I love my country
There can never be a dull moment in this country,
The sad tales just keep on coming, like an avalanche, just as you try to analyze and make sense of one,
Another more serious and saddning one comes thundering down,
Now, some of us have grown really thick skin to breaking news
Peter Obi, reinstated as Governor of Anambara State, real breaking news, but it did'nt even move me,
The other day it was the EFCC list, then a molue tried to jump off the Third Mainland Bridge,
Then the unending fuel scarcity, then the ,
What's going to happen next
An opportunity for nairalanders to predict the future, oya, challenge your creative and intuitive imagination.
over to you

hello candidlady

good morning,trust you slept well?

This is to wish you a blissful and fulfilling week ahead...As you go through the week,just know that success would find you in all you do!!.. stay safe



I know these are not the best days for you at the moment,but PLEASE be strong,stay focused ...trust me ..the prize is going to worth it!... YOU'RE THE BEST!!!

candidlady

I'm really glad you're doing this,and hearing you feel great going through the process brings joy to my heart....trust me it's not an easy decision but I know you will fight through and win...and you shall see the happiness,joy and beauty in the new YOU...

Please don't put any pressure on yourself,just be taking it one day at a time... before you know it you will be saying WOW I JUST LEFT KWAYA BEHIND ME!!

KEEP GOING GIRL.. YOU'RE BRAVE, STRONG AND MORE THAN A CONQUEROR!!!

Trust me...you can do this!!..so happy for your ACHIEVEMENT so far...have a blessed night rest....*hugs*

rickpat:
candid.lady

I'm really glad you're doing this,and hearing you feel great going through the process brings joy to my heart....trust me it's not an easy decision but I know you will fight through and win...and you shall see the happiness,joy and beauty in the new YOU...

Please don't put any pressure on yourself,just be taking it one day at a time... before you know it you will be saying WOW I JUST LEFT KWAYA BEHIND ME!!

KEEP GOING GIRL.. YOU'RE BRAVE, STRONG AND MORE THAN A CONQUEROR!!!

Trust me...you can do this!!..so happy for your ACHIEVEMENT so far...have a blessed night rest....*hugs*

Nagode rick!!

You have been a marrow others wish(Ed) they had ..

Candidlady:


Nagode rick!!
You have been a marrow others wish(Ed) they had ..

you're welcome
we will toast to your VICTORY soon

Candidlady:



Nagode rick!!

You have been a marrow others wish(Ed) they had ..

you're welcome

we will toast to your VICTORY soon


hey...you didn't battle with your favorite words tonight..."been/being"... Lol...you have this unique humor... Lol

rickpat:
you're welcome

we will toast to your VICTORY soon

Insallah

Candidlady:

Insallah

Amin

rickpat:
you're welcome

we will toast to your VICTORY soon


hey...you didn't battle with your favorite words tonight..."been/being"... Lol...you have this unique humor... Lol

Lol

Normality got me thinking straight !! ..



Say no drugs/smokes

Candidlady:


Lol

Normality got me thinking straight !! ..



Say no drugs/smokes

this made me smile...you can be this funny?...and really happy...you deserve a high five

Let me retire to bed now,I will see you tomorrow... sleep like a baby,wake up better and stronger...

please remember NO PRESSURES,ONE DAY AT A TIME...have a blessed night

candidlady

good morning sleepy head..hope you slept good?

it's a new day and I know you gonna be having a fulfilling and blissful day ahead..Always stay safe....HAPPY THURSDAY TO YOU SIS..


BTW..I forgot to tell you...I like it when you call me Rick or Ricky or rikky(as u spell it)..*winks*... you're such an amazing soul...stay blessed...*kisses and hugs* muahhhhh

rickpat:
candi.dlady

good morning sleepy head..hope you slept good?

it's a new day and I know you gonna be having a fulfilling and blissful day ahead..Always stay safe....HAPPY THURSDAY TO YOU SIS..


BTW..I forgot to tell you...I like it when you call me Rick or Ricky or rikky(as u spell it)..*winks*... you're such an amazing soul...stay blessed...*kisses and hugs* muahhhhh

I told my partner bout you last night... You are such a sweet being ihope this happiness energy you got, you meet someone that will compliment you


Thanks for looking out for me! You are much appreciated

Candidlady:



I told my partner bout you last night... You are such a sweet being ihope this happiness energy you got, you meet someone that will compliment you


Thanks for looking out for me! You are much appreciated

you did?.. I'm honoured to hear that ..my regards to your partner

hopefully I find someone,some day..or someone finds me...I once had a very beautiful soul,but somehow I carelessly lost her...let's not go into all that....let's focus in you...I so much believe you will get through this... strongly too

so I'm just focused on my little hustle,job hunt and hopeful for a well paid job.. probably go for a Masters degree (dependent on funds though)..then of course focus on making my sis candid smile and see her happy...winks..then hope for a kind hearted woman..candid I no like wahala for my relationship o...my relationship should be my safe place,my home, where I find peace and happiness... THAT'S MY LIFE IN A NUTSHELL..*WINKS"

candidlady

nwanyi oma kedu( meaning BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, HOW ARE YOU?). *winks*

trust your day is going well?

rest well,drink loads of water and relax..

I have a little suggestion...maybe you could join the cook in making a meal today or tomorrow or anytime..just try a new recipe...you surely would learn something new...just a suggestion though..it could help distract you a little from the whole session/procedure a little..it's not easy but I trust you shall come BETTER..

have a blessed rest of your day ...be good and wear a little smile...you deserve it

candidlady

hope you are good?

I know some times you wonder why I took you this close...you see candid I always want wish and suggest you took this step of letting go off kwaya and those stuffs...I am really glad you are doing this...trust me I will do my best in supporting you in anyway possible...even if you fall a million times,I will be here to care,show concern a million and one times...I believe so much in you...and I believe one can meet someone anywhere, anytime and any circumstance and still be impactful...so please keep walking...fear not about stumbling cus you gat ME always..just mention and I'm sure to reach out in not more than 6hrs...no matter how busy am I...be good...eat well as well

candidlady

good morning sleepy head,it's weekenddddddd... doesn't mean you will sleep all day...lol...just kidding...you need all the rest you can get...how was your night sis,lil sis...cus I'm old...lol...fight me if you can...winks

I want to make you smile this morning...now walk with me...close your cute little eyes...come on be nice,close it well,you won't fall,don't worry...walk slowly, slowly...that's good...good girl..now slide the curtains....look through the window...what do you see...look closely...closelllllllyyyy...you see something yeah...what's that?... YOU SEE THE BLUE SKY,gaze into it... isn't it calm,free, beautiful, endless, peaceful and hopeful?

sis candid...ALL THE BEAUTY, CALMNESS,PEACE,HOPE YOU SAW IN THE SKY WILL ALL BE YOURS TODAY, TOMORROW AND FOREVER..


HAPPY WEEKEND CUTIE...*WINKS*...If you didn't smile... I'm calling 911...just kidding...happy weekend..stay blessed

rickpat:
candidlady

good morning sleepy head,it's weekenddddddd... doesn't mean you will sleep all day...lol...just kidding...you need all the rest you can get...how was your night sis,lil sis...cus I'm old...lol...fight me if you can...winks

Iwill sleep all day. Iam still in bed and iwill be here till noon ! Night was great hope yours was greater?

I want to make you smile this morning...now walk with me...close your cute little eyes...come on be nice,close it well,you won't fall,don't worry...walk slowly, slowly...that's good...good girl..now slide the curtains....look through the window...what do you see...look closely...closelllllllyyyy...you see something yeah...what's that?... YOU SEE THE BLUE SKY,gaze into it... isn't it calm,free, beautiful, endless, peaceful and hopeful?

sis candid...ALL THE BEAUTY, CALMNESS,PEACE,HOPE YOU SAW IN THE SKY WILL ALL BE YOURS TODAY, TOMORROW AND FOREVER..


HAPPY WEEKEND CUTIE...*WINKS*...If you didn't smile... I'm calling 911...just kidding...happy weekend..stay blessed

Sweet talk me till idie of diabetes lol! Thanks so much ireally appreciate. Hopefully the weekend brings joy and love your way

Remember itold you 9ja is gonna draw that game! Goalless draw! Rubbish team

Candidlady:


Iwill sleep all day. Iam still in bed and iwill be here till noon ! Night was great hope yours was greater?



Sweet talk me till idie of diabetes lol! Thanks so much ireally appreciate. Hopefully the weekend brings joy and love your way

Remember itold you 9ja is gonna draw that

game! Goalless draw! Rubbish team

you need the sleep dear


far not...my sugar doesn't give diabetes.. lol .. seriously you deserve the best.

no mind 9ja...tired of them. .

yeah...may the weekend bring us joy and love... Amen


my night was great but I trust yours was greater...*winks*

Candidlady:


Iwill sleep all day. Iam still in bed and iwill be here till noon ! Night was great hope yours was greater?



Sweet talk me till idie of diabetes lol! Thanks so much ireally appreciate. Hopefully the weekend brings joy and love your way

Remember itold you 9ja is gonna draw that game! Goalless draw! Rubbish team

oya auntie come here...you no tell me if you smile or not...okay na laugh you laugh ..na smile I want ... either ways ..it's good you shared a lil morning laughter or smile or a chuckle..let me allow you sleep some more. .no beat NL guys today o. just rest well

hello candidlady,

it's been a while,trust you are doing great?

how are sessions going?

please keep pushing it,one day at a time,it's not easy but trust me,I appreciate you efforts towards this... your bravery is second to none..

please maintain an open mind towards EVERYONE and everything,yeah less I forget I sent you a message on your last topic(ladies can be simp) don't know if you missed it.

so please just keep following the guidelines from the shrink, it's for the best and I so much believe so you will have your life all to yourself (no shrink or any form of monitoring)...remain blessed,wear a smile( I once saw a kid wearing a T-shirt with the inscription "smile keeps me away from trouble)...I know you will look cute when you smile...so smile on and shine on.

hope your folks are doing great too...trust your mum is loving your progress,kabiru is good,yeah?...dad and everyone.

stay blessed,may peace of mind,body and soul always follow you ...have a fulfilled day.


cheers!!...take care

candidlady,


what's up with you?..

i was checking on you around the forum and i saw you would be away for some days...I just want you to stay strong,it's not an easy road especially this isolation part...but trust me..it's for the best!!...and I so much believe that soon you will overcome this and get back to yourself,your best self...

You referred to yourself as a junkie sometimes...but I want to tell you that, you are not a junkie because you have a lot,when I say a lot I mean a whole lot to offer yourself and your generation... you're intelligent,smart and exposed...SO YOU AIN'T A JUNKIE AND YOU WILL NEVER BE A JUNKIE...just keep fighting the good fight...no matter the mistakes in the past, YOU WILL GET IT RIGHT...I BELIEVE IN YOUR BRAVERY AND YOUR STRENGTH...


I must apologize for stalking you sometimes..it's just to know how you are faring.

stay blessed,and may peace and happiness be with you in that center and always..

please be good!!!

rickpat:
candidlady,


what's up with you?..

i was checking on you around the forum and i saw you would be away for some days...I just want you to stay strong,it's not an easy road especially this isolation part...but trust me..it's for the best!!...and I so much believe that soon you will overcome this and get back to yourself,your best self...

You referred to yourself as a junkie sometimes...but I want to tell you that, you are not a junkie because you have a lot,when I say a lot I mean a whole lot to offer yourself and your generation... you're intelligent,smart and exposed...SO YOU AIN'T A JUNKIE AND YOU WILL NEVER BE A JUNKIE...just keep fighting the good fight...no matter the mistakes in the past, YOU WILL GET IT RIGHT...I BELIEVE IN YOUR BRAVERY AND YOUR STRENGTH...


I must apologize for stalking you sometimes..it's just to know how you are faring.

stay blessed,and may peace and happiness be with you in that center and always..

please be good!!!

Thanks so much for words! You are indeed a good pal!
Good morning and I hope you are great

Candidlady:



Thanks so much for words! You are indeed a good pal!
Good morning and I hope you are great

yeah... I'm good.... good morning ...trust you are doing well too?

rickpat:
yeah... I'm good.... good morning ...trust you are doing well too?

Yeah iam fine thank you!
Hope you are fasting

Candidlady:

Yeah iam fine thank you! Hope you are fasting

no .. I'm not fasting...
glad you are fine

candidlady

I just want to take this time out to appreciate your efforts towards achieving "clean" and staying clean...I remember the first few weeks we met here..you said you can't find happiness outside the herbs...but today I'm glad, happy and joyous you're finding happiness outside it.. because candid no matter how little the happiness you maybe having at this point in time outside the herbs will grow and grow into A HUGE AND AN UNSHAKABLE TREE...Just continue, gradually and always remember NO PRESSURES, everything should be at your own pace.

stay blessed, healthy and happy.

keep doing great girl....when it gets too tough... remember a virtual pal of yours..RICKPAT,,who believes in you..no matter what!!

please take good care of yourself

good morning sleepy head?..trust your night was good?..yeah...I know the bed in the center won't be as nice as the bed in your home,just hang in there cus soonest you're out of there.

Hope you eat well,drink a lot of water, smile and stay happy... talking about smiling..I want you to smile a little right now...I haven't seen you but I believe you look more beautiful when you smile...so c'mon smile...smile...smileeeee, don't be shy...shy not...shy is a crime against buhari...lol...let me dont go further.. before you say I want to burst your head....your head is important to all of us..

now serious always see the greater side of everything..I promise you your today is great and your tomorrow is greater and your forever is the greatest ever cus you were golden yesterday,your are more golden today and will be much more golden tomorrow...please take good care of yourself...yakuri da'allah(pls I hope this my hausa enter well o, before I mistakenly insult candid). ..

stay blessed,happy,wear a beautiful smile and stay healthy...I wish you a blissful Thursday and a fulfilling weekend ahead


candidlady

candidlady

hello candid,how are you doing ?... trust you are great? I didn't see you around the forum today hence I decided to check on you...stay blessed and have a fantastic and stress-free weekend....*hugs*

candidlady

hello candid,hope you are doing great?..it's been a while,would have checked on you yesterday but I was really exhausted...

how are you getting on post being at the center?..just you are coping fine,I just want to tell you that the urge will be coming and you might even fail to overcome sometimes...and you might have voices telling you, " oh you can't do without kwaya or oh you fell for the urge....just build a strong voice telling you,you can do without it ..and be strong ..go girl...you can ..stay safe

rickpat:
candidlady

hello candid,hope you are doing great?..it's been a while,would have checked on you yesterday but I was really exhausted...

how are you getting on post being at the center?..just you are coping fine,I just want to tell you that the urge will be coming and you might even fail to overcome sometimes...and you might have voices telling you, " oh you can't do without kwaya or oh you fell for the urge....just build a strong voice telling you,you can do without it ..and be strong ..go girl...you can ..stay safe

Been out since last week Thursday ... It was just a three days retreat lol
Thanks for checking up ... Sure you are great yourself


Do have a lovely evening

Candidlady:



Been out since last week Thursday ... It was just a three days retreat lol
Thanks for checking up ... Sure you are great yourself


Do have a lovely evening

three days retreat you call it..lol...you sure have your way with words..

I'm great...

please candid just keep pushing on... remember no pressures... fall,stand up...fall...stand up again and again...you can do this girl..trust yourself..you can...

please be good..

have a blessed and fulfilling week

rickpat:
three days retreat you call it..lol...you sure have your way with words..

I'm great...

please candid just keep pushing on... remember no pressures... fall,stand up...fall...stand up again and again...you can do this girl..trust yourself..you can...

please be good..

have a blessed and fulfilling week

Lol

Thanks again! Iam getting set for Chelsea game