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Help! Why Does My Husband Feel More Like A Roommate Than A Husband? by AMumAndMore(f): 2:56pm On Feb 21, 2022
✍�Remember how you get butterflies in your stomach when you talk to your Significant Other? How wild your thought runs when you’re away from them?


Many relationships go through difficult times, but some things can hurt your relationship and turn it into a passionless relationship.

But I guess the Million dollar question is; Where has the spark gone?�
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Long-term relationships, especially when you're married, can bring an element of stability, Intimacy, and Connection to one's life.


Along the way, however, life can seem to complicate maintaining and renewing that spark, from raising children to significant changes at work.



However, You can have the best of both worlds—the passion of new love and the benefits of a long-term relationship.



You have to come to terms that the butterflies have flown away, then work around getting them to fly back in!

And No, you don't need magic to get your "Magic" back. You need to go back to the beginning.


Want to know what beginning you have to go back to?



Then take a look at this:

https://amumandmore.com/how-to-bring-the-spark-back-to-your-marriage/



I hope you find this helpful.


The butterflies have to come back; If e reach to use net catch, then net we shall use.


Dear Mamma

How do you maintain the magic in your marriage?

We'd love to hear from you in the comment section.


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest.

Stay Fabulous!



©️Viv Obinna
Re: Help! Why Does My Husband Feel More Like A Roommate Than A Husband? by Flexherbal(m): 3:40pm On Feb 21, 2022
It is never really easy but love always finds a way. That’s my thought exactly.

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Re: Help! Why Does My Husband Feel More Like A Roommate Than A Husband? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Feb 21, 2022
Marriage is not all about procreation, you have to be mentally alert and physically fit to venture into such union, you're accepting someone's character, attitude and behavior which at the beginning of the union you may not be able to see them but when challenges sets in you begin to see who your partners are and also I think loves is not really as sweet as we thought it is, it also comes with some kind challenges dat if not ready to face them it will consume you full-time

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Re: Help! Why Does My Husband Feel More Like A Roommate Than A Husband? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:33pm On Feb 21, 2022
AMumAndMore:
Where has the spark gone?

its childish to expect the spark after a few yrs of dating/marriage....you are not suppose to have sparks all through the dating/marriages....just like anything else in this world, the sparks will fade but the love should remain, and thats what matters!

you can spice your r/ship as a substitute, but best forget about the stomach butterflies etc!

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