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Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by twilliamx(m): 8:40am On Mar 03, 2022 |
That is not enough reason to leave your husband, talk to your husband. And let me tell you a secret. 79 percent of men today play sports bet. Some are just extreme than others. Get his parent involved |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Cation25(m): 8:41am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Aufbauh: You get sense abeg 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Nobody: 8:41am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519: Try get sense. If it was an abusive guy but he's madly rich, will you divorce him? Your fellow genders on this forum just dey deceive you 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by naija4life247: 8:41am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Emperor88: I think she actually wants a Yahoo boy who will eventually use her for rituals. 6 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by naija4life247: 8:42am On Mar 03, 2022 |
twilliamx: Stop leaking secrets. You no fit keep secret ni? |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by BigYash: 8:42am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Emperor88:Ladies call yahoo(stealing) work.. You dey mind them.. Even ladies gambles too.. E.g Amber of twitter 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Kdon2: 8:43am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Romanoff: You ll never be a wife material with this kind of mentality. Haba! |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Ulunne777(f): 8:43am On Mar 03, 2022 |
kokoboy4life: No problem. I work for my money too and he does his.The bulk he has now he wouldn't have had it if he continued with his previous lifestyle. If it is simping,leave it for us.We are happier,our kids are happier! 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by sheobserves(f): 8:43am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Try counseling, try talking to him but except he really wants to change, little anyone can do for him. A man that is financially irresponsible will waste his time and family's looking for quick ways to make money and end up grasping straws. FOR NOW,divorce isn't the answer. Try reasoning with him,look after yourself and work towards a successful delivery. Think about birth control. Don't allow yourself be tied down if you have more children and he is still looking for money in the skies through gambling and God knows what else. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by President2001(m): 8:43am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519:Divorce him is not the solution if not you have something in mind you are hiding, this issue is a simple one when divorce your husband that you just marry for 4 month what kind of history are written for yourself, there's no single marriage without challenges the issues may be different, I expect you to post that people should advice you how you will conquer the challenges not divorce |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Dedonrukky: 8:43am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Don't think of divorce for now. Your marriage is four months old. One thing you know is that it is very difficult to change an addiction and such person needs help. I feel for you but I personally think you should keep talking to him on why he has to change. If possible, every month end, he should have a fixed amount he will be sending to you to keep for him to achieve the family plans. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by gazilion: 8:43am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519: Deliverance |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Odide009: 8:44am On Mar 03, 2022 |
MALIGNANTGuest: Please, is there any for pills addiction. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Ausval: 8:44am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Chai you get sense and wisdom Your shoe shine your face show Respect Respect Respect Timoleon: |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Juicy1945: 8:44am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Maybe is your behavior that push him into betting. 3 months you want to divorce. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Nobody: 8:45am On Mar 03, 2022 |
pmc01: ![]() ![]() At the bolded make she go marry FFK 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Karlzy01(m): 8:45am On Mar 03, 2022 |
baby124: It's not true,HE CAN CHANGE because I changed. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by tempusfugit: 8:46am On Mar 03, 2022 |
WHEN LOVE DEY SWEET YOU , YOU DECIDE TO CLOSE YOUR SENSE EYE , ABEG NOR DISTURB US |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by ogunmourinho(m): 8:46am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Divorced him and come and marry me...i don't gamble i only play sporty bet |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by chiefconerstone: 8:46am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Divorce is not the solution.it only compound the problem. Just let him know that his addiction is stressing you out. Try to save and prepare for the baby. Pray always, prayer changes things. You cannot work on him, that is the work of the Holy spirit. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by babadee1(m): 8:47am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519: It's only been four months. Move out back to your parent's house first and see if a family intervention can help to sort out this mess. Worst case scenario you know you can't rely on him for money and never ever put any of your own money into his hands. You must love some other things about him right? After all you agreed to get married to him. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by PerryRICHIE(m): 8:47am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519: All you have to do is look for someone who is mature and old enough in his family and then tell them all uve been going tru... And then u tell them u are getting fed up... U want to divorce that all 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Nobody: 8:48am On Mar 03, 2022 |
you can't divorce him after 4 months due to gambling..... not in any court in nigeria. how u ignore all the post asking you if you noticed the gambling before marriage already answers their questions. u simply ignored it. only option that is viable is to seat him down and voice your fears/worries. dont drop a dime as contribution at home. if he doesnt drop money for food dont cook. eat outside and be okay. las las both of u will chop d breakfast. good luck 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Mom007(f): 8:48am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Don't jump into divorce. Talk first. Then set some goals. If he can't keep his part, try separation. If all else doesn't work before talking of divorce. It may be you are the angel God sent to him that will help him out of those demonic addictions because trust me, that gambling of a thing is demonic and a waster of men. Remember to pray for him and involve mature individuals. Does he have parents or mentors he respects? But start with dialogue first. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by gaskiyamagana: 8:48am On Mar 03, 2022 |
aikyg:Invite the officiating ministers of your marriage.Let them help you to beg him to change. If the the problem persists, like in drugs advise, find your way out. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Zannix(m): 8:49am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Mercychen: [b][/b]so much bitterness! 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Advancedman(m): 8:50am On Mar 03, 2022 |
aikyg: Counseling is the next big job in this country but it's seriously down played. Back to the topic For me getting pregnant is not the next straight thing after marriage if you both haven't lived together before, you need to discuss ,have goal, target, etc that is the reason I so much appreciate the western way unlike our don't in every thing that is crucial to one's life. The accomodations ought to come before pregnancy even financial preparations for the additional human should be in place others includes emergency fund, hazard first Aids. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Skyehigher1: 8:50am On Mar 03, 2022 |
loosingfaith519:my first question for is that how many addiction your husband have? If he has drug, smoke and drink addiction with it . It's a big problem but if only gambling addiction is your husband have. You are free. First give him close range, monitor him. Showing big love to him, talk to him and ask the reason why he played it .if he gives you a chance to talk to him but if he doesn't gives you a chance tell his parents about it. That the money that supposed to mean good fortune for you na him use play gambling, but if you ask him and give you the reason then give him a deadline pray for him divorce is not an option for you and your unborn child, then anytime he played gamble and broke don't lend him money so that he will know the conscience of gambling 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Timoleon(m): 8:50am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Thank you plenty. Ausval: |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by CHoccolaTE: 8:51am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Op ignore the advice of the males on this thread. Many men are typically selfish and self centered and like blaming everything on women. Notice how they started blaming you in the first page by asking if you didn't notice it while dating? Meanwhile if a wife was the one wasting family finances like this they would rip her apart with insults without asking if her husband noticed anything. If the only reason you want to divorce him is the gambling, and you know he is okay in other aspects, like he is caring, helpful, nice to you, respects you etc, please give him an ultimatum to stop gambling before embarking on divorce. Or try to convince him to let you be the one controlling family funds/account so he does not have access to gambling with it. If he still doesn't change after your ultimatum expires then leave him. But if he is not even a good person to start with and has now started gambling on top then don't waste time to leave that house. Marriage itself is overhyped, don't kill yourself just to remain married. Many married women are living lives of single mothers even while living with their husband's in the same house, they have no love for their spouses and don't even talk to them in some cases but they stay there just to be able to claim Mrs somebody. Marriage is seriously overhyped for women. Especially in this Era of worthless males that can no longer provide for their families but are waiting for their wives to feed them. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Nobody: 8:51am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Odide009:Yes, there are Pills to combat Addiction! And there are pills that predispose one to addiction too. |
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