QuinModah:
HUSBAND SCARCITY!!!

"Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern.
Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a
home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves.

Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small.

The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply startt lamenting of "Husband Scarcity".
Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity.

The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth.

For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or
physical appearances.

Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent.

Relax and go to God. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need to be met. May God help us. Good afternoon

Truvelisback:
Husband no Scarce, na una make husband Scarce by being too Flashy and materialistic.

Truvelisback:
Husband no Scarce, na una make husband Scarce by being too Flashy and materialistic.

Michelle70:
when they say husbands are scarce, it mean men to marry are scarce, all they see now are just boys that are obsessed with pencil mouth trouser jean and headset.

Wives are also scarce too

Iyaebe:
There's nothing like husband scarcity

Senomii:

Drug addict with a stinking gutter breath and drum shaped mouth, goan marry!!

Iyaebe:
You know this best describe you and your girlfriend plus all the female members of your family, weed has destroyed you.Go and sleep.

Senomii:

Goan remarry!!! You killed your husband and all his brothers cos they couldn't satisfy your petroleum refinery sized pussy......goan remarry!!!!

QuinModah:
1. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth.

2. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or
physical appearances.

Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent.

3. Relax and go to God. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need to be met. May God help us. Good afternoon

Iyaebe:
Your toyboy request have been cancelled, I don't do Biro covers.

Senomii:

Ntooooooorrrrrrr! Epainammm
See, just request for any amount I go wire ur aza sharp sharp

Iyaebe:
pain ke?you no sabi me.I can feed you and your community. Run along with your Biro cover dick rubbish

Senomii:

Hungry madwoman, na only online wey una fit feed anybody

Iyaebe:
lol go meet your crazy girlfriend and leave me alone,you nairaland boys are scum

Senomii:

Keep my girlfriend off ur filthy mouth, you mentally deranged uncouth public toilet

Kobojunkiee:
1. None of what you claim has to do with God though, this since His formula as far as marriage is concerned is simple. His Law defines Marriage as an agreement between a man and a woman. Following that, there is absolutely nothing wrong with those gals setting the bar as high as they have it for their potential mate. Instead, you are in the wrong by telling them they need to settle for less and invoking the name of God at that.

2. Unless you have an algorithm that can clearly predict this destiny of a man you speak of, i suggest you, and others such as yourself, stay the frell away from discussion issues you are clearly ill-equipped to. Look around you at 10 of millions of married Nigerians living in abject poverty, most of whom swallowed the many "Destiny Helper" sermons preached from pulpits across the destiny, and conside the fate that await the many children born in those homes, all of them waiting for magic to take place because that is the reason they got married..

It is not the job of these single women to alleviate what you call "husband scarcity" so stop seling them your half-baked attempts at resolving a problem you clearly don't understand yourself.

3. Again, leave God out of this hogwash abeg!

Favfables1:
This is the longest and most interesting post I've read here in a while...

Thanks for sharing...
((Thumbs up))

Senomii:
!

Jeon:



who told you to used that picture?

Senomii:

Are you a male or female?
Answer so I'll give you 100k

Senomii:

Keep my girlfriend off ur filthy mouth, you mentally deranged uncouth public toilet

Iyaebe:
There's nothing like husband scarcity,I don't believe in that. Men are so cheap like sachet water

QuinModah:
HUSBAND SCARCITY!!!
"Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern.

Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves.

Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small.

The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply startt lamenting of "Husband Scarcity".

Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity.

The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth.

For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or
physical appearances.

Relax and go to God. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need to be met. May God help us. Good afternoon

Iyaebe:
There's nothing like husband scarcity,I don't believe in that.Men are so cheap like sachet water