Babastrong:
I used to say it that life was spiritual before physical. Some girls hold the key to men success. If you delay the marriage, it means you are delaying your success.
I married my wife when i was koboless( immediately i finished my bsc). After 6months of marriage, boom, i saw the light. The money started flows in.
now i'm living in my own roof., having my own business domain.

This argument isn't true. Only God holds the key to your success. Not man and definitely not woman

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

I think is when a man is capable of feeding himself and an extra stomach

When a man is will to accept woman as his wife

When he can afford for himself and sundries

Lastly, when de desire to have a woman around him becomes necessary

� Senomii on the beat

Senomii:
When you finally realize that it's only money that has the right to say "you'll regret losing me" and anyone can go to hell if they want

Rosement:

A man does not have to be rich to be financially independent but he must be comfortable on his own without depending on his family or his friends for survival. He needs to have a stable source of income or a means of livelihood and he and his fiancée should have the ability to cater for extras before marriage because they might start bearing kids a year or few years after marriage.

Marriage does not translate into automatic childrearing, the couple need to gather themselves to properly accommodate fresher.

MrBrownJay1:
when he can afford food shelter etc and his bride can do the same...

Oil dey your head.

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

Anytime your wife to be allows you to find her, that is the right time. If you are not certain she is the one, every admiration is a distraction

Babastrong:
I used to say it that life was spiritual before physical. Some girls hold the key to men success. If you delay the marriage, it means you are delaying your success.
I married my wife when i was koboless( immediately i finished my bsc). After 6months of marriage, boom, i saw the light. The money started flows in.
now i'm living in my own roof., having my own business domain.

Try this at your own peril

Lalami3232:
Why must it be about men every time?

I don't talk am before and I go talk am again, "the average 9ja woman has nothing to offer aside her body wey almost everybody don chop before you"

Abi no be so.

Our GrandPa them and our ancestors insist on a woman's virginity. As dey know sey very few things women go bring for marriage, but "this" virginity - na wetin you fit give the man. E go dey proud!

17 year old girl dey do Ashewo, older women go encourage and support am sey na hustling (my body my choice).
But if the same 19 year old girl talk sey .. ahh one brother like am well well oohh . E won marry am, and she sef won marry the brother.
This one no go work, they go start campaign on different nonsense.

Women and girls now are comfortable with prostitution. And, I am talking about young women, old women, married women, grand mothers.

If you vex go village with torchlight go find wife. God come pity you show you one; serious SU (religious) girl we never see man pric.k. You carry am come town; the kind insult and bad talk them go give you. Some women go come close to your new wife; no be say nah help ooh. Nah to teach am Ashewo.

This same Nairaland; one OG talk sey by mistake e catch one virgin. E marry am come town. Abi you know see the kind nonsense dem write for am.

To get a good wife now; if you no be man (as per man) wey no send society - e fit no work. Some solid non virgins to dey; sometimes you go see them comment for Nairaland. You know sey if woman dey make sense you go dey see am like Grandma; no matter how attractive she be. Social media no go ever favor good girls, because dem go dey Odd for the place.

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

marry when you know you can pay your bills and feed family

When she THOROUGHLY loves you....like, if she has to pick between her been alive or you being alive and she picks you, bravo, you are ready for marriage. Every other thing will fall into place including your being stupid.

Bigredmachine:
Let me say prestisibly that's as quickly as possible...

There's just no perfect time to do anything... If one keeps waiting for the right time to do anything, one won't achieve so many things...

Keeping in mind that to be a man is, has never and will never be a days Job...

When a man can genuinely, comfortably and legitimately fend for himself then he can consider marriage to a helpful partner whom they both can strive together to feed themselves...

if as a man you want to make all the wealth in this life before settling down, then am afraid you will keep hustling...

I hope I made some points... Good evening

because You failed at that aspect doesn't mean everyone will .

Vinnie2000:
Op, you must have d ability to be paying all ur bills (rent,security, electricity,etc) without Stress or borrowing! And a steady income!

without stress or borrowing......how can a responsible man should not borrow to obligate some certain things

Bigredmachine:
he can consider marriage to a helpful partner whom they both can strive together to feed themselves...

Cc: Ogbeni2000

Vinnie2000:
Op, you must have d ability to be paying all ur bills (rent,security, electricity,etc) without Stress or borrowing! And a steady income!

What if a man loses his job after marriage nko?

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

When he can afford food, clothing, housing and education for the children that he is planning to have.

Higgies:
Well I believe there is nothing like enough income before marriage.

The four perquisites for a guy before considering marriage are:
1. Maturity
2. Ability to perform on bed
3. Source of income
4. Where to put the wife (accommodation)

Already I ticked 3. Only one remaining.
Once I tick the four items I'm marrying.
Even it's parlour wedding. I am tired, I can't wait any longer.

This life is not balance !

Which one remain?

Lalami3232:
Why must it be about men every time?
Make we rephrase the question, "when is it right for a woman to get married? "
The answer is easy ooooo, na when she don tire to fvck around and her toto don slack . 99.9% of nowadays women no get anything to offer men. If we take toto and childbirth from nowadays women, majority no get anything to offer. The ones wey get things to offer won't want to get married e.g Genevieve and co. Men dey suffer sha. We must get things ready before marriage but women just need to get toto and dem go consider dem ripe for marriage. Make we ask ourselves this question, if na men na dey for the situation wey most women dey, the women for accept to marry them? We dey suffer ooooo, make I no lie. We need to hustle hard so that our women go dey comfortable but still, dem go still stress person for marriage. The toto wey plenty dey even offer no tight again. Na we go still spend money to buy penis enlargement pump and cream before we enjoy am. Toto go open mouth like local basket!!! See eeh, I'm not happy at what's happening to men ooooo. If you as a woman want a man wey get car and houses, then show us yours. We don tire to dey consider una because of toto. Dem go crave for elaborate wedding but dem no go support a dime. Fellow men, let's be wise ooooo. If she can't offer at least 50% of what you can offer, make she go.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the average 9ja woman has nothing to offer aside her body wey almost everybody don chop before you"

You are so crude and uncouth.

When u ready u will know

When all ur mate are married and u are still squoting somewhere or broke

I wish to get marry at my mid 20s, but no money, late 20s also with the same problem. No stable job, no money to feed myself takless of getting married, abeg everything tire me jare,

Brendaniel:
This question has to do with personality, Mr A can have 20k in his account and feel he is ready and Mr B can have 20million and feel he isn't ready because he doesn't have enough yet, so just do as your mind can carry your finances and your finances can carry your mind...

Marriage isn't about personality abeg...there is every reason to ensure you are capable of feeding yourself and ensuring your partner will also be taken care of - best if she contributes her own quota.

MrBrownJay1:
when he can afford food shelter etc and his bride can do the same...

abi ooo nobody de ask when is a woman ready financially...

seanwilliam:
Stable income .
When your income is enough to cater for the family need atleast 70%

You forgot to include savings in that case.

Ugaboy:
When you and your woman is financially Happy

The woman also must b earning reasonably, we rise by lifting each other not resting on another

Dont proposed to a broke, jobless n unskill woman

That is too vague an idea!

A couple who net 50k a month will come in to suggest themselves financially happy this as they are expecting a baby to Join their union.

Kobojunkie:
Marriage isn't about personality abeg...there is every reason to ensure you are capable of feeding yourself and ensuring your partner will also be taken care of - best if she contributes her own quota.

Go and tell that to an aboki in the north and see if he will answer you...

Brendaniel:
Go and tell that to an aboki in the north and see if he will answer you...

Dem no ask you about aboki or any dingbat out there. I want to believe OP was instead seeking opinions born of what is commonsense.

Spanki:


The Bible says, develop your business, then build your house. It is after you must have developed your business, else, if you choose to develop your house first, a woman will move in and consume all that you need to invest in your business.

#Simple

Pls help.me with bible refrence to this

babyfaceafrica:
This argument isn't true. Only God holds the key to your success. Not man and definitely not woman

Don't mind him

Kobojunkie:
Dem no ask you about aboki or any dingbat out there. I want to believe OP was instead seeking opinions born of what is commonsense.

Oga what is common sense to you might be stupidity to another and vice versa, that is why the question itself does not have a direct answer and does not require one, it depends on the personality involved, to the aboki in the north your answer might be the stupid thing he has ever heard, same way another person will see your answer as the wisest answer he has ever seen, personality is what matters...

Bigredmachine:
Let me say prestisibly that's as quickly as possible...

There's just no perfect time to do anything... If one keeps waiting for the right time to do anything, one won't achieve so many things...

Keeping in mind that to be a man is, has never and will never be a days Job...

When a man can genuinely, comfortably and legitimately fend for himself then he can consider marriage to a helpful partner whom they both can strive together to feed themselves...

If as a man you want to make all the wealth in this life before settling down, then am afraid you will keep hustling...

I hope I made some points... Good evening

The both is the the right word. Everything depends on the partner.

Lalami3232:
Why must it be about men every time?
Make we rephrase the question, "when is it right for a woman to get married? "
The answer is easy ooooo, na when she don tire to fvck around and her toto don slack . 99.9% of nowadays women no get anything to offer men. If we take toto and childbirth from nowadays women, majority no get anything to offer. The ones wey get things to offer won't want to get married e.g Genevieve and co. Men dey suffer sha. We must get things ready before marriage but women just need to get toto and dem go consider dem ripe for marriage. Make we ask ourselves this question, if na men na dey for the situation wey most women dey, the women for accept to marry them? We dey suffer ooooo, make I no lie. We need to hustle hard so that our women go dey comfortable but still, dem go still stress person for marriage. The toto wey plenty dey even offer no tight again. Na we go still spend money to buy penis enlargement pump and cream before we enjoy am. Toto go open mouth like local basket!!! See eeh, I'm not happy at what's happening to men ooooo. If you as a woman want a man wey get car and houses, then show us yours. We don tire to dey consider una because of toto. Dem go crave for elaborate wedding but dem no go support a dime. Fellow men, let's be wise ooooo. If she can't offer at least 50% of what you can offer, make she go.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the average 9ja woman has nothing to offer aside her body wey almost everybody don chop before you"

Women can go single if they want. The get expired, and when de do nobody brothers them. Buh u see men. Even of u reach 50 them go carry wife come for you. Wen a woman is too fat or ugly if she doesn't work on her ability she might end up single n nobody will be disturbing her buh u see man even de fatest man n ugliest man get wife. Dem go carry woman come for u. So my dear, u see y they always talk about men not women.