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If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by lalabamba: 10:22am On Mar 06, 2022 |
You Hear a knock on your door and its your nephew. Your brother sent him all the way from Nigeria to your house abroad on student visa expecting that you will house him and pay his school fees in a University. You live live in a one room apartment with your caucasian wife. What will you do? 1 Like |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by Amotolongbo(f): 10:23am On Mar 06, 2022 |
lalabamba:wrong imagination. 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by thesicilian: 10:31am On Mar 06, 2022 |
lalabamba:Lol. How will they know your house address in the first place? 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by dawnomike(m): 10:32am On Mar 06, 2022 |
lalabamba:I will send him back without notice... If the boys father does not have sense enough to reach out first, at least; his son should have a bit of brain to reach out before coming blindly 7 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by lalabamba: 10:32am On Mar 06, 2022 |
thesicilian: They have sent you a package before and they talked with you and casually asked if you have moved and you said no without suspecting |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by lalabamba: 10:37am On Mar 06, 2022 |
dawnomike:You know how elders settle this matter. Have mercy and accomodate him he has already come |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by lalabamba: 10:42am On Mar 06, 2022 |
He lied that his son got scholarship and housing only to ask the boy and he said its only $2,000 out of $35,000 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by ImaIma1(f): 10:56am On Mar 06, 2022 |
lalabamba: ![]() Don't say anything. Just book a flight, take him to the airport and watch him board and go. When they see him at their doorstep, they will get the message. Everybody should be mad together. 6 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by imran90(m): 10:58am On Mar 06, 2022 |
lalabamba:Maybe we should forget about the accommodation first and do some calculation, if you take 2k out 35k=$33000 is what your brother expecting you to pay this huge amount without informing you ahead? Just tell the boy to forget about study and start hustling. 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by lalabamba: 11:03am On Mar 06, 2022 |
imran90: theres no space for this boy in the apartment. his $400 cant do nothing for him 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by Mindlog: 11:17am On Mar 06, 2022 |
Living in a one room apartment with a Caucasian wife is a reflection one is struggling financially and springing such a surprise is very wrong, he better head back to Nigeria or lose his studentship (immigration violation) to go hustle under the table jobs 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by densiks: 11:22am On Mar 06, 2022 |
I will take him in and fix him the best way i can. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by ShenTeh(m): 11:25am On Mar 06, 2022 |
That's totally unacceptable. Again, with your Caucasian wife in the mix, that changes the dynamics. She no go gree. Please call your brother and let him know that you can't foot that bill and he should seek help elsewhere. You can only house him for 1/2 weeks and he'll have to leave. Meanwhile, please if you can help, do it. Help him get an accomodation and 'show him the way' if you can. |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by shawante(m): 11:28am On Mar 06, 2022 |
It's very wrong of the parents but just let it slide and house him you never know what 2morow holds.. |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by Richy4(m): 12:08pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
Let me grudgingly assume that the story is true,... <<< For him to be given a full visa, he should have demonstrated that he has paid his own part of the scholarship... And also a Bank statement that shows his ability to pay in future and also sustain himself in terms of feeding... How did he circumvent that? <<< For him to be granted a visa, there should be a booking either a hotel/ hostel or house that will be hosting him... Was there an attestation letter written by you that was included in the visa that says that u Will be hosting him for the duration of his stay in that country as a student... <<<how did he get to know the state/ province that u were residing that made him secure an admission/ scholarship in that same state?.... <<<There are so many questions I would have asked but let me just apply a break here.... 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by Ifyjos(f): 12:11pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
Accommodate him and get him a 5am cleaning job in Walmart. Case closed |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by Nobody: 3:54pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
dawnomike: You can't blame the child on this one chief... Because if that child insists on calling his uncle first before going, to an average Nigerian parent, that child is stubborn/disobedient/arrogant/lacks respect... What if the child doesn't have his uncle's number? Or a phone? What if he was made to believe that his uncle had consented to his coming? Will that be considered as the child not having "a bit of brain"? So it's the parent we have to hold responsible here.... Me i Sha know that I would send that child back asap to his parents.... Let them seek my consent first, we agree on a stipulated amount they'll pay to contribute to their child's growth and then we can see how things go from there.... 1 Like |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by Nobody: 3:58pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
I do not give my address to anyone. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by Mariangeles(f): 4:01pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
lalabamba: He's come too far to be sent back. Help him settle in and get a job. |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by GboyegaD(m): 4:21pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
The situation isn't one that can be imagined. 2k out of 33k is ridiculous however, understanding how things work, I will advice he switches to a STEM program in a community college and start from a certificate course that guarantees him OPT. As for accommodation, I will find a friend or fellow student of his who can help by allowing him squat at a very little fee monthly. As for food, I will teach him how to manage his expense such that he will eat good meal at very low price. He will learn to eat chicken, pork, potatoes, rice, canned tomatoes, and canned beans. I will connect him to every reasonable resources I know can help him get better and make him commit we are reducing communications with his parents with respect to his welfare and my life before they spring up another surprise either from them or other family member. 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by lalabamba: 4:48pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
Ifyjos: Accommodate him in a one room apartment with his caucasian wife who does not allow her own mother and siblings to come to the house when they visit? 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by lalabamba: 4:58pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
GboyegaD: its easier to do do those in nigeria. here there are homeless people and they have relatives. why send a boy abroad with such poor arrangement 1 Like |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by lalabamba: 5:03pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
Mariangeles: i pity the boy. this man lives on a tight budget. he cant live in his apartment. the best he can do for him is pay for hotel for one week with his credit card 1 Like |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by GboyegaD(m): 5:16pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
lalabamba: Unfortunately, he is here already so what can the uncle do? Send him back to his destruction knowing he's going back to the life he thought he left behind? He can find his way without the uncle so why not be a good guide instead? Apparently, the uncle must have been creating an atmosphere of him been capable. |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by naija4life247: 10:04pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
lalabamba: Shebi you have been posing to be a big boy, and has been oppressing those in Nigeria who don't know that you are a labourer abroad scotting with a white girl in a one room face me I face you, prove your big boyism nah 1 Like |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by TheCongo2: 11:08pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
naija4life247: Lol.. my thoughts |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by bigl: 12:46am On Mar 07, 2022 |
dawnomike: Seconded! I also won't tolerate such nonsense! |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by cococandy(f): 2:41am On Mar 07, 2022 |
lalabamba: How did he get a credit card? |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by bigjackass: 9:23am On Mar 07, 2022 |
op which of the abroad are you talking about because student visas don't work that way for the US and co. School fees and housing must be paid for or accounted for before they grant anyone visa. Abi you dey whyne us ni ![]() |
Re: If Your Brother Sends His Son To Your House Abroad Without Notice by lalabamba: 1:56pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
cococandy: Uncle has a credit card. he (nephew) cant live in his (uncle) apartment. the best he (uncle) can do for him (nephew) is pay for hotel for one week with his (uncle) credit card |
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