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Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by stephieok: 6:37am On Mar 16, 2022
Hi Dear Nairalanders,
I won't disclose my real name but I will share my story.

My name is Frederick Felix, my friends call me "the super cat" others call me pastor or alfa, either ways, I am who I am.

I am almost turning 40 by the way and I'm in a love relationship with a pretty lady who is about to turn 30, so the age difference is quite healthy.
I intend to marry her.

My new girlfriend ( I call her my goose) is a hardworking young girl, she isn't the type that totally depends on men to pay her bills and I really found that admirable that is one of the reasons why I fell in love with her.

However one day while we were out on a date, I talked about my ex, what caused us to quarrel and how we broke up.
She used to also tell me about her past.
And I listened without judging her.

But ever since I told her the story of my ex and how and what caused us to break up, she changed a little.

It seems like she has sympathy for the lady who is my ex. In fact, she's been acting more defensive, as if I'm a predator that wants to devour her.

Infact I'm not sure she trusts me anymore. Pls tell me what to do.

I love my new GF (I call her my goose or my sweet Mirinda) she is from Calabar area of the South East.

We both attend a very big church in this country.

Pls help me beg her, tell her I won't ever treat her the way I treated my exes.

I love strong and hardworking ladies like her who don't really need men to pay their bills. I'm not a simp sha, i will still spend excess cash to maintain her, no doubt, but you understand what I mean.

I'm tempted to say her name here but I'll use a dummy name... Her name is AJay..pls tell her I love her.

Don't just read this message and walk away, advise me on what to do.

Thanks.

Yours Sincerely;
Felix Frederick
(The Super Cat)
Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by excell0001: 6:44am On Mar 16, 2022
ok give me her number and I would send you my account details one hour begging is 3k

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Bluntguy: 6:46am On Mar 16, 2022
Send her number. I will help you talk to her.

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by stephieok: 6:47am On Mar 16, 2022
excell0001:
ok give me her number and I would send you my account details one hour begging is 3k
Lols

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Bigredmachine: 6:47am On Mar 16, 2022
Tell Ajayi... To see me in my office 10 pm in the night... For proper relationship counseling

stephieok:


Hi Dear Nairalanders

I'm tempted to say her name here but I'll use a dummy name... Her name is AJay..pls tell her
Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Nwodosis(m): 6:48am On Mar 16, 2022
You don't love her, she's right, you claimed you loved her to devour her financial independence.

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Mokason288(m): 6:49am On Mar 16, 2022
Very rubbish post

I wasted my precious time reading rubbish

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Double0h7(f): 6:49am On Mar 16, 2022
What did you tell her about your ex that got her worried? What did you do to your ex? We need that detail to know if begging her will work undecided

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by johnguan: 6:52am On Mar 16, 2022
stephieok:
Hi Dear Nairalanders,
I won't disclose my real name but I will share my story.

My name is Frederick Felix, my friends call me "the super cat" others call me pastor or alfa, either ways, I am who I am.

I am almost turning 40 by the way and I'm in a love relationship with a pretty lady who is about to turn 30, so the age difference is quite healthy.
I intend to marry her.

My new girlfriend ( I call her my goose) is a hardworking young girl, she isn't the type that totally depends on men to pay her bills and I really found that admirable that is one of the reasons why I fell in love with her.

However one day while we were out on a date, I talked about my ex, what caused us to quarrel and how we broke up.
She used to also tell me about her past.
And I listened without judging her.

But ever since I told her the story of my ex and how and what caused us to break up, she changed a little.

It seems like she has sympathy for the lady who is my ex. In fact, she's been acting more defensive, as if I'm a predator that wants to devour her.

Infact I'm not sure she trusts me anymore. Pls tell me what to do.

I love my new GF (I call her my goose or my sweet Mirinda) she is from Calabar area of the South East.

We both attend a very big church in this country.

Pls help me beg her, tell her I won't ever treat her the way I treated my exes.

I love strong and hardworking ladies like her who don't really need men to pay their bills. I'm not a simp sha, i will still spend excess cash to maintain her, no doubt, but you understand what I mean.

I'm tempted to say her name here but I'll use a dummy name... Her name is AJay..pls tell her I love her.

Don't just read this message and walk away, advise me on what to do.

Thanks.

Yours Sincerely;
Felix Frederick
(The Super Cat)

You shouldn't have told her in details, you should have kept it vague or ambiguous. Now you need to give her a lot of assurance to make her relax.
Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by opera1(m): 7:00am On Mar 16, 2022
You just score yourself OWN GOAL........
You shouldn't have reveal everything that transpired between you and your Ex to your new woman. Ex is Ex and everything about him/her should be treated as such.

If you still engage in what lead to ur initial separation, stop it and change for better.
Let her see the best in you.

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Zonefree(m): 7:08am On Mar 16, 2022
40 years old man, Calabar is not in South East

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 7:08am On Mar 16, 2022
Only you dey answer super cat, pastor and alfa and you expect women to trust you?

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by chatinent: 7:16am On Mar 16, 2022
Help you beg her?

Mehn.. I just remembered one adage about 40 years.

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by GOFRONT(m): 7:29am On Mar 16, 2022
You already shot yourself in d leg.
Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Ocholu: 8:11am On Mar 16, 2022
This one is currently on his 4th bottle of erujeje.

You said we should help you beg your girlfriend. Yet you failed to drop her digits or moniker grin.

At 40, you're about fulfilling a popular English adage oh! So buckle up!

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by CheedyJ(m): 8:44am On Mar 16, 2022
You call her 'sweet mirinda', is there bitter mirinda to start with?

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by gregyboy(m): 8:55am On Mar 16, 2022
i find your writeup repulsive not just that you sound very proud in your writeup

even if we beg her i dint think your marriage will work...


tell us wetin happen to you and your ex fess before anything
Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Ximenez(m): 9:11am On Mar 16, 2022
Goose
Super cat
Mirinda
Ajay.

Old timer, I find it difficult to relate with all these characters
Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by nakotee: 9:27am On Mar 16, 2022
ok

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by AutoChick4U(f): 12:53pm On Mar 16, 2022
stephieok:
Hi Dear Nairalanders,
I won't disclose my real name but I will share my story.

My name is Frederick Felix, my friends call me "the super cat" others call me pastor or alfa, either ways, I am who I am.

I am almost turning 40 by the way and I'm in a love relationship with a pretty lady who is about to turn 30, so the age difference is quite healthy.
I intend to marry her.

My new girlfriend ( I call her my goose) is a hardworking young girl, she isn't the type that totally depends on men to pay her bills and I really found that admirable that is one of the reasons why I fell in love with her.

However one day while we were out on a date, I talked about my ex, what caused us to quarrel and how we broke up.
She used to also tell me about her past.
And I listened without judging her.

But ever since I told her the story of my ex and how and what caused us to break up, she changed a little.

It seems like she has sympathy for the lady who is my ex. In fact, she's been acting more defensive, as if I'm a predator that wants to devour her.

Infact I'm not sure she trusts me anymore. Pls tell me what to do.

I love my new GF (I call her my goose or my sweet Mirinda) she is from Calabar area of the South East.

We both attend a very big church in this country.

Pls help me beg her, tell her I won't ever treat her the way I treated my exes.

I love strong and hardworking ladies like her who don't really need men to pay their bills. I'm not a simp sha, i will still spend excess cash to maintain her, no doubt, but you understand what I mean.

I'm tempted to say her name here but I'll use a dummy name... Her name is AJay..pls tell her I love her.

Don't just read this message and walk away, advise me on what to do.

Thanks.

Yours Sincerely;
Felix Frederick
(The Super Cat)
She simply took note of d toxic in you. You probably a stingy fellow with d way u yapping about hardworking and spending. Let's see if you'll see her shishi immediately after saying "I Do".

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by AutoChick4U(f): 12:55pm On Mar 16, 2022
stephieok:
Hi Dear Nairalanders,
I won't disclose my real name but I will share my story.

My name is Frederick Felix, my friends call me "the super cat" others call me pastor or alfa, either ways, I am who I am.

I am almost turning 40 by the way and I'm in a love relationship with a pretty lady who is about to turn 30, so the age difference is quite healthy.
I intend to marry her.

My new girlfriend ( I call her my goose) is a hardworking young girl, she isn't the type that totally depends on men to pay her bills and I really found that admirable that is one of the reasons why I fell in love with her.

However one day while we were out on a date, I talked about my ex, what caused us to quarrel and how we broke up.
She used to also tell me about her past.
And I listened without judging her.

But ever since I told her the story of my ex and how and what caused us to break up, she changed a little.

It seems like she has sympathy for the lady who is my ex. In fact, she's been acting more defensive, as if I'm a predator that wants to devour her.

Infact I'm not sure she trusts me anymore. Pls tell me what to do.

I love my new GF (I call her my goose or my sweet Mirinda) she is from Calabar area of the South East.

We both attend a very big church in this country.

Pls help me beg her, tell her I won't ever treat her the way I treated my exes.

I love strong and hardworking ladies like her who don't really need men to pay their bills. I'm not a simp sha, i will still spend excess cash to maintain her, no doubt, but you understand what I mean.

I'm tempted to say her name here but I'll use a dummy name... Her name is AJay..pls tell her I love her.

Don't just read this message and walk away, advise me on what to do.

Thanks.

Yours Sincerely;
Felix Frederick
(The Super Cat)
Gold digger. Dont go and understand what it means to be a man. Imagine at 40. Na this type go relax make woman dey pay bills for house naw.

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by czarr(m): 12:59pm On Mar 16, 2022
Oga no dey stress yourself...if she tells you her own past, my brother fear go catch you and you fit run.

She only tells you what she feels you need to know that would make you trust her, while you just open mouth waaaaaa! 40 years old man.
Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Ishilove: 1:51pm On Mar 16, 2022
stephieok:
Hi Dear Nairalanders,
I won't disclose my real name but I will share my story.

My name is Frederick Felix, my friends call me "the super cat" others call me pastor or alfa, either ways, I am who I am.

I am almost turning 40 by the way and I'm in a love relationship with a pretty lady who is about to turn 30, so the age difference is quite healthy.
I intend to marry her.

My new girlfriend ( I call her my goose) is a hardworking young girl, she isn't the type that totally depends on men to pay her bills and I really found that admirable that is one of the reasons why I fell in love with her.

However one day while we were out on a date, I talked about my ex, what caused us to quarrel and how we broke up.
She used to also tell me about her past.
And I listened without judging her.

But ever since I told her the story of my ex and how and what caused us to break up, she changed a little.

It seems like she has sympathy for the lady who is my ex. In fact, she's been acting more defensive, as if I'm a predator that wants to devour her.

Infact I'm not sure she trusts me anymore. Pls tell me what to do.

I love my new GF (I call her my goose or my sweet Mirinda) she is from Calabar area of the South East.

We both attend a very big church in this country.

Pls help me beg her, tell her I won't ever treat her the way I treated my exes.

I love strong and hardworking ladies like her who don't really need men to pay their bills. I'm not a simp sha, i will still spend excess cash to maintain her, no doubt, but you understand what I mean.

I'm tempted to say her name here but I'll use a dummy name... Her name is AJay..pls tell her I love her.

Don't just read this message and walk away, advise me on what to do.

Thanks.

Yours Sincerely;
Felix Frederick
(The Super Cat)
Uncle, repillers will call you a simp and an evening newspaper.

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Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Ishilove: 1:52pm On Mar 16, 2022
Tallesty1:
Only you dey answer super cat, pastor and alfa and you expect women to trust you?
Lmao
Re: Details of how I broke up with My Ex is Affecting My New Love Relationship by Demigod22: 2:22pm On Mar 16, 2022
Rule number one: Never tell your current girlfriend about what lead to your break up with your ex.

Rule number two: Never tell your current girlfriend about your sexual exploits.

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