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Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Kimiso(m): 9:26pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Wallteck:can you narrate your reasons for these utterances |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Brownshoe: 9:37pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
showafrica:huh, and i like this comment, take 3 Likes
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Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Betboss(m): 10:10pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
21savages:Did you suffer any emotional trauma/maltreatment while you were younger? |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Exceed15: 10:16pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Sometimes being too nice is dangerous . You have to show your mean side once in a while to avoid getting hurt. Ziad k . Abdelnour 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Brownshoe: 10:24pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Op start Putin everybody. |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by profstar(m): 10:33pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Brownshoe:Best advice, i swear, just pick one week and show everybody pepper, everybody no exception 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by 21savages: 11:02pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Betboss:yeah emotional trauma cux i lost my mum from early age, so many things i cant really explain. |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Betboss(m): 12:04am On Mar 02, 2022 |
21savages: I think this explains your personality. Its all in the brain. |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Rawhumper(m): 12:57am On Mar 02, 2022 |
What the essence of coming here and whining like a sick infected horse. You didnt say anything and u talking about been nice,so u didnt know that nice guys get hurt most. uote author=Wallteck post=110643233]For been naive, nice and kind. I have being a victim of bully because I can't defend myself. Have lose a lot of respect. I wish God can recreate me to be a tough guy. Have been call fool for my behaviour. I just wish people can understand. This world we live people are just too ruthless. The moment they see a weak guy they will start using and riding him anyhow. If I decide to change my ways I swear I will be so Wicked to the extent I won't have love for humanity. Right now, I don't make friends too much because I know my weakness. I just want to be a lonely and marry a lady who understands me. People are just too Wicked. Respect to those tough guys out there. I will make sure all my child not suffer the same faith I suffer. People are just too wicked.[/quote] |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Rawhumper(m): 12:58am On Mar 02, 2022 |
I lost mine when I was 12years old..... I didnt feel full love of my mum. There people that lost both parents when they were babies bro. So live life and stay strong,don't whine cos its pissing me off. uote author=21savages post=110673071]yeah emotional trauma cux i lost my mum from early age, so many things i cant really explain.[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by jimcaddy(m): 2:11am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Exactly, especially in this Nigeria. We are so wicked. It's more like a dog eat Dog situation. If you don't eat them, you will be eaten yourself.. Everyone just wants to screw everyone over... 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Papichulli: 2:21am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Wallteck:This is just me but I have learned the hard way and I'm trying to change now. 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by koolaid87: 3:20am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Eat or be eaten... Kill or be killed Be a predator or be preyed upon The choice is yours 2 Likes |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by 2real52: 4:38am On Mar 02, 2022 |
One thing you must know, no matter how tough you are, a tougher guy is just right next door. I believe that tough guys (no matter how tough) die quicker. Some one will always be out there to prove much toughness than you. My advice is for you to appreciate your self and avoid situations where your toughness or softness will be put to test. Thank you 2 Likes |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by BluntCrazeMan: 4:55am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Wallteck:From extreme naivety to extreme wickedness.... My man, I can see that you're the main problem to yourself. You see the world from a very narrow angle. 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by dochenaj: 6:39am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Wallteck:I don't know the peculiarities of your story and what you deem as weakness. But I sense that what you need is wisdom and not strength. |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Gointo: 6:49am On Mar 02, 2022 |
you are strong.. don't let the society turn you to what you are not..be true to your nature. those disgruntled people intimidating others have in reality low self esteem ,that why they do that to feel good about themselves. now,you want to imitate them means you are no better than them,you've also developed low self esteem. .. pigs will want to drag you to the mud,you either agree or disagree. you are in a higher enegy level ,they operate in the lower energy lecel.,,aggressive behaviour is a sign of weakness not strength. . move with friendly people like you.. you need to harness your mental power.. I don't know if you are Christian, if yes ..read the gospel of the Lord JESUS CHRIST. then you will see how God defend you . put it to prayer ,pray for them and thank me later. the Bible says the LORD brings the proud and wicked to desolation but uplift the humble.. you are never weak. 4 Likes |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Pukkalolo: 8:36am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Wallteck: Read this nairaland post... It might be helpful https://www.nairaland.com/6933245/how-ruined-first-date-crush |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by InoGetJoy: 8:26am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Jayzx:that comment will lead him to his room. It's a dog eat dog world out there, OP needs to toughen up |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by MrMacinterchi1: 11:51am On Mar 07, 2022 |
maiquel:Please do recommend. |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by MrMacinterchi1: 12:19pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Gamesmart:INFP means what? |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Gamesmart: 12:30pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
MrMacinterchi1: It is a label for a personality type. They are introverted, nice, amiable, considerate and reconciliatory in nature. Their nickname is "Healer". If they are not sensible in those traits, they become a dysfunctional version. Everyone needs to know, and have a reasonable limit, when to tell people to fuckoff. No be every day and every time persin go dey dey nice, amiable, considerate and reconciliatory. Be ready to bring your werey out! https://www.truity.com/personality-type/INFP |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by MrMacinterchi1: 12:45pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Gamesmart:you try. Thank you. |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by maiquel: 1:22pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
MrMacinterchi1:The killer and the slain. Hugh Walpole |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by MrMacinterchi1: 4:05pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
maiquel:Oh. thank you 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Wallteck: 1:55am On Feb 02, 2023 |
pansophist: I need your advice on how to become a very hard guy. |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by codedrunstv: 4:57am On Feb 02, 2023 |
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Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Waffarianman(m): 8:06am On Feb 02, 2023 |
Some times in life you have to be tough or maybe gentle all depends on the situation you're then. Me. Chima my former boss after stealing much money for him within some years working with a Chinese company for no reason demoted me to ordinary factory I keep silent and quite the work and gather my information that have been keeping for yrs. Na I exposed every of his secret na I shotdown thins Things are happening you just have to be brave and face your fears |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by benqo01(m): 8:17am On Feb 02, 2023 |
THE KIND OF WORLD WE LIVE IN IF U DONT Bleep WITH THEM THEY Bleep WITH YOU MENTALLY BEING TOO NICE IS OLD SKUL D WORLD IS TOUGH BUCKLE UP BRO SAY NASTY SHIT SOMETIMES DONT BE YES SIR EVERYTIME DEY WILL PLAY WITH YA MENTAL SELF |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by pansophist(m): 9:52am On Feb 02, 2023 |
Wallteck: How old are you? You need to first, start living alone, or with other guys. You must release yourself from the financial coverage of your parents, so it must be you against the world. Then start doing things because you have to do it, not because you feel like it. So discipline. For example, I have a contract with myself that I will run 35km weekly. So either I run 5km per day seven times or any combination of such, but i must complete 35km. Doesn't matter if it rains, is windy, or sunny, I must complete it. Exercise sucks, I don't enjoy it most times really, but it builds your tolerance to stress, and endurance, and helps you keep to schedule and do what you have to do. You can start it with sports. And start doing something. Think of a height you want to reach, and pursue it with all your life. The world around you is designed by men that are competent, disciplined, and thrived against all odds. So the way you live right now is because other men before you have decided that you should live like that. The phone you used, the apps, the car, the planes, the shopping malls and cinema, poetry, etc, everything you enjoy was due to the ingenuity and hard work of other men before you. If you live life just to have fun, to flex hard, to womanize, to drink, to be a cultist, and all these things common with youth these days, life will be so empty and you will be at the mercy of men that are doing things right. The reason why lots of people are actually still alive is that they are at the mercy of other people. A single sickness, house eviction, loss of a job, etc can trigger the start of a downward spiral which may eliminate them. So you must take full responsibility for your life and patch any leaks that can bring you down. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Nobody: 3:41pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
FreddieGray: It has been established and it's a fact that the West had engaged in pre colonial, colonial and post colonial exploitation of African resources. The US/West exploits the world through various clandestine activities but most especially it's currency. The economic disparity between the collective west and developing countries can be considered an exploitation or rebranded slavery. The legal minimum wage for jobs in most western countries is the equivalent of $10/hr. For illustration, A factory worker in the US/west earns $15/hr, 8 hours per day in a 5 day work week = about $500 weekly. In 2 weeks time, this factory worker would be able to save about $1000 for a tech product (let's say an iPhone).... I know this worker will have other needs but this is just for illustration. Meanwhile, a factory worker in Nigeria working 8 hours a day..maybe 10K a day ..in a 5 day work week would earn like 50K naira weekly...in 2 weeks, that's 100K naira (less than $250 as of today). Both had the same labour input but the Nigerian was exploited by the hegemon. The West influenced the politics of Africa. Most African countries are still under defacto colonialism. The Western interference in our domestic politics allows them install puppets('African leaders') who in turn give the colonizers a free hand to loot our resources. We can take advantage of the rivalry between the West and East and use it to our own benefit.
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Re: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by Speaklove: 9:01am On Feb 03, 2023 |
Wallteck: I understand what your going through bro . I have suffered too ,and that isn't going to make me change . I am not living the way I live because of any man but because I know very well that would have to give account to the god who made me so I would advice you to keep calm and use wisdom . What you need is wisdom not hardness . Becoming hard would suck your soul up . But walking in wisdom will make you victorious at the end . People took my humility for weakness ,and deed stuffs to me that they wouldnt love for themselves . But god is leading to live and walk by wisdom . 2 Timothy 1:7 [7]For God did not give us a spirit of timidity (of cowardice, of craven and cringing and fawning fear), but [He has given us a spirit] of power and of love and of calm and well-balanced mind and discipline and self-control. |
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