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Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GooodHardDick: 7:44pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
walkingshadow911: Damn!!!! Increase the volume comrade!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Atolu01: 7:52pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Dating smelly Nigerian boys should be a full time job naw. They have to get returns one way or the other for the virtue, if present, going out of them. I don't blame them. |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by SandraIkuboR(f): 7:55pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
GooodHardDick:You were never invited into whatever I was saying Cos it's now okay to get tackled?? I have every rights as you are to say whatever I want to say here I don't care if you call it pride And yes I'm proud of what I am and I don't give a f*ck about that too!! |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GooodHardDick: 8:03pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
SandraIkuboR: Which tackled? He asked u a simple question, instead of answering the question, you decided to display your low self esteem. At the bolded, no one said u don't have right to talk. If you must talk, talk with sense. Boys full everywhere Esp on those area I mentioned earlier, make dem no go reason ur matter |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by SandraIkuboR(f): 8:05pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
GooodHardDick:And I call yours INFERIORITY COMPLEX Arguing with a Lady online sies....Smh who wan reason my matter?.....Lmao... And what business of yours is it though?? I'm so pissed off right now keep talking to yourself!!! |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by MisterKennedy(m): 8:09pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
GooodHardDick: Thank you bro. Nice one! |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GooodHardDick: 8:18pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
SandraIkuboR: This is why you're so stupid. You created a thread lamenting that ur bf was ugly after eating his money, what kind of entitlement mentality is this? Now you're bragging and lying about what your parents are not. Na so you mumu? I thought you even have sense!!! I'm sure you're a teenager, what an idiot you are! |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by SandraIkuboR(f): 8:21pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
GooodHardDick:What's with all this Quotes and Insults though?? Are you drunk or what?? When did I post on my bf was Ugly,and all those crap you said up there?? Are you trying to get back at me with that or what?? I posted on missing my PERIOD That was my first post go view it( i don't care if you view it) You are the one with the teenage brain here and stupid one here too 2 Likes |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by dhiqson(m): 9:59pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
SandraIkuboR: LoL I just had to run down your post since you said you're in the same school with me You?? A medical student? Howwww?? Then the world is in trouble. That being said . |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by SandraIkuboR(f): 10:01pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
dhiqson:And so what if I'm a medical student |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by dhiqson(m): 10:02pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
GooodHardDick: Bro like wtf I'm shocked I'm tryna ask my guys who she is Cause I've got most in mbbs dept My best bet is maybe she just gained admission or I don't know LoL check her pic I say we're in trouble in this country |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GooodHardDick: 10:07pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
dhiqson: Ignore the idiot bro. She's a nobody, Na small Pekin still dey worry her!. |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by dhiqson(m): 10:07pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
GooodHardDick: Nahhh He was being sarcastic See the emojis bro |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by dhiqson(m): 10:15pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Animegirl:This you? No be your fault. Men really have fallen down the grid Why won't you spew this na Maga dey wey dey replace wetin your pops suppose do
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Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by dhiqson(m): 10:57pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
kepstone: HOW TF IS THIS GETTING 4LIKES?!!!!!!!!! You sir is wise!!! Those clamouring for traditional husband's, check this Feminists lol you deserve toxic men like us |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by jericco1(m): 5:32am On Mar 19, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Is that the only part of the Bible that you obey Why choose the one that serves you right and ignore the rest. Are you trying to tell me that you obey everything the holy book says You should know change is constant and not even the holy books can stop that. |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by cayorday89(m): 8:29am On Mar 19, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You talk about his westernized lifestyle, how we are Africans and expected to behave as one and also that we have to maintain our culture and heritage as of old but same you talked about the teachings of the Bible and Quran when it's obvious they are borrowed culture forced on us Africans. |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Skii(m): 9:30am On Mar 19, 2022 |
You guys should stop bashing Nigerian girls of this generation... Not making excuses for them but majority of them are victims of the continual downward spiral of our Nigerian society. In the not too distant past, it took quite a lot for a man to woo a woman. But sadly and steadily, society decayed and many of these ladies today are the byproducts of that decay. With the increasing corruption and loss of values in Nigerian society, the scenario of young ladies living off young men precipitated and has become the norm of today. The problem is made worse with social media. Think of Yahoo Yahoo and the likes. When young girls see other young girls like them doing well and having no direct or relatable source of income or means to fund the "doing well" lifestyle than being the girlfriend of a "well to do guy", what do you expect? I also think it is a function of the absence of the male figure in the home (in many cases...not all). Guys, lets be honest, who doesnt like a decent girl from a good home for keeps? That decency is the reflection of the training that the lady had imbibed as a result of good upbringing evidenced by the presence of the male figure in the home. And it is both ways in this scenario. At the end of the day, somebody has to put in the work. If no one puts in the work, this is what you get. If parents don't put in the work, these are the children you get in society. If we as adults and semi adults don't put in the work (to stem the tide), we continue the narrative of progressive degradation of society. With the increasing cheapening of values, everything has become transactional. If you want me to give up my p*$$y for you, be willing to pay the price. The entitlement mentality that is being frowned at is an uproar at the cost of maintenance for exclusivity..."only me will have this t0t0 for this period of time" Meanwhile, the lady (the hustler that society has turned her into) is also looking to retain premiumship. If she is not receiving funding to maintain her status, her value (and perceived value) drops...ask them T0t0 d?ckeh and t0ke makinwa and co... Gosh! What a vicious cycle. 1 Like |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by GodIsDead: 10:44am On Mar 19, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Lol. Look at this ignorant rubbish. You haven't got a clue what you're talking about, no offense intended. Seeing as we all grew up in a patriarchal country like Nigeria, I can understand and empathize with many of your points. However, you've failed to realize that the patriarchy you grew up in has resulted in your tendency to believe and think that a man being the sole provider is the natural state of affairs (especially if this prejudice is reinforced by religion, which you demonstrated in your closing paragraphs). Now, let's go back to the theory of evolution When you look at related species like chimps and gorillas, it's clear that human patriarchy has analogues in the male dominance of such species (since their behavior is governed by evolution, and thus by what is advantageous - in their environmental context). When we investigate why, we find that males are simply stronger and better defenders of their offspring, as well as their family/tribe/social group. Clearly, some of that applies to us as well. As a result, men are typically larger, stronger, and more aggressive than women. When you consider those issues, you'll see that "patriarchy" has benefited us in our evolution, just as it has benefited other male-dominated primates. Females must nurture their infants; males are then free to specialize in strength and protection to some extent. But equally, it is weaker in us. Our males are not as divergent from our females as in gorillas or chimps. And do you know why?: It is because we are thinking beings, and our success is more from thought - weapons and how to use them; food and how to grow it, for example - than from brute strength. Disentangling the complexities can be hard. However in general, the more a society depends on brute force (especially, warrior societies), the more likely we are to see rule by the physically strong, i.e. men. Once such a setup is in place, it can be difficult for women to "recover", so to speak: those in power tend not to give it up, and also tend to teach the required conventions to their children (so boys grow up expecting to be heads of their households, while girls grow up expecting to be dutiful wives: a disparity helped by differential education). ^^^^^THIS is not our natural state of affairs. The days when physical strength and aggression was key to survival are long gone. It takes little strength to pull a trigger, compared to the thrust and parry of sword and spear. It takes no strength to win in a world where success comes from the mind Men being dominant and all that stuff made sense when the cultivation of warriors from neighbouring villages was necessary for survival, including that of the women. It makes no sense when we have achieved a civilisation based on individual rights, the function of the mind, and the rule of law bringing force under objective control. We have evolved past all that Suffice to say, your mindset is outdated. Stuck in the ancient times. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by walkingshadow911: 2:48pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
GooodHardDick: this is why women dont talk in helders meetings. they don't have mental capacity to think far and wide. it's not there fault though, nature wired em like that. they can only think with their immediate emotions. very few are lucky exceptions though. respect to all our women in here |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by SHOCK7(m): 11:32pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Beebah2000:Nonsense,not all girls are leeches or need to feed by the guy they are dating, it's just the very broke ones with messed up mentality! |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by Emeraldfynest(m): 12:38am On Mar 21, 2022 |
This mentality is sickening. UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by SHOCK7(m): 3:26am On Mar 21, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Fine working girl with dis mentality, what happened? |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by emmaodet: 4:03pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
pansophist: Bro, you don vex. I don’t know why they always think only broke guys want women working. Does it mean they don’t believe men should have taste or standard? Na wa oooo |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:30pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
SHOCK7: I don't understand. |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:31pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Emeraldfynest: Doesn't change the fact that it's indeed a FACT! |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by SHOCK7(m): 4:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:I sent you a dm,hope you don't mind |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:00pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by SHOCK7(m): 5:40pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:It's funny, somehow am still curious to know more about u? At least I think I'm stable enough for you |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by pansophist(m): 6:09pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
SHOCK7: Goodluck |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by pansophist(m): 6:12pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
emmaodet: I even think wealthy men are actually more focus on a lady earnings potential. You dont build wealth and run it down by marrying wrongly. I honestly don't know any man that doesn't. Because if the women lack money skills, then its a problem down the road. Its a dangerous skills to know how to spend, but not make money. Na the man go suffer. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Problem With Nigeria Girls by emmaodet: 6:24pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
pansophist: It is a pity most have big eyes and wide mouths but can't make the money for such or manage it. I only pity most nigerian men because they won't have much choice than to settle down with the inferior options in the market. I even say a comment the OP made where she said she ghosted a guy because of i think 100 naira recharge card. That is to tell you how stingy and extremely self she can be yet she wants a man to kill himself to impress her. Is it a crime if you buy your man a car? is it a crime if you surprise him with things, gifts etc? are those not good things to emulate? i don't just get it. |
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