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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Nobody: 6:20pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Op listen to your mind Just doke her mercilessly 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kolenda(m): 6:21pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Stedygrowth:Very mature response you've got here. Not all these ones thinking it's a taboo that OP's biological activity is taking place. Like the OP said, he's not close with the cousin and their family. So it's possible that his mind has not been conditioned to accept the girl as his cousin sister 78 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Karleb(m): 6:39pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Maxwell775: Tell her this. You stopped wearing boxers when she arrived. She should stop wearing tight dresses as a sign of respect. Baba, forget her age, scold that girl. She'll even respect you more. 7 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Rickmann: 7:04pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Maxwell775: Honestly I don't think she has any sort of ulterior motive. I think she already sees you as a brother...so her dressing isn't intentional at all. If you aren't comfortable with it, simply talk to her like an older brother will talk to his kid sister without her suspecting anything. Remember you just claimed you have a girlfriend. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Brian47(m): 7:11pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Oga be a man. Don't do anything stupid. Stay strong and you'll over come temptation 6 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kobojunkie: 7:13pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kolenda:Taboo? There is nothing taboo about a problem that is obviously a lack or mental discipline. The reason OP objectifies his cousin is simply that he sees her as a sex object and not an individual such as himself deserving of respect. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kobojunkie: 7:14pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Rickmann:She probably even sees him as a mentally disciplined individual ought to see another human regardless of family ties. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Rickmann: 7:19pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Exactly. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by okoroemeka(m): 7:25pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
candidladyTemp:what you have to realize is that human beings are different and some men has more libido than others,I think the op is a normal healthy man that is been sexually assaulted by his cousin,I can testify about what this University girls wear at home,I simply have no option but to read the riot act to my daughter to stop going about naked in my house,what she wears at home whenever she comes back from school is far more worse than what the op is seeing,just pant called bum shorts and bra called top,what is wrong with this children nowadays, 17 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kolenda(m): 7:33pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You're correct. It's about mental discipline. We condition our minds to accept or reject certain things. Just like the way we've conditioned our minds that our siblings are no go area sexually. What we now do is to train our minds that even when we see them naked, we don't get moved 5 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Nicepoker(m): 7:35pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
[s] candidladyTemp:[/s] 3 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Nicepoker(m): 7:36pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Op take it to God in prayer. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kobojunkie: 7:39pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Kolenda:Exactly! Nobody is born with these capabilities from birth. Instead we create in our our minds these boundaries. Same way we train the mind to know that eating other humans is unacceptable is the same way we train it to knowing not to objectify others or make intimacy gadgets of them. The mind in turn controls the body and its every urges. There is nothing normal about a grown man or woman getting an erection for a woman/man he/she is not directly involved with... unless the man/woman is sick either mentally or physically. 6 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kobojunkie: 7:41pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
okoroemeka:Having high libido has nothing to do with what OP described. If you don't understand what libido or sex drive means, I suggest you make Google your friend.. Any man getting an erection from seeing his own daughter naked needs to go see a psychiatrist, not make the gal feel self-conscious for a fault that has absolutely nothing to do with them. In fact I recommend such a man should not be left anywhere around female children at at point unto he has been mentally certified as being safe. You can't stand bum shorts meaning your daughters are not safe wearing underwear or swimming trunks around you, abi? Go see a shrink abeg! Nigerians and there lame excuses ehn..... 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kobojunkie: 8:05pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
nickvanilla:There is no need to look away instead what is needed is maturity and discipline of the mental kind to overcoming these things. Una dey see male runway models wey dey even see the gals naked for the same dressing room abi? Ever asked why those guys no dey get erection with all those unclad women around them? Ever wondered how it european men and women can thrive in their many nude beaches without loosing their minds each right there and then? Have you ever heard of a rape pandemic on any of dem beaches as a result of all that unclothedness? Mental discipline is something every man and woman ought to have regardless of race or nationality. A man/woman should be able to see a fellow human naked without being sexually aroused. That is a huge sign of sexual maturity. 10 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Ichabodcrane(m): 8:14pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
candidladyTemp:I used to think this fella is smart. I am disappointed. I just read your comment where you said God created Eve cos Adam was incompetent. We really have a lot of dumb people in this country 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by candidladyTemp(f): 8:17pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Ichabodcrane: A die hard Christian spotted Yakuri |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Ichabodcrane(m): 8:18pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Maxwell775:My opinion... Since she isn't your blood sister, there is a possibility of that happening. It's not an abomination, you are human. Don't mind all these people saying shit. U seek advice, them no give u. They will be the first to blame u tomorrow if you make mistake. I don't know how close you guys are, I'd advice you talk to her about her dressing, and what she is putting you through. If she is matured enough, she should understand and adjust. If she doesn't, then you tell her to look for her friend to stay with. To avoid sad stories. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by MufasaLion: 8:19pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
I'm too tired to comment. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by godlessmind: 8:20pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Maxwell775: You're a bleeping pervert |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Brighton1(m): 8:23pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Ichabodcrane:this is the dumbest thing I've read this year. Bro don't mind those girls. Atleast, water still dey inside coconut But na ordinary air dey inside nairaland feminists head... Very empty head and anyhow girls. 12 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by techWriter3: 9:12pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
stand her down and want her tell that you not not comfortable with how she frocks in the bedroom |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Smartgeek(m): 9:17pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
All these holier than thou's claiming Saint obi, giving u advice are hypocrites. We're all humans, we have blood running through our veins. She's your cousin, u and her didn't grow up together, your bound to have sexual arousal if she dresses in a seductive manner. It shows u're a man down there! Even the bible states that one should "Flee" from temptation. However, that's where self control comes in! If you truly want to end all these, u should have a candid talk with her... Letting her know how her sexy countenance arouses you. It's just biology. She should be more aware that her actions can put u both in trouble. If after doing the aforementioned and no changes, YOU OR YOUR COUSIN SHOULD FLEE. You should talk to ur mum that your cousin is making u uncomfortable or give one excuse just for her to see reasons to seek alternative accommodation for her.... Let her go stay in the school hostel or live elsewhere. You're solely responsible for your actions. Cheers. 24 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Brighton1(m): 9:20pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
techWriter3:Read your comment again? You're a tect writer and you can't write/compose simple sentence. Now, touch your knees... Don't beg me... I say touch your knees!!! You dey Mad!! 10 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Smoketight(m): 9:22pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Prick no get shoulder e nor get shoulder put d head d rest enter 1 Like |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kobojunkie: 9:35pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Smartgeek:I was waiting for someone like you to stupidly quote the bible. So here are two things. According to Jesus Christ, the fact that you are around by a woman who is not your wife is counted as sin against you.... Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28. By that standard, lusting after any woman you are not married to is a sin. This while you contradict by claiming it is OK for OP to lust after his cousin. See how foolish your attempt is? And the same scripture also tells you that when your body part causes you to sin, that you should cut that your body part off - not someone else's body part ooo. - Matthew 5 vs 29 - 20 Where Paul suggests you should flee temptation, he didn't say you should warn other people. Instead in this case, his suggestion to you would mean that you stop lusting in your hearts after women as this is a sin and all sin is condemned as unholy to God. Please stop quoting bible foolishly abeg! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Jamahyel(m): 9:38pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Op no get money now, you want make them beat am lock am. Sarsaproko: |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Nobody: 9:39pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Maxwell775:So if you were to be my dad ,it will be a long story for I & my younger sisters. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by flokii: 9:40pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
If at 20yrs, she doesn't know the implication of her actions with indecent dressing around a male host, then she is dumb. That's how some of them get raped from dressing provocatively. @OP My own take is that she is wearing those clothes deliberately to seduce you and have you oil her cuntus.. maybe konji don dey finish the girl sef who knows. A time will come when she'll start walking around the house braless with tits dangling around if you don't put her back in line now. Sha be careful so they won't accuse you of rape in the future. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kobojunkie: 9:42pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by iLoveYouToo(m): 9:44pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
Who says ‘Cousin sister’ ? SMH 6 Likes 1 Share |
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