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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Explorerx(m): 9:47pm On Feb 22, 2022
Datboredberri:
And catch aids? I'll pass...

Please... I'm no discussing your penis or sex anymore... You're ruining my thread.

Go away... I won't mention you again...

You're an idiot... That can't be changed...

My dick size is ruining your head?
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 7:23am On Feb 23, 2022
Explorerx:


My dick size is ruining your head?
I thought we were done... undecided
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Explorerx(m): 1:16pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
I thought we were done... undecided

Nope we aren’t done
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Dukeolumidemans(m): 2:07pm On Feb 23, 2022
Datboredberri:
To the unattractive or average looking members of this forum, there's hope for you...

"Beauty is skin deep"... Cliche, but this statement is nothing but the gospel truth...



My personal experience:

My childhood was tough... We moved a lot... I changed to new school... Got bullied by the older girls... Kids can be very cruel... cry

So I grew up thinking I wasn't attractive...

I hate to receive compliments... Yes, flattery doesn't move me... grin

How did my perception of myself affect my relationships?

It made me appreciate and value intelligence... A sense of humour... Good character and humanity... grin

I'm not drop dead gorgeous... I'm a tomboy, so I'm pretty rough... Lol...

I began to have interest in other things... Instead of fashion, it was science and tech and history and literature... Had a crush on Steven Hawkins (rip)... grin

Massage my ego by telling me how smart I am...
That's the only way to my heart... (And food and an adventure and a good book and music...etc) grin

I'm not attracted to pretty faces... I absolutely adore intelligent men... A plus If they find it hard to connect to others...(I can relate)... embarassed



We live in a world that tells us that if we aren't beautiful or handsome, we're a zero... And it's wrong...

You have many other amazing qualities...

1. Your intelligence...

2. Your personality; you might be funny, kind, dependable...etc...



Most of us try to use money to compensate... That's bullshit!

You can date someone who likes the same thing you do; music, genre of books, movies, travel, food...etc...

Nothing connects us more than common interests... Especially in a relationship...

It's not high cheekbones, not flawless skin, not biceps...



Ofcourse, we're all beautiful... "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder"... The opinions of assholes don't matter... smiley

But just realise that there's more to you...

Beauty standards change... Like a stupid trend... But you're constant... kiss

Truth is I find u very attractive and intelligent. I took time to go through ur stuff, again and again. I know its not about looks, but about other qualities that makes u stand out. Money and a fine face is not everything u know. By the way, I use to have a friend that is a tomboy, our rough play was second to non before she moved.

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 2:16pm On Feb 23, 2022
Explorerx:


Nope we aren’t done


Why not?
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 2:17pm On Feb 23, 2022
Dukeolumidemans:


Truth is I find u very attractive and intelligent. I took time to go through ur stuff, again and again. I know its not about looks, but about other qualities that makes u stand out. Money and a fine face is not everything u know. By the way, I use to have a friend that is a tomboy, our rough play was second to non before she moved.
Thank you very much! I appreciate this... smiley

Lol... Yes, we're very rough... grin
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Explorerx(m): 2:31pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:


Why not?

I’m beginning to like you
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 2:36pm On Feb 23, 2022
Explorerx:


I’m beginning to like you
You know I can bully you... Right? undecided
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Dukeolumidemans(m): 3:49pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
Thank you very much! I appreciate this... smiley

Lol... Yes, we're very rough... grin

Not just rough, strong willed and very tender inside...just the definition of a friend in need.
Can we be friends? Because I like u already.
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 3:54pm On Feb 23, 2022
Dukeolumidemans:


Not just rough, strong willed and very tender inside...just the definition of a friend in need.
Can we be friends? Because I like u already.
Ofcourse we are! You're my friend... smiley

And yes! We're very tender! grin grin embarassed
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Dukeolumidemans(m): 4:06pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
Ofcourse we are! You're my friend... smiley

And yes! We're very tender! grin grin embarassed

I noticed this the two times I had friends like that. Although one was fair and the other dark but they were practically the same. That's why it was easy for me to understand the second one after the first moved.
The part I love most about u, is the energy and being able to mix easily with guys and not give a damn...on the soft part, internally u can easily be mistaken for a big baby. And I simply love it because u deserve all the attention.
I will send u a dm.
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 4:14pm On Feb 23, 2022
Dukeolumidemans:


I noticed this the two times I had friends like that. Although one was fair and the other dark but they were practically the same. That's why it was easy for me to understand the second one after the first moved.
The part I love most about u, is the energy and being able to mix easily with guys and not give a damn...on the soft part, internally u can easily be mistaken for a big baby. And I simply love it because u deserve all the attention.
I will send u a dm.

I'm shocked! You already know me! Yes, please do... So we can talk more... smiley
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Explorerx(m): 4:22pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
You know I can bully you... Right? undecided

Please do so
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 4:24pm On Feb 23, 2022
Explorerx:


Please do so
wait... Your profile picture... That's you?

Your attitude of logging out immediately is obnoxious...
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Dukeolumidemans(m): 9:46pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:


I'm shocked! You already know me! Yes, please do... So we can talk more... smiley

Okay dear. Done. Am yet to get ur response.
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Explorerx(m): 9:53pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
wait... Your profile picture... That's you?

Your attitude of logging out immediately is obnoxious...

Yea that’s me
I’m handsome right?
I thought you checked the Instagram

I won’t log out again like that
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Canih28: 12:05am On Feb 25, 2022
Datboredberri:
We choose suitable mates to have offsprings that are better suited to survive...

Your child wouldn't feel inferior if the world were smarter... But it's not... Sadly.

I love Steven Hawkins for one simple reason... He had a disability but he was a fu**ing genius! I cried when he died...

Have you ever thought that your child may feel inferior for not being as smart as he is?

Why not?
So there are girls like you in this country smiley
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by BeanmanX(m): 5:02am On Feb 25, 2022
BeanmannnX:
if u no chop ban it means I am not punching hard enough
Mynd44 seun lalasticlala justwise rule 2 and 19

This account belongs to the notorious troll cloning my account and defaming me, he keeps creating different accounts after getting banned, do something about this
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Imbecilicsamuel: 1:08pm On Feb 27, 2022
MrsAbimbolaDorc:
BeanmanX alt. cool cool

You are not smart at all. Think again. grin
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by BeanmanX(m): 1:56pm On Feb 27, 2022
Imbecilicsamuel:


Migraine giver keh. grin
Somebody that is suffering from chronic genital warts and is looking for how to escape poverty to turkey. lipsrsealed grin BeannmienX Satan's b1tch is deluded. grin
No worry,he go chop ban like mumu grin cheesy cheesy
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by BeanmanX(m): 2:42pm On Feb 27, 2022
Imbecilicsamuel:


You are not smart at all. Think again. grin
The dumbest troll I have ever seen grin cheesy cheesy grin grin

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by BeanmanX(m): 4:42pm On Feb 27, 2022
InoDeyDie:
firemanx and this banned. I will follow u to dearh
U go chop ban like mumu, na for 5 years I go deal with you, that's if u never die by then cheesy grin grin grin

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