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Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Mordecai(m): 2:08am On Mar 04, 2022 |
Mercychen: Your first and last paragraphs can only come from a place of bitterness. The other paragraphs in between are reasonable. I'd actually advise that too. If a man hurt you that badly, maybe you should seek out closure. You sure ain't fine. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by GloriousGbola: 2:38am On Mar 04, 2022 |
Gamesmart: I wonder how many of these defenders of the institution of marriage would be in support if the lady was the gambler. If she repeatedly gambled away money for the month, school fees, creche money, cooking money, money for fuel, savings etc. I am sure They would suddenly remember all the quotes cursing gamblers. There is a small chance that her leaving her husband will be the push he needs to quit gambling. If he is not too far gone. The man knows he has a problem and a terrible habit which will destroy every part of his life. 9 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by shege45: 5:41am On Mar 04, 2022 |
loosingfaith519:divorce now now? |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Alooone: 5:56am On Mar 04, 2022 |
Please go ahead with the divorce...there are 2 addictions u don't joke with when it comes to Men....one is GAMBLING the other WOMANIZING. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Gamesmart: 6:52am On Mar 04, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: Yes o. He is of no use to her except he is ready to pass the power of controlling his income to her. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Olaideolayemi(m): 6:54am On Mar 04, 2022 |
Double0h7:Our definition of marriage differ, to me, your definition of marriage is weak, that's y,is advisable for men or women to understand what marriage entail,not sex or children,but the institution,I don't know,how you will be dating someone,and you won't know the critical aspact of his/her life and compared with your own,op should fear God, he's knows is a gambler before marriage,Y rejecting now? at times many woman caused their doom by themselves because of your believed that marriage is enjoyed/sweet,sister don't be decieve, marriage is sweet/bitter even the life will live,we are happy today and sad tomorrow, that's life itself.. That's y,I didn't consider age, families pressure,peers or competitor with others are yardstick to marriage,rather trying my best in my little way in choosing partner and face the rest that, nobody is perfect in life..I agree with your comment, but I will advise the op to think twice, because somebody is a gambler today,may be charity given tomorrow..Op face the chanllenges it will be over,if a woman left me because of my weakness,and think,I will come and begged when things settled,she should just forget me and take care of the baby by herself, because nothing I will contribute,It also op married for wrong reasons, because just four months wedding..Very painful and regretful.. Your choice,your decision, just be careful too, because future hurt like mad..You have entered it endure, Nobody is perfect in life.thanks... 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by qtguru(m): 7:08am On Mar 04, 2022 |
Gosh what a useless man gambling. How can you be married and be gambling your future away. We need more responsible men, is this standard where we are ? All you people writing rubbish here? Did you know the addiction of gambling ? Be like like people dey ment. Awon ChildOfDoom people 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Nobody: 7:39am On Mar 04, 2022 |
HeyHey:Really? So, what would they do? Is there no exception to this? |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Nobody: 7:54am On Mar 04, 2022 |
The way so many people's advice here make it look like marriage is a death trap is absurd. You quickly forgot that this country is tough. You don't have vision, plan on how to legally make money, you and your children will suffer. Any partner who is not willing to look far into the future with you, does not worth it. Marriage is supposed to make you better otherwise, it's useless. Thank you all for your contributions. I already know the right thing to do. Naturally, I'm a peaceful, happy and loving person. But gradually, I'm becoming a bitter and a sad person all in the name of marriage. It doesn't worth it. God knows I have tried. It's left for him to make that decision personal on his own. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Machinegun91(m): 9:00am On Mar 04, 2022 |
loosingfaith519:tse kya |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by DrFunmisticGlow: 2:34pm On Mar 04, 2022 |
Putindbutt:put yourself in her shoes 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by iamL(f): 3:02pm On Mar 04, 2022 |
Womanizing Alcoholism Gambling. These are the three worst addiction u don't joke with in life of a man. Do what is gud for you not the public. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by lionphil(m): 9:46pm On Mar 04, 2022 |
I recently discovered my husband has an addiction and I can't stay married to him. Where do I start from? Okay, did you make any promise to God while at the altar during your marriage? Can you remember your vows? The man doesn't beat you, he isn't a womaniser, he doesn't abuse you or pressure you unnecessarily, he loves you and obviously you know he does. His one and only flaw is that he gambles. Is this man the first man you have dated? You're seeking a perfect person, are you perfect yourself?? Work on your man, being a gambler isn't the worst thing a man can do and it is curable... many wives would wish this was the only problem their husbands have. Your man is working... you guys should create a joint account and both of you must be signatories. Good luck |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by HeyHey(f): 1:07pm On Mar 05, 2022 |
Really? So, what would they do? Is there no exception to this? They can live apart till the 3 years is complete 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Klass99(f): 7:42pm On Mar 05, 2022 |
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Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Nobody: 7:52pm On Mar 05, 2022 |
Klass99: Nnem, the thing Taya person. Imagine, see what our men have been reduced to. Hian! 1 Like
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Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by fineberry(m): 10:53pm On Mar 05, 2022 |
chukwuibuipob:most you takes people's challenges for a joke like it is framed up. Common grow abegi |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by fineberry(m): 11:15pm On Mar 05, 2022 |
Mercychen:sister I understand where you're reasoning this matter from, I do believe me. First of, op has made the mistake of not knowing who she was getting married to very well..... Secondly , non of us human has that total ( All good quality) we would like our partner to possess. Op I feel is just too soon to start complaining , marriage is never easy wallahi ajeh. What I think you should do is to seat your man down and talk to him, at least exorst all option to get him to his right senses before you're considering devouse. I sincerely wish you all the best. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by tommy20: 11:38pm On Mar 05, 2022 |
Divorcing him is not the option pls. Report him to his family perhaps someone you know he respects so much. The truth is that he still see himself as a single guy who careless about other. You know you are already pregnant & I am sorry to say this, I doubt if you ever love this guy(I am sorry if that hurt) Truth be bold, this gambling addiction is one of of his flaws & you have to tread with him softly. Pls don't ever consider consider divorcing him since he's not abusing you or keeping extra affairs. He only need to be talk to, to wake up to his responsibility. I pray he change & you enjoy your eternity journey with him. |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by chukwuibuipob: 3:26am On Mar 06, 2022 |
Tell this to Ur father to grow up ok fineberry: |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by milliondollas(m): 1:36pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
YOUR OWN IS FINISHED GAMBLER HAS NO CURE 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by Dbrawllm0098(f): 2:15pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
Are u sure is not the same Gambling that gave him money for your bride price payment.... U should have known the kind of man he is before saying I do to him Divorce is not the problem...It only becomes a problem when after u divorce him,u start disturbing other peoples husbands.... Divorce him if you like and don't ever disturb other peoples husbands ooooh |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:47am On Mar 09, 2022 |
Putindbutt:it's financial abuse 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by saasala(m): 1:46pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
I recently discovered my husband has an addiction and I can't stay married to him. I just discovered this post. A lot of people here will tell you to stay, don't mind them. I have a brother who gambles and I know how crazy it can be. Your hubby won't change and will destroy himself and you together. Oh, this post was made last year March. How is it going now? |
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