...Tomato in his stew etc...

GOFRONT:
Dear Lord,

Pls never give me a Girlchild. Never ever

Thanks and Yourfaithfully.
Truely yours.

I hope you won't mind if God give you boys that will give you sleepless nights though

1Sharon:


How is sending her packing going to keep her in check all because they found a love letter?

Why does she desrve to be sent packing all because of a love letter?

A love letter that she kept. She must have been taught at that age to reject advances from boys, but she didn't listen. That is good enough reason to send her packing before she brings shame to the family. Girls of these days can only be kept in check with such iron hand.

If she kept the love letter, chances are that she would be having sex with the boy in no time. That's how these things go.

And you left out the part where I said they would still beg the father and he would take her back. And that would have sent a strong message to the girl not to try nonsense, at least while in her fathers house.
Like it or not, some of us still strongly hold on to our traditional culture. A girl should be chaste until her wedding night.

Thank you.

[quote author=Mrklemo post=110140720][/quote] I fear fear itself seeing a twelve years old writing love letters.

JONNYSPUTE:
....You are even worst than who you quoted.

Back to sender, I reject the evil attached to this your statement in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen

PCSI:


Osuofia try dey read...

You are not a wise person.
So at her age you weren't receiving love letters or messages??

If No, then you must be an uug*ly duucckling.

Talk with her and help her to make the right decision abeg.


Abi you dey jealous her ni.

But you goan marry someone's daughter Shame on you bro

GOFRONT:
Dear Lord,

Pls never give me a Girlchild. Never ever

Thanks and Yourfaithfully.
Truely yours.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Ok. No problems then. I asked because God gave me 4 kids,all boys and no regrets whatsoever.

Please teach me how you handle their rough play… My first 2 are boys and one of them is already practicing skydiving on the staircase…
Communicating with the boys are sweeter sha

NohurryInLife:

The chief trouble you bah??

I swear down.. Their play scares me at times. But my baby girl is more caring .

PCSI:


Osuofia try dey read...

Na love she needs now from you guys not much scolding.

GOFRONT:
Dear Lord,

Pls never give me a Girlchild. Never ever

Thanks and Yourfaithfully.
Truely yours.

The issue is not the girl child. Op had rest of mind with his lil sister before a boy came into the picture.
The issue is that the boy child is mostly raised and encouraged to be sexually active. Focus is always on girls while boys are neglected. If boys are taught the right thing, all these high BP that father's have about their girl child having boyfriends will disappear.
Teach your son's right.

rawe45:


Please teach me how you handle their rough play… My first 2 are boys and one of them is already practicing skydiving on the staircase…
Communicating with the boys are sweeter sha

....Lol.Handling them especially their rough play no be here o.Guy I don shout tire,use caine and kneeling them down. But as soon as you say ok,go and play,the same wahala. Their bed don scatter where dem dey do wrestling I had to drop their foam on
the floor.
Most times I get scared when they are playing and I keep watching out for them especially my First son. Again their questions no be here. If they remember you for that,nwanne na you go confuse.

But playing and communicating with them is too sweet.

FireUpNow:
OP fear little girls of today. My little daughter who will be just 12 years old on Val's day is already writing love letter to her clasmate who is a boy. I checked her school bag and discovered this. I was so shocked! I called and flog her seriously. I also spoke to her about the dangers of having sex so early so it is not time for her to thinking about the opposite sex and that there is time for everything. No time to check time

instead of flogging her, why not take the time to give her serious education on sex and what to do in case she finds she is unable to keep herself from sex later on? The reason for the high number of teenage pregnancies even now is that most gals do not know how to avoid them when they are eventually tempted to submit to the act.

Teaching prevention is not same as encouraging sex but instead helping them avoid a bigger disaster should they eventually fall.

PCSI:


Osuofia try dey read...

CAPSLOCKED:
SO YOU DISCOVERED THAT YOUR SISTER MAY BE SEEING A BOY AND YOUR FIRST AND ONLY IDEA OF ACTION IS TO SHOW HER LOVE LETTERS TO POPSY? YOU ALSO CLAIM THAT YOU FEAR POPSY WILL SEND HER PACKING, SO WHY THEN DO YOU WANT TO SHOW HIM THE LETTER UNLESS YOU WANT HER TO BE SENT PACKING?

YOU'RE NOT A VERY BRIGHT PERSON, SIR/MA. IF YOU CANNOT COUNSEL A TEENAGER WITHOUT DOING DAMAGE TO THE EXTENT OF LOSING A PLACE SHE CALLS HER HOME THEN I WONDER WHAT IT IS IN THIS WORLD THAT YOU'LL BE RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH FOR.

So you too after all the capital letters what is your advice for him?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
As far as she's your sister and she's young you have all right to protect her..now what you are gonna do is this..sit her down and speak to her in a polite manner..tell her about the good and bad in relationship cos she's quite young but not bad if she's in a relationship..

Another thing you could do is tell her to invite her boyfriend over so you can have a proper discussion with him..you get?
Talk to the guy and tell him what's on your mind politely..note that no matter how much you shout or spank her she's still gonna do what's on her mind..so what I am saying is sit her down and talk to her without getting your parents involved..

you are acurately right .

Ahahahaha, that boy wants tn be the first person to teste her pussy lol.

guy what you have to do is to sit her down talk to her,tell her all the implications about boyfriend and girlfriend matter. Girls of nowadays are hard to control oo

Ok

rawe45:


I swear down.. Their play scares me at times. But my baby girl is more caring .

Chai, na the wahala be this now. Those boyz dey always play tough tough play.

Check if they are not having sxex yet

winner37:


you are acurately right .

Thanks so much..

A little digression, the writer of the letter get Fine Handwriting oo i like it

Almost all of us now in our own school days also experienced this so no bad thing about it, since your sis just finished secondary school it simply means she's already ripe to be Plucked

Don't get BP cuz of this matter, na close to normal experience of every teenagers their school days, and maybe cuz the writer of the letter and receiver no dey use mobile phone yet, a little text message would have done the do and you would not have found out about this
.

underpinna:
My little sister has a boyfriend who writes her love letter.

She is learning computer in another village and always comes back home late. A journey of 30mins back from her training center will take her close to two hours.

I am not always home and just visited the first time this year. After the numerous complaint from my mum I decided to check her school bag and found four letters from a guy. All come came from him. I will be showing it to popsi. My little sis not not the biological daughter to my parents. Her mother was good to us hence we are returning the favor. She just finished secondary school and will soon pick jamb form to further her education on my father's financing.

I just fear pregnancy. She should be within 15-18 can't really tell though.

I'm just afraid popsi might sent her packing.

osuofia2:

Your Sister's hand writing is beautiful.
Talk to her and don't scold her, raising girl Child no be beans

IPOB and ESN news don confused you, sote you on fit use your empty brain again, na the girl boyfriend wrote the letter, continue searching for Biafra news up and down, Illiterate Dummy