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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by sharpwriter(m): 3:38pm On Mar 15, 2022
Blackdisciple:
Just be watching and see what they are up to.

Nigeria now people no dey worry dem selves over things that will make someone get depressed...

Na so friend of mine , her elder brother's wife ran back to the village with their 4 kids one is still breastfeeding with the help of her sis and her husband from Abuja. Before baba will come back from work nothing remain for house just one mattress oo, 3bed room flat oo this woman and her sis emptied the house and no one around the area called baba say are you parking out...
what did the elder broda do? grin
Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Firstcitizen: 3:38pm On Mar 15, 2022
Iyaebe:
Thats because most Nigerian men are abusive

True! Most of them learnt from the way their mothers brutalize young househelps

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by muheeb01(m): 3:40pm On Mar 15, 2022
God will see you through
Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Nobody: 3:40pm On Mar 15, 2022
Firstcitizen:


True! Most of them learnt from the way their mothers brutalize young househelps
No,most learnt from their abusive fathers.Carry your gender war komot from my front.Im not biased and I say the truth irrespective of the gender

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by yemi1504: 3:44pm On Mar 15, 2022
Kingpin1000:
Why did you marry at the first place?
Compare when you were a bachelor and now.
The stress in relationship is too much. Talk more of having a bad day at work only to come home and meet someone frowning her face.
I no fit marry abeg

That is my fear too! I hate attitude when I come back from work as I love peace of mind.

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by poweredcom(m): 3:46pm On Mar 15, 2022
Women of today no get endurance
Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by BLoomfrancs(m): 3:52pm On Mar 15, 2022
For better for worse.

Groom: I do

Bride: I do

All na wash.

Being single is much more peaceful.


Marriage na bullshit till tomorrow.
Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Didi2d(m): 3:58pm On Mar 15, 2022
djon78:


Really?

Why tired?

Misunderstanding, quarrelling, disrespect.

Despite the fact that I was able to set her up with a business, I still take care of the house %99. She refuses to contribute to anything financially in the house.
Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Ximenez(m): 4:03pm On Mar 15, 2022
Old timer, you can't be married to a 22yo and trap her in your house while playing the role of her ancestor. It's same as cutting her life short. Your wife might have felt suffocated and isolated in the marriage, hence the need for her to want to get in touch with her "bestie".

22 is still relatively a young age even for a lady.
You have to be extra romantic, attentive and creative , take her out for ice cream and pizza, play games with her, go to parks and Cinema, be active in her education/vocation evening stroll etc.

Seems to me you just married her and started playing the role of an old warlock, demanding respect and looking for submissiveness here and there.

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by ThatPetiteChic: 4:06pm On Mar 15, 2022
Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

Is it not you that locked your wife outside, few weeks after marriage? Lol, you wanted to teach her a lesson on respect. Are you getting the respect you crave for? You better calm down. Marriage is not by gra gra...

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by oloksman1(m): 4:12pm On Mar 15, 2022
Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.


i hate to POKENOSE, tho i still get 2 cents 4 U......
but guy, U broke BROCODE.........
as suggested, i went to see your previous post https://www.nairaland.com/6625830/how-discipline-wife-disrespecting-me#103187726
and
https://www.nairaland.com/6999487/it-possible-lay-claim-shop#110462179


though, this is your LIFE Ooo..... i see lots of RED FLAGS...... u r the BEST person to figure -OUT the solution , Apply Emotional Intelligence, Apply Leadership and Ur Conflict resolution technique.... Learn from past and do things right
there r things U simply APPLY wisdom to.......


wishing U d BEST MAN

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by greypencils: 4:12pm On Mar 15, 2022
Red pill! Red pill!! See where e dey go. The tricks that worked on our mothers and grandmas won't work on women of today. If you want a wife, you have to be HER EQUAL! LOVE HER! PAMPER HER! AND SHE WILL SIMPLY RETURN THE FAVOR BY LOVING YOU AND PAMPERING YOU.


WITHDRAW YOUR LOVE FROM HER AND SHE WILL WITHDRAW HER LOVE TOO


THE ONLY WOMAN YOU CAN SUCCESSFULLY TORTURE AND CONTROL USING THE REDPILL IS A WEAK ONE.


KANYE WEST NA HARD GUY, KIM STILL WALKED OUT ON HIS ARSE. OFFSET NA HARD GUY, CARDI B WALKED OUT ON HIS ARSE. EVEN NNAMDI AZIKIWE PAPA, YES! THE FATHER OF THE ONE AND ONLY NNAMDI AZIKIWE WAS A REAL IGBO MAN, HARD GUY! GUESS WHAT! HIS MOTHER WALKED OUT ON HIS FATHER! SO RED PILL OR BLUE PILL, CHOOSE WISELY!



NOTE: THIS IS FOR MATURE MEN AND WOMEN WHO HAVE PLANS FOR SETTLING DOWN IN MARRIAGE NOT FOR TEENAGERS AND KIDS IN THEIR TWENTIES.

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Firstcitizen: 4:14pm On Mar 15, 2022
Iyaebe:
No,most learnt from their abusive fathers.Carry your gender war komot from my front.Im not biased and I say the truth irrespective of the gender

Not biased yet you believe the violent behaviour of one parent is irrelevant in moulding a child. Abeg shift, you have nothing to say.

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Bbbw: 4:19pm On Mar 15, 2022
How come
Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by sharpwriter(m): 4:22pm On Mar 15, 2022
SoapQueen:


Lol. Walai.

You too shey? Alele go and bring that engagement item list angry
Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Enemyofpeace: 4:22pm On Mar 15, 2022
Let her go, she doesn’t love you and her parents don’t want you with their daughter. Move on with your life bro!
Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by okoroemeka(m): 4:24pm On Mar 15, 2022
Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.
I clearly remembers 22 yrs ago I told my father that I want to marry,he looked me in the eyes and asked me if I have ever seen him and my mother fight or have trouble that needs outside mediators,I said no,he told me so long I have decided to marry,that I and I alone will be responsible for the peaceful resolution of any trouble in my household,that I should not even bother to tell him because he will not be interested,most battles are not won with big guns with blood on the battlefield but with careful analysis, intelligence , diplomacy and compromise.

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by zigleary: 4:26pm On Mar 15, 2022
Ardar:
From your previous threads I can clearly see why your wife left you.

https://www.nairaland.com/6625830/how-discipline-wife-disrespecting-me
Karma in the making, with what he has done previously in his relationship karma came knocking. God help you.

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by kayo8080: 4:34pm On Mar 15, 2022
Kingpin1000:
Why did you marry at the first place?
Compare when you were a bachelor and now.
The stress in relationship is too much. Talk more of having a bad day at work only to come home and meet someone frowning her face
I no fit marry abeg

Mehn! The number of "likes" your post got is scary.

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by saintnegroid(m): 4:38pm On Mar 15, 2022
Kingpin1000:
Why did you marry at the first place?
Compare when you were a bachelor and now.
The stress in relationship is too much. Talk more of having a bad day at work only to come home and meet someone frowning her face.
I no fit marry abeg
God please forgive him

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Nobody: 4:40pm On Mar 15, 2022
Wawulence man, let go of her before you murder someone's daughter

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Lizzydonnah(f): 4:56pm On Mar 15, 2022
Olayetan:


You’re a confused me, in your last post, u said u have married for a year but your wife changed towards you and you want to reclaim the shop you secured for her, now your wife has left you before you leave her and instead of you to be happy, you are complaining her parents is hiding her from you.

Better move on, the girl is thanking God right now for not having any kid with you.




I swear, he is just pained he was dumped

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by SmileDance(f): 5:13pm On Mar 15, 2022
pocohantas:


Is your head okay? The thread is right here on Nairaland and redpillers told him he did the right thing. Shebi they have left him? grin

What exactly goes on in your heads when you lock your wife out? Once you lock a woman out, she stops seeing that place as a home!
I can't even begin to imagine Like the wife is a squatter that could just be locked out?

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Athemisia: 5:24pm On Mar 15, 2022
Marriage of less than one year!? undecided
The first two months it was all about you proving to her you the man of the house... grin grin grin
SMH...
From all your recent stories so far it clear for one to see how immature you are. Damñ!
.
Oga na you dey worry that woman... I don dey follow your post since last year but I no won comment.

If you want her back, you must stop behaving childish and always quick to condemn whatever she does.

Better call your full family make una go beg her parents before one niqqa go start to heal her wounds.

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Athemisia: 5:28pm On Mar 15, 2022
pocohantas:


Is your head okay? The thread is right here on Nairaland and redpillers told him he did the right thing. Shebi they have left him? grin

What exactly goes on in your heads when you lock your wife out? Once you lock a woman out, she stops seeing that place as a home!
He ain't no redpiller but a child. He is among those holy holy brother in church wey won chop better classy lady but still won be d her to become holy holy sister.
Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Athemisia: 5:29pm On Mar 15, 2022
Viltron:
Wawulence man, let go of her before you murder someone's daughter
You don talk am finish oh...

Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Athemisia: 5:33pm On Mar 15, 2022
Simran94:

Go and check his profile and you will understand why she left.
No woman can stay with this hegoat

He is a child... Can't even imagine treating my ex the way he treated his wife.

Madam quickly run before oga go murder her oh... Ewwweeeey...

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by djon78(m): 5:44pm On Mar 15, 2022
Didi2d:


Misunderstanding, quarrelling, disrespect.

Despite the fact that I was able to set her up with a business, I still take care of the house %99. She refuses to contribute to anything financially in the house.



Eiyah kpele

Marriage is not easy at all.


I am a married man, honestly if not for religious beliefs and the society that has been enshrined into us.

Many men will just quit marriage

They all except you to just bear whatever that's thrown at you

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by kingyakos: 5:48pm On Mar 15, 2022
Your problems run away from you wey u for call family and friends tro Betta party drink to stupor u come dey complain
Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Athemisia: 5:50pm On Mar 15, 2022
For those who have not been following.

Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.
I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.
While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.
My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.
No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Saintmary(f): 5:51pm On Mar 15, 2022
https://www.nairaland.com/4927992/advice-girls-early-20s



Dear ladies, before you advice this guy, read his unsolicited advice to you first.


Na the same poster o.




I never knew karma is so swift.

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Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by djon78(m): 5:57pm On Mar 15, 2022
greypencils:
Red pill! Red pill!! See where e dey go. The tricks that worked on our mothers and grandmas won't work on women of today. If you want a wife, you have to be HER EQUAL! LOVE HER! PAMPER HER! AND SHE WILL SIMPLY RETURN THE FAVOR BY LOVING YOU AND PAMPERING YOU.


WITHDRAW YOUR LOVE FROM HER AND SHE WILL WITHDRAW HER LOVE TOO


THE ONLY WOMAN YOU CAN SUCCESSFULLY TORTURE AND CONTROL USING THE REDPILL IS A WEAK ONE.


KANYE WEST NA HARD GUY, KIM STILL WALKED OUT ON HIS ARSE. OFFSET NA HARD GUY, CARDI B WALKED OUT ON HIS ARSE. EVEN NNAMDI AZIKIWE PAPA, YES! THE FATHER OF THE ONE AND ONLY NNAMDI AZIKIWE WAS A REAL IGBO MAN, HARD GUY! GUESS WHAT! HIS MOTHER WALKED OUT ON HIS FATHER! SO RED PILL OR BLUE PILL, CHOOSE WISELY!



NOTE: THIS IS FOR MATURE MEN AND WOMEN WHO HAVE PLANS FOR SETTLING DOWN IN MARRIAGE NOT FOR TEENAGERS AND KIDS IN THEIR TWENTIES.


Why are you guys always against redpill?

As society today is changing with various variants, women ways of yonder years have changed and you expect mens ways not to change

Redpill is as a result of behavioral changes of modern women. And alarmingly very many young men are accepting the ideology as a result of ways they have been treated by the opposite gender


A good woman that always knows how to treat her man well will also get the vibes back.
But when a woman is toxic, behaves in a toxic way, and expects a good treatment to me is complete witchcraft and voodoism


Moreover the op is not a redpilled man, he is just a difficult somebody. Simple

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