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Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by AoifeNightfall: 8:44am On Feb 26, 2022 |
yanabasee: What is out there? What kind of difficult life is out there, that somebody cannot tint hair? |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by AoifeNightfall: 8:47am On Feb 26, 2022 |
yanabasee: Are you well at all? Enjoy what ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Acidosis(m): 9:11am On Feb 26, 2022 |
yanabasee: Hypocritical parents everywhere. You drink to stupor, keep late nights, sleep with everything on skirt,and probably smoke Indian hemp but somehow, you feel you're in the best position to demand morality from your kids. It doesn't work that way. If the op decides to get himself a crazy haircut, the father has no moral ground to correct him. As it stands, the OP has all the rights to rebel and fight that man. What you don't give, you can't get. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by yanabasee(m): 9:15am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Acidosis: Op don't listen to this people trying to invite you against your family... They will not be there when your family is in crisis.... They will not be there when. your mother and your father won't be in good terms.... No matter what your father is doing, you have to first of all respect him as your father... Don't be that child that brings about divorce to your own home. It's very simple, if he calls for you to cut your hair down, do so and let peace come into your house... |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Acidosis(m): 9:18am On Feb 26, 2022 |
yanabasee: What crisis? Same one that started some 22 years ago? What terms? Have they ever been in good terms? Sending your wife out of the house she invested her money is good terms? |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by yanabasee(m): 9:23am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Acidosis: Yet the marriage stood for 22yrs? Why will a simple haircut now be a thing to kill a home? Do you give up on life because of what you experienced? His mother endured this long... If she sees the need to divorce him, she will, but if she sees it as one of those marriages and she still with him, who are you to talk him into destroying home that his mother have been trying to keep? You think this is some indomie marriages that is in every court seeking for divorce? |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Acidosis(m): 9:35am On Feb 26, 2022 |
yanabasee: It's her call to leave or remain in the marriage. My issue with you has to do with your attempt to blackmail the op into showing respect to a father that caused him nothing but pain and abuse for 22 years. The same book you got that saying "respect/honour your father and your mother" also instructed parents to avoid provoking their kids into anger. The same book told fathers to provide and love their wives. The same book warned about adultery and drunkenness. The father refused to adhere to all instructions about fatherhood. There's nothing to respect if you ask me. 5 Likes |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by yanabasee(m): 9:43am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Acidosis: You don't have issue with me. You have issues with yourself... Many of you have toxic bosses at work and you don't repel them, but will see the need to repel your parents. |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Richy4(m): 9:45am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Young man... There's no need really to rope your mother into this whole drama of your stubbornness.... You are living in your father's house, he got rules and his rule says "cut that hair before u enter into my house"... If u don't really like it, u pack and be free.. but if u want to stay, u go ahead and cut the hair and abide by his rules... It's just a simple rule... U are 22... A 22yr old is old enough to be alone, stay in prison, vote and be voted for, earn a living etc... If you dislike the idea of cutting your hair and you have had it up to your neck, this is the right opportunity to gain your freedom.. As for your mother, she has a reason best known to her on why she decides to stay with an unfaithful spouse.. that is none of your business but between the two of them...... I will not criticise your father, I will not criticise your mother... because they knew how they were living and it was working for them...irrespective of what popular opinion says... Please stick to the rules or u move out... Do not endanger your mother's life because of your stubbornness.. she slept outside because of the fact that she was supporting u... You already know that your father is heartless and have no more feelings for your mother, so consider her first before u try any other stubborn act... |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Acidosis(m): 9:48am On Feb 26, 2022 |
yanabasee: LOL At least, toxic bosses pay salaries at the end of the month. An irresponsible father who gives nothing asides from a surname you can change with 10k affidavit deserves no respect. 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by NoToPile: 10:03am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Richy4: But it's the father that roped the mother in or is it not the same story we read. He chased both of them out because of the sons haircut. He is supposed to address the issue with the son and leave the mother out of it, he chased his wife and son because of a haircut he could tell the boy to trim off with scissors immediately. That doesn't sound right to me. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by yanabasee(m): 10:05am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Acidosis: And you think to house a stubborn teenager is a child's play? |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Acidosis(m): 10:12am On Feb 26, 2022 |
yanabasee: I like the fact that you used the word "house" instead of "train". ![]() What a "stubborn" teenager needs is training not just a roof over his head. 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Richy4(m): 10:18am On Feb 26, 2022 |
NoToPile:While I was in Uni, we were meant to tackle the remote causes of problem first before the immediate... What started it I believe was the young man's unwillingness to abide by the rule stipulated by the father right? <<<Assuming he said ok dad, I will go and cut the hair, I believe he will not have the reason to stay outside... <<< His mother will not have any reason to defend him and both of them thrown out... Am I correct so far?... <<< I am not trying to exonerate his father for his actions... OP knows already that his father is a douchebag who doesn't care about his mother any more... <<<Now if he has his mother's interest at heart, he will not do anything stupid that will make his mother go through bad phase knowing fully well that she has gone through alot already... And will support and defend his actions no matter what... That was just my argument.. |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by yanabasee(m): 10:32am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Acidosis: Let him go and join the military and get trained.... if the training of having him cut down his hair has become war... |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by GboyegaD(m): 10:39am On Feb 26, 2022 |
PlayerMeji: If you are still handling a 23 year old as a kid, you are a failure. Many Nigerian parents fall into this category unfortunately. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Acidosis(m): 10:43am On Feb 26, 2022 |
yanabasee: Funny how a drunkard feels he has opinion about an ideal haircut. What would you say by the time the op begins to sleep around and drink to stupor exactly like his father? Sound training, isn't? 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by GboyegaD(m): 10:46am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Olumighty123: How come you could judge him and his mother when you knew there are two sides to a story? 3 Likes |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by GboyegaD(m): 10:50am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Iamfedup: Your dad either acted out of his state of mind or just wanted to prove himself as a man. 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Joelobioha(m): 11:23am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Haakeem:sorry to say this but sometimes the people who are close to you..people who you call family are the devils in sheeps clothing.. |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Stargurl20(f): 3:40pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Just don't be like him to ur children and wife. And no matter what, there's no where u can push him to. Plus, it shouldn't stop u from fulfilling your role as a son. |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Haakeem(m): 4:14pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Joelobioha:abeg my mama no be devil O ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by capnies: 4:36pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Iamfedup: YOUR MOTHER IS PROVIDING EVERYTHING IN THE HOUSE, MOST WOMEN THIS FALSE IMPRESSION SO AS TO LURE THE CHILDREN HEARTS TO THEMSELVES. LOOK. WELL B4 YOU TALK, YOUR SON(S) WILL ASLO HATE YOU |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Mindlog: 4:56pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
capnies: You mean a 22 year old human who is not mentally impaired, can not distinguish who is actually providing for the home he/she lives in? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Joelobioha(m): 5:33pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Haakeem(m): 5:35pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Joelobioha:then no offence. |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Joelobioha(m): 5:42pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
Haakeem:yes comrade..peace all along ![]() |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Nobody: 11:41pm On Feb 26, 2022 |
As for me, I'm confused as to whether I should love him as much or not But atimes I feel nothing but sorry for him, cos he messed up our whole lives |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Kobojunkie: 2:48am On Feb 27, 2022 |
Senomii:What does it mean to love others? I like to think it means "Do to others as you will like for them to do to you". That is how my love for family and for everyone else is defined. ![]() |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Nobody: 12:32pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:What if they didn't do to you the way you wanted them to |
Re: I Have The Most Worst Father On Earth by Kobojunkie: 12:46pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Senomii:That is fine and no fault of yours. There will always be shitty people out there for you to tangle with. What matters is that you are not one of them.. ![]() 2 Likes |
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