I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady I love so much.

We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom.

Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened.

My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment. She and my father are separated.

One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me, treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her.

On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

daifeanyi68844:
I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady i love so much. We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom. Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened. My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment her and my father are separated. One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me , treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her. On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

Only first and last page i read, Sorry.

I always try to wonder and understand why you folks allow your parent or mother have a say in your marriage life...
Why give her that space to even have the audacity to call your girl out whenever there's an issue that can be trashed out..

If you like don't stand your ground and be a man..leave her to ruin your life affair cos of her attitude..it's disgusting at the same time nonsense..let me not talk..

Modified:you already broke up? look go back to that lady and apologise..as for ya momma don't she or you have a house of her/your own? why on Earth is/are she/you still residing with you/her...give yourself/her some privacy..go get her/yourself an apartment and apologise to that innocent lady you hurt..you know what you want for yourself..stand for it and let no mere being have a say in your life...

My mom was trying to be in control of my life one time like that. Im the first child and first son. Yet she treats and talk to me like im the last born. She respects my younger ones more.
Got to a point she starts dictating the kind of woman i must love and the kind i should not have anything to do with. My dad fought her several times because of this attitude of hers to me.


But now my mum no longer behave that way. Why, because i had to sit her down then let her see reasons im no longer a baby

I even had to relocate to another state just because of this issue.


Thank God for my mum now.


All she does now is support all i do with prayers and that is enough.

You are planning on getting married this year and you're still eating your mother's food......



Call your girl back, reconcile with her and move out of your mother's sight/house..... Rent a self/contain and start your life with her....


Don't ever lose a good woman oh..... I am telling you from experience.

I dated a girl that gave me money to buy new clothes when I lost a bag of clothes returning from NYSC.... Now I am dating a girl that I do everything for. Never gotten a dime from her... If she has money today, she's thinking of her family first.

Comrade leave your mum's house for her, must they tell you everything?

daifeanyi68844:
I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady i love so much. We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom. Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened. My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment her and my father are separated. One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me , treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her. On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

Are you a man or still a small boy.You can't man up ans take control of your life, you are here blaming your mom for everything.

Baba do watin you wan do ooh ...no dey look mama face since you said she is a nice girl

daifeanyi68844:
I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady i love so much. We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom. Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened. My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment her and my father are separated. One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me , treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her. On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

I fail to see how exactly your mum is to blame for you breaking up with your gal friend.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I always try to wonder and understand why you folks allow your parent or mother have a say in your marriage life...
Why give her that space to even have the audacity to call your girl out whenever there's an issue that can be trashed out..

If you like don't stand your ground and be a man..leave her to ruin your life affair cos of her attitude..it's disgusting at the same time nonsense..let me not talk..

Modified:you already broke up? look go back to that lady and apologise..as for ya momma don't she have a house of her own? why on Earth is she still residing with you...give yourself some privacy..go get her an apartment and apologise to that innocent lady you hurt..you know what you want for yourself.

But if it were thegidredpillar that posted this kindda stuff,you would want to strangle him already...

Some parent are natuarally wicked! Or should i say it's because they are ageing.

anyways the meme for u and me below.

Suspect1:
But if it were thegidredpillar that posted this kindda stuff,you would want to strangle him already...

Some parent are natuarally wicked! Or should i say it's because they are ageing.

anyways the meme for u and me below.

What's my business with that kid who called his momma with slur word on here..did the OP address her like that?
Slide off or keep crying boy..

daifeanyi68844:
I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady i love so much. We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom. Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened. My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment her and my father are separated. One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me , treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her. On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

You are a baby pro max

Nah 2022 and you still dae act like this

A good pusssay and woman are parallel lines to come by

You have lost both

E dun be for you

FERNANDEZISBACK:

What's my business with that kid who called his momma with slur word on here..did the OP address her like that?
Slide off or keep crying boy..

cring azin? Stop being kiddish you noise maker!

Suspect1:
cring azin? Stop being kiddish you noise maker!

Work on your lexicon boy..
Enjoy yourself and greetings to her..
Noise...

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Work on your lexicon boy.. Enjoy yourself and greetings to her=who? Noise...

yes! on no noise we stand by.

Your mom doesn't want to share you with any other woman. Try and ask her out, and see the response. Maybe that's what she wants.

If she replies anything contrary to accepting your proposal. Then ask her why she wants you to be a single man forever?

daifeanyi68844:
I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady i love so much. We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom. Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened. My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment her and my father are separated. One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me , treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her. On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

I see why father have to jakpa from your mother,

daifeanyi68844:
I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady i love so much. We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom. Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened. My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment her and my father are separated. One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me , treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her. On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

Oga go get your own apartment, resolve your dufferences with your girl and stop being a mummy's boy, she should stop coming to your mums apartment until you move into yours, you see a rare breed u day jonse, how many Nigeria girls fit assist you financially? By the time slay queen deal with you na then you go know wetin u won loose, abi na ur mum u won marry?

revived2:



You are a baby pro max

Nah 2022 and you still dae act like this

A good pusssay and woman are parallel lines to come by

You have lost both

E dun be for you

Go and get that girl back.

Trust me, you'll only know her worth until your next girl demands salary from you.

Go get ur woman back
And try delete her num from ur mum's phone n lastly, move out

Kenturkey048:
Your mom doesn't want to share you with any other woman. Try and ask her out, and see the response. Maybe that's what she wants.

If she replies anything contrary to accepting your proposal. Then ask her why she wants you to be a single man forever?

My mum is in a way like this. She makes people think I'm the mummy's boy but Infact, she's the boy's mummy.

My mama knows her place tho.

This one mama still dey use him head.

Biko what kind of business are you into. I thinking of a business to venture into . Thank you

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I always try to wonder and understand why you folks allow your parent or mother have a say in your marriage life...

Parents have a strong point in their kids life irrespective of their decision being right or wrong but heaven always respect their wish or do you think u can love a young person more than his/her parent?
Her moves might not be right but there is no underestimating parental strong influence which is usually out love.

daifeanyi68844:
I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady i love so much. We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom. Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened. My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment her and my father are separated. One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me , treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her. On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

Go and pray for wisdom.
You will navigate it well and come out of it without anyone being your enemy.
Your mom is your mom. She is only human and not perfect.

TheWolfen:


Parents have a strong point in their kids life irrespective of their decision being right or wrong but heaven always respect their wish or do you think u can love a young person more than his/her parent?
Her moves might not be right but there is no underestimating parental strong influence which is usually out love.

That parent need to be ignored.. what's my business with heaven tho?

So even if your parent's opinion is wrong you also have to follow it?
You sound funny..no one should tell you who or who not to marry .

FERNANDEZISBACK:

That parent need to be ignored.. what's my business with heaven tho?

So even if your parent's opinion is wrong you also have to follow it?
You sound funny..no one should tell you who or who not to marry .

You are not listening because you don't wanna listen. . .
Y'all keep forming stupid woke. Like I said before. There is no underestimating parental influence in their kids life.
That is my point. ..
It is only God that can help op. Not your yeye woke advice that will lead him to more problems

TheWolfen:


You are not listening because you don't wanna listen. . .
Y'all keep forming stupid woke. Like I said before. There is no underestimating parental influence in their kids life.
That is my point. ..
It is only God that can help op. Not your yeye woke advice that will lead him to more problems

The mother will end up ruining that guy if he can't stand for himself...
Is she the one getting married or what?
Pls do away with that nonsense mentality that anything your parent says must be correct and must be adhered to..

Seems you have taken your mum too closer than your wife to be.

Your mum has maybe 20+ more years to live.

Your wife has maybe 50+ years to live with you and you alone.

Your mum is separated from your dad,so what kind of girl or home do you think she would want you to have, a peaceful one?

Beg your wife to be, do secret wedding without your pepper mummy.

Exclude her from your wedding and marriage/home, else any girl your home may not know peace and hypertension/ heart attack may knock you down soonest.