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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Kenturkey048(m): 2:40pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
NoToPile: Just the way marriage can't stop some women from distributing vagina is the same way a boy who isn't mentally ready for marriage can't be kept. Some women know marriage comes with many responsibilities...Those are the people refer to as MOTHERS. Now, when I say men. I mean MEN. REAL MEN.not boyfriends assumed husbands. But, Let me assume you are a professional that has dealt with hundreds in Men psychology to have arrived at your conclusion... Make we sha rest... |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by kayperry: 2:49pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: it hard to make sense of whatever you are trying so hard to postulate, we all know divorce was never an option in nigeria until social westernization came and feminist came along, and if you must learn abandonment & divorce are to different things, except you want to convince me coma and death are the same. In a case of abandonment, the marriage remains valid and there is an open entry for reconciliation unlike divorce, if we aint talking records then you might as well take your arguement to a beer parlour, the countries you call saner climes is where a woman weds a cat, men wed men and anything goes. maybe you should re define saner climes 2 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by djon78(m): 2:59pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
NoToPile: Many of these Young boys don't understand that It's when they hit there forties and fifties they will understand Women no dey forgive When they even deal with billionaires they were Married to, na these little boys wey never see anything Wey never even make better money One very wealthy former senator from imo state is now a vegetable All his wives and children have abandoned him He pees and shits in one place being taken care of by hired servants No loved one around And this man was very wealthy A billionaire But he dealt with his wives in his hey days Today he has been abandoned by all Women never forgives They always pay back 5 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:01pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Amazingbaby:.... This guy is from Mbano. Lol. 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:03pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
djon78:....I thought he had baby mamas and never wifed any ? 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by djon78(m): 3:09pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: No he wifed some One rich young guy that's well known from Abia state, that lives in Banana island married one of him daughters His wives mom was legally married to the guy Today he is a vegetable When I got to know of his current situation I shake my head How has the mighty fallen 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 3:15pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:27pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
djon78:....Ok. I didn't know. Thanks for the info. Yes i know Chima. |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by djon78(m): 3:28pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Yeah you know the guy |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by djon78(m): 3:33pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Kenturkey048: That marriage comes with different responsibilities is not for today's modern woman oo If you carry that mindset You are on a long thing They no get patience like our mothers oo 1 Like |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:39pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
djon78:...I be area o. And as a contractor,I ve had the opportunities to have met lots of big guys. God dey . |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by DriveByKiller: 3:54pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
pocohantas:stop seeing ghosts, love. 70 years old is lame except of course if your 26k per month salary isn't weathering your economic storm properly. Postmann is got you triggered. Dude knows how to work you. And what's your take on how amazingbaby came up strong and violent against me? Now listen, I keep telling ladies, age is your greatest enemy, second is your bad attitude. All pride when there's nothing going on for you out there in the real world. At 32, the highest point of your lives exists virtually on Nairaland, this is the reality of most of you sad frustrated females. Empty lifes everywhere. Amazingbaby says she's got an old account she's ashamed to make known. She's one of your kind. Now her husband has found a world-class pussy and is quitting. But she's here crying for help from strangers who don't know her or care if she dropped dead. Because there's no one out there in the real world for her to turn to. Fake life has her family even redundant to help her. Sad life. Virtual life no be substance. Poco, you have mastered the act of self-deceit and fakery. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:29pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Emaprince:What is the "bitter reality of divorce"if I may ask?are you a clown or something so take for instance a lady married an abuser she should remain in the marriage and die because the reality of divorce is bitter is that what you are saying?so if a woman has the courage to leave such a situation she should not be happy but should cry and embrace the so called bitter reality are you sure you are normal? Advising a man to leave is almost doing him a favour...but reverse the role, thats like an enemy advising the woman to go astray and laugh at her afterwards. And thats what your type isPlease shut up abeg. Be bold enough to advice her to quit her marriage and stop ranting incoherently. ..so that when the dust settles, she will know the people to curse ; those that lead her astraySee the pot calling kettle black after mentioning me with incoherent jargons you are still bold enough to say I am the one ranting incoherently oh my God irony is truly dead. Except her life is in danger, I will NEVER advice a woman to quit her marriage when I know how cold it is outside. When I know I can NEVEER advice my enemy to marry a divorcee. Lets not even talk about the kid baggage encumbering her. If I know I can't help make her life better, why should I ask her to leave?It is not cold outside, it is only cold in your bushy environment that is devoid of any civilization, please keep quiet different strokes for different folks there are men with class that are beyond your league that will marry a divorcee don't be so shallow to paint everyone's reality with the same brush. Your admonition should be to her disrespectful husband threatening her with a divorce advice your brothers if not for his irresponsibility the wife will not be contemplating giving him what he is asking for, how bold and shallow of you Nigerian bushmen who see two people in a situation of divorce but your brain has already programmed you to think that it is in your place to tell a woman what awaits her and how she would be the one to lose forgetting that it takes two to tango. Better redirect your energy and advice the party who is seeking divorce and leave the woman alone 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nobody: 4:30pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
ospreywin: She should go and get back her self esteem and worth! My husband cannot cheat on me openly and I kneel to beg him!!! He has to be remorseful while I decide on what to do. If it was the other way round, will her husband kneel down to beg? Marriage is not a do or die affair. 3 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nobody: 4:35pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
ospreywin: I am not suffering or gnashing in marriage because I married a man that respects me while I do so too. You cannot plant cassava and harvest okro, what you give is what you take. You cannot disrespect your wife and want peace in your home. 4 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by ospreywin(m): 4:37pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Ninisun: Na so lmao 3 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by BRATISLAVA: 4:39pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
kayperry: Your posts are senseless, because you do not know me and they don't have any application whatsoever. I don't even understand where you're coming from. All your fantasy doesn't even make sense. If you're so empty you think everyone else is like you, that is fine. Return to Oblivion, King of Broken Relationships. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nobody: 4:41pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by BRATISLAVA: 4:43pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Jennyclay: I'm sure the people mentioning this moniker are all the same broken, damaged person. If it isn't one person, then there must be a college where they all graduate from. Too much rape apology, evil apology, gender bias, angry posts against vaginas, so much calling people bitches. It's like a badge of frustration they all wear. The person that destroyed them did a great job though 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Kobojunkie: 4:46pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
kayperry:1. Where do you get these claims of yours from? 2. Interesting claim regarding abandonment and divorce there. So, you are saying woman who have been abandoned to raise their ward without support if any kind from the other partner are in a better position than those divorced women simply because , according to you, " the marriage remains valid and there is an open entry for reconciliation unlike divorce". How many of the 10s of millions of abandoned mothers Nigeria has recorded in the last decade alone see their current condition the way you describe here? Isn't that kind of an awfully wicked claim to make? Many of our mothers raised us alone and are struggling with one illness or another as a result of having to carry all that load alone without so much as a penny from anyone and you think they ought instead to rejoice because in some phantom delusion your existence operates on, their marriage certificate is still valid even though the other partner and Helper is no where to be seen.? Na here Natty go say " Tufiakwa". 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by BRATISLAVA: 4:50pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88: All the mental acrobatics and guilting blackmail gymnastics they go through to keep women in marriage to terrible characters is really advocacy of shamelessness, stupidity and evil. They reason like sheep. Most of them are just angry boys looking for how to have revenge on females through other men. Martinez comes to mind. @bolded lol. The truth is that most of the males who comment on this forum are uncivil beings. All the daily depression and frustration makes them post rubbish like facts. The other one was killing snakes in the forest yet releasing smelly logic on matters like this. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by BRATISLAVA: 4:52pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: The more Nigerian men post, the more you realize why Nigeria is finished. They go to school yet remain illiterate. 8 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Kobojunkie: 4:54pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:****SHUDDERS**** 9 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:58pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: LMAO, you have said it all and I loved how you dealt with trash/postman earlier 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by BRATISLAVA: 5:09pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Lol, I really enjoyed this your last response. I don't really know who postman is. But he reminds me of the faceless man, Ivar the boneless, and depressed, one/three of the most embittered incels on the forum. I don't know why he bought the other guys fight, and I don't know why he's obsessed with female sex parts. He's a vaginometer that mustn't be getting any, and it's consuming him. His type of slut shaming is insanity. It's difficult to see the logic in what he's doing. This thread is interesting. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Emaprince: 5:27pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88:You really is very bitter and emotional. It have also affected your comprehension ability. The woman in question didn't tell you that her life is in danger..and thats the reason I cannot advice her to divorce. You were busy attacking those asking her to keep her marriage. Why don't you be bold enough to advice her to quit the marriage? instead, you chose to be jumping from pillar to post..lol...you sound as if some girls out there snatched your man from you? Is the OPs case very familiar to yours? you really sound very bitter. I expect you to advice her to quit the marriage since divorce makes life better for women..but NO, you won't do that cos you are all mouth. A coward. And who are the men with class that marries divocees? Keep giving yourself false hope. Only an ill thinking man will go that low..when lots of pretty singles abound every where. As a divocee with kid, you be used and dumped. Deal with it. You will get to a point that you will be paying men to be with you. Only a man that doesn't know his worth will look your way...or a man looking to eat free pussssy and move. And that is if you still have anything close to attractiveness on your body. 3 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 6:51pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Emaprince:Clown,when bush men lose the argument they result to the usual catch phrase of "bitter and emotional" lol what a baseless assumption The woman in question didn't tell you that her life is in danger..and thats the reason I cannot advice her to divorceWho said anything about the woman in question?I was giving an example but since you are allergic to common sense how can you even understand imagine you claiming that my comprehension is affected whereas yours is in the open You were busy attacking those asking her to keep her marriage. Why don't you be bold enough to advice her to quit the marriage? instead, you chose to be jumping from pillar to post..lol...you sound as if some girls out there snatched your man from you? Is the OPs case very familiar to yours? you really sound very bitter.You are indeed shallow and it is becoming embarrassing, my comment was not directed at the OP but to the very persons I quoted whilst making a general statement exposing the hypocrisy of men who give advice that they cannot even take or give if reverse was the case I expect you to advice her to quit the marriage since divorce makes life better for women..but NO, you won't do that cos you are all mouth. A coward.You are the coward because I don't recall mentioning the OP to give her an advice and if I should yes if her husband wants a divorce she should give it to him and not degrade herself any further and that is not so hard to do I did not talk to the OP and she does not need my opinion because others have given her the advice I would have given her but you are not bright to see that instead you are so shallow that you called me a coward on an issue I never even bothered to address directly to the OP or did you see me quote her at all so what is the reason for callng me one? to nd who are the men with class that marries divocees? Keep giving yourself false hope. Only an ill thinking man will go that low..when lots of pretty singles abound every where. As a divocee with kid, you be used and dumped. Deal with it. You will get to a point that you will be paying men to be with you. Only a man that doesn't know his worth will look your way...or a man looking to eat free pussssy and move. And that is if you still have anything close to attractiveness on your body. Please keep quiet and stop talking like you are in the beer parlour change your circle or better still open your eyes travel around and get exposure, there are a lot of men marrying divorcees don't deceive yourself not every couple will open up to you about how they met, even in times of old women were marrying for the second and third time if not more so don't be too shallow because such men are not on naira land parrroting their affairs, also it is bold of you to assume that since men don't marry divorced women it is divorced men that find it easier to marry,people marry within their orbit,that is to say divorcees marry divorcees. Also not every divorcee wants to remarry get that through your head. Please shut up abeg, the moment OP is done dusting her CV and meeting high class people and changes her orbit she will definitely meet a better man she does not need bushmen men like you around her now swerve 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by DriveByKiller: 7:02pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Ninisun:a married woman with child/children is done and dusted. You're evil for your demonic deceit! And no pussy is worth taking a kneel for. Your value is directly proportional to your body firmness and good character. Hard fact. But Hollywood is your doom! 150,000,00 girls turn 18 years every day in Nigeria. You don't get to dictate except you're with a low productivity male! 5 Likes |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Emaprince: 7:23pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88:lol.... you really get time dey narrate stories o...I didn't read all sha. Ladyhippopotamus abi wetin you call your self. Goodnight |
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by nnenwa5: 7:41pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Why do most Nairaland men both old and young like to jump facts and focus on that which suits their narratives. Will heaven fall if you men accept truth? For once, you guys should call a spade a spade. Should a woman beg a man who says that he owes no explanation to his wife? Then pack his bags and leaves the house. Make una fear God ooo. I don’t care if the story is true or not but this shows the mindset of men and how manipulative they are. Marriage is team work and it will require the 2 parties to make it work. Nigerian men stop making marriage looks like a woman’s job to keep and make healthy. It’s frustrating on the woman’s side and this breed everlasting resentment and bitterness. Treat women as human beings and adults with feelings and emotions. Anything you can’t tolerate, understand that your woman will not tolerate it. You guys should stop making it look like a woman should tolerate shits that you can’t stomach. Many of you marry just to suffer the woman just because you followed traditions to marry her and probably foot the bills at home. Please unmarried ladies ask questions about marriage, get tips and advice, apply critical thinking in marriage situations shared or posted online. Don’t be like some of us that had to learn while married. There are a lot of psychological, emotional damaged married women, don’t add to it. As for the men, get ready, a bumpy ride for you guys. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
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