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Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Dukeolumidemans(m): 8:31am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519: U never Chee Chomtin. Marriage is not for the faint minded. God does not want us to divorce but for the sake of our wickedness and unforgiving spirit, he approved it. Marriage is for better for worse. If our moms acted the way ur about to act now, alot won't know their dads. Alot won't know how to live under a man. Solution is not to divorce him but to wake him up as early as 4am and speak sense into his medula oblongata. I come in peace!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by AleAirHub(m): 8:31am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Whoever sold the idea of divorce to you is horrible and doesn't mean well for you in life because from your right up you never mentioned that your hubby abused you and what makes you think the divorce will be an easy escape route?. Fast track, your hubby's crime here is by engaging in online gambling which he thinks could have been a better option to increase his financial income earns winning for the betterment of the family but that route has been proven otherwise. My dear, you need to have one on one conversation with him and let him see the reasons why he should stop betting or better still reach out to a counsellor too and I believe everything will bounce back to normal loosingfaith519: |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by na2016: 8:31am On Mar 03, 2022 |
OP, you ain't ready for marriage 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by AleAirHub(m): 8:31am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Whoever sold the idea of divorce to you is horrible and doesn't mean well for you in life because from your right up you never mentioned that your hubby abused you and what makes you think the divorce will be an easy escape route?. Fast track, your hubby's crime here is by engaging in online gambling which he thinks could have been a better option to increase his financial income earns via winning for the betterment of the family but that route has been proven otherwise. My dear, you need to have one on one conversation with him and let him see the reasons why he should stop betting or better still reach out to a counsellor too and I believe everything will bounce back to normal loosingfaith519: |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by manontree: 8:32am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Some men can really be stupid. A full grown man with a new wife, rather than taking the lead and being the head, he is busy engaging in nonsensical and childish means, looking for when the poor wife would act and he would start saying stuff I am just wondering how the wife didn't note all these prior to marriage but one must understand how some saintly people in Nigeria avoid living together prior to marriage for religious reasons Some are also products of match makings with the marriage handled by family members Regardless this man need to man up, lead his family and get a grip. He is right now on a destructive highway and needs urgent help Behaving like a child has a cost 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by pmc01(m): 8:32am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519: No one is holding you. Leave him and goan marry Putin 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Nadeol: 8:32am On Mar 03, 2022 |
This is a true story: One of our customer's wife got fed up with his Bet9ja (football bet) habit and just like you, was having 'funny' thoughts. One day, he brought home a nice Lexus jeep and handed over the key to her, she was surprised and questioned where he got the money from, but he just cooked up a story. They also started a very lucrative business. Three months later, he decided to open up to her and narrated how that same football bet fetched him millions of naira and how it changed their lives forever. We do not support gambling, but come to think of it, anything that is not 100% sure and you make an attempt at, is called what? As long as it is a game of chance, it is called what? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Emperor88(m): 8:32am On Mar 03, 2022 |
aikyg:They just get married for the sake of it only to complain later...They should bother seek for counseling like you said and pls O.p should not stop showing love and support. I hope he will change for good and if he doesn't and not willing to you can go ahead for divorce...your happiness is paramount. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by naija4life247: 8:33am On Mar 03, 2022 |
This one nah Olosho. Just after four months, you want divorce, go nah, go back to the streets where you belong. As for gambler husband, if he doesn't stop, then Russian gods of Ogun and Esu Odara will strike him. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Nobody: 8:33am On Mar 03, 2022 |
nonstan:Since three weeks now, he stopped going to church with me because I told our pastor who counseled him. He boldly apologized and promise to let me handle his money. But trust me, he didn't change abite. He's stressing me 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Tumbulum: 8:34am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Made up stories for nairaland traffic. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by pmc01(m): 8:34am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Mercychen: You're a bitter soul. Embrace it. 8 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Odidigboigbo(m): 8:34am On Mar 03, 2022 |
MALIGNANTGuest:You want him to murder or render her husband useless with your charm? |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by MartinsD12(m): 8:34am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519:You didn't tell us what you do for a living or are you just an ordinary house wife ? Or ok I read you said you expect him to bring 300k so you sum it up with 600k for family upkeep and a decent accommodation, maybe man is trying to meet up with his responsibility maybe he needs more money and if you know your husband well you can tell him where to invest his money not on gambling, talk to him you didn't tell you us you have talked to him about these if possible invite a family member you know he respect to talk to him too but you seem to be distant from your husband it's a pity, go and do your work as a woman, marriage is not a bed of roses but you can make your home a safe heaven if you want to not looking for divorce so soon this shows you ain't prepared for marriage in the first place . |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Emperor88(m): 8:35am On Mar 03, 2022 |
pmc01:Because of gambling they are advising her to leave but they will get stucked to a cheat and abusive spouse as long as he wealthy. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by BrickDevo: 8:35am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Romanoff:Yes i do but not all, esp when i have financial obligations to her |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Nobody: 8:35am On Mar 03, 2022 |
naija4life247:This comments is for your mother, sisters, girlfriends. You sound like a Gambler as well. Do you have any idea of my post before dishing out this ru.bbish? 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by omenkaLives(m): 8:36am On Mar 03, 2022 |
I don't think the poster has revealed the actual reason she desires to divorce her husband of only a few months. The reason must be deeper than this. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by naija4life247: 8:36am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Aufbauh: It's not one year into the marriage, it's just four months, just about 120 fuccking days ooo. Maybe her mother is currently with her 6th husband, if not, I wonder where she got this madness from. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by nomenclature(m): 8:36am On Mar 03, 2022 |
You mean funding a new app (buying shares?cowrise invest?,piggyvest? .so you are worried he is not blowing the money but instead investing for the future .. You are the enemy here ,you have to leave him alone so make his life better . You are a mumu woman. Gentlemen if you marry a bad woman,you are finished ,if you.marry a bad and woman with insatiable taste, then you are completely finished. loosingfaith519: 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by naija4life247: 8:37am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519: Go away. Leave the guy. He doesn't need a street walker like you. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by pmc01(m): 8:37am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Emperor88: In fact, the matter weak person. She's probably 22 or something. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by naija1stnigar(m): 8:37am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519:divorce should be the last thing to consider here, first advise and talk to him, if he doesn't change then report him to one of the elders in his family who can speak well with him and also go for prayers because sometimes you can't take away the negative influence of village people on a man's life. These I think should be what you should embark on and not the devilish thought of divorce. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by alizma: 8:38am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519:I do not no how you guys met or how long you had met before going into marriage but there are few things I want to point out 1) it is too early to be talking about divorce 2) I had expected you to be talking of how to talk him out of his habit not seeking for divorce 3) this is just about 4months into your marriage, are you sure your husband didn't borrow some money for the marriage which he didn't tell you but secretly paying back the money? I know of someone who had to pay back marriage loan over a period of one yr plus but unlike your own case, the guy informed the lady the moment she entered his house 4) if he collect contribution of 200k, it is a signal that his salary is below 100k, that is too small to hide any expenses from a partner so you need to have a talk with him about his spending, tell him to open up if there is any debt and let him know the implication of any extravagant spendings 5) lastly, it seems obvious that you are not attached to this person, if this is not reaction from your being pregnant and the change that come with it, I think you need to work on your feelings for your partner |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by igweemmanuel210: 8:38am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Thats the result of marrying who is ready and not who you love or date. she married who is ready so carry[/color][color=#006600][color=#006600][/color] ur cross on your own joorrr. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by kokoboy4life(m): 8:38am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Ulunne777:. R I am force to response to this message, if I get you right, you mean you transfer money to your hubby whenever he needs cash despite the fact that he’s the one working for his money, If this is true that mean your husband is a professional simp. This is disgusting no woman in this world will try such with me. Too bad. Though I don’t blame you majority of current Nigerian men are too weak. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by BigYash: 8:38am On Mar 03, 2022 |
This one never ready for marriage. Your husband is an investor.. You gerrit? If you don't gerrit,contact alabi If you loved him and value your marriage you won't be talking of divorce so soon. That shit can be corrected ,if you stand by him. Meaning ,if your husband fell sick ,along the line or God forbids he lost his job,you go run leave am? The man needs divorce you first ..You are not a good wife madam.. I no mean to insult you ... 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Ugwuoke347(m): 8:39am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Don't divorce. You are the woman, the spiritual leader of the home. You are the home maker. God Almighty has given you that charge. Stamp your feet to the ground and cast the devil out of your home! Declare it and it shall be so. You have a battle to win. Don't give the devil as little as a fraction of an inch. It is the devil that is deceiving your husband. Don't let the same devil deceive you into thinking divorce was a solution. Woman, you have a battle in your hands. Prayer is the weapon. Pray yourself and your home out of the deception of the evil one. Be strong, be courageous. Step out boldly and all the forces of God shall deliver victory to you. If you run now, you will be running and stumbling for the rest of your life. The choice is yours to make. I am wishing you the very best of strength. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by SomehowBROWN(m): 8:39am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Phew, gambling is a serious problem, I think you should confront him about it, he will put the fam in more debts and problem, you have to be stern in your confrontation . loosingfaith519: |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Emperor88(m): 8:40am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Aufbauh:God bless you...The same women that marry Yahoo boys, armed robbers, hoodlums, ritualist because they make money from it are complaining of gambling. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Karlzy01(m): 8:40am On Mar 03, 2022 |
chukwuibuipob:Is it that you can't move on if you don't have something meaningful and helpful to say? How did you arrive at the conclusion that it's a Nollywood story or you haven't heard about pple who are addicted to gambling? People like you just troll everything you see online,why? Someone is going through a serious dilemma and instead of you to help with meaningful contribution you're making it worse. You lack common sense honestly. 3 Likes |
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