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I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by blessedoluseun(m): 6:28pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
I want to help a B.sc Single Mother with 650k to start a business but am afraid of this Wicked World. Note: am not Yet Married, we haven't slept together, kiss or Fun & never send any Love messages. Good afternoon Nairaland, a Male colleague asked for advice pls Honestly comment. Below is what he told me: 1. This Single mother is Graduate, with male Child 2. Her Pregnancy is out of Wedlock, the Man has engaged anoda Woman is his house), 3. Her Mother & Father died, (accident) 4. The only Child for her mother while she has Step-brother & Step-Sister She needed a job and came to the front of our Company office for Job, that time, I went for Lunch. approached me, pleaded to gain access H.R. we dont know ourselves from adam.I submitted Since Last year, but not yet Called, but she still pesting me to push her CV which i DID .. no vacancy for her yet. But she will get Job b4 December 2022 (am very Sure) now Yesterday She ask me if i can Get a loan for her to Start Grocery/Mini Supermarket. & she said she has experience.In my mind i want to give her, but i told her i will borrow from my company for her. Now the Problem, She said cos of my attitude & Generocity Since when we met, she want to setup the business in my area for me to Supervise it also. & she will be paying the loan weekly. she said She will stay with me in my flat Till she is financially buoyant then get her own apartment.. House Where is living now will expire this monthend. Pls advice me.. We both sat down & plan the 650k today for the growth of the business. But i want to take advise from Nairaland to Either cancel the plan or Modify the Plan or Start it. PLS advise if to cancel it: i will tell her my company refused to give me the Loan. If to modify the plan : pls tell me & advice me if to Start the Plan: pls tell me & advice me Thank you @Kobojunkie: My relationship with this lady is Just an acquittance but i do sent money to her if she ask me (once in a while) |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Olunmercy56(f): 6:32pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
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Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Kobojunkie: 6:35pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
blessedoluseun:You forgot to clearly define the relationship between you and this woman. ![]() You can get her to sign an affidavit confirming she will pay you back the loan money in due time. ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by funshint(m): 6:40pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
You're not yet married to her yet you are already having money deals? Whatever you give her, just consider it as a gift but It will all end in tears for you trust me! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by MCKitchen(f): 6:41pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
blessedoluseun: No give her the money just set up the biz with the money and see if their is any improvement. If you both are dating then be rest assured it's a free token to support else, don't cme back here in premium tears 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by advanceDNA: 6:44pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
blessedoluseun: If you are giving her as a Good Samaritan... Carry go...in fact give her more If you are doing it because you like her... guy... reverse...a person might not like you, yet roll with you becos of what she will get...it is common... when them serve you breakfast... you go hear “we are just friends and I ddnt force you to give me 650k” ...na woman way be that... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by NoFucksToGive: 6:47pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Rubbish fake nonsense thread Lalasticlala just dey write stories use Uma catch cruise 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Kobojunkie: 6:48pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
blessedoluseun:Ok, then you can get her the loan. Get her to sign an affidavit before and after you get the loan so the understanding is clear that you entered into the loan agreement on her behalf. That way if anything goes wrong, you can always take it to court. ![]() But also, make sure you are able to, yourself, make payments on the loan since it might be sometime after starting the business before she is able to make adequate payments on the loan.. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by ojotobiloba1: 6:54pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Op.. Once you rub or gum her body.. Just forget abt the money.. Why don't you dash her money that won't hurt you if she ddnt return it eventually and give your own partner the rest to invest .. I pray you won't fetch water inside basket.. Peace 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Abfinest007(m): 6:55pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
You have found urself a wife if u borrow her that money bcuz she will pay u with sex since u guys wants to live together.i envy u shay cuz is not easy to find a wife lol 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by funshint(m): 6:59pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:N650,000 for a business that has not even started operations. You're not yet considering all the initial cost that will be incurred. Talkless of making profit in order to pay back the loan. I don't know what the maturity of the loan will be but trust me if she struggles to pay the first month. Second month payment is not guaranteed. I see her defaulting, she'll put you into trouble because the loan will be in your name I guess. I see all this ending in a big mess. You'll surely regret it! 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by blessedoluseun(m): 7:00pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
NoFucksToGive: This is real life issue. I and the guy involved , we are both reading the comments... pls this not a fake thread.. we both work in Ibadan, Inside holdup like this currently IT IS real my dear |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by NoFucksToGive: 7:01pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
blessedoluseun: Lalasticlala on the beat ... If you know you know Now Mr so called Op, we know what's up leave story |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by correctyourself(m): 7:06pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Help her if you can, as she is ready to be around for you to guide her. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by blessedoluseun(m): 7:06pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
NoFucksToGive: Send ur email or tel number to me i will call you & confirm this for you. pls we want to make a right decision.. & these comment is making sense, pls don't scatter it the below is the link to meet me via Video or audio talk.. (We re not playing here) meet.google.com/xns-jgew-rgq |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Kobojunkie: 7:09pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
funshint:I don't know the details of the business myself so I can't comment on that but according to Op, he has seen it and approves of it. ![]() There are first time businesses that cost millions of dollars to start off. So it isn't the amount I am worried about but OP shoring his investment in some way. ![]() |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by funshint(m): 7:18pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:The lady has seen a maga...even if he gets her to sign an affidavit and all those gibberish. I don't even know how legal that is anyway. Defaulting on a loan is not a criminal case, it's a civil case...highest they'll ask her the convenient way for her to be paying back. Even if it takes 20years. This OP is not just reasoning correctly at the moment. His parents should disown him. Shame on simps! 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Kobojunkie: 7:20pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
funshint:I don't agree with you. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by funshint(m): 7:23pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:And to add the woman is not even backing up the loan with any collateral o. No car, nothing! Do you even think the company will give this man that amount of loan without any collateral? This man wants to pledge his own personal collateral to secure loan for another person. How foolish can someone be! If the loan should go bad, the company will not run after the woman because she's not recognized or a party to the loan in any way; it's between the company and this man. This man is about to wreck himself. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by funshint(m): 7:30pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You don't need to agree....Simps will never agree anyway! This OP is the type of person who's brother will come for help but will be forming broke but they can go to any length to help a woman. Pls go ahead and help her shebi you no wan get sense ni. Some people need to learn their lesson in a very hard way. |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Toktee(m): 7:38pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
E go end in premium TEARS. |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Toktee(m): 7:40pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You better agree cos that woman will soon run back to the dick that gave her Belle. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Beremx(f): 7:46pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
she said She will stay with me in my flat Till she is financially buoyant then get her own apartmentWhat this eventually means is that both of you will finally have a sexual relationship. You will still come back here and create a topic complaining how a certain woman you help got pregnant and that you are not the father. I dey wait for una 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Alooone: 8:09pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
blessedoluseun:Please help me too sir....Am a single mother ...I can repay the loan in 6months sir....here is my mail gorettiuwabuike@gmail.com....all am asking for is 200k |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Wanbissaka: 8:37pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
blessedoluseun:bro seun the lord told me to tell you .....
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Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by gannod(m): 8:43pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
If you want to help her, help but not without a written agreement. From the look of things, you approve of the business plan so go ahead. As long as you are there to guide her there shouldn't be any problem. |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Nobody: 8:54pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
blessedoluseun:If you can give her the money without any form of ulterior motives pls do Secondly staying with you is a no no but if you have a female friend she can squat with link her to the person Thirdly if you're really interested in her do the needful. Thanks. |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by ravensckar(m): 9:02pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
The way I'm seeing this guy, e be like person wey dem don use him brain play 2 sure. As in, just hear yourself! You want to lend a total stranger 650K? A lady who'd be moving in with you? Chai! There can never be a dearth of SIMPS in this world. Las las, e sure me sey you never do anything tangible for the papa and mama wey born you. Your siblings dem nko? So, there's no one in your family that you can set up with even half of that money? Na unknown lady you wan establish. Chai! I wish you're in any way related to me, na to slap sense enter your head go sure pass. Bloody Simp! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by world123: 9:41pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
This is not a good idea. You don't know her at all. You don't know what she is capable of. Keep your distance and with anything you feel won't hurt you when you lose it. |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by Sijo01(f): 10:15pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Righteousness2: Op, adhere to this and know peace 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Help A B.sc Single Mother With 650k To Start A Business But Am Afraid by 22o62021: 10:50pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Brother maka why? Reason am yourself, no be say you get money oo but you wan go borrow to impress woman. After one for that matter. That banny too smart, she wan use style come dey stay with you, she go trick you into a sexual relationship. And na you go dey provide food, electricity and also dey train another man pikin . She is manipulative. I will advice you to decline her offer,both in monetary and shelter aspect. You can help her with cash to secure an apartment. Collect the loan take am buy land You go appreciate am more after one year Or buy dog with the money, e go loyal to you pass that born before 6 Likes |
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