There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

When you can comfortably care for others without feeling it’s effect,so I think

Let me say prestisibly that's as quickly as possible...

There's just no perfect time to do anything... If one keeps waiting for the right time to do anything, one won't achieve so many things...

Keeping in mind that to be a man is, has never and will never be a days Job...

When a man can genuinely, comfortably and legitimately fend for himself then he can consider marriage to a helpful partner whom they both can strive together to feed themselves...

If as a man you want to make all the wealth in this life before settling down, then am afraid you will keep hustling...

I hope I made some points... Good evening

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready. When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready. Please I need matured contribution on this.

A man does not have to be rich to be financially independent but he must be comfortable on his own without depending on his family or his friends for survival. He needs to have a stable source of income or a means of livelihood and he and his fiancée should have the ability to cater for extras before marriage because they might start bearing kids a year or few years after marriage.

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Op, you must have d ability to be paying all ur bills (rent,security, electricity,etc) without Stress or borrowing! And a steady income!

So does it mean I can marry now going by the analogies up there

When he impregnates the girl.

When you finally realize that it's only money that has the right to say "you'll regret losing me" and anyone can go to hell if they want

when he can afford food shelter etc and his bride can do the same...

Senomii:

Just end this madness, you're a hopeless and ho.rny widow, if you're Inlove with me just tell me so I'll send one of my dogs to service ur pussy

Frustrating you gives me joy,Igbo smoking boy,take your erection to your dogs

Iyaebe:
Frustrating you gives me joy,Igbo smoking boy,take your erection to your dogs

Ok o, husband killer..... ashawo oshiii

Senomii:

Ok o, husband killer..... ashawo oshiii

You wish I’m what the trash you are ascribing to me,will never let any man touch me aside my husband.Yeye Igbo smoker senomii the Igbo smoker boyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy kikikikiki

Why must it be about men every time?
Make we rephrase the question, "when is it right for a woman to get married? "
The answer is easy ooooo, na when she don tire to fvck around and her toto don slack . 99.9% of nowadays women no get anything to offer men. If we take toto and childbirth from nowadays women, majority no get anything to offer. The ones wey get things to offer won't want to get married e.g Genevieve and co. Men dey suffer sha. We must get things ready before marriage but women just need to get toto and dem go consider dem ripe for marriage. Make we ask ourselves this question, if na men na dey for the situation wey most women dey, the women for accept to marry them? We dey suffer ooooo, make I no lie. We need to hustle hard so that our women go dey comfortable but still, dem go still stress person for marriage. The toto wey plenty dey even offer no tight again. Na we go still spend money to buy penis enlargement pump and cream before we enjoy am. Toto go open mouth like local basket!!! See eeh, I'm not happy at what's happening to men ooooo. If you as a woman want a man wey get car and houses, then show us yours. We don tire to dey consider una because of toto. Dem go crave for elaborate wedding but dem no go support a dime. Fellow men, let's be wise ooooo. If she can't offer at least 50% of what you can offer, make she go.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the average 9ja woman has nothing to offer aside her body wey almost everybody don chop before you"

There are four readiness

1. Financially ready (money)
2. Mentally/emotionally ready (health)
3. Physically ready (bedmatics)
4. Spiritually ready (final wisdom)

If you're ready with 1, 2, and 3, you can go ahead. If you're only ready with one of the above or two of the above, you're not totally ready.

So, if you're only financially ready, the marriage won't last. Three or four of the above MUST be true before it can last in this 21st century.

Don't say I didn't tell you.

You will know or hopeful to become stable in the course of the marriage.

Whatever your choice, no condition is permanent. What is important is to be independent and can care for a mouth or two. Some are still in 40s waiting to be financially stable.

Is there any fool proof that financial stability before marrige is permanent? While you see some that do get better with marriage

If you have savings that can take care of you, your wife and one child for a year.

Have a stable income

This question has to do with personality, Mr A can have 20k in his account and feel he is ready and Mr B can have 20million and feel he isn't ready because he doesn't have enough yet, so just do as your mind can carry your finances and your finances can carry your mind...

When he can afford to a rent a room or two bedroom flat in a good environment, able to himself and a family of say 4. And have like reserve 1M in account after marriage expenses, while maintaining a stable income

Stable income .



When your income is enough to cater for the family need atleast 70%

Hmmmm

Well I believe there is nothing like enough income before marriage.

The four perquisites for a guy before considering marriage are:
1. Maturity
2. Ability to perform on bed
3. Source of income
4. Where to put the wife (accommodation)

Already I ticked 3. Only one remaining.
Once I tick the four items I'm marrying.
Even it's parlour wedding. I am tired, I can't wait any longer.

This life is not balance !

When you and your woman is financially
Happy

The woman also must b earning reasonably, we rise by lifting each other not resting on another

Dont proposed to a broke, jobless n unskill woman

Anytime really