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Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GooodHardDick: 12:17pm On Mar 17, 2022
BeautyB99:
You bunches of redpillers/alpha male association have come again, only you guys will be against helping a lady but you go on your social media and begin to salivate when you see one fine slay queen some of you might even go ahead and be comparing your main girlfriend to one Instagram slay queen as if you can maintain such ladies if given a chance, abeg if you can't help a woman financially then leave her alone she no tie your hand and leg with rope

Stop being silly. If you need someone to take care of you, then meet your father! Otherwise get a job, work, make money for yourself and take care of yourself!

Don't be deceived by those instagram and facebook pictures, most of those ladies you see there are sponsored ladies doing advertisement, while some are Oloshos looking for customers online.

You're not the responsibility of any man until you're married to him. If you need money, then get a job, not a boyfriend!
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by emmanuelbrown26: 12:18pm On Mar 17, 2022
GooodHardDick:


I swear down bro. Instead of blaming their fathers, they decided to insult every guy calling them broke guys!

Nigeria girls are really entitled liabilities
I don't blame them at all, I only blame d useless and idiotic simps that gave them d room for that
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by wonder233: 12:22pm On Mar 17, 2022
Lol grin[quote author=olympianares post=111114245][/quote]
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GooodHardDick: 12:24pm On Mar 17, 2022
bigcasava1:
I will not allow my daughter to be a liability.

Way to go comrade!! No right thinking man would allow his daughter to be a liability!!!

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Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by barneystinson(m): 12:25pm On Mar 17, 2022
PrimadonnaO:


"What do you mean by "go and work"? I have a job but I will still demand your money. How hard is that to understand?"


But the post is hilarious nau.

I love Uyai. She's unpretentious. Just says her thing as it is. grin


She's not unpretentious. She is just dumb. I was going to respond to her comments but I realised the folly of trying to reason with the unreasonable. It will be like chasing the wind.
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GooodHardDick: 12:25pm On Mar 17, 2022
Pharaoh4rin:


You arshhh grin grin

Comrade! But it's true na grin grin

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Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GooodHardDick: 12:29pm On Mar 17, 2022
barneystinson:



She's not unpretentious. She is just dumb. I was going to respond to her comments but I realised the folly of trying to reason with the unreasonable. It will be like chasing the wind.

Fire on comrade!
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Keji1012(m): 12:38pm On Mar 17, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


Please, learn to read well. I'm not against women working. Let them earn a living but the men in their lives must take care of them 100%. Over here, we treat our women like eggs. Women should be pampered.

This one is just talking off sense abeg..

No wonder we have a lot of oloshos and girls with sense of entitlements
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GooodHardDick: 12:38pm On Mar 17, 2022
PrimadonnaO:


"What do you mean by "go and work"? I have a job but I will still demand your money. How hard is that to understand?"


But the post is hilarious nau.

I love Uyai. She's unpretentious. Just says her thing as it is. grin

Someone's is ignorant and being dumb, you say she's unpretentious?. she's trying to tell us that apart from your pussies, Nigeria girls have absolutely nothing meaningful and purposeful to offer a man in a relationship, wherein in turn they demand for money, after rendering their pussy! And you say she's unpretentious!

How come you Nigeria girls don't have shame anymore?
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by pacespot(m): 12:39pm On Mar 17, 2022
Before even opening it, i already knew the content. 9ja women, who no know no go know.
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Kelvin3476: 12:43pm On Mar 17, 2022
Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE. tongue
Simple!!! tongue
Entittlement mentality. if u feed him u go die ? Abi is he ur husband ? Abi relationship is all abt boy feeding jobless girls.
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by drakeli: 12:44pm On Mar 17, 2022
GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!
Since your monicker scream it out loud that you are looking for dating with benefits. Then you have to offer the benefits. Nothing goes for nothing OLODO
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GooodHardDick: 12:45pm On Mar 17, 2022
drakeli:
Since your monicker scream it out loud that you are looking for dating with benefits. Then you have to offer the benefits. Nothing goes for nothing OLODO

OG, ignore my moniker and grab the message!
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by kepstone: 12:52pm On Mar 17, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


My dear, leave this your westernized mindset in that abroad that you are in. Over here, we are Africans and we should behave like one. We are gradually throwing away our heritage and culture as of old in the name of feminism.

Men are by nature, total providers. Women will just assist when it's necessary. That's how I was taught and I adore the teachings. It has served me well. Even the Bible and Holy Quran command that a man should be 100% a provider in his home. It's just that our heritage has gone to the dogs and men of nowadays are so lazy and looking for working-class women so they will stop working and leech off them. I can't be that woman.

So, who are you a mere mortal to disobey God's commandment when he has stamped it?

Just get your acts together and start doing better. Or you just stay put forever there in that your abroad and be with whitey. Better learn to open your hand. Aka chi chi chi is not good.

All you have said, is not absolute truth... The issue of Providence in marriage is not left to the man alone, no werein the Bible God said or commanded man to provide for his wife 100%. Please read your Bible well and interprete it well.
Our society is raising set of ladies that are selfish, self centered, greedy, careless and who to them love is all about what the man can provide which is money.... Love is not what is sustaining many marriage's in Nigeria as of today but what the man can bring to the table. Sadly many people or ladies going into marriage are going in there with the wrong ideology of what marriage is and roles to play in marriage.
Don't quote Timothy for me were Paul Said if a man can not provide for his family he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. What a man provides in marriage is more than Money but in Nigeria don't provide money you will see how your so call wife or girlfriend turn your life into a living hell.
As long as the benefit is flowing the love keeps flowing, when the benefit or money is no longer flowing, all you get is disrespect, insult, comparison and shame, cheating and even divorce from your wife. We are good when things are good but we are not going to be good when the storm comes. But the true test of a man's strength is storks and challenges, same applies in marriage the true test of love in marriage is she storm's arises. Mind you storm's can come in different ways and different perspective. So many people getting into marriage don't really know what marriage is you think is all about sex and money alone, you think it's about vacations and cruising in good cars. Little wonder alot of men die early in marriages this days because of so much burden they shoulder Because they are trying to be called the MAN.
I see alot of disrespectful, unsubmissive ladies who are not concern about building their life and character for marriage bit are all centered on if the guy has money... You see them jump from one offer to another offer like monkeys untill they find a branch that can hold them. If they branch that holds them can no longer hold them they jump again, this are the kind of generation of ladies we are seeing and raising, no character not submissive, disrespectful and egotistical, materialistic and highly opinionated.
A man's was never design to have his ego destroyed or attacked, if you as a lady do that you shut the man off... Many ladies are not wise, I have female friends of 30-38 yrs still trusting God, every yr Shiloh you see them with prayer point � Lord my husband. I don't pity them I don't even pray for them any more. Many of them will spend all their money to get iPhone to look expensive, go to expensive places just to hook up rich guyz and some of this rich guyz are not even interested in them but to use and dump them. Check out every lady you see advance in age not yet married there are factors responsible for that.
It could be her character, ego, materialistic nature, unrealistic expectations and doesn't know how to keep a man. By the time they are realize time has passed. Many well meaning Good guyz are available to wife this guyz but money is the major obstacle. Many ladies don't want to build, don't want to start from somewhere but want everything given to them at a platter of Gold.
Now let's me go back to Bible
For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and both shall become one... That's the idea of marriage in God's eyes oneness in all things that's by the role of a woman is to be a help meet someone suitable, adaptable and fitted to the needs of the man.
Who is a helper
A helper comes into your life to help you in your life in terms of things you can't do for yourself.
The primary role of a woman in marriage is to help as design by God and marriage is actually a roless partnership between Aman and a woman.
But what we have today are women who wants to over burden a man with all the bills and keep all her money to herself.
A woman that can give you access to her money does not deserve your ring as a man you are setting up yourself for a life of torture.
Believe a man should provide but he is not the 100% provider in marriage at all times.
If there is love then it will be roless.
God bless my mum. When my father went broke my mum handled the home for years when my father bounced back he willed everything to her not even to us. My mum never crossed primary 6 but she understood what love and what marriage is all about.
Most Nigerian ladies are setting up them selves to be single for a long time, from y survey many guys are not interested in marriage. God help this generation.

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Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by neonly: 12:55pm On Mar 17, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


Parents will do their quota. Boyfriends will play their part. The guy that begged me for airtime yesterday, couldn't he go beg his father or mother for airtime? Why did he come to me? Hope you get the logic?


Saying BF will do his own part that means it an exchange u satisfy him sexually mode and he in return he take care of yur finance
Then dat called prostitution hope u know
Parent are suppose to take care of der child needs until they are able to stand on der own not depending on BF
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by kokomilala(m): 12:56pm On Mar 17, 2022
@GooodHardDick, lol !
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Kelvin3476: 12:58pm On Mar 17, 2022
luminouz:

Broke guy...shut your trap!!! grin
Misogynist oshi... Alfa Mail wink
If you don't have money, Goan hustle....or na me go fuq your gf wink
UR MUMU SINCE 1850 NO WAN LEAVE U . HOW MUCH DO U WHAT ?
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Critic4A: 12:58pm On Mar 17, 2022
Ehen. Na them be this
kokomilala:
@GooodHardDick, lol !
Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE. tongue
Simple!!! tongue
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by ShaqFu: 1:00pm On Mar 17, 2022
Acidosis:

This is unrelated to the post though.

A perfect description of the poster
Of course it's unrelated, especially for one who kiss ass.

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Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by BeautyB99(f): 1:04pm On Mar 17, 2022
HYDEEE:
Noisemaker.

Thank you am glad my noise was loud enough for people like you to hear
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by CHAQUR: 1:05pm On Mar 17, 2022
The thing no even dey work like "prepaid meter"... Na still un estimated billing. Paying upfront and unending either used or not.
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Danmboss(m): 1:06pm On Mar 17, 2022
Foreseer:
My brother goodharddick, tel them abeg.

And it's not as if na only your goodharddick go de slam the pvsssyy ooh grin grin

Other investors go follow you de sample the kpormo.

Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by ume1000: 1:09pm On Mar 17, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


At least the Bible didn't mention he had a job. The virtuous woman was the total provider and I won't be that woman.
only a prominent man could sit among elders
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by ume1000: 1:12pm On Mar 17, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


Mine. I need to look good for him.
how about he look good for you as well

Wouldn't that be fair
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by BeautyB99(f): 1:14pm On Mar 17, 2022
GooodHardDick:


Stop being silly. If you need someone to take care of you, then meet your father! Otherwise get a job, work, make money for yourself and take care of yourself!

Don't be deceived by those instagram and facebook pictures, most of those ladies you see there are sponsored ladies doing advertisement, while some are Oloshos looking for customers online.

You're not the responsibility of any man until you're married to him. If you need money, then get a job, not a boyfriend!

There is nothing silly in what I said is just unfortunate that you can't handle the truth and did you just say “sponsored ladies" lol I laughed in Japan anyway let me leave that part and focus on the girls that ask for money, tbh those girls asking you for money do you think some of them were not doing well for themselves before they met you because they ask you for money automatically makes them an olosho, like I said earlier in my comments if you can't help them then leave them
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Nobody: 1:17pm On Mar 17, 2022
Here we go again!!!
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by MartinsD12(m): 1:23pm On Mar 17, 2022
GooodHardDick:


Increase the volume comrade!!! I just hope guys will listen to this great advice of yours!
grin if they have ears they will listen
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by HYDEEE: 1:25pm On Mar 17, 2022
BeautyB99:


Thank you am glad my noise was loud enough for people like you to hear
To hear what? That you are waiting for a man that is willing to "help a woman financially", sit there and keep on waiting for handouts.

Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Greatfullheart: 1:26pm On Mar 17, 2022
GooodHardDick:

Increase the volume comrade! grin grin
some girl lookin u from behind.

Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Greatfullheart: 1:27pm On Mar 17, 2022
GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Zealag(m): 1:30pm On Mar 17, 2022
How will she invest? [/quote]
The answer is supposed to be known by men alone...

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