GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

pansophist:
Our resident twins UyaiIncomparabl and iyaebe will not agree with you. For them, love and money go hand in hand. Pay as you go. They want their men to adhere to 20th-century roles where it benefits them, but they want to be 21st-century women with progressive laws. It's a man's duty to be a provider, no wahala, but somehow, it's not a woman's duty to be a virgin, and accept to be the fourth wife. Why the selective application of culture? Its also against the bible to pay a bride price to non-virgin (Exodus 22;16-17), should we adhere to that one? Lol.

For women like that, double standard IS the standard. Modernism when it favors them, traditionalism where modernism doesn't favor them. Now I understand why they are seen as a weaker vessel. To be so inconsistent, without the mental trigger to detect one's inconsistency, where cognitive dissonance is a way of life, with no sense of giving, but to just take and take. The disappearance of their character when they shamelessly defend their selfishness masked under culture, while being genuinely shocked that there is an entire world built on moral conduct outside their delusional brain. May God help us navigate this terrain of karashikas called modern women. In Jesus' name, Amen.

dboY1123:



Very true... The babe I'm dating right now would even ask money for hair, she'd tell me she's hungry that I should send money, she wants to fill gas, data and so on..
She's working o.. I just told her I won't be sending her money again, last week, she asked Monet for hair, I just told her I don't have and she got it done herself..e no concern me..
Me wey d relationship don tire already just looking for excuse to run

DonroxyII:
No loud am

SolomonGrundy:
Bros, na dis one dey weak me pass. If u come do mistake wish them, u don enter dia trap.

UyaiIncomparabl:


But, men are entitled too. I was chatting with a guy last night and he begged me for airtime. We hadn't even gone half way and this guy just started laying down his life problems for me.

Fine and fresh guy o. I told him I would not send him. And that I don't give men my money. He called me " Olosho" and all other nonsense insults your gender uses when they can't have their way.

Guess what I did? I blocked the idiot. Yes, na me talk am.

HYDEEE:
To hear what? That you are waiting for a man that is willing to "help a woman financially", sit there and keep on waiting for handouts.

Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE.
Simple!!!

nairaman66:


Is this not hypocritical? A feminist who depend on a man to pay her bills.. Womenfolks the most confused species on earth today!

barneystinson:



She's not unpretentious. She is just dumb. I was going to respond to her comments but I realised the folly of trying to reason with the unreasonable. It will be like chasing the wind.

BeautyB99:

[s]

Oga I already have a business on my own, you are free to come and work with me so you can use the money and take care of your girlfriend[/s]

Joe4real1988:
So hard to believe though.

UyaiIncomparabl:



Why can't you give her money to make her hair? Mehn. Men of these days don't know what to do. Last week, one of my admirers offered to give me 50k to make my hair, I declined it. That's an ordinary admirer oh. Not to now talk of BF.

Doesn't he know my wellbeing is his responsibility? Omo. I'm done abeg.

KingDash:
lair... you sabi lie

luminouz:

These niggas don't get the sarcasm

They don abuse me Taya.

Hunger bad my broda

GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

UyaiIncomparabl:


My dear, leave this your westernized mindset in that abroad that you are in. Over here, we are Africans and we should behave like one. We are gradually throwing away our heritage and culture as of old in the name of feminism.

Men are by nature, total providers. Women will just assist when it's necessary. That's how I was taught and I adore the teachings. It has served me well. Even the Bible and Holy Quran command that a man should be 100% a provider in his home. It's just that our heritage has gone to the dogs and men of nowadays are so lazy and looking for working-class women so they will stop working and leech off them. I can't be that woman.

So, who are you a mere mortal to disobey God's commandment when he has stamped it?

Just get your acts together and start doing better. Or you just stay put forever there in that your abroad and be with whitey. Better learn to open your hand. Aka chi chi chi is not good.

UyaiIncomparabl:



Why can't you give her money to make her hair? Mehn. Men of these days don't know what to do. Last week, one of my admirers offered to give me 50k to make my hair, I declined it. That's an ordinary admirer oh. Not to now talk of BF.

Doesn't he know my wellbeing is his responsibility? Omo. I'm done abeg.

BeautyB99:


There is nothing silly in what I said is just unfortunate that you can't handle the truth and did you just say “sponsored ladies" lol I laughed in Japan anyway let me leave that part and focus on the girls that ask for money, tbh those girls asking you for money do you think some of them were not doing well for themselves before they met you because they ask you for money automatically makes them an olosho, like I said earlier in my comments if you can't help them then leave them

almarthins:


God bless you!
I want a God fearing man = a man that will be mumu, meanwhile the lady does not even fear God.
I want a caring guy= a guy that can spend money like oloshi and will still be under her hand pit.

Dating a Nigerian girls na liability

Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE.
Simple!!!

UyaiIncomparabl:


But, men are entitled too. I was chatting with a guy last night and he begged me for airtime. We hadn't even gone half way and this guy just started laying down his life problems for me.

Fine and fresh guy o. I told him I would not send him. And that I don't give men my money. He called me " Olosho" and all other nonsense insults your gender uses when they can't have their way.

Guess what I did? I blocked the idiot. Yes, na me talk am.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I don't know. I'm serious.

talk2hb1:

Do You Know That
Prostitutes are just about the only honest women you can ever find because they tell you the price upfront...

Divoc19:
Every woman is not a feminist. Know this and have peace.

GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

UyaiIncomparabl:


My dear, leave this your westernized mindset in that abroad that you are in. Over here, we are Africans and we should behave like one. We are gradually throwing away our heritage and culture as of old in the name of feminism.

Men are by nature, total providers. Women will just assist when it's necessary. That's how I was taught and I adore the teachings. It has served me well. Even the Bible and Holy Quran command that a man should be 100% a provider in his home. It's just that our heritage has gone to the dogs and men of nowadays are so lazy and looking for working-class women so they will stop working and leech off them. I can't be that woman.

So, who are you a mere mortal to disobey God's commandment when he has stamped it?

Just get your acts together and start doing better. Or you just stay put forever there in that your abroad and be with whitey. Better learn to open your hand. Aka chi chi chi is not good.

MNDY:


Na only for 9ja here guys dey spend heavily on women and contributing to Female Laziness. Shola on Twitter is championing the fight against simping seriously.

One girl even asked we guys to help them become hardworking by stop spending and make relationships reciprocal.

Because over here in Naija, we don too spoil our women sotey na entitlement e don turn to now.